₦airaland Forum

namet:
I'm not talking sentiments here. I'm not interested in feel-good talk. The fact is no matter how you say you not inferior to other races, the facts speak for itself.

Generally speaking, black people have not built anything. And that is because our intelligence is inferior. Tell me anything that enhances life that black people have created and offered to the world to use. The countries you mentioned are all cobbled together using technology/products invented by other races. I am not talking about buying something from white or asian people to install in your country.

I am talking about black inventions. Can you even begin to think of how airplanes or ships or even cars are conceptualized and then built? Go and open the back of a photocopier and look at the many electronic components that are connected together and then begin to think of the type of mind that creates that. It's not a garri-eating brain that creates these types of advancements.

If you think you are not mentally inferior, why don't you build refineries and then refine your own crude oil. I am not talking about importing everything from the white man. Build these things from A-Z, then we begin to talk. Otherwise, you are engaging in feel-good talk. Oh the white man or chinese man is not better than me! You only say it to feel good. That's all.

My friend, we are not close to them mentality.

All they think about is how to put up land that is not for sale for sale and swindle you. Or how to do yahoo yahoo. Nobody wants any research or development. Before u blame the govt for poor universities, it is the students who go to school and start joining cults.

All indications point to Nigeria and Nigerians being a cursed ppl.

substantial323:
black people (africans) need to change the way we think and behave. examine the house below and how well manicured the landscape. its rare to find a such a house in Nigeria . most houses in Nigerian are usually surrounded by sand.
no city planning whatsoever. total lawlessness and disorder.
very low moral value . lack of attention to detail. Total madness and carelessness.

The funny thing is Nigerians are looking for ready made.... they don't want to put time or effort to produce the nice well organized green space in the picture but they want it without effort....

henrixx:
why can't you kids just keep the jokes off nd play then where n when needed.

You can just read and log off if you don't have a reasonable comment

Theres no concept of responsibility in the land. Laid back culture.

The so called unemployed youths, instead of going into agriculture, migrating to ECOWAS states for a better life with their ECOWAS passports or otherwise seeking employment with the state government or providing services (receptionist, driver, mechanic anything legit), resort to bribery and corruption and criminal acts (its easier to steal a car than sweep the road and get paid by the government).

Hire a driver and he will even plot how to rob you further proving the suggested curse hypothesis.

Okay take danfo drivers, they gross N600-N700k per month if not more, yet for 10 yrs they are happy to operate run down buses. They even now resorted to one chance despite a chance to make good money with busses. Its easier to do one chance than work. Isnt that lazy/savage?

I will not speak against the current administration because it is clear the government is working to end the things I have mentioned but this is a nation that has a history of perpetual looting - why are Norway Sweden and Finland Governments not looting?

From all indications, its a cursed people. If anybody is opposing this motion, say why.

1. They knock down road signage time and time again; the Government had invested in blue arrow signs showing you which lane you should take; they keep knocking them down... these signs work in other countries... if the Government had not been putting the signs back when knocked down it would have been back to square one. This means Nigerians are saying by this action: "To hell with development, I want to take the wrong lane at night, slam into an oncoming truck and die"

2. Government had put traffic lights, they still dont stop at red!

3. It takes Government Officials to prevent traffic grid lock. Remove traffic officers, they will be road blockage.

I know someone will come and try to blame all these on the government.

But the truth is that Nigerians are unable to govern themselves. Sometimes I wonder if Nigerians are cursed (the ones who dont believe in any deities that is to say).

All the developments coming to Nigeria are FORCED on the nation by the World Bank, WHO etc.

All they know is to consume and make quick easy money.

And have you seen how these people drive? These are a people that take pride in reckless dangerous driving with no regard for human life and one of the highest collision (accident) numbers in the world...

And then the belief in free money...

Instead of becoming defensive, raining insults or deflecting these truths - can all readers take time to examine why these people behave this way.
Are Nigerians cursed?

The underlying mentality of Nigerians shows the people are cursed.....
Fake drugs to make money?
Lets just give Nigerians another 10 years to exterminate themselves by killing each other then foreigners can take over.
Keep killing urselves! Kill urselves with fake drugs, reckless driving, biko haram, patriarchy and associated downfalls like robberies and crimes of men.

