Diamond bank business account opening:form:
"Which gender owns and controls 51% or more stake in the company?"

Very unprofessional question on an account opening form and quite sexist. What does this matter?

They should keep the feminist initiatives out of core business operations.

freshest4live:

So what is your point? I have told you we can learn from the British, but believing you need them to rule you directly is something they have always wanted you to believe, go read the quotes of your Colonial Masters.
Nigerians are not even patriotic, from the elite to the common man, it's all man for himself, so how do you expect things to work in such a nation? Would the British rule suddenly make us patriotic with a love for the nation and ability to plan ahead? The problem with Nigeria is not that we are not good enough to even outsmart your British lords, but that the youths do not love the nation, rather than constructive criticism, action, and more involvement from the youth, what we see is baseless agitation and unproductive wailings which only slow us down.

It's everyman for himself because the people reason like animals. You only just need to see how they drive....

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If men are so concerned about each other? What's stopping you people from looking out for male victim of rape or forming your own rape prevention organizations instead of trying to come in the way of help being offered to females?

It Shows it's not about getting help for men but about preventing women from getting help. You guys never remember anything until women want to do it for themselves then you're all like 'what about men?'
All in a bid to derail the course of women's wellbeing.

Pocohantas is right though. Where did the thread specify that it's all about females? But your wickedness towards women will never let you see that. You saw help and women in the same sentence and your vile nature couldn't let it be.

Stupid things.

Why would a man want to prevent a woman from getting help? I cant think of any reason.... you make this sound personal/ gender war... typical US strains of the movement.... I dey tell you....

cococandy:
I'm sorry if calling out the obvious truth strikes you guys are man hating.
Maybe just maybe you people wouldn't have so much bullshit to be called out on if you did the right things?
Just saying

there are intrinsic weaknesses in men..... Girls receiving support and prevention of sexual violence is a good thing.
I think the movement is good in Nigeria maybe if guys egos were bruised a bit then they would act well.
I don't have the answers...

cococandy:

Nothing sensible in response.
And as usual he tries to slut shame me into keeping quiet.
That only works for women who are ashamed of their sexuality. I'm not.
Find a better well reasoned comeback.

I fvcked your father BTW while your mom watched and stayed submissive to him.
Now that my level of oloshoism has been established can I hope for a reasonable response from you? I won't hold my breath though.

lady it seems you are a product of the US feminist system. Its all well and good... Truth is we men need the ladies to help us curb our toxic masculinities... that is the truth.... this is real female empowerment.... how many men could you help? Please help us.

However, I would do well to recommend to you to guard against the hating strain of the movement.... as long as you balanced you are good.... you may have been brought up taught men are evil etc..... its good to review ones beliefs from time to time.

Daboomb:


Now, to show you that there is an inherent tendency for men to spring to the defence of women, without thinking properly or being objective, l want you to show me where l quoted her FIRST and INSULTED HER. (Since you claim l insulted her first).

Be reminded that she was the one who quoted me FIRST and used an insulting word (Asinwin) at the ned of her post.
I then replied her accordingly.

Its typical, "toxic masculinity" to feel you just need to defend a woman (No matter how irrational you come across).
I understand the syndrome but unfortunately, women dont even appreciate it nor value such men... they see you all as "the same".

I am waiting.

hmm

naijaboiy:

Imagine a world where every man can control his sexual urges and dictate when and where he actually wants sex.

We will be able to tackle this rape issue very specifically because it would only turn to those men who rape minors or as a result of robbery. There wouldn't be any case of boyfriend rapes girlfriend or something like that.
And most importantly the power to manipulate men will be lost. They gonna be bitter mehn

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Daboomb:



Spot on!
This is what needs to be preached and taught.

Boys and Men must exercise a high degree of self-control at all times, especially in sexual matters and not allow some manipulating women to turn them into objects controlled by a punanny.
Men should be able to look at a naked woman and say: Phuck-off, I dont need you or your sexual orifice.

But they would not teach or preach this because these feminazzis know that ones men develop that will-power to 'turn it off', they become FREE and cannot be manipulated anymore.
The Women lose Power over their male counterpart.

commercial sex dolls are now available and feminists around the world are working hard to ban it because their power will be gone...

Daboomb:




Go and get a husband. Olosho! Weyrey!!

Your own case is beyond discussion.... you are a lost, bitter soul so l wont waste my time even debating you.
We know many people like you, eventually, the "hate" burning inside you gradually destroys you fromn the inside and you die-bitter, till the end.

She has good points though... there is toxic masculinity stemming from the male ego... this ego sprung up when you started insulting her instead of addressing her points.

