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I am typing this with joy.

This morning my wife gave me money she made with her own sweat 😓

She started her small business that I opened for her yesterday and this morning she handed me the cash from her first sales.

I prayed and blessed her. Please brothers and sisters help me pray for my wife’s business.


I used the money to buy lunch and the rest for transport

Prepare like pap.
I feed my 5 month old baby this 3 times a day. No need to add milk or sugar. Very delicious and healthy

I fed all my 4 babies with this recipe and they are all healthy and chubby.
You don’t have to borrow money to buy foreign baby food when we have natural resources here.

2 Mudu of corn - free (I plant, harvest and dry myself)

1 Mudu of pearl millet, Gero- 150

1 mudu of Guinea corn- 120

½ mudu of white beans- 200

1 Mudu of tuwo rice- 300

I will pick out stones and dirt from the grains before washing and drying in the sun for at least 3 days.

I take the grains to
dry mill to grind to powder.

I got her a small gift to say thank you

My wife was very sick and I had to take her to the hospital. There was nobody available to help us look after our kids.

Lo and behold this angel on earth offered to help me care for the kids. We spent 3 days in the hospital and returned to see our house and children in perfect condition.

Martha David, I thank you you are the bestest friend God sent to me

Tears are dropping from my eyes as I go through the comments and see a lot of insults

I only asked for medical advise to help my wife till month’s end before I can take her to the hospital.

I did not beg for money but you call me poor.

All will be well.

Romanoff:
Doxycycline isn't a drug to be used in pregnancy.

The colours of the discharge shows she has an infection.

Please, take her to a proper hospital.

Una still dey born up to 5 children with the way this country dey go, una get mind o.

Our midwife prescribed it. I will tell her to sto p taking it. Thanks

id4sho:
Vaginal swap, that's infection. Do you feel any testicles pains or waist pain?
Go to a reputable laboratory

She is not having pains. Just morning sickness and no appetite

For the past 2 weeks my wife has been seeing strange stains in her pants.

The stains are sometimes green or yellow. She is finding it difficult to hold her urine. She wets herself a little .

She is 3 months pregnant and nursing a baby. This is her 5th pregnancy we have not experienced this type of thing before.

Our midwife gave her a doxycycline and referred us to a specialist in another town. I am waiting for end of the month salary to take her.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug I can get frOm the pharmacy to cure her?

No herbs please

Please I really need suggestions from health experts not insults. This is a mother and unborn life we are talking about .

She only wore this pant for less than 3 hours.

mariahAngel:
Ah ah! Obavoh! You posted on the food thread?😲
Colour me shocked! 😀
I swear, I'm almost star struck.

How's our favourite female protagonist, aka "your wife"? 😌

Thank you ma.

My wife is fine. She went through stress in her pregnant state to prepare this wonderful meal for the kids and I.

I appreciate her.

Come and eat dinner with us ma.

A king’s lunch. Cooked and served by my Queen

I have a very special female friend. Her birthday is coming up this weekend. I would really love to get her a special and fancy gift.

My budget is ₦ 3,000. Please help me suggest a very nice gift that will last long and make her think warmly of me whenever she sees it.

^*Please nothing romantic she is just a friend.
I am a married man with kids.
She got me a nice wristwatch on my own birthday. She always listens to my problems and gives me good advice. She is worth more than 3k

We later watched tv before I went out to for daily hustle at 6:00pm.

I bought the children and my wife kunukwakwa. But the children had slept when I returned home 😞 and my wife was too sick to drink. The drink turned sour

I finished cooking at about 3:15pm.

The children testified I am a better cook than their mum 🙂

Vegetable soup with eba for my wife and I
Rice and stew for the children

Fahdiga:
You mean your wife is still nursing a 5 months baby and is pregnant with another child? Does she breastfeed the five months old baby?

Yes she is doing exclusive breastfeeding

I later went to the market around 2p.m to buy ingredients for soup and stew.

My wife say they cheated me 😂

Beef- 300
Fish- 1600
Ponmo- 200
Tomatoes, pepper mix -150

My wife was not feeling too strong yesterday.

She is nursing a 5 month old baby and pregnant.

I sorted out the dirty clothes to wash.🧼

See the mountain of my children dirty clothes 😲. Haba ☹️

I wake up around 5A.M and pray.

My wife and I take turns to bathe the children (whomever wakes up first).

I prepare breakfast for the family. I harvested these eggs 🥚 yesterday from our backyard poultry. Very delicious 😋

I woke up with shock to see the lady and her Prostitute friend had gathered and started beating me.

They were calling me ritualist.

As I was asleep 😴 I did not know the lady had kept shaving stick 🪒 and her private part hair in my hands.

She said we had both fallen asleep and I woke up to do the evil deed. And God arrested me with sleep.

I was too shock to explain myself. They beat me up very well and took me to their madam.

I told the madam the girl was lying but they didn’t believe me. Whether they planned it, I don’t know 🤷‍♂️

They seized my phone and asked me to pay ₦ 20,000 so they can take the girl for spiritual cleansing.

I told them I don’t have that type of money. They made me transfer the ₦6,200 in my bank account. That was all the money I had in this world.

They wanted to shave my own private part hair too Incase the girl falls sick but I rolled on the floor and begged them.

That was how they let me go. God saved my life.

Please you all should be careful.

I have been going through depression after separating from my wife. 2 friends of mine advised me to sleep with another woman 👩🏽 to get over my wife.

I finally decided to visit a brothel last night. As I was about to enter the gate of the place, a young lady approached me and marketed herself. She looked like my wife so I was a bit pleased.