End partriarchy now! See what it produces.

mannatech:
So our government allow Chinese investors into our country in exchange for outdated train technology. I doubt they still use these type of trains in China's mega cities. This is exploitation

How is it exploitation when your compatriots choose Yahoo yahoo and big manism instead of a research oriented and responsible culture?

Coldfeets:
Well, like I said earlier, a man who allows himself to be controlled by women is nothing but a weak man and it is solely his fault that he becomes enslaved by woman.

It's not like a man is totally powerless to the assault of the female power.

I have been going through the Anatomy of Female Power book but I can't help but laugh at the views the man was trying to push through because he was actually trying to make it seem as if a man is completely powerless to this so called female power.

Which I know is totally false.

Besides, the book was written in 1990 and the world has changed a lot since that time, if you'd agree with me.

If you call yourself a man and yet, you are always doing your mother's bidding, you are not the man!

If you call yourself a man and yet, you are always doing your lover's bidding, you are not the man!

If you call yourself a man and yet, you are always doing your wife's bidding, you are not the man!

A man is that man who does what he wants to do without necessarily succumbing to the so called emotional and sexual manipulations of the women in his life.

The bolded shows the downfalls of partriarchy and its associated toxic masculinity and of men in general. There is no need to "be the man". This is the very same mentality responsible for most of societies problem as men try to show they are men e.g. failing to yield to oncoming traffic and general dissidence.

Doing what your mum says or considering it together with her makes you a man.

With regards doing lovers bidding, the majority of men cannot control themselves around women especially ones they find attractive.

You are the man when you merge your bidding with your wife's bidding not when you do your bidding.

Africans could well be the cursed descendants of Ham. Enemies of progress and savages.

Maghan37:
Hmmmm, really although I agree DAT more female participation is necessary but if women shld dominate govt around d world it will even make d world a worst place because it will mean less discussion and more social stratification than we already have because even in deir everyday relationship they are less peaceful than men.

You bring up good points. It should just be mixed - maybe 50 percent male and 50 percent female.

Belafonte:
I have not resorted to perosnal attacks, and as your last paragraph shows, I am very correct when I say you are motivated by feminist teachings. You are a new comer in this fight and you will be schooled appropriately.

My belief has been shaped by history of mankind and my own personal experiences, and I tell you, I'm fully convinced I am in the right. Fully. Convinced.

Modern men haven't become stupid. Men have always been stupid. Always. But for every stupid man, there's one who's logical and a blessing to his community. Violence amongst humankind is nothing new and I'd anything, has abated in recent centuries; all with no help from women. If you have ever read about any society in history, you will notice the ebb and flow of values as well as the rise and fall of empires and dynasties.

One thing you should be aware of, modern women, while having more opportunities than women in any other time in history, are just as obedient to their biological impulses as the women before them. The women you are waiting for to come rescue you are busy selling the vaginas off for the latest iPhones and hair extensions. They can not not and will save
you. They, themselves, are looking to be saved.
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Men and women are not mates, shoe get size. As you grow older, you will come to accept this truth. You're probably a young man attracted to the sophism and dissimulation that modern feminism employs in propagating their tripe. You will learn when real life experiences expose those feminist lies for what they are. But I guarantee you will suffer before you learn. For you will earn the hard way.

Good luck to Nigerian women, they will need a shitload of it to subjugate the average Nigerian male. For all our faults, we are dopey western males.

You speak of biological impulses? Men go into crime to get money to please women and are enslaved by female bodies.

Belafonte:
You're obtuse. Your comment is fraught with logical fallacies. But go on, change the world. Men are the problem. Lol.



Hahahahahaha. Dude, you need help. Get your peopel on the phone.

Here in Ontario there are three genders male female and X with full rights to take a different gender identity.

I have exercised my right under Ontario law.

Men are not the problem but their toxic masculinities

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Belafonte:
I have told you, men will always surpass women in any index, whether good or bad. It is not a man problem, it is nature's design. Men outnumber women in every endeavour of human existence. No amount of feminist indoctrination will change that. The only thing you can do to change this is eliminating testosterone. However, if you did, you would be forfeiting every good thing that testosterone has contributed like technological advancement(surely you must have data for how it's divided between the sexes?)

