Celebrities › Re: Ruby Ojiakor Hits The Street On Barefoot To Celebrate 1 Million IG Followers by Obarofrederick(m): 8:54pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Celebrating mediocrity! Nonsense. |
Celebrities › Re: Ruby Ojiakor Hits The Street On Barefoot To Celebrate 1 Million IG Followers by Obarofrederick(m): 8:52pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
DUNDEEMASTER: I swear..wch sane man go like settle with this one now...she just showed her low iQ to the world And the most funniest thing is, many would support her for what she did.... That's why the country is not moving forward... Fools too full the country |
Celebrities › Re: Ruby Ojiakor Hits The Street On Barefoot To Celebrate 1 Million IG Followers by Obarofrederick(m): 8:34pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Peter Tom Udofia Marries 18-Year-Old Choir Member (Photos) by Obarofrederick(m): 1:39pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Nor be juju be this  |
Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid Wins 3 Trophies At The AFRIMA Awards 2021 by Obarofrederick(m): 11:13am On Nov 22, 2021 |
Torosk1: This is simple, sell your family land or get a loan from the bank and play the game, stop posting winning fake ticket here, useless scammers, na so una scam me 10k and then send nonsense game to me We don wise up pass them since  |
Family › Re: What's So Special About Getting Married? by Obarofrederick(m): 5:27am On Nov 16, 2021 |
Ketapu: Yeah. The book is very eye-opening about how men are manipulated from birth till death. It was written by a Nigerian author which makes it more relatable. I have downloaded the Book now... Once I'm done reading the 48 laws of Power by Robert Green, then I will......... |
Family › Re: What's So Special About Getting Married? by Obarofrederick(m): 10:54am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ketapu: It seems you are now ready to take the red pill.
Read the following books to start your journey.
1. The Manipulated Man
2. Anatomy of Female Power.
When you finish reading those books, you will understand better. I have read the Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar... But I haven't read the Anatomy of Female power. Is it that enlightening? |
Family › Re: Why Do Women Prefer Their Children Over Their Husbands? by Obarofrederick(m): 9:33am On Nov 13, 2021 |
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Education › Re: Mirabel Obi, UNN Twerker, Attempts Suicide (Video) by Obarofrederick(m): 8:30pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Mikeeytools: who send am to almost misplace her life rubbish if I be her father I would beat her close to death and wake her back and beat her again and back twice then arrest her infact I just can't imagine selfish useless girl. Na you no get sense Na you still won kill yourself. Abeg take am easy o  |
Education › Re: Mirabel Obi, UNN Twerker, Attempts Suicide (Video) by Obarofrederick(m): 5:18pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Remag666: She almost lost her life by who's hand sir? There's no sympathy for her here  What she did on that video was out of youthful exuberance, there is no reason to condemn her to full length even though we knew what she did was bad She attempted suicide because of the negative words she kept hearing from people around her and social media, it's not easy to not take those condemning words to heart bros, but she lack the discipline due to her being a young girl and her lack of understanding of life... But I believed she has learnt her lesson and since God has given her second chance to live... She could turn a new leaf. We all once suffered from youthful exuberance man... Life is a stage. Na who dem catch na e be thief, na so the street talk am, them nor catch us na e make we dey point fingers so brotherman #Peace |
Education › Re: Mirabel Obi, UNN Twerker, Attempts Suicide (Video) by Obarofrederick(m): 4:57pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
See viewers mehn! Thank God she survived.
