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Age should never be a yardstick for ''marriage'' love,understanding should be the only reason bro i would not hesistate to wife her if she meet my expectations as a wife

willibounce1:
God bless you brotherly. Information is very key. Op just follow this instructions. I swear your money must drop. No need to make too much noise or argument. The only thing you'll pay for is money to post the letter of invitation by OPD to your boss. The money is like 300 naira or so. Nairalanders with genuine issues should always make use of OPD. They are very effective and helpful. Lagos state really tried for this one. They once assisted me and it was swift.

I hope say them go dey as effective this Ambode tenure as they were during Fashola's. Cos I no just understand this Ambode man.

it also depend on ''who'' is the boss if he among the choosen ones sorry bro might take two weeks at most
okon la pe jiye lan yor (many are called few were choosen) not that those that were not choosen were bad or wicked no!!!!
Such is life.

ujuvals:
I dont know if this is the best platform to express myself but i just want to cry out as there is power in the social media. I am a young girl of 27 years. I live with my dad in lagos, lost my mum 10 years ago and have been sustaining the family for a while now as my dad's business collapsed due to some circumstances. I am a graduate and very hardworking, i have worked in few places in the past but i want to say i haven't been lucky.

I worked with a transport company in ikeja as at feburary and after working for 3months we were asked to stop with no pay on the note that the company was collapsing and they had no money to pay staffers. It was so painful because i live at iyanoba and have to go through a whole lot of stress and pay up to 700 a day for transport to be at work despite we worked weekends. I felt so used but prayed to God to take control and judge them.

I got another job in september at ikeja i didn't want to take it because i had my fears about salary issue after my past experience but looking at the situation at home where they depended on me for survival i had to let go of my instincts and take the job. It was very stressful, the distance, the constant work on the system and sometimes starving just to be able to save up for transport. Despite the distance i always got to the office by 7:30am to resume 8:00am so you can imagine when i leave my house.

When it got to pay time, i was told my boss travelled and there was no talk on salary till after a long while. i also want to add that on one of those occasions i was going to work i was robbed and my phones taken from me, it was so painful but then its part of life. My female boss eventually took pity on me and paid me for September, i told her i would like to stop but she encouraged me to continue with the impression that i was just tested on my patience. I continued work and now halfway into this month of November i am yet to be paid for October.

The worst part is my boss has refused to show up at work, he avoids calls and sends no message. I eventually got across to him with a strange number and when he picked he said he has a lot of issues his going through but i can stop coming to work; just like that. I asked him for my pay and he said no money at the moment i should stop.

I really feel bitter as i have no one to fight for me and worse is i have debts i incurred in the process of going to work. How do i offset them and start again when am practically cashless. My monthly pay is 40,000 and it can't be too difficult for a man his caliber to pay but i feel he just wants to cheat me knowing there is nothing i can do.

Please nairalanders what do i do? i feel so bad, i don't even know what next to do as am so confused.

Why are the employers taking advantage of the jobless graduates and using them? How bad can it be for someone not working and then after working you get tossed in the bin? I want God to intervene but i need help. Please pardon any grammatical blunders and errors, as i am not in the right frame of mind.

Thanks.

op if you stay in lagos hope you know ojuelegba/surulere area
if you get to stadium move close to the bridge as if you are going to yaba you see office of the public defenders ask of mrs A.A.O for security reason don't want to name names she is very popular, share your story with her, or her secretary miss M,O within two weeks you would get your money,
for the one man bussiness slave masters
KARMA!!!
just like temple run, no matter your highscore, it will still catch up with you.

KiidaACE:
okay, , if that's what he did,then I betchya you shoulda noticed by now..
That's if your very observant.
A leopard can't hide its spots,,y'know,.

so e
why did buhari hide his spots during campa............. Lol
bae the guy is far gone you can't even see him even if u see segun anrize's eyes

Was expecting a flyer of your company n address bro e no one gonna call u
name of the company,address most of the lands @ golf course r owned by estate developer so r u one?