These are unsubstantiated claims. Honorable Mary Slessor stopped the killing of twins among the Efiks in Nigeria - before then it was natures design to them.

You indirectly acknowledge toxic masculinity - this is a good starting point. It is possible to curb toxic masculinity - it takes women to curb it.

This testosterone you mention is also responsible for violent rapes of numerous women - so we do not want your testosterone - women are fully capable of achieving even more than men - we dont need testosterone linked achievements if it comes with rape, mass shootings and animalistic savagery.

Please note I was born male but with a female gender identity hence use of "we".

Belafonte:
Lol. Women don't commit crimes. Now I know. Alright, sir. I hear you

Below is multi-year murders committed in Chicago by gender - note the % male vs % female figures. Why is it so hard to accept the obvious truth? Ego?

https://cpdnews.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/Murder-Crime-Trends-Murders-by-Gender-1998-2007.pdf

Belafonte:
Hahahahahaha. You're more far gone than I thought. Good luck. In fact, I think you're just trolling

At least 3,267 people have been shot in Chicago this year, compared to 3,937 this time last year.
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/breaking/ct-chicago-600-homicides-20171120-story.html

This weekend saw 13 people shot in the city, including a 14-year-old boy who was seriously injured.

The boy was walking on Sunday morning in the 2500 block of North Lotus Avenue in the Cragin neighborhood on the Northwest Side when someone shot at him from a vehicle, hitting him in the chest.

He was one of four teens shot over the weekend.

From Friday afternoon to early Monday, one man was fatally shot in what police said was an accident. Anthony Collins, 30, accidentally shot himself Sunday in the 1600 block of North Mango Avenue in the the North Austin neighborhood on the West Side.

How is this trolling?

I have given a practical solution to obvious toxic masculinities of the Chicago men which is same in Nigeria.

Belafonte:
Let me put this into persprctive for you, young man;

1. Men are the best in making money; legally and illegally

2. Men do beat in school

3. Men do beta in business

4. Men work hardest

5. Men commit the most crimes.

Because of testosterone, men will always surpass women in any field of human endeavour. I challenge you to name one field where women do better than men where men are involved. Just one. I dare you.

The only thing women can teach men is how to be women. Nothing else.

Women cannot teach men to commit less crime because women do not have as much testosterone as men and men do not have as much estrogen as women. Period. Women do less than men because of their hormones.

How many women have been Formula 1 Champions? Do women not compete? How many women have won Nobel Prizes for anything compared to men? Do they not present works? My friend, there is nothing women can teach men; and women cannot fathom what it means to be masculine. The moment a women is claiming to be able to teach a man how to be a man, you have a generation of women wrappers as we have today and it will get worse with the advent of babymamaism as fathers are becoming increasingly absent in their sons' lives.

By the way, are you aware that 80% of criminals didn't have a father or had a weak father? Bet you didn't know that. As women push men outside of the home, more criminals with be birthed. If women want to help in curving the crime rate, they should marry good men and five men more incentive to be good men and fathers.

You're welcome.



You're beginning to sound unintelligent. Historical precedents and patterns are now sentiment? Pray tell, were you raised by a single mother? Do you even know your father?

I don't have time for this.
While I am proposing real solutions to real issues you are busy massaging egos.

One practical solution to curb toxic masculinity is to teach young boys about child birth, to have men participate in bringing up kids including feeding / changing diapers - this way they would think twice before they shoot - to also teach men to "think before you shoot" (after having received child birth education to understand you cannpt shoot someone based on a bruised ego - thats savagery not leadership).

Women - this is your time!!! Lead us out of a male crime ridden world!

Belafonte:
I have not resorted to perosnal attacks, and as your last paragraph shows, I am very correct when I say you are motivated by feminist teachings. You are a new comer in this fight and you will be schooled appropriately.

My belief has been shaped by history of mankind and my own personal experiences, and I tell you, I'm fully convinced I am in the right. Fully. Convinced.

