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Next2Bezee:
Na Man

I would not argue my gender as it's no ones business I am who I am.... I was also lesbian and homosexual but I asked Jesus Christ into my life by saying this prayer:

Lord Jesus Christ, I believe you are the Son of God. I believe you came to earth 2000 years ago and died for me on a cross. I am a sinner. Please forgive me my sin/sins. Please wash me with your Blood. Pls come into my heart. Please save me. I no longer belong to Satan but to You.

After saying this prayer anyone can become born again, delivered from the curse of God in Adam and the curse of Noah on Canaan/Ham. And also delivered from lesbianism, homosexuality.

back to topic, ladies say no to macho violent men. Feminism is here to stay! Feminist compliant men are gentle and understand the inherent weaknesses of manhood and seek to mitigate these by loving their wives in a holy manner while of course having mad/ great sex!

lefulefu:
wawuuu!..obalende is a dude?...wait oooo can a Bobrisky be accepted in the feminist club? Cc Xinzu .

Pls note I am not a man and that i also do not get personal on public forums all posts are made impersonally.

SmartyPants:
Don't deviate because right now this point is immaterial. What i want to know is how this relates to feminism. How does becoming a feminist solve these?

It relates to feminism because feminism seeks equal rights. When a woman is kidnapped BY A MAN the woman's right is infringed due to the toxic masculinity of the man; same for rape.

SmartyPants:
Even if i want to accept these assertions, most of which are merely your opinions. How does becoming a feminist solve or even relate to any of these? Do you really know what feminism is all about?

Show me over the last 5 years in Nigeria a newspaper report where a woman or group of women carried out a kidnap AND KILLED the victim with their own hands when no ransom was paid; i.e. they did not act as mere conduits/ facilitators in the kidnap plot. Show me.

If you cannot then it's obvious it's not just an opinion.

lefulefu:
well according to white supremacist Christians they argue that Ham is the ancestor of Africans and that after his dad Noah lay a curse on him when he dared to mock his father when he saw him drunk and naked, the curse that noah placed on him was transferred to Ham's Descendants (Africans). This is the theory of evangelical white supremacist Christians.

Ham's descendants are interpreted by Moses, Flavius Josephus and others as having populated Africa and adjoining parts of Asia. The Bible refers to Egypt as "the land of Ham" in Psalms.78:51; 105:23,27; 106:22; 1 Chronicles 4:40. Also the African situation is beyond normal. Nigeria has always been f**cked with no improvements over the years which agrees with the Ham/ Noah narrative.

Anyway ladies make sure ur men are feminist compliant i.e. no toxic masculinity, men should do house chores and take care of kids too,etc.

Dimples0303:
Lol. Masculinity is there for a reason. Don't you think that we women gave up our power and now we are given the opportunity to take it back so take it but don't oppress or discriminate against those who you allowed to oppress and discriminate against you.

Masculine and feminine energy is from nature and they both serve a purpose, don't you think?

So as a feminist, show your children equal love support and nurturing and don't watch what 'Men' are doing. But lead by example. This angry mode will go away soon

May I reiterate that I am not angry. Public shaming is wat works on Africans since they have too much pride. Now that Trump has allegedly called African nations a shithole i hope they feel some shame and start to change.

I need to make this thread romance related.

My point in opening the thread is girls pls make sure ur guys are feminist compliant before dating them.

Make sure there are no signs of toxic masculinity in yr man.

Macgreat:
No personal experience. You have no reason or cause.

You are not a feminist

Not until you get beat up by a man or get a beating 'cos of a man.

Go get a scar then come and tell us - we'll believe you.

Thou seed of Ham shut up. Better go to Genesis, read the Table of Nations and start seeking deliverance from MFM. Idiot.

Dimples0303:
OK. You are angry and you have a point to make and if the umbrella of feminism empowers you to speak up then who am I to tell you any different. It's great you see and feel the injustice in society as a whole but don't fall into hate and negativity.... it's well, take care of yourself

It is not hate or negativity. It's public shaming. By publicly shaming men, change can start.

Next2Bezee:
Hunger has completely scattered his brain sotey him don dey claim Transgender.

He should go and join his kind like bobrisky and stop lowering the IQ of the entire site.

You again as a lazy African do not address any of the points just cheap insults. Use yr brain lazy African and come up with a solution to the issues around toxicmasculiniyy. That's why most countries of ur type are shitholes!

Dimples0303:
You are a bitter woman maybe but I don't think you understand feminism. You're point of view is actually the problem feminism faces in your part of the world.

Feminism is about equality and diversity and none of the shit you put up there.

What poo? Pull up a newspaper article in Nigeria between 2012 and 2017 featuring female kidnappers and il show you ten with male kidnappers.

Most police forces in the world are trying to balance out their police forces with a mix of men and women to curtail excessive police brutality.

