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Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Use POS Device To Rob Victims by Obalende: 11:56am On Jul 29, 2017 |
jrusky: Maybe Nigeria is cursed? |
Romance / Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Obalende: 12:24am On Jul 28, 2017 |
the truth of the matter is that women do not think like men (and this is not a bad thing). A mans requirements are quite easy to understand to fellow men... women on the other hand, could grow dissatisfied for a wide range of reasons (that a guy may not understand) and even if you meet all of her requirements logically, she could still be dissatisfied. Men should understand women and learn to treat them as women (this does not mean men are superior in anyway it just acknowledges differences). The more 3rd wave feminists clamor for radical equality, the more guys will continue to see and treat ladies as guys! For example treat her nice, you are too nice, dont treat her nice, you are not nice, be in the middle you are boring/ not man enough etc.... call frequently she needs space, dont call often you are ignoring her... be in the middle you are predictable/ not spontaenous. If relationships were 100% logical understanding, the woman will hold a meeting with the man and state her reasons for wanting out (e.g. not enough sex), they would fix it then case closed but it is not really like that. even after the issues raised by the lady are met the lady could still be 'unhappy'. Some believe all relationships are short term... i dont know... 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Air Travellers, Share Your Travel Experiences With African Airlines by Obalende: 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Royal Air Maroc, Ethiopian Airlines, Egypt Air Are these airlines safe? Any experiences? |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 4:32pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ngo40: The Bible says in Acts that when the Word was preached AS MANY AS WERE APPOINTED TO ETERNAL LIFE BELIEVED. Just stop these free will argument - there is freewill but it is bound within a limited range - somethings hv already been decided... |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 12:25pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
We can have the showdown in about 12 months time because I need to be in a righteous state and in fasting and need to be sure or wat I am doing.... if I cannot do it I will call u another man of God for the show down.... not everyone can do it. But for now don't u believe in Miracles? Who performs all the Miracles u have been seeing? |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:36am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ngo40:Because we are mere objects of war to be cast to hell mostly due to no fault of our own and be blamed for it... Salvation of Christ is not perfect, if it were, it would have delivered us from the power of sin; christianity is very complicated and full of threats. i dont expect u to have all the answers because you are not God. but thanks at least for listening. |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:27am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ngo40: ok then thanks. To all others reading this for centuries Christianity has heaped blame on mankind and I think this is undeserved.... It is God who ordains. Why blame us after ordaining. |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:03am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ngo40: You have written a very wicked piece. Listen to me: God created a devil designated as a tempter, God also created demons to do evil biddings of entrapping us in sin, gave us sinful natures - then how is it my choice that i am entrapped in sin - these powers are too strong for man or woman! Its intellectually lazy to just say we are chosing to remain in sin - address this issue i have just raised if you could... |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:47am On Jul 09, 2017 |
Ngo40: we were given a sinful nature; the Bible says the heart of man is wicked - all our freewill choices will therefore be wicked. So why blame us when we were born that way? |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:37am On Jul 09, 2017 |
geoworldedu:Do you want to have another showdown on mount camel? Let both of us pick a certain time, make an alter - I will call upon Jehovah and you will call upon Amadioha; the God that answers by fire let him be God! Pick time and date. |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:13am On Jul 09, 2017 |
This is a thought provoking piece and to add to that the same God turns around says it's our fault, blames us for it and casts us to burn forever. A typical example is the bum shorts, skimpy dressing, rompas etc from the underwater marine kingdom of Satan.... God approved these marine kingdom activity that is currently being sold in stores worldwide turns around and blames men for lust and sends us to burn. And then turns around and claims it loves us? Same thing with Satan God foreknew Satan will fall. What is God even doing with Satan? Why not just destroy it? |
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:09am On Jul 09, 2017 |
geoworldedu:I would not go this far have some respect for God my hand no dey oh! |
Religion / Re: On What Basis Is A Woman Made A Pastor In Some Churches? by Obalende: 1:00pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Martinez19:God can change his word at anytime without notice. |
Travel / Re: Abandoning Nigeria's Good Life For The Us,its A Blessing If.... by Obalende: 2:11am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Goldenboy007: That una side dey fear me well well sha. Most violent city in the US especially south side Chicago and South West. Is it really that bad? Already over 400 shootings in 2017 according to official stats I think. Makes Enugu and Abuja sader me thinks. |
Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 4:05am On Jun 23, 2017 |
lofty900: Start getting used to it. Or does it bruise egos? 1 Like |
Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:42pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
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Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:35pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
lofty900: It is men who should deal with their disgusting egos. The same ego of the patriarchy that has caused numerous wars.... causes male violence on society etc. Let's be honest the partriarchy has over lived it's usefulness. Maybe feminism is divinely inspired? I don't know. I welcome a female presidency in Nigeria, female leadership etc. This will curb the toxic male ego and violent tendencies and create a better world for us all. 1 Like |
Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:27pm On Jun 22, 2017 |
Benita27: Or sexually harassing a woman whose only crime is that she went to her job.... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 12:30am On Jun 21, 2017 |
Oluwaremythe:Translated means I am a shameless ego driven animal full of pride. Women should work and make their own money in marriage. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:58pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Oluwaremythe: There is gender equality. Gender equality relieves men from financial pressures of marriage cos d woman gotta work. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:27pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
Fkforyou: Also women inundated with attention from teens to early 20s believe it's going to last forever because they were not well informed. It's not that guys deliberately hate or are being harsh to older babes oh, I think it's just biological wiring and primal instinct (like those of animals lol). 1 Like |
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