Flashh:
[color=#225484]Mr ṣtupid I won't blame you for your inability to comprehend my post.

People like you are the type that makes girls take over your life and before you realize it its too late. [/color]

mr wise what wrong been tutor by a ''girl'' maybe you came from a family where women r seen and not heard,
get a life and pray your sisters get a guy who treat them like queen and not bunching bags
in the real world you are not even good enough to loose my shoe blessed be

Bro as it stands now your agreeent was just between you and him,i was expecting you would have told him to tell the back that you are the middle man between the seller and you,that way you would be paid from the back or the commision would be between you and the bank,that was your mistake would advice that you accept the 700k no need sueing or fighting but use this as a lesson next time if a third party comes for evaluation you should be the middle man between the coy and the saler
my 2kobo

Cybertext:
Capital punishment should be applied for cultist and rapist... I wonder wat our lawmakers are doing.

and what punishment should be giving to our legis-looters??
Rapist and lawmakers should be giving the capital punishment not cultist, they are just an infinitesimal out of the mirage of our problems
my 2kobo

madjnr:
Leaders of Gbaramatu kingdom in Warri South-West Local Government Area of Delta State have dissociated the kingdom from being part of Biafra, even as they condemned the immediate past government of Goodluck Jonathan for bringing them pains and hardship.
Speaking on behalf of the leaders at a meeting in Warri, Elder Dickson Agagha insisted that Gbaramatu kingdom will never be part of Biafra, insisting that any son or daughter of the kingdom making such a move to include Gbaramatu in Biafra will fail.
They further appealed to all youths in the kingdom to remain law-abiding, expressing hopes that the President Muhammadu Buhari-led administration will address the neglect and marginalisation of Gbaramatu kingdom by the immediate past administration of Goodluck Jonathan.
“The five years of Jonathan as President actually brought pains and hardship to Gbaramatu kingdom, while only his associates from the kingdom were empowered to the detriment of the kingdom.”
They said further, “We are reiterating our call on President Buhari to prevail on the appropriate authorities to embark on the rebuilding of Okerenkoko community and other communities destroyed maliciously by JTF some years ago.”
(Source: DAILY POST )

what is agangah saying did his cousins got empowered by GEJ he should tell that to the marines not forgeting mr guy tom p the olotu of gamatoru

Demmocrats:
OP i totally disagree with you.


may be you are talking about another Nigeria not my dear country

keep decieving yaself wake up bro nigerians r pretenders when it comes to sex and sexuality and you are one
catch you

Op if you really want to graduate with first class you have to ''belong'' but not neccesary because even if without belonging you are able to get it after getting it you will still ''belong''
like in imo state all chief judges are members don't ask me where
blessed be
#nakedtruth

DTOBS:
With my relationship so far with law students/graduates, coming out with first class is not really a yardstick for a successful completion of law skul! even with a 2.1 or a strong 2.2 you can still beat others that has first class at the law skul if you re serious with it.
Don't give yourself unnessary headache, keep your head high, pray,read and leave the rest to God and believe me,God will surely surprise you!

law and God are at different opposie of the divide, people should pls stop advising the op to pray or call God or jesus that will put him into even much more problem
ask peeps who graduate from law school if jesus or God has anything to do with it
FYI 80% of chief judges NJIC are member of ROF,LODGE,ECK,MIST, only ~3% are real christians

Speechless3:
Stare hard at the mirror and say "i must bounce back". Repeat thrice and the last with a deep long sigh. Come back and testify

why not enrol in the mytsical school for the seerer if you are interested pm me you gat what it takes mirror woman

halix239:
I'm also new into the uni, I ll ve to try my very best to get a good grade in my first yr so it won't affect my future grades. there might be distractions but insha allah, I shall scale through by God's grace.

i don't think Allah gives grace just work hard pray less or better still work and pray.

Flashh:
[color=#225484]Keep reading, and ask God to give you the ability to understand what you're reading.

