Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

A wise man once said "if you say you love someone, you don't allow yourself to like someone else even if he has better qualities than your man. There will always be someone better than your current boyfriend."

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Below average sef... I wonder how they select them

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Kemimarch16:
i have choose a sane part on this forum

What are you trying to say

9jayes:


Yes I'm a blogger

So I take it you are not earning well... Reach out to me to improve your earnings

Princerichi0:
How deadly is this monitor lizard. I've seen it in my grandma's compound once.

Its not deadly but it has a heavy blade tail... One swing on your feet can give you a bad injury

Kemimarch16:
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Arysexy:
Gosh!

Is it hunger or what? The rate people kill and eat all kinds of reptiles is worrisome.

How do you people eat lizards and snakes?

I wanna puke! Spits! Tufiakwaaaaaaaaa!

Because you don't eat it doesn't mean others can't... Its edible perfectly good for the body and delicious.
Its just like every other meat

Space bookers, I really wish you guys do better getting or giving out more value in these things you do smh

The third picture she just can't keep without the LovePeddler dressing style

You didn't state the fact where he was a cultist and was involved in 1 or 2 killings

What an interesting read... To God be the glory

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Surgeries cannot defy ageing

ModestGal:
I'm a Taekwando black belter, its only if a guy is ready to die hes gonna try that shit with me. And also, I am crew NO FORGIVENESS of such kind of mental problem. Go see a psychologist and never com back to me.
Sick people

If you like carry all the belts, you can't take me down. I repeat no woman at my age level/weight size can take me down

azmanaty02:


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You are a mumu man

azmanaty02:


Its not true

The way ppl ignorantly say rubbish amazes me. So where are they from

thenaijacoder:
There is more to remote jobs than you think. Here is my personal experience.

Recently, i received a mail from a remote american tech company that i applied for. I was informed, that an interview will take placed few days, i prepared for the interview and the day came , lot of questions were asked that questioned my experience in web development. Finally the interview was over, but still i felt that i really embarrassed myself and messed up but i kept my fate.

Two days later, i received a mail from the same company where all the company guidelines, workflows and other necessary information i needed to get started were contained.

I resumed work a week after, soon i decided to set up my work environment just for me to realize i will be working actively at midnight from 11:30 - 6:30 due to time zones difference.

So basically, my life was staying on the PC every night and i adapted to it to the extent that i might not use my PC yet i can't sleep at night.

Soon after, i felt ill for 3 days after 4 weeks of sleepless nights and i was advised to reduce my working time and sleep often.

Knowing it was dangerous for my health, i cut my working time to 4AM and i will be off to bed. This step almost cost me my job because i published a new feature to the company product but i didn't include proper documentation of what the feature does and the developers and the members were annoyed with me to that.

Since it was a remote company though they have an office at California, most of their members work remotely, the company meetings are always held on Thursday via Google Meet and i have been marked absent for 3 times in a row which is really bad for my report. I was warned if i miss the next meeting, there is a possibility that i might be on probation or worst relieved of my role.

NB: I work as a frontend developer using Vuejs as my core language.

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Well done bro. I recently ventured into Web development myself.. Attended a bootcamp this year.. Please can I get your number there are lots of questions and mentorship I will like to get from you. I've not had any major experience yet