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Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Use POS Device To Rob Victims by Obalende: 11:56am On Jul 29, 2017
jrusky:
That is Nigeria always wrongfully exploit God given opportunity. Always doing wrong things all their lives. POS has be existing for so many years in all over the world now it has come to Nigeria for everybody use. Police was caught using POS to collect bribe on the road, Church using POS to collect Tithe and offering and even dupe church members in the name of seed sowing, now its armed robber time to use POS sometime this country called Nigeria I don't know what to say or call it.

Same way Nigeria broke the record as the first country to use facebook to kill somebody, same my country Nigeria broke the world record the first country to call someone on phone and the person who picked the call started vomiting blood, The same country called Nigeria broke the record the first country to used facebook as a place to find lovers or match making, this same Nigeria broke the record the country that has recently turned facebook to prayer room please is it only us for God sake?

Always break evil records

Maybe Nigeria is cursed?
Romance / Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Obalende: 12:24am On Jul 28, 2017
the truth of the matter is that women do not think like men (and this is not a bad thing). A mans requirements are quite easy to understand to fellow men... women on the other hand, could grow dissatisfied for a wide range of reasons (that a guy may not understand) and even if you meet all of her requirements logically, she could still be dissatisfied. Men should understand women and learn to treat them as women (this does not mean men are superior in anyway it just acknowledges differences). The more 3rd wave feminists clamor for radical equality, the more guys will continue to see and treat ladies as guys!

For example treat her nice, you are too nice, dont treat her nice, you are not nice, be in the middle you are boring/ not man enough etc....

call frequently she needs space, dont call often you are ignoring her... be in the middle you are predictable/ not spontaenous.

If relationships were 100% logical understanding, the woman will hold a meeting with the man and state her reasons for wanting out (e.g. not enough sex), they would fix it then case closed but it is not really like that. even after the issues raised by the lady are met the lady could still be 'unhappy'.

Some believe all relationships are short term... i dont know...

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Travel / Air Travellers, Share Your Travel Experiences With African Airlines by Obalende: 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2017
Royal Air Maroc, Ethiopian Airlines, Egypt Air

Are these airlines safe? Any experiences?
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 4:32pm On Jul 09, 2017
Ngo40:

He has called "all" to salvation....but "all" will notchoose Him.
He knows who will choose Him or not.
All have the choice....the freedom to decide if they want Him.

The Bible says in Acts that when the Word was preached AS MANY AS WERE APPOINTED TO ETERNAL LIFE BELIEVED. Just stop these free will argument - there is freewill but it is bound within a limited range - somethings hv already been decided...
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 12:25pm On Jul 09, 2017
We can have the showdown in about 12 months time because I need to be in a righteous state and in fasting and need to be sure or wat I am doing.... if I cannot do it I will call u another man of God for the show down.... not everyone can do it.

But for now don't u believe in Miracles?

Who performs all the Miracles u have been seeing?
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:36am On Jul 09, 2017
Ngo40:


Brother,
You seem extremely angry....why is that so?
The Bible is the blueprint.....which followers of Christ are supposed to use as their guide.
But you are angry with God....since its ultimately His book...His words...
Because we are mere objects of war to be cast to hell mostly due to no fault of our own and be blamed for it... Salvation of Christ is not perfect, if it were, it would have delivered us from the power of sin; christianity is very complicated and full of threats. i dont expect u to have all the answers because you are not God. but thanks at least for listening.
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:27am On Jul 09, 2017
Ngo40:


Brother,
I'm sorry that you find the piece "wicked" & my response as "intellectually lazy".
So with that said, there's nothing else I can address here...

ok then thanks.
To all others reading this for centuries Christianity has heaped blame on mankind and I think this is undeserved.... It is God who ordains. Why blame us after ordaining.
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 2:03am On Jul 09, 2017
Ngo40:


Yes...we were born with sinful natures...BUT we don't have to stay that way. That's why Christ came to die for our sins.
He died so humanity could be restored to its original perfect state.
He's tryinh to show us the "best" way to go.
But, of course one has a choice whether he/she wants Christ to transform his/her sinful nature.
One can choose to stay entrapped in sin..but there is a consequence

You have written a very wicked piece. Listen to me: God created a devil designated as a tempter, God also created demons to do evil biddings of entrapping us in sin, gave us sinful natures - then how is it my choice that i am entrapped in sin - these powers are too strong for man or woman! Its intellectually lazy to just say we are chosing to remain in sin - address this issue i have just raised if you could...
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:47am On Jul 09, 2017
Ngo40:
So brother,
Are you saying that with "choices" should come no consequences?
Or are you saying that any "choice" that one makes should only have a positive outcome?
Even if a negative consequence results from having "freewill", shouldn't one have an opportunity to make the choice?

we were given a sinful nature; the Bible says the heart of man is wicked - all our freewill choices will therefore be wicked.
So why blame us when we were born that way?
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:37am On Jul 09, 2017
geoworldedu:
and if it is for u to despise amadioha my own god now it wouldn't hard u.
The majesty of Amadi Oha is greater than that of nonsense Yahweh sef.
Do you want to have another showdown on mount camel? Let both of us pick a certain time, make an alter - I will call upon Jehovah and you will call upon Amadioha; the God that answers by fire let him be God!