I think feminism will do a good job of curbing toxic masculinity....

cococandy:
yea such evil agenda. To make sure that women are represented and that young girls whose lives are ruined by the excesses of randy men can pick up their lives and make something meaningful out of it. How dare they.



You men are doing a mighty fine job of that. With all the kidnapping, rape, terrorism and what not. We feel very protected by the decisions men are making. Said no woman ever.

Take away reproductive duties for a second and imagine a world without men. Yea not so full of pain, unnecessary wars, jungle justice and untimely death is it? Way to protect us.


. I'm sure many women who have been victims of toxic masculinity will beg to disagree



A woman who was gang raped doesn't need to be told who her enemy is. A woman who has been beaten and deprived of her rights doesn't need to be told either. You're the ones doing all the telling with your actions



Classic delusional conspiracy theorist. Don't address the problem. Attack those trying to help the victims. Blame anyone but the perpetrators. Asiwin

I agree on the kidnappings, terrorism, reckless driving, untimely deaths etc.... I agree 100%. You see I think the feminist movement a strain of it is divine..... I support the strand of feminism that curbs toxic masculinity. the main benefit I see of feminism is subduing mens egos. mens egos are the worlds number 1 biggest problem; from that angle I support the feminist movement of Christian proprtions.

However there is a jezebelic strain from darkness that aims at the ultimate destruction of girls - that's the strain coming to Nigeria. did girls tell you they need to be forced into the army? or representation?

Daboomb:


That is the problem!

These wicked leeches, for personal gain, with create turmoil and confusion, spread hate amongst the genders and when the shyte hits the fan, they are the same people who will claim to be Counsellors!

Its like Weapons manufacturers building and donating a hospital to war victims.

In NA now, everyone looks at the other with so much suspicion because "damaged women" like these ones have sownso much hate into impressionable women!

girls are taught in secondary school patriarchy theory.... how they were oppressed by men.... indoctrination continues in university... by the time girls are done with the school system they r man haters though they don't know they think they learned the truth...

Obalende:


Exactly. Man hating is a serious issue in Toronto and the whole of Ontario right now. And most girls don't check wat they are being taught....

Most decent men don't condone sexual violence. Most guys will defend the ladies against such.

It's true females get endless attention from guys asking them out and trying to sleep with them though.

This gender stuff wasn't even a real issue before. Women were property? God made it so open ur Bible. Thou shall not covet thy neighbors wife....

Societies hv defended Queens.

This is just Satan's gender Warfare. Divide and conquer.

naijaboiy:

I don't really have the energy to argue on sensitive topics like this, especially this night.

I'll say some of the points you raised are valid but not all. I don't see the reason why we should have separate fights against abuse. Everybody should come together to fight it and not divided.

And the reason why men are having problems with this one sided fight against abuse is that these activist end up sending the wrong message to the victims. They don't tell them the right things sometimes. I've read books and listened to some seminars online and all I see are these activist spreading hate in an indirect manner.

Should men also start championing the fight against abuse and then begin to spread hate against the female gender?

Well I never wanted to talk too much. You just made me.

Exactly. Man hating is a serious issue in Toronto and the whole of Ontario right now. And most girls don't check wat they are being taught....

Most decent men don't condone sexual violence. Most guys will defend the ladies against such.

It's true females get endless attention from guys asking them out and trying to sleep with them though.

naijaboiy:


You just spoke my mind bro. Who should the male victims speak to?

All these biased misandrist hiding under the cloak of feminism to champion their hate for men. If they really wanted to fight it they should not focus on one gender alone.

These ones will end up brain washing the victims and make every man look like a devil in their sight.

There should be equality for all rape and abuse victims, whether male or female. Simple

They trying to replicate exactly wat they've done in North America. ... making most girls hostile to guys and teaching dem all sorts like safe space, wat and wat is comfortable and comfortable, consent legalese, older guys are freaks and pedophiles etc.

Yao Biatch niggaz listen..... commercial sex dolls are now available.

Woman no b God. God and God only shall I worship not woman.

YelloweWest:

You see. This is the hypocrisy from u guys I don't understand.
What exactly to you mean by 50/50?
Just 50/50 in terms of financial obligations?
Dose the woman have as much time as the man to work?
Who will raise the kids??
Will the man agree to do 50% of house chores?