Modern men haven't become stupid. Men have always been stupid. Always. But for every stupid man, there's one who's logical and a blessing to his community. Violence amongst humankind is nothing new and I'd anything, has abated in recent centuries; all with no help from women. If you have ever read about any society in history, you will notice the ebb and flow of values as well as thingise and fall of empires and dynasties. One thibg you should be aware of, modern women, while having more opportunities than women in any other time in history, are just as obedient to their biological impulses as the women before them. The women you are waiting for to come rescue you are busy selling the vaginas off for the latest iPhones and hair extensions. They can not not and will save D
you.; They, themselves, are looking to be saved.
.The; and women are not mates, shoe get size. As you grow older, you will come to accept this truth. You're probably a young man attracted to the sophism and dissimulation that modern feminism employs in propagating their tripe. You will learn when real life experiences expose those feminist lies for what they are. But I guarantee you will suffer before you learn. For you will earn the hard way. ;DM
Good luck to Nigerian women, they will need a shitload of it to subjugate the average Nigerian male. For all our faults, we are dopey western males. ;Den

I didnt read everything you typed but the points are:

1. Men are responsible for most crime in Nigeria.
2. Men claim to be leaders in Nigeria but are not showing evidence of leadership e.g. irresponsibility and indiscipline at every sphere.
3. Women who commit less violent crime can teach men to be less violent and curb their toxic masculinities.

These are the points. everything else being said such as history is sentiment.

Belafonte:
Lol. The greatest criminals and the greatest criminal stoppers/law enforcers are men for a reason; testosterone. Women cannot handle men. Men are the best at anything in this life of both genders, whether it requires physical or psychological strength. Women were made to follow men. It might not sound politically correct but it is the truth.

I see you've been getting brainwashed by neo-feminism's favourite buzzword: toxic masculinity. But I put it to you that men have developed the world and will continue to do so. Women's contribution is to help men develop the world. Read your history and stop parroting talking points of mentally deranged people who are trying to tell us that humans have more than two genders and that any body can choose to identify as whatever catches their fancy.

I knew at some point someone would try to descend into getting personal; if we could refrain from that please.

As per bolded, if that is what you believe, you reserve the right to your own beliefs.

I am of the opinion that men became stupid at some point as evidenced by the ills they commit in society (including mass shootings) and hence lost the so called leadership position. Leadership goes to the most qualified. Modern day women show evidence of very strong leadership while nigerian men continue to be ego maniacs.

Feminism is the new dawn. Long live servitude of Nigerian men to girls. Amen.

ubunja:
oh,coz those innocent defenseless babies cant speak for themselves
ok.how about the Male Genital Mutilation that takes place in thousands of hospitals across the World where little boys get a part of their pen!ses cut off coz "it will look nicer" without that little skin covering -and always requested by the mothers

Please review the thread title before commenting further.

Your comments are not addressing if a feminist government, leadership and economy will reduce crime in Nigeria. Introduction of more female judges and police officers and drivers will be good for crime reduction.

I also forgot to mention police brutality in Nigeria and mass shootings such as is witnessed in the United States.

ubunja:
tell that to the approx. 20 million unborn babies aborted worldwide annually because women claim "my body my choice"

Abortion is in a different category of issues than the ones under review.

Phi001:
So, in the event that the male violent crimes which are in the majority in eliminated (which is impossible by the way), what about the female violent crimes?

If the thread is only aimed at eliminating male violent crimes while actively ignoring the female violent crimes, then it's absolutely ridiculous!!!


Let me give you a good thread; one that aims at reducing (elimination is next to impossible) violent crimes irrespective of whether it's perpetrated by male or female!!!

You are not getting the point. I am saying men are responsible for most violent crime - I have mentioned the specific crimes that men perpetrate more. Females commit violent crime but the numbers are much lower.

Again - one chance robberies, kidnapping, armed robberies, terrorism, organized crime syndicates, assinations - these are the specific crimes I am talking about.

Not to mention violent rapes.

Phi001:
Excellent diversion, but you didn't answer the question.

Are you interested in eliminating all crimes or male perpetrated crime?

The objective of this thread is toward the elimination of violent crimes which are mostly male perpetrated- the specific crimes are terrorism, armed robberies, assassinations, and the likes. Hope this answers your question.