Seems you are willing to get "first class" in law, I would advise you to focus more on your education and give girls less attention.

I wish you the best! [/color]

why ''girls'' on every advice na girls dey make your brain malfunction
apparently it on records kids on nairaland.
Every hoe is a girl but not all girls r hoe

Demmocrats:
hmmm


Nigerians and there 5.0 syndrome that's why we can never produce minds like Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg etc



Grades is good but try to learn than to cram and come out with 5.0



Innoson is not a firstclass student but he employs first class.



Ifesinachi owns fleets of buses and still employ graduates.



Dangote is not a first class student still he imploys pHd holders.



Gani if am correct made third class and am sure thousands of first class lawyers in Nigeria today can' match his accomplishments.



Grades doesn't determine success, try learn and understand not cram by hardwork, good grades will fall in later.



I know so many first class that are jobless.


SEUN(GENIUS) is a dropout but am 100 percent sure he can feed his whole village including those with first class.


Bro don't kill yourself over a number, its just a number.

epic










clap for yourself mr fool what work for mr A will not always work for mr B
instead of telling him to follow his dream you are talking trash
do you have an idea about how seun,innoson,dangote e.t.c ''do'' behide close doors?

francizy:
OP, never you take the words of the ode buruku above me serious ^^^ This is because prayers and no effort will definitely lead to undiluted failure.

On the topic at hand, OP, I used to be the kind of student who reads only a few days to exams only to obtain pass grades and move to the next class. Did all that in secondary school and during my WAEC/NECO and scaled thru. This is because i had no good secondary school background and no one was there to advise me. I wasnt even given the opportunity to study, hence i made up my mind that once i gained admission into Uni, i'll study hard and obtain reasonable grades. Then as I gained admission and heard loads of stuffs about ABU and how even brilliant mind find it difficult to succeed there, talk less one who knows nothing. All that made me reaffirm my commitment to study hard in Uni.

In my 100L first semester, I read like no one ever did (even to the point I started having eye problems). All my studying was in a bid to avoid having COs (never had any till I graduated tho) and also, to graduate with a 2.something GP. Imagine the standard I set for myself just because of what I heard about ABU. Well, I had a 2.67 in that first semester (same semester was the one I studied the most in my entire life). By second semester, I was gradually grabbing things that seemed difficult in the past, I had 3.49 and my GPs afterwards were, 3.96, 3.59 (most difficult Engineering semester in ABU and after I had this one, that was when I saw the possibilities of making a 2.1), 4.53 (this one pushed me into 2.1 CGPA), 4.27, 4.44, 4.63, 4.75...

My rise to a grade point I never had in mind was as a result of my effort. Sincerely speaking, op, I hardly attended Sunday services. My lifestyle back then was the easiest to map out as some people's were triangular (church, room and classroom), some were rectangular (church, room, classroom and social center) while mine was linear (room-classroom).

What am I saying in essence, OP,

know yourself-know when you're most comfortable studying and the best environment. This is because, some people understand better when they study with music, some understand better when they study in groups, some understand better when they study in a quiet place, etc. If you're studying at a particular time and sleep calls, don't force it, sleep and immediately you wake up, pick up your books and continue from where you stopped. I'm telling you all these because the semester I studied most in the Uni (100L first semester) was the one i had the lowest GP. In other semesters, i studied and when i was assimilating less, i pack my books and looked for the nearest babe or friend to gist with. I almost often went back to my books after gisting.

Make the most out of your past questions..

Don't form big boy or big girl (humility pays), take what you don't understand to the gurus around you (I did this one a lot in my 100 and 200L.

Lastly, pray hard and study harder..

a bottle of anointed oriigin for you,
whosoever take this advice and did not get any result should know the blood of jesus has dried in his head he needs to use the blood of God,...............six book of moses

damton:
is it a government owned school or private university? .

Anyway, don't ever give up on your aim. Just take each course, each semester, each session one at a time. And don't allow the bigger goal of first class grades affect your psyche too much to the extent you become disinterested in your course should you fall short.