But the comments here are not encouraging at all... Please we are talking about someone who almost lost her life! Let's stop pointing fingers!... Our own dey our body too jare. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Odinga: In Procreation, Men Last 1 Sec But Women Struggle For 9 Months by Obarofrederick(m): 9:51am On Nov 10, 2021 |
This Man talks like an Unbeliever... Are you trying to question God why we were made this way? And for the records... Men were the once who suffered the most in the family/society... We are the once to be respected in full... But women still deserve respect though, they are trying no doubt but Men deserve more respect! |
Food › Re: A Nairalander's Trap Caught A Monitor Lizard. See What He Did With It by Obarofrederick(m): 6:00am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Vickyvice: This one full my village in Delta state. We don't harm it, and it sees humans as friends You mean Orogun village? |
Sports › Re: Xavi Becomes FC Barcelona's New Coach by Obarofrederick(m): 8:45pm On Nov 06, 2021 |
kaey10: Na only u talk my mind ooo....xavi is untested in Europe yet oo they should have brought him in through the youth team or allow him join a lower team in Europe to see how he will perform firs. Anyways what do i know Just like what Madrid did to Zidane |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp To Stop Working On 43 Smartphone Models From November (Full List) by Obarofrederick(m): 5:14am On Oct 13, 2021 |
AlmaIganishire: Is this information real? Like seriously? Well, whatever they do, they shouldn’t take away music app from my phone. I just got Oraimo Freepods 3. It’s the best I have seen, and the battery life is superb. What's the price? |
Phones › Re: WhatsApp To Stop Working On 43 Smartphone Models From November (Full List) by Obarofrederick(m): 5:12am On Oct 13, 2021 |
Melaninprincess: E no concern me like that, my phone isn't listed. Anyway who has seen the new freepods 3? The design is exquisitely beautiful What's the price currently? I fancied this |
Romance › Re: Careers Of Women That Turn You Off As A Man? by Obarofrederick(m): 4:46pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
apatheticme: Uncle, the thread was titled "Careers Of Women That Turn You Off As A Man". So pardon me if I assumed responses here were intended for females!
But then this is nairaland, anything could mean anything!
Well, I cannot speak for the entirety of doctors, but I have no "air" whatsoever of superiority!
Infact, I prefer people don't even know I'm a doctor outside the hospital, for fear of being billed outrageously, kidnap, extortion etc! I kinda keep a low profile both in and out of the hospital. But then, we're different in life, some persons may prefer to be loud, I've worked with lots of people in the hospital across different cadres and disciplines from nursing to labs, physiotherapy, dental techs, dieticians, records, etc and I've got no single issue with anyone, infact I have lots of friends amongst them.
So, it's more of a personality thing, rather than professional stuff. Infact, I've had people argue that is she really a doctor?? I didn't know she was a doctor oh" whenever they meet me unexpectedly maybe in the theater or ICU. I relate everyone normally either he's the gateman or the CMD.
Life is too short abeg, no time for unnecessary ego! Only few possess this personality... I call it HUMILITY! Keep it up, it's a good trait. |
Sports › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Shatters Messi's Transfer Announcement Record On Twitter (Pix) by Obarofrederick(m): 7:58pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Davash222: Presently, Ronaldo is bigger and greater than Manure and Ole, Why stoop so low
Manure is dead and gone, and there's nothing Ronaldo or anyone can do to revive a dead club! You are too Prideful man!. Ronaldo is an exemplar of Humility. Nor reason am Bro,na he choice, you understand |
Romance › Re: Women, Why Do You Cheat On Your Partners? by Obarofrederick(m): 7:12pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
iamtardey: Can we talk about something else tho  Like what? If I may ask |
Romance › Re: Women, Why Do You Cheat On Your Partners? by Obarofrederick(m): 1:04pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
solofresh: Lol but to be honest, it seems women are fewer than the men in this Nairaland They are not few. They just hate to spill the truth and admit to truth! |
Romance › Re: Women, Why Do You Cheat On Your Partners? by Obarofrederick(m): 12:59pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Yaba4sure: how did u do it. Free man Discipline and reprogramming of mindset |
Romance › Re: Women, Why Do You Cheat On Your Partners? by Obarofrederick(m): 12:53pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Numerouno94: Wahala for guys that takes a relationship serious. The advice i always give to ma hommies is that no relationship is worth ur 100%, redirect that time u invest in a relationship to urself. Luk gud, feel gud, take care of ur family nd loyal frnds, invest in urself..
I'm always wit my hommies durin my free time cos i learn alot from them Vis-à-vis, nd we help one anoda grow. Having the right clique is way productive to keepin baseless relationships. Who get time for woman matter.
Ever since i jettisoned relationship brouhaha for gud frnds mehn i hv achieved alot ranging from financial freedom, emotional wellbeing nd psychological richness.
In my clique a frnd can jux call nd say " i jux saw this platform or opening, i tink we can make gud money from it" boom we give it a try nd it pays. Which relationship wan give u that kind idea rather na urgent 2k everytime.