Anyway I think feminist men and women should form a thread so they can start dating each other!!!

Next2Bezee:
You posted something extremely stupid and i questioned your sanity, where is the ego there?

You don't even know the meaning of the words pride and ego.

Africans would never admit they have a problem because their male privilege and excessive pride and egos have stuck with them for too long.....

Dimples0303:
You are a bitter woman maybe but I don't think you understand feminism. You're point of view is actually the problem feminism faces in your part of the world.

Feminism is about equality and diversity and none of the shit you put up there.

All the things typed up here are statistical facts. You are just deflecting shame with name calling.

Men should be asking themselves why they are this way. It's called toxic masculinity and should be looking to address it.

But being the savages that Nigerians are, they won't even admit there is a statistical problem.

Next2Bezee:
https://www2.pictures.zimbio.com/mp/lCxrRfYkdStx.jpg

This is not the issue. You have just proven the point on excessive pride and ego.

DaddyKross:
So since you became a feminist, all those things you listed above stopped completely ? Hallelujah

I have joined those highlighting the issues of toxic masculinity and it's adverse effects on society.

Why are male children even still preferred in Africa today?

Next2Bezee:
1. This is what happens when you try to type after drinking spirit mixed with dettol.

2. ....in all fields olosho related, i agree.

3. Men like your uncles and brothers, we know.

4. This is your father's area of expertise, no need to tell us.

5. Is that not how your father located your mother?

6. And the ones that chop mens' money, clean mouth and still refuse to show pant, are they also men?

7. Causers ke? Your brain power no even reach bobrisky own.


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You type as a truly cursed descendants of Ham that u r. Get lost savage Nigerian man.
He just proved my point on excessive pride.

Note none of them men here will admit these truths either they insult or keep quiet.

1. Too many rape victims many who have lost their lives.
2. Women seem to do better jobs than men in almost all fields in the year 2000s as most guys continue to chase quick easy money and look at many jobs as an "insult"
3. Most of society's ills like kidnapping rituals 419 armed robbery one chance are perpetrated by men.
4. Gun violence is dominated by men.
5. Most men are stupid when a woman they find attractive is around them and are controlled by visual appearance of women.
6. African men have excessive pride and ego.
7. Motor vehicle accidents in Nigeria from official statistics are perpetrated by men both as causers and victims.

Why did you become a feminist?

How come girls are almost never paraded? #girlpower #nigerianfeminist

Feminism derives it's power from the animalistic savagery of men! They say itspoverty aren't women poor too?

#avoidmen

asuustrike2009:
Nigeria is already blessed but the politicians are making it a shithole

What of the kidnappers? Ritualists? Reckless drivers? Leaders are to be blamed for those too?

The Minister had to buy an unnecessary private jet first and then use excess money to build this.

This is if he is among the private jet owners.

Why are people not commenting?

It is abnormal that from 1960 to date no single.good government. If no good government till date then I don't think subsequent governments would be any better. On top of that no shame taking medical vacations abroad or sending kids to foreign universities and Nigerians trying to copy black people.

These are the premises on which I base my conclusion that Nigeria is cursed.

enilove:
Nigeria is blessed , in the name of Jesus .

The land is cursed.... leaders feel no shame going abroad for treatment instead of building a presidential hospital, the people believe in quick easy money/ irresponsibility is the order of the day. Even trains once operational Nigerians would run it down.

It is self evident so ur "Nigeria is blessed" is mere sentiment.

It is time for Nigerians to have an introspection as a people and stop blaming the government....

From the looks of it it seems that way. Pls comment!

#castrateallmen.

Twy:
I discussed a similar issue with a foreigner. One issue is value, we place too much value on our interest so when we enter into any form of exchange, we have to find a way to extract the most value or gain at the expense of any other party or parties. If we want to sell the preferred way is to sell the cheapest at a considerable higher price or sell quality good at a ridiculous price greater than the benefit to the buyer. A contractor or government employee job is to provide the most gain to his interest greater than the value to the job or the public. An employee is to pay the lower wage and extract a higher benefit. We are in a circle of seeking to extract the most gain by providing little.

First bolded proves the barbaric nature of Nigerians which also stems from laziness. The seconded bolded is same thing..... laziness.

pressplay411:
I rest my case.

Please substantiate your claim instead of sentimentally resting your case.

pressplay411:
You don't diagnose an ailment simply by its symptoms. You trace it's root. All that you mentioned are offshoots from the White's influence and seed of discord they planted amidst us.
Yes we should take responsibility but that doesn't take away the blame from the Whites.
Even today, they're are still negatively influencing developing countries around the world for their selfish interest.

How are white men responsible for bribery of the Nigerian Police? If you could explain just this one then we will see the validity of your point.

pressplay411:
And you don't agree with any of it?