Pick time and date.
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:13am On Jul 09, 2017
This is a thought provoking piece and to add to that the same God turns around says it's our fault, blames us for it and casts us to burn forever.

A typical example is the bum shorts, skimpy dressing, rompas etc from the underwater marine kingdom of Satan.... God approved these marine kingdom activity that is currently being sold in stores worldwide turns around and blames men for lust and sends us to burn.

And then turns around and claims it loves us?

Same thing with Satan God foreknew Satan will fall. What is God even doing with Satan? Why not just destroy it?
Religion / Re: Christians And The Foolishness Of Freewill by Obalende: 1:09am On Jul 09, 2017
geoworldedu:
Yahweh's foolishness no be here cheesy
I would not go this far have some respect for God my hand no dey oh!
Religion / Re: On What Basis Is A Woman Made A Pastor In Some Churches? by Obalende: 1:00pm On Jul 08, 2017
Martinez19:
Whether you like it or not, the bible says that women should not be teachers in the church. They have the gifts of the holy spirit but the teaching office in the church is reserved for men. Women are to be silent in church. 1corinthians 14: 34-35, 1 corinthians 14: 37-38.
God can change his word at anytime without notice.
Travel / Re: Abandoning Nigeria's Good Life For The Us,its A Blessing If.... by Obalende: 2:11am On Jun 26, 2017
Goldenboy007:
The Chicago Life .... Summer time is fun. I recorded this in downtown



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvhVS-JqV0o

That una side dey fear me well well sha. Most violent city in the US especially south side Chicago and South West. Is it really that bad? Already over 400 shootings in 2017 according to official stats I think. Makes Enugu and Abuja sader me thinks.
Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 4:05am On Jun 23, 2017
lofty900:
female what? God forbid

Start getting used to it. Or does it bruise egos?

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Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:42pm On Jun 22, 2017
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Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:35pm On Jun 22, 2017
lofty900:
I agree with you to some extent. However, most women will not see it the way you do, they'll use it as a weapon to rub shoulders with their male counterparts and the natural ego of the men will be bruised thereby creating more chaos in the society.

It is men who should deal with their disgusting egos. The same ego of the patriarchy that has caused numerous wars.... causes male violence on society etc.

Let's be honest the partriarchy has over lived it's usefulness. Maybe feminism is divinely inspired? I don't know.

I welcome a female presidency in Nigeria, female leadership etc. This will curb the toxic male ego and violent tendencies and create a better world for us all.

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Family / Re: When the Nigeria Gender Equality Bill is finally passed into law. by Obalende: 9:27pm On Jun 22, 2017
Benita27:
Why don't you go read some more on the subject 'Gender Equality' than dwelling on what you've assumed it to represent. Just imagine a situation where some organisations don't employ married women 'cause they came to a conclusion that they'd priotize family over their job. Isn't that unfair?.

Or sexually harassing a woman whose only crime is that she went to her job....

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Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 12:30am On Jun 21, 2017
Oluwaremythe:

God help subdue dis ur arrogant arguments&confrontations before yu move in tho...we(Realmen) only nid an advisor and a friend...not a commander&a boss kos
we're d boss naturally
Translated means I am a shameless ego driven animal full of pride.

Women should work and make their own money in marriage.

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Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:58pm On Jun 20, 2017
Oluwaremythe:
grin
smiles,women always playing d victim.
Anyway,before you marry any guy,be sure yu know him well,at least to his faults,b sure yu can withstand his torture too,it's nt gonna be rosy every time(dat yu sud reckon too) and above all,drop ur pride at home before moving to a man's house
seriously no man in his right senses will take an humble&loving lady for a ride.
fights&arguments are normal...
1st to 5yrs in marriage are always d most delicate periods of marriage,jst be respectful and see ao things work out...
bliv dat there's nothing like gender equality.

There is gender equality. Gender equality relieves men from financial pressures of marriage cos d woman gotta work.

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Romance / Re: Sudden Increase Of Single Ladies Above 28: Ways Of Salvaging The Situation by Obalende: 11:27pm On Jun 20, 2017
Fkforyou:
I no read your epistle, but IMO, the number of ladies above 28 are increasing because:

1) The number of sissies who call themselves men are increasing.

2) Female hypergamy is growing at astronomical rate, no one is good enough for them. You must meet all their criteria to be considered as a mate.

3) Guys who meet their requirements wants to take their pound flesh for their past disappointment before settling down with girls much younger.

Also women inundated with attention from teens to early 20s believe it's going to last forever because they were not well informed. It's not that guys deliberately hate or are being harsh to older babes oh, I think it's just biological wiring and primal instinct (like those of animals lol).

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