The last tin on my mind is tinkin that my woman is cheating on me. Lol. This is epic. And that's how we the Males should live. No gain in relationship my guy! |
Celebrities › Re: Comedian AY Celebrates His 50th Birthday (Photos, Video) by Obarofrederick(m): 10:47am On Aug 19, 2021 |
Farotimi72: when a man begins to look younger than his age, then he is closer to his grave.
Anyways, HaPpY Birthday to him Please explain |
Christianity Etc › Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Obarofrederick(m): 1:45pm On Aug 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: no 
Now if your why means you are trying to use my life to access the Truth of the Word of Jesus Christ Himself, then I suggest you properly engage your brain cells so you understand how that approach is a fools approach to knowledge.  Okay. Now, are you trying to tell some of us working that have Bosses that we are serving two masters? Because according to your own interpretation of the scripture, you said wives should not regard their husbands as the head why still regarding Christ as the supreme head. And that wives should share equal rights with their husbands as it is unholy to serve two masters according to your MISINTERPRETATION which also imply according to you that we should likewise share equal rights with our Bosses, arguing with our Bosses, altering our Bosses decisions. Is that what you are talking about? Did you think it through, I mean down to the bone before you got all those your conclusions of the scripture? I would have explain what the word NOT SERVING TWO MASTERS meant to you but many intellectuals here explained that to you but you were too stubborn to grab the messages. Go and re-read the scripture, I mean thoroughly Ephesians 5:22-25 again. Mind you! All what the Prophets, Apostles, Preachers wrote in the Bible were not from their brain, they were directed by the Holy Spirit! Before Jesus Christ left the World, he told the Disciples to go to the World and preach the Gospels that has been preached by him. Peace. |
Christianity Etc › Re: If You Are A Feminist, Don't Marry - Bishop Oyedepo by Obarofrederick(m): 9:28am On Aug 17, 2021 |
Judging from your utterance so far, I think you are the one being ignorant here. If you are really educated, you will not utter all what you have been uttering since...
Let me ask you this: Are you working? (E get why o) |
Romance › Re: Ladies Dating Quiet Men, Share Your Experiences by Obarofrederick(m): 2:16pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
LadyRosa: Lol... As I stubborn reach na so so quiet men dey date me. So I've had great experience from past relationships and currently another quiet one dey my side. What I noticed with them
They are highly intelligent, don't talk much, don't mingle much, social function almost zero. Them sabi cook oooo! Few clothes, expensive or not, they are well arranged,ironed.No scatter scatter. So once I'm looking for something they help me look for it because I go scatter their wardrobe and leave it like that! No time! 
They are calculated and secretive. Don't gossip at all. Going into their house and coming out seems like sneeking around, so people don't know if they are in or out.
Don't like loud music.Those who go to club rarely dance, them go dey laugh who dey dance . When they decide to party, the subsequent days makes them really dull and want to 'rest'. Even during outings after few laughs and a drink with plenty water, next na to pick their car keys or flag down a taxi , time to go 
Don't wear loud bright dresses. Dull dresses are their Craze.
Observe rather than talk. When they talk everyone is silent.
No toasting, they were too shy to say their mind. They will look and make few remarks, then look again. Relationship usually start from me taking the lead by keeping them talking with questions. "Do you like me?" that's enough to make them blush with relief and acceptance. 
Spend thrifts. Show offs is foolishness to them.Not really into social media, few pics, most times like to be anonymous. Also, they can be nasty in secret. 
Gadget lovers. Will spend money on the latest Playstation.Dont mind playing against computer for hours. Those who don't like video games, hardly watch football matches or are simply in different about sports. The passionate ones likes to watch it indoors, if they must watch outside na only them go sit down one corner for chair like zombie. Simplicity. Eating out is not their need, so if they must, mostly snacks rather than cooked food. Neat freeks!  Forgives easily but with serious warning. Don't like the silent treatment during quarrel. They will appear calm at first but, Na lie . Just pretend you no longer find them attractive or appealing and all hell breaks loose. Not too romantic but very supportive and reasonable. Calm in the face of overwhelming trouble. Why others are panicky, they keep clear head, and think of solving issues diplomatically. The ones who cheats do it well. You may never notice because they will never pick the other woman's frantic calls, if them too disturb they block them temporarily till further _drilling notice.Them no just like wahala from nags. Have soft spot for women and can easily be manipulated to give out cash to them even without sleeping with them. Even an ex will continue to reap them off Even if they are no longer interested. Don't get angry easily, but when they get you'd be sorry. Really really sorry and disappointed in yourself. They will lay all your 4ck ups and corner your defense on every angle 
But them still dey talk o, but na inside house. Abuse them and meet a brick wall, no reaction. As my mouth sharp reach, I don't use bad words on them like I do on the street,They hardly use insults to drive home their point once an argument be like say e won bring insult, they ignore and find their way out. There are people that their level of maturity controls what you say.