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No I disagree with blaming the white man. Nigeria and Nigerians should be responsible enough to take responsibility for their situation. Please also note Nigeria of colonial times was better than the Nigeria of today. Don't argue this as an easy way go escape the shame that Nigeria is today. Is white man responsible for failure of Nigerians to drive responsibly or for medical tourism in Europe.

Proof of Nigerians being cursed:

1. They knock down road signage time and time again; the Government had invested in blue arrow signs showing you which lane you should take; they keep knocking them down... these signs work in other countries... if the Government had not been putting the signs back when knocked down it would have been back to square one. This means Nigerians are saying by this action: "To hell with development, I want to take the wrong lane at night, slam into an oncoming truck and die"

2. Government had put traffic lights, they still dont stop at red!

3. It takes Government Officials to prevent traffic grid lock. Remove traffic officers, they will be road blockage.

I know someone will come and try to blame all these on the government.

But the truth is that Nigerians are unable to govern themselves. Sometimes I wonder if Nigerians are cursed (the ones who dont believe in any deities that is to say).

All the developments coming to Nigeria are FORCED on the nation by the World Bank, WHO etc.

All they know is to consume and make quick easy money.

And have you seen how these people drive? These are a people that take pride in reckless dangerous driving with no regard for human life and one of the highest collision (accident) numbers in the world...

And then the belief in free money...

Instead of becoming defensive, raining insults or deflecting these truths - can all readers take time to examine why these people behave this way.
Are Nigerians cursed?
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Re: Living Proofs That Nigerians Are Lazy Irresponsible Criminally Minded Savages by Obalende: 8:26pm On Dec 30
The so called unemployed youths, instead of going into agriculture, migrating to ECOWAS states for a better life with their ECOWAS passports or otherwise seeking employment with the state government or providing services (receptionist, driver, mechanic anything legit), resort to bribery and corruption and criminal acts (its easier to steal a car than sweep the road and get paid by the government).

Hire a driver and he will even plot how to rob you further proving the suggested curse hypothesis.

Okay take danfo drivers, they gross N600-N700k per month if not more, yet for 10 yrs they are happy to operate run down buses. They even now resorted to one chance despite a chance to make good money with busses. Its easier to do one chance than work. Isnt that lazy/savage?

I will not speak against the current administration because it is clear the government is working to end the things I have mentioned but this is a nation that has a history of perpetual looting - why are Norway Sweden and Finland Governments not looting?

From all indications, its a cursed people. If anybody is opposing this motion, say why.

Rossikk:
Europe was once a ''third world shithole''. Less than a century ago London was rife with disease and deprivation. Millions died of poverty and cold as Buckingham Palace was being erected. Child labour was the order of the day. It took them decades of legislation and activism for change to occur. Were they 'inferior' back then too? if being underdeveloped or poor is a sign of ''inferiority'' then Indians must be inferior to Africans, because as research shows, they are poorer: http://www.hindustantimes.com/india/8-indian-states-25-african-nations-oxford-study-on-poverty/story-ys7Oths8HIzK21WWdB8AnL.html




So you think a mixed person is more intelligent than a black person? On what scientific basis, you chalartan? Botswana by the way has had very great governance before and after their one 'mixed race' president. That you would adduce their progress to him alone shows the depth of your self-hatred and inferiority complex. Botswana predicated their laws and politics on African traditions. Are you aware of that? That is what accounts for their success. Their lack of self-hate. Learn from them.

Your problem is that you are mentally lazy. You've been brainwashed to hate yourself and your race, and to seek easy answers.

But your salvation is coming. Blacks were indeed cursed, and one of those curses was that they would forget who they were, and their greatness as a people. You are a personification of that particular curse.

These are just ego driven consolation. On a continent where leaders feel no shame going for medical treatment abroad.

They should just build a hospital in Abuja, call it Executive Hospital and have all African presidents be coming to Abuja. Not open to the general public. Don't these ppl feel any shame going to hospital in Europe?! Mugabe etc

It's largely an issue of culture. The culture in Africa is one where irresponsibility is celebrated.

By and large though black skin is not a good skin colour. It's not self hatred it's statistical fact.

pressplay411:
We're but victims of white manipulation.
They changed our story. Gave us a false sense of control. They pitch us against each other and exploit us using divide and rule.
Whenever we strive for liberation they execute the head and we're back to the scratch.

They never blame themselves because it's easier to blame the white man.

Rossikk:
Stop typing rubbish. Nigerian/West African soil is very unfriendly to grass. In Europe and other temperate regions you don't even need to plant any grass before it grows. All you have to do is trim and cut. That's why everywhere is covered on grass as a lawn, or there's a pavement/road, and very little sand to see. It is about soil type.

Typical Nigerian lazy attitude - excuses or find someone to blame e.g. government