I asked her for her price 💵 and she said ₦3,000 to spend the night with her. We later settled for ₦1,500 (My friend advised me not to pay more than that)

When we got into the room, she collected her money, removed her wrapper and underwear. She laid on the bed 🛌 and spread her legs.

I asked her for a condom. She looked at me funny 🤨. She asked why didn’t I bring one along and if I wanted her to give me one I have to pay ₦ 200 extra. I reluctantly agreed.

She brought out a bottle of groundnut oil from the bedside and rubbed some in her private part.

I married my wife as a virgin and I have been faithful to her all through our marriage. I have never been with another woman before in my life.

I began to cry 😭. I couldn’t control my emotions. I stood up from the bed and cried. The prostitute begged me to stop crying.

I opened up to her and told her how my wife cheated on me and I left her. I told the whole story and She listened to me as a good friend.

We gisted well . She told me she won’t refund my money if I didn’t sleep with her and I said no problem, I just needed someone to talk to.

She told me about herself and how she was a single mother of 3 kids. She was the one taking care of her parents and siblings financially. I felt sorry for her.

She later told me she was hungry and I gave her ₦ 300 to buy food for herself. She bought it and ate alone.

I later fell asleep and woke up with a hot slap 👋 on my face.

When the ponmo became soft and tender, I took them down from the fire.

I fried the onions and tatashe in hot oil before I added the ponmo to it. I then added the green pepper.

I served with 1 egg🥚 . Come and join me

I thoroughly washed the ponmo before I sliced them into little pieces.

I boiled them on low heat. I added half teaspoon of salt, 1 cube of maggi. And sprinkled a little curry and thyme

I blended the red tatashe with my manual blender until I got a smooth paste. I roughly grated my onions.

Since I separated from my wife I am trying my best to prepare healthy meals for myself on a budget.

1 milk cup of rice - ₦ 120
Ponmo- ₦300
Tatashe (Red&Green) ₦100
Onions- ₦50
Maggi star- ₦50
Thyme&curry- ₦80

I had Groundnut oil and salt at home.

This is how I’ve been sitting on the floor in the hotel room. I am dying.

I swear on my life, since we’ve been married I have never hit this woman. I have never slept with another woman.

I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I love and trust this woman with my soul. I have sacrificed so much in this marriage just to make her happy.

Since day 1 that we met I Always try my best to see her smile but this woman took everything for granted.

When we newly met and I was trying to get her to be my girlfriend, she refused because she was dating another man. I did not give up on her, I kept on doing everything to remain close to this woman to the extent of going to clear her father’s farm just to be on her good side.

One day she came to tell me she was pregnant for her boyfriend and the guy rejected her . She confessed she had done an abortion before and did not want to repeat it.

I decided to marry her and cover her shame because of the love I had for her. Till today, I did not open my mouth to tell anyone about it. I paid her brideprice in full and did all marriage rites.

Some months into the marriage, she lost the pregnancy. I even borrowed money to evacuate the baby from her stomach. I suspected that she drank herbs to try to remove it but I didn’t say anything.

All these years, we have not spoken about it until few days ago she asked me to help her send some money to her father.

I became suspicious because the account number she gave me was strange. I asked her about it and she lied to me it was her cousins account and they want to use the money to buy her father drugs.

I innocently sent the money. I was waiting for her father to call and thank me as usual but a week passed and I didn’t get any message from him.

I asked my wife about it and she said he told her to thank me. That was when I knew something was wrong.

I went through the new phone I bought for her last month and saw this woman chatting with the same man that dumped her with pregnancy.

He was begging her for money and they even planned to meet in her Mum’s village.
She told him she was waiting for me to receive my salary and give her money so she can travel to the place.

I felt like dying.

I showed her the message, I didn’t even wait for her to explain before beating her. I feel very bad for doing that but I couldn’t control myself.

I left the house since yesterday afternoon. I lodged in a hotel in another town. I can’t eat or sleep. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know how to go about this. I am thinking of my children. I still love my wife. I can’t even open my mouth to tell my people. I don’t know what to do.

Happy birthday to me. I am a New Year’s baby.

Happy new year to you all. Say a prayer for me.

Beautiful women don’t have to go naked to prove they are beautiful .

Take a look at my wife. She is always modestly dressed. Even when we are alone together in the bedroom, she still covers herself decently. It makes me love and want her more.

Ladies cover your bodies. Make the men wonder and crave what is underneath your clothes. That secret drive men crazy. When you over expose yourself they start to see comma in your body and won’t take you serious.

Share your childhood photos and what you look like now.

Let us appreciate how far we have come.

Most of us are not happy with our lives. We see ourselves as failures but the truth is that we have come this far for a reason.

We should be grateful for life at least. Develop an attitude of gratitude and give thanks for everything that happens, knowing that every step forward is a step towards achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.

Let’s step into 2023 with happiness and positivity. 2023 will be better for us all.

I planned to eat it alone but my wife carried her spoon. Long throat woman!

The food is really delicious and you get satisfied easily. Just drink plenty water.

Try this recipe and comment. Stay blessed

This is my wife’s favorite meal. She eats it a lot when she is pregnant.

Sometimes she will even wake me up at midnight to prepare it for her. Women!

Garri. 1 cup - 50 naira
Palm oil. 50 naira (I didn’t use all)
Onion. 20naira
We had salt, maggi and fresh pepper at home.

Simple recipe:Add garri to a clean bowl

Add onions and fresh pepper. Add salt and seasoning to your taste

Add palm oil and mix thoroughly till its well combined

I provide everything I can for my wife as she is not working.

I know she loves me very much but sometimes I fear if I lose my job and stop providing, her love will die.

Fellow married men, do you have this fear too?