Modified : Seems all NL guys suddenly are now quiet guys.  Damn, truth everywhere |
Career › Re: At What Point Should A Man Stop Working For Salary? by Obarofrederick(m): 8:14pm On Jul 28, 2021 |
Focusmind: When you have mastered a trade, skill or a specialist in certain field
when I started my corporate work at 25, I told myself that I would have my own hustle by 40. The stress that investment banking work brought on me was too much. Waking up by 4:30am and coming back by 10pm. The rat race was simply too much and was taking so much on my mental and emotional well being, even though the pay package and other emoluments were good.It provided me with all the necessities of life and I was financially doing relatively ok.
I registered my own consulting company by the side and was waiting when the side hustle could pay at least 50% of my total salary. That never came to pass as the Solo Consulting space itself is even competitive. Most jobs came through referral. I never got any consulting job based on submission of application. By 2016, I couldn't take it again and resigned to face my solo consulting. This is the fifth year and, I am yet to gross the annual salary I enjoyed when I was still working.
Any regret? No. I have my peace, wake up at my own time, visit my parents and enjoy good moments with loved ones during the weekends without considering the impending coming Monday. I am on my bed typing this, reviewing a document sent to me by a client. My mental and physical health is top-notch and I have developed myself beyond my imagination. Money wise, I am still far from getting what my corporate employment paid but I am far happier now than when I was working in the bank. I love these words, so enlightening! |
Career › Re: 5 Tips To Build Your Confidence by Obarofrederick(m): 10:40am On Jul 24, 2021 |
Goldbw122: If you want to build confidence, stop masturbating Please explain sir |
Family › Re: How Many Chances Do You Give Before You Cut Someone Off? by Obarofrederick(m): 10:11am On Jul 24, 2021*. Modified: 10:34am On Jul 24, 2021 |
MANNABBQGRILL5: All of us @ [b][/b] We don't give any chance because we lack brain and we are senseless
that's why we av become nuisance on Nairaland And we are also tired of life, as it is now we no longer grill bbq again We grill monkeys, bats, house rats, giant spider and all sorts of venomous snakes
Don't argue with us please, because we are feeling the heat of the poverty created by our precious daddy
as we are typing right now, hunger no let us sleep.
We rise This account looks fake |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: 33yrs, ND Holder Without Job Experience ;any Hope? by Obarofrederick(m): 10:31pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
Candidlady: If your gender is the opposite of mine
No hope for you...
Cos eventually we'd still read about your news here, how you tried raping someone or using someone for rituals
Please kindly exist this world before you bring more shame to your genders
Thank you What's wrong with this girl... Can't fucking believe what I just read! |
Romance › Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Obarofrederick(m): 8:28pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
pansophist: It is always necessary to dissect the true reason why people pin marriage on a certain age. Also, it is even more necessary to separate the timelines between men and women. For women earlier marriage is necessary due to fertility issues, and being hot enough still to have good options of men.
For men, late marriage is mostly because he wants to be financially strong enough to take care of his family before he is old, and also not being too old and your child too young. If you have reflected on this things deep enough, it becomes clear why you want to rush into, or not rush into early marriage.
But as a general rule, a man getting married before his clocks 40's is ideal, while for women, before she clocks 30, with a healthy age gap of around 5 years, with the man being older. This formula will utlize female biological vitality and male self actualisation. This is a fucking truth man! |
Sports › Re: Jadon Sancho Completes £73m Switch To Manchester United From Borussia Dortmund by Obarofrederick(m): 7:05pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
BKayy: Chai. I hate this news. But why the excess pictures? Is it because of girls or what? When Lokonga was signed by Arsenal, you people posted one picture here but una don see fine boy come post seven picture in a forum where the limit is 4. Una wan make feminists kill themselves with dildos toady? Hahaha Wise Man |