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Hi Nairalanders, pls can anybody offer me a job which will last till sometime next year when i will go for NYSC? i have b.sc in computer engineering with some experiences both in the field and outside the field. i dont mind doing any GOOD job provided it keeps me busy. thanks to u all.

sister no trust? why now?
anyway
1. install tracking devices on his car

2.install monitors in your home incase he comes when you are not around

3.install more in his office

4.micro chips in his clothes

make sure they are audio devices so you wil hear his conversations
make sure you also put video devices incase they do it without talking.

keep asking his freinds from time to time about his activities and if you still don't find anything confront him on what method he is using,he will be very happy he married a 'cheaters'detective and stop cheating

i love this girly.

u know i was really thrilled when i read the topic. used to think am the only one that wants to do that. well i want to have 4kids of my own and two adopted though nigerian kids. but the