Don't mean to discourage you but, getting first class is a very tall order in a course like law in Nigeria.

Besides, it's not about first class grade but about first class abilities.

my opinion though,

anything is possible if you set your mind @ it
op focus on what u want and work for it if you get to your goal good if you don't best,@ least it will save you from regrets latter in life
way way back in sch i started with 2.50 but still made distinction 4.00 so anything is possible

adeaks:
If you can't stand for something then you will fall for anything.

That's his religious belief and he is ready to stand by it. I might not agree with him but I certainly respect him for being able to stand up for what he believes in no matter the cost. God will give him another job that won't compromise his beliefs.

one bottle of anointed origiin for you,had a friend back then in sch he does not read anything academics on sunday no matter what he still graduate as the best in his faculty,IF YOU DON'T STAND FOR SOMETHING YOU WILL FALL FOR ANYTHING.

what has certificate got to do with marriage? Don't think she divorced the guy for that reasons those are just empty lies to sway the court in her favor the real issues are threat to her life and assult women can lie to get what they want and to curry sympathy this is a lesson for ladies that are too material in thinking.

is this what government has been reduce to?? In-fighting,propaganda,talk-talk,lies judicary musling e.t.c we envisage his gov, would hit the ground running but nay after months nothing to show not even a single bore-hole. If this is the change then WE HAVE BEEN SCAMMED big time

#Thingsilongthroatfor
that all nigerians would become member of the REFORMED OGBONI CONFRATERNITY(ROF)
wish the victims of asaba massacre in oct 6 1967 be publicly apologied to by buhari lead FG

Adesiji77:
Mutual funds may be the way to go now...

Cc: Seun, lalasticlala

mutual funds are worst bro hidden charges,if you are going for it make sure you understand everything about it else you could just be investing for the ''house''

Op your is even small 5k have helped,borrowed,payed ppl sch fees and other things when they came crying for help but paying the money back sound strange to them
imagine someone telling me na wa for you ooo so because u borrow me 200k i no go rest abi and such ......
Some would even quarell with me so that they would't pay back.
Just try and do your best help those you caan help when u r moved to do so sikena

kettykin:
That guy is a fool, does he know that Nigerian economy is not American economy and that Nigeria needs all the foreign investment it can get

not at the expense of the nigerian law.

Op is a confused individual.

AdexStudio:
Thanks. @ Obiak4 what do you mean by lump sum deposit?

huge amount of money from 5m upward when actually your normal deposite are in thousands
then to travel you deposite 5m,2m and 10m so as to meet the financial criteria.
Blessed be

uzolexis:
non-typical Nigerian, you don't understand what you are saying. A 39 yr old woman's is still very fine. A lot of women have kids at that age and they are fine mongolian symptoms is not caused by reduced egg quality. Please do your research and stop talking rubb.ish.

typical nigerian i expect a counter reason for puffy face dear not telling me to do research or saying am talking rubbish @ 39 a woman is already started having handshake with menopause 42 they allready having hug and 45 (pun intended)romance
but it also depend on the age she started her monthly flow as a young lady,
that why @ ROF we encourage our female member to live good ''life''
''whosoever mention and i don't respond pls know silence is the best answer for a ...''

uzolexis:
what kind of rubb.ish talk is thisDo you have any proof to back up this statement or u just want to say something
Even pple who marry early may not give birth early or they may space their kids for long and still be giving birth at 39 and doesn't make the child any less fragile than the others who were born earlier.

you should try and understand that eggs produce by females reduced in quality with age
check the children with mongolian symptons(puffy face) and the age of the mothers
typical nigerians''they hate what they don't understand''

Grab any newspaper in ib they have a website nd mail just mail your questions

sonofananimal:
true shall. One may just have to be careful of which friend he have and how he roll

hell yes

sonofananimal:
it do happen on many occasion.

i said rarely except those street game cults