Take me for example. I'm a lawyer but can't work for now cos I'm pregnant. I'll be out of a job for awhile while I nurse my kid.
I have 5 other young children.
My husband is the sole breadwinner every dimr that he makes belongs to our family. HE HAS NEVER COMPLAINED!
though we are quite comfortable money is not an issue cos he is quite successful, I can't imagine my husband asking me to contribute financial.
He brings home the bacon and I cook it! Everyone is happy!
I have businesses that I run which bring me a steady income but my husband does not care about my money! He always calls it groundnut money and that I and the children are his responsibility.
Why is it that men are no longer like this??
This is how my dad was with my mum.
I consider myself very lucky having a husband like my dad. Unlike men who no longer take pride in taking care of their family. Shame!

Feminists demanded independence!!! If a woman wants patriarchal values like you do then I can be like ur husband.

Women in North America said they wanted independence and that they were being oppressed in marriage by a male dominated world.

If I met a woman like u then il drop my equalist ways feminists are demanding...

People who have lived in post-feminist societies (Sweden, Australia, US, Canada) reportedly say not good for men and women so know what you are getting into guys and girls... sky rocket single motherhood numbers, no fault any time at will divorce because the girl is "unhappy", guys don't talk to girls again for fear of harassment claims, gender parity over talent on the job market, complete destruction of marriage, gender fluidity/ gender expression etc, girls can wear whatever they want (Im not saying they cant oh I think its a good thing) and dress like prostitutes, sleeping around on the increase, dysfunctional children. So guys be careful wat u ask for.....

Gerrard59:


I'm all for feminism, but not at the detriment of meritocracy. If a particular gender in the household opts for cooking (and is good at it), going to the market et al. Good for them (as long as it works).

We've men who cook (the vast majority of chefs are men) and do other things (I go to the market, being doing that since I was young), washing is not gender specific. Every individual should know how to wash at least his/her clothes.

In North America, 95% of cooks by eye balls estimation are men...

YelloweWest:

Can u cook wash plate wash cloths clean house etc. Day after day without ur ego getting in the way??

Yes I can. Feminism is good because men's egos needs to be bruised and destroyed - this is the biggest problem of society... i.e. the male ego.

YelloweWest:

You see. This is the hypocrisy from u guys I don't understand.
What exactly to you mean by 50/50?
Just 50/50 in terms of financial obligations?
Dose the woman have as much time as the man to work?
Who will raise the kids??

I can raise my own kids.... I can carry my own baby... no problem.
I can do school runs.

jy2kbeyond:


Hmmm, Obalende. E be like say you get touch. No let your papa see what you typed here o. Grow balls and make him proud. Peace!

It's better for everyone to make and spend their own money unless the woman agrees by swearing with the Bible to forsake jezebelic feminist principles and adopt biblical partriarchy principles.


I can't force ppl against their wills....

YelloweWest:

Feminism is EQUAL RIGHTS FOR MEN AND WOMEN! EQUAL PAY EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES ETC!
But broke little dick heads are intimidated that women can do what men can do.

Take Linda Ikeji for example. A lot of u boys rain all manner of abuses on her. For what reason??
Her success in a predominantly male sphere is so intimidating to u boys.

The average Nigerian man wants a working class chic who is rich still in her twenties and will tolerate all his crap.. where dose that happen??

No a lot of guys actually want to see their wives work and let everything be 50 50 thereby alleviating stress....for both parties. Each person makes their own money. If husband wants to borrow from wife or vice versa it would be arranged thru a bank letter of credit.

Obalende:
I am for feminism because the girl would work and make her own money and take care of herself with it.... I too will work make mine and take care of myself with it.... if I want to hv children I could think of adoption or hv a baby with her but before the baby we would go to court to swear joint custody agreement/ affidavit in case of any eventuality.

It's good for guys as it will reduce our stress. Also as women will start seeing marriage as evil sleeping around will increase increasing male mating options....

I am for feminism because the girl would work and make her own money and take care of herself with it.... I too will work make mine and take care of myself with it.... if I want to hv children I could think of adoption or hv a baby with her but before the baby we would go to court to swear joint custody agreement/ affidavit in case of any eventuality.

benedictac:
Peace again! O Lord please have mercy

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israelmao:
African women are very very complex. beings, give them love they turn it to hate, show no care most especially when you're rich then you see them rushing at you.When they say need God- fearing man there are other things they have on their minds besides that.

I often hear this women are complex statement being made. Woman na God? If God is not complex, who is woman to be complex? Serving woman na idolatry oh.... the woman better de complicate her self and be compliant!

PaperLace:
It's an overused term, men would say wife material/virtuous woman.

The meaning varies to different women. Basically, I think it's a man that would respect marital vows and promote the sanctity of a marriage. This man mustn't be a religious leader, not at all.

But then wen he settles they ask themselves - why is he satisfied with me? There must be a better guy out there....

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