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RisingSun1:Very good point about size but that is why there is Local Government Areas... that was the whole idea - the size can be managed by each local government area... each LGA could even hv its own police division --- why aren't they thinking of all these We have a large population instead of them to use it for good they use it for yahoo yahoo and blame the govt. I did not say the Caucasian race is the solution. I said British nationals (including Nigerian British) - it is the culture that they bring to the table not skin color... I already said what those were: honesty (ur worker is in Ibadan and tells you he is in lagos), punctuality (come today come tomorrow, sluggish, unnecessary waste of time) and responsibility (blame govt and spirits; form cults, kidnap). this is why any small thing, politicians will resign... how many politicians hv resigned in Nigeria? I just typed 'resigns' in Google and checked news - a govt official just resigned in Japan over a defense issue - this is responsibility! http://www.cnn.com/2017/07/27/asia/tomomi-inada-japan-defense-minister/index.html Note the number of Nigerians that have been arraigned in UK in recent times for fraud, misleading people etc... they get stiff sentences - this is due to cultural incompatibility - those naija guys that went there thought they were still in Nigeria... and that lieing to the government or to ppl was not a serious offence... its the culture... |
history2903:Yes true. |
history2903:Yes I admit I need to read some history books. Perhaps my history is lacking. This next question is a serious one. No time to waste. Please which good history books can I read (honest question). |
Chikpat:Your mother begat an imb3cile and a vagabond. You must go back to your mother's womb you will rot there together with your mother and both of you will be food to the serpents of the forest after which both of you will be tormented in the bottomless pit day and night forever. |
history2903:You have not made any statement of fact here just mere sentiment that is ego driven |
history2903:Other colonized countries hv risen up to great things while Nigeria keeps reminiscent about Egyptian pyramids and benin empires. They were explorers not invaders. Nigerians are free to explore Britain as thousands continue to do up to this day. |
achi4u:Whoever that can deliver is fine. Japan is fine. |
Chikpat:Cursed be thee... a servant of servants shall ye be to thy brethren all the days of ur life. |
ChimaAdeoye:if theycan deliver results sure they are welcome!!! It does not matter the skin color or nationality - wat matters is delivery of results. The british nationals (including all skin colors that identify as british) hv shown a strong track record which is why i am advocating their return... more savagery...https://www.nairaland.com/270930/lagos-faces-threat-more-building the developers know the building code, yet they build against it becos they want to make more money to sleep with their many wives at the expense of buyers and renters, when they collapse they blame the government and spirits... loooolll at the zoological republic. |
freshest4live:Bermuda is a black territory under british rule and the best black territory in the world all round economy, geography etc Currently, the majority of Bermuda's ethnic make-up is Black, accounting for 54% of the territory's population https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Bermudian Instead of getting emotional, please refute my argument with logical intellectual thought. |
Foxflames:It bruises their egos to admit a humble truth. Go to Ibeju Lekki. The Chinese hv already erected factories there and Indians. ... give the Chinese more leeway they will take over while the Nigerian wallows in Mr ojo is not around come tomorrow. The British didn't loot anything. They hv apologized for any colonial time wrongs. The heart of the British is not as bad as that of Sani Abacha as far as looting goes. Why do they need to loot Nigeria when they already great?! Lemme tell u they are explorers. Even while I was there years back they were always going on Africa missions in remote villages something the average Nigerian won't do while they await their ritual money. All u guys hv come and given is excuses with someone calling for no further replies. Let me advise that person to rush to mountain of Fire for dat demon of pride to be cleansed. Anyway I hv no stakes it's a zoo. |
Shaytun:Ask those that lived during the British rule, Nigeria was better. There is the concept of management compensation - even if they took somethings back to britain which i believe wont be outrageous... they still managed the country well. What is naira exchanging for gbp today? The sheer amount of ego in these naija folks beggars belief. Then there was no Boko Haram insurgency, no kidnapping, badoo no lack of law and order under British rule. The truth is they do bring something of value to the table we can tap into. Yet the stupid ego of these Savage Nigerians won't admit the truth. Japan could even come colonize Nigeria. Whoever will change the people's way of thinking and deliver. |
golddust6000:I've said it before what is holding Nigeria back is how Nigerians think. Even if trains were built this is still the kind of stuff that would be issued everyday. |
Shaytun:Give ur own contributions.... I have made mine. If u guys don't wanna listen good luck with the tussle and petty politics. Alternatively let Lagos State colonize all the other 36 states. Or let there be an annual competition where top three states are determined and they are chosen to colonize other states? |
freshest4live:Nigeria in its current state since 1960 has not been able to successfully execute one nation wide capital project! What I am proposing is neo colonialism working together with Uk as returning colonial masters, China and the world bank; while Nigeria of course retains sovereignty. A country can be taught/colonized with its sovereignty in tact. Nigerian Government revenue will be managed from Great Britain. Resource and development contracts will be signed. China would be in charge of the infrastructure projects. G8 resources will start to follow Nigeria. Nigerians on ground would start to be shamed for their bad citizenship and encouraged to become good citizens. Psychiatric evaluation for all drivers and compulsory driver education. Nigeria can be a changed country in 2 yrs or less. Only Lagos is transforming rapidly because most residents hv bn out at least to ECOWAS and are demanding development. So either way we need foreign influence |
golddust6000:Amen as they bring good things like honesty, responsibility, punctuality. After that I will go to Wales inside village and colonize them. It's not about black and white Yorubas or Igbo it's about results regardless of the source. |
Obalende:Even wen a Nigerian proposed a cure for hiv they shut him down! |
golddust6000:The fire of the Most High surrounds me. It shall return back to you. Nigerians blatantly refuse to call a spade a spade. |
freshest4live:They did not consider the ancestors sub human!!! Today don't most Nigerians act sub human? Badoo, one way driving, jungle justice, impersonation, killing political rivals instead of seeking greater good, rituals, blood money, cheating the honest etc. When I say the truth they keep quiet. Are these behaviors not sub human ?? |
freshest4live:I have lived in Nigeria Britain middle east and North America. This suggestion is the best for Nigeria. The best thing British influence can bring to Nigeria is a culture of honesty and punctuality. There is no shame in admitting this! Nigerians need exposure to a better culture in this regard. Note that the British continue to learn from all the Nigerians living in Britain the good things our own culture has to offer. |
freshest4live:You are taking this personally and I don't get personal. Pre and post colonial Nigeria are vastly different. Every well meaning Nigerian seeks results. If I have a rich brother I will ask him wat he does. Same just ask Britain wat they are doing differently. The fact that thus suggestion is being opposed shows why the country is backward. If I am a new surgeon I will ask more experienced surgeons questions |
freshest4live:The schools were working and high quality. Today only University of ibadan and university of lagos are of acceptable standard. The Yorubas started leaving Nigeria on time to Britain so it reflects. Today other schools are ridden with cults and kidnapping! |
Chikpat:They always resort to insults. Both the Nigerian and British are brothers and sisters it's not a rivalry. Britain is clearly a better run country. Maybe some British law makers and policy makers and urban planners could help. And get British Police reinforcement and international police from UN to help with kidnapping? I hv no Inferiority Complex simply result oriented. Japan is fine too. Even South Africa. No shame in admitting help is needed. Britain is easier to coordinate because they were our former masters. 'Master, wat are some things u do in Britain. We would like to learn or you could even come rule for another 20 yrs'. Black man pride too much sha. God forbid |
Nigeria must at all times remain sovereign.... |
*** I did not say the Caucasian race is the solution. I said British nationals (including Nigerian British) - it is the culture that they bring to the table not skin color... I already said what those were: honesty, punctuality and responsibility. Original Post: Why not? We have good resources they have good governance. Nigeria worked until Independence. Black man swallow ur pride be humble and let us make Nigeria a British Overseas Territory. |
This is the number one cause of accidents. It's a crime in other countries. How do we stop it? |
cr7lomo:Even wen the govt repair roads they still drive one way at high speed and kill travellers and blame govt and spirits. Cursed savages in the jungle. #stoponewaydriving |
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It has changed from 1000 yrs ago because women work and contribute which is a good thing and also because of all other things mentioned - it has shifted from a partriarchial institution to an equalist institution and in some countries like Sweden a martriarchial instutution where women call the shots in the marriage. The original question is the traditional marriage of 1000 yrs ago still necessary or even important today if the lady can bail any time (over 75% of divorces are initiated by the woman). |
1. Men used to bear all financial responsibility. Now wives are expected to work and to take care of themselves and contribute. 2. Marriages happen later on average giving both parties an opportunity to play the field first and not feel tied down. Loyalty is not the norm as people can change their minds even after marriage. This means more mate variety. 'Open marriage' seems to describe the new social construct? 3. Child and home responsibility are no longer for the woman alone. Guys are now expected to clean the home, cook and take care or children as equally as the woman does. I think the contract has changed to give ladies a better deal though at the risk of some promiscuity. Has the marriage contract changed for the better? Is marriage still relevant? Should marriage be replaced with open partnerships instead? Pls comment. |
We must stop putting pressure on ladies to marry at a certain age for selfish reasons. The Bible though prescribes young marriage... |
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We have a large population instead of them to use it for good they use it for yahoo yahoo and blame the govt.