A man does not experience the pain of child birth or the labor in caring for a child. A man can shoot another man or woman because his ego was bruised - because he does not know what it means to be a mother or care for a child and did NOT experience the pain of child birth.

The motherly love of women for their male and female children makes women (more specifically mothers or family oriented women) superior to men from a violence reduction perspective. This is a hypothesis though.

Ruthless brutal violent crimes including assassinations by "men of the underworld" are a predominantly male area.

Phi001:
Let me get this straight...


Are you interested in eliminating all crimes or male perpetrated crime?

Cos if twas just makes committing crimes, there wouldn't be female prisons...

The overwhelming majority of violent crimes are committed by men in Nigeria - from terrorism (BH), to armed robberies to organized crime syndicates. Also most wars have been triggered by males.

holocron:
Women cannot handle power? Wrong. They are adepts.

Women lack basic rationality? Wronger. They are very cool headed and composed.

Women are myopic? Wrongest. They are long range strategic planners, far more than men.

All these defects u noted are clever ruses the womenfolk has traditionally used to pull the wool over the eyes of men, to the fact of the very clever control they exert on men, and how they ruthlessly use men to sustain and maintain themselves in relative comfort while the men suffer and slave for them in the mistaken notion of machismo.

for more info, go to Chinwendu's "ANATOMY OF FEMALE POWER", and u will learn the truth of your enslavement. U may be able to download scanned pdf copies from the web becaused the book was banned and wiped off the bookshelves by the female controlled authorities.

Another powerful contribution. Thank you.

The objective of this thread is to see how the women folk can help reduce high crime rates in Nigeria. This is a good thing. Why should this not be welcome?

A man does not experience the pain of child birth or the labor in caring for a child. A man can shoot another man or woman because his ego was bruised - because he does not know what it means to be a mother or care for a child and did NOT experience the pain of child birth.

The motherly love of women for their male and female children makes women (more specifically mothers or family oriented women) superior to men from a violence reduction perspective. This is a hypothesis though.

Phi001:
and you've been emphasizing it since...

So what about toxic female behavior? Abi it doesn't exist?

You post reeks on sexism!!!

It tries to portray men as the cause of the society's rot...

Unless of course, you're inferring that only males have the supposed 'toxic behavior'...

Which female toxic behavior is responsible for the high levels of male perpetrated crimes in Nigeria? advise.

Phi001:
This is sexist!!!

Now, personally, I don't care about feminism, but that's just plain sexist!!!

Both genders have certain toxic behaviors...stop emphasizing the male!!! Let's assume the 'toxic male behavior' is curbed, what happens to the female one?

It should be emphasized because it is a contributing factor to high crime rate in the country.

Phi001:
This is sexist!!!

Now, personally, I don't care about feminism, but that's just plain sexist!!!

Both genders have certain toxic behaviors...stop emphasizing the male!!! Let's assume the 'toxic male behavior' is curbed, what happens to the female one?

Please I do not get personal in intellectual conversations please.
toxic male behavior is defined as: unnecessary aggressive behaviors that are praised as what makes one a man - e.g. beating a wife as a way of exercising authority, dangerous driving to exhibit control etc.

This thread is about about constructive ways to handle high crime rates in Nigeria - mostly perpetrated by the men - not about gender equality.

My suggestion was a feminist approach - what if we tried female bus drivers and female conductors with male police officers on each bus to tackle one chance robberies? What if marriage was de-emphasized in Nigeria so men feel less financial pressures which could lead them into crime - this way men work for their money and women work for their money. What if aggressive/ toxic male behavior instead of being accepted as "what makes you a man" becomes frowned upon.

We need more suggestions like holocrons.

This thread is about about constructive ways to handle high crime rates in Nigeria - mostly perpetrated by the men - not about gender equality.

My suggestion was a feminist approach - what if we tried female bus drivers and female conductors with male police officers on each bus to tackle one chance robberies? What if marriage was de-emphasized in Nigeria so men feel less financial pressures which could lead them into crime - this way men work for their money and women work for their money. What if aggressive/ toxic male behavior instead of being accepted as "what makes you a man" becomes frowned upon.

We need more suggestions like holocrons.