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Career / Re: I Suffer From Stage Fright - Help by Obas101(m): 6:17am On Jan 02, 2020
appreciate001:
Hi Nairalanders greetings to you all. please can someone help me with solutions to this stage fright problem.

I Am in my late thirties married with children but this thing will not leave me alone. I have been battling with this all my life.

Just recently, I had a presentation to make but things were messed up because of this. I am a graduate but this is limiting my chances in life. What are the practical ways to overcome this problem? God bless you all.
I understand you perfectly cos I used to be like you. You have anxiety disorder it makes you lose confidence and concentration before presentation.
Anyway be sure to have good subject knowledge b4 the presentation. Read the art of public speaking by Dale caenegie. It will help you know how to act and keep focus. ON THE MAIN. There is a drug for ppl with anxiety disorder I've forgotten BT will get back to you. It's mostly used by ppl with high BP. What it does is that it calms your nerves by expanding tracts for easy blood flow. Ordinarily without it you maybe sweating or your heart could be raising the drug clears this for you. I use it always before my presentations even at work

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Celebrities / Re: Onyeka Onwenu At Wesley College, Massachusetts, USA, 1975 (Throwback Photo) by Obas101(m): 3:07pm On Dec 21, 2019
ziegurf:
....that's my Mom, I'm her only child/son.....Mom I love you, may your dayses be longatua and may you walk and never to stumbled....
Can't believe you will chose another over your real mum.. Smh

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Is The Job Description Of A Direct Sales Agent In A Bank? by Obas101(m): 8:49am On Dec 14, 2019
Klarge0137:
Please I would be grateful if someone can explain to me the job function of a Direct Sales Agent in a Banking Sector


Thanks
Pls don't accept that job except you don't have vision, want growth or don't have any other option. They will use you till they are tired of you.
Their work basically entails moving around and finding customers to open account or take loans. Depending on your environment and type of bank you may even be required to patronise road side sellers and market women. There is more sha but na your hand e dey. I did one month as a dsa with a bank before running away

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Barack & Michelle Obama Buy Martha's Vineyard Mansion For $11.75 Million by Obas101(m): 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2019
samyyoung1:
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From Babalawo
Your code no correct
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lady Loses Employment Opportunity Over Semi-nude DP On Social Media by Obas101(m): 11:01am On Nov 30, 2019
mezarddinny:
the employer is unserious or she is probably a woman scared that the job seeker will come and take her shine in the office.
Jack Dorsey, the ceo of tweeter uses nose rings and styles his hair in an "unprofessional" manner yet he is still leading a giant company successfully. nigerians and their misplaced priorities
Jack Dorsey is an entrepreneur. That's is his business... If you are going to follow that part you should be ready to create jobs not looking for somebody to employ you
Politics / Re: Buhari Approves N19 Billion For Road Projects In FCT, Kano, Oyo And Osun by Obas101(m): 5:31am On Nov 29, 2019
Our igbo brothers will not like this

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Celebrities / Re: Tonto Dikeh Shows-Off Huge Tattoo On Her Back, Talks About Sex by Obas101(m): 9:25am On Nov 26, 2019
Nice writeup... youve obviously been kpanshed over there
Romance / Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Obas101(m): 5:46am On Nov 25, 2019
Magicians:
You make me laugh. I already vowed with death itself, being foolish na junior where death de talk try another scam with your 2 monikers.




You ain't smart. I hope you don't get yourself killed someday. I don't know the OP
Romance / Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Obas101(m): 6:44pm On Nov 24, 2019
Magicians:
If you make a dollar from forex trading make thunder strike me dead but u can make from forex scamming sha. I am talking from 2 years experience with over $4000 invested but like they said experience is the best teacher.
You are a fool to come at me like that. Not everybody is like you scammer. I have no affiliation with the poster and I'm only interested for my own self benefit.

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Romance / Re: A Lady Is Four Months Pregnant For Me And She's Hiding It From Me. by Obas101(m): 2:25pm On Nov 24, 2019
Ojizy1:
I am 27 years old and I have been dating this lady for 2 years now , I'm doing well with forex trading and make money without hitches.
I always take her shopping and buy her good stuff but the thing is I don't see her as my life partner but now she's 4 months pregnant and she concealed the information from me.
I'm not ready to father anything child now because I'm still yet to complete my house.
Guys please suggest what should I do .
Sorry for your dilemma. Pls I will like to make some inquiries regarding forex on strategy you used. I have the long basic knowledge about it but I've never really profited. Here's my number maybe WhatsApp 08062522014
Romance / Re: by Obas101(m): 7:55am On Nov 22, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I'm bored out of my mind and I need sensible friends, preferably female. I need to start building my own squad cry because from the way things are looking, I might not have any bridesmaids at my wedding embarassed

if you are interested, let me know I'd PM you

A little about me:

Core introvert but like to do stuff once in a while
Socially awkward
love to laugh (at people)
weird as fucc
annoying as hell too

we can get to hang if I'm ever in your vicinity and vice versa


apply within grin kiss
I'm also in need of a friend... Someone to talk to even on phone once in a while. I'm a 27 yrs old male. Residing in kogi state. 08062522014. Any other that comes across and also interested is allowed (male and female)
Romance / Re: by Obas101(m): 7:54am On Nov 22, 2019
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
I'm bored out of my mind and I need sensible friends, preferably female. I need to start building my own squad cry because from the way things are looking, I might not have any bridesmaids at my wedding embarassed

if you are interested, let me know I'd PM you

A little about me:

Core introvert but like to do stuff once in a while
Socially awkward
love to laugh (at people)
weird as fucc
annoying as hell too

we can get to hang if I'm ever in your vicinity and vice versa


apply within grin kiss
I'm also in need of a friend... Someone to talk to even on phone once in a while. I'm a 27 yrs old male. Residing in kogi state. 08062522014
Romance / Re: Naughty-whatsapp-group-18+ by Obas101(m): 7:43am On Nov 22, 2019
08062522014
Politics / Re: Kogi Elections: PDP Rejects Okene LG Result, Calls It "Fictitious" by Obas101(m): 1:41pm On Nov 17, 2019
In some polling units over here... once you get there, they will tell you if you are not coming to vote for Bello go back home else you go hear am..

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Education / Re: New Dress Code For Ahmadu Bello University (ABU) Zaria by Obas101(m): 4:51am On Nov 15, 2019
Bigiyo:
bro that where I am schooling and I can tell u it better than most of the schools in the west
NB: I am a yoruba boy and I actually did my primary and secondary school in Lagos
Better in terms of building plans and structures. Academic wise, it isn't better than most schools in the west... Mind you I did my masters in ABU. lazy set of lecturers over there and they take time to process pg results
Sports / Re: How Do I Stop Betting? by Obas101(m): 7:22am On Nov 14, 2019
novice22:
If God answers all prayer, I would have been dead because I told him to take my life if I ever go into betting.

I told Sango, god of thunder to take my life if I ever repeat my past mistake yet I am finding it very difficult to let go.

I think it will be easier for me to make heaven than to quit betting forever....I have done a lot of things to let go of my addiction, but none is working.

I believe a problem shared is half solved that's why I'm bringing this here.

Mod please a lost soul.
You can't stop it if a better job doesn't come by, you can only reduce. Truth is you are pained cos of the high money you normally lose. Reduce your stake amount to below a 1k. Try not to play everyday. You can play only weekends so even if you lose a few 100 you won't feel it much. Then when you do win keep some in your account for subsequent stake.
But I assure you once a job comes by bet won't even come to your head again except in a social group maybe amongst friends when you are free... You need to take control don't allow your emotions to put you down

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Business / Re: What Business Can I Set Up With N600k? by Obas101(m): 7:16am On Nov 14, 2019
Oracle55:
My fellow nairalanders I am here to seek your advice, I am presently working as an administrative assistant and my salary is fifty thousand naira only (50,000) but as it is now the standard of living in Lagos is very high, I can't get married and build a family with 50,000.

I have saved up 600,000, please what business can I start up in lagos with that amount?

A friend suggested opening a Bet 9ja betting centre that he makes up to 100k weekly, please I need more suggestions please.

Mod, help and push to front page for more suggestions thanks
I know you don't have a car. Save some more buy a clean Toyota and engage in taxify and uber as a side hustle. You will make back your money before a year and you will have gotten a new car as well. You can do that alongside your job. Save some more again and buy land or buy into an investment. Try forex. You have to project things one by one. Later on you can go into business BT to grow in it you have to consider it as a brand cos you are going to spend a lot of money

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Webmasters / Re: How The Recent Google Core Updates Will Affect Websites And SEO by Obas101(m): 7:07am On Nov 14, 2019
Britishcoins:
I am still making 2000 dollars monthly from my admob and adsense accounts.

My traffic has been amazing, all thanks to Indian gurus in the telegram
Abeg you fi add me for your group

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Crime / Re: Man Confronts Policemen Who Attacked Him For Recording Their Encounter In Lagos by Obas101(m): 4:46pm On Nov 04, 2019
the comment on this thread irks me. In a sane country with good system it is very much allowed to record activities,. the police have no right to say No... when taken to court it serves as evidence as to who is right or wrong. The police sometimes are advised to record their arrest.
Phones / Re: Nokia 7.2 Unboxing And Full Review. Default Camera Vs GCAM V7 + Price (photos) by Obas101(m): 12:01pm On Nov 02, 2019
Tobitrueman:


From Ram and processor, reviews and comparison. Redmi Note 8 Pro is a no no
I beg to differ... maybe you don't know much about phones. note 8 pro comes with a 6gig ram.
The processor the latest mediatek g90T is one of the most powerful processor, its able to hold high end games as well as application.
the only complain ppl made was that it overheats bt they released an update to fix it. so tell me again where this nokia phone beats the note 8 pro. not even in terms of camera. phone camera was compared to the iphone x maz and the note 8 pro was better from users review.
Phones / Re: Nokia 7.2 Unboxing And Full Review. Default Camera Vs GCAM V7 + Price (photos) by Obas101(m): 8:08pm On Nov 01, 2019
when redmi note 8 pro is there.>> i laugh
Programming / Re: Can I Learn Programming From My Android Phone? by Obas101(m): 7:17am On Nov 01, 2019
pls i need help I've been learning self coding using online platforms like codecampcademy. almost rounding
up ... really passionate with this line of work (software engineering) I'm also looking for a job, i don't mind starting at the base level for an ict company to develop myself. please help if you can
Programming / Re: Front-End Developer Or Back-End Developer: Which Job Title Has A Higher Salary? by Obas101(m): 7:12am On Nov 01, 2019
I've been learning self coding using online platforms like codecampcademy. alnost rounding up Javascript. any recommendation for me to become this... really passionate with this line of work (software engineering) I'm also looking for a job, i don't mind starting at the base level for an ict company to develop myself. please help if you can

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Politics / Re: GUTA Locks Up Nigerians’ Shops In Kumasi by Obas101(m): 10:02am On Oct 31, 2019
Beremx:
I am not into all of that. Get in touch with reality and stop feigning ignorance.
you are the one that is being ignorant here... learn and get your facts right, stop showing your stupidity

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Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 13 by Obas101(m): 11:22am On Oct 26, 2019
please someone should show me how to make money online please...I no wn do yahoo and i nor wn bet again too ...I nor wn suffer for sch dis new semester
go and blog. I can set an seo blog for you at 30k
Religion / Re: Homosexuality, Lesbianism, All Other Sexual Pervasion Is Not Just A Sin But... by Obas101(m): 8:50am On Oct 13, 2019
Olivegreen:
You're missing the point!!!
Being gay is not just about gay sex just as love is not just about sex.
You just quote the Bible from beginning to end but you can't interprete it with wisdom.
I don't care how you have sex with your wife or husband ( by the way are you male or female?) To me, as long as you both love each other, you both can use whatever positions or methods to give yourselves pleasure during sex.

Some people just like acting blind and intentionally ignore the main point of certain issues. Sex is not the main point of the lgbtq+ community. The main point is that love is love regardless of one's gender. We fall in love with other people's souls and not their body.
My body was given to me so it should not define me but my soul is who I am therefore, it defines me.
If my soul loves the soul of another female then how is that wrong? I love her personality and not just her body.

Please let us stop this unreasonable spread of hate and intolerance.

Love is love.
oh God... how blind you have become. You dont want to open your eyes to the truth. People like you don't learn from other ppl, what you've conceived in your mind is what you follow

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Romance / Re: *ladies Be Sincere, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask For Sex Until Marriage?? by Obas101(m): 5:01pm On Oct 04, 2019
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Answer: I can't pick any of the 2 because i can't date either. (A) I will have the believe she doesn't trust and love me enough. I can't date a girl that puts me at a certain level based on past experience. (B) Can't trust a girl like this as well.

A. how many of such girl have you encountered? note that this is Nigeria, Most people here have better control of their emotions than other countries. An average Nigerian girl that isn't a virgin don't mind having sex with her next partner if already they are in a serious relationship (I have a close female friend and she shares some of these views with me)

B. Not sure if you've dated lots of girls. But let me ask you, can you trust a lady so knowledgeable and exposed, that does all the things you wrote but insist on no sex Mind you it's her word i.e telling you shes a virgin and its' left for you to believe.

i'm just justifying my statement o
Romance / Re: *ladies Be Sincere, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask For Sex Until Marriage?? by Obas101(m): 1:41pm On Oct 03, 2019
Pettyprincess:

Even when you a virgin guys will still demand sex!!
yes but at least if a guy chose to be with you, he will trust you. A guy can never trust a girl that isn't a virgin and says no sex till marriage

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Romance / Re: *ladies Be Sincere, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask For Sex Until Marriage?? by Obas101(m): 6:21am On Oct 03, 2019
Adesola19:
Yes I will. Hoping for that kind of guy in fact.However those guys are few and far between
Are you a virgin
Romance / Re: *ladies Be Sincere, Would You Date A Guy That Won't Ask For Sex Until Marriage?? by Obas101(m): 6:20am On Oct 03, 2019
Pettyprincess:
Of course why not?bt this kind of guys are hard to find!
You say Yes, but its difficult for a girl to hold body. Cant even trust any girl. while no sex in the relationship,she will be getting it codedly from somebody else.
As for me, I can only be in that kind of relationship with a virgin

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Celebrities / Re: Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde Glows In Skimpy Gown With Floral Design by Obas101(m): 5:39am On Oct 03, 2019
farano:
Thick thighs like mine cool tongue
na lepa i dey see o

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Romance / Re: No Topic! by Obas101(m): 7:32am On Sep 28, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



You can't say for sure if he is gay but it is worth the discovery.
Invite him to your house, then bring out your gbola and check his reaction.

If he licks his lips, then ask him to hold it,
If he licks his lips faster then he is gay.
But if he does and you discover that it is you licking your own lips.
Then you are the gay person.

You can either chase him away or ask him to fully convert you because you seem to be fancying his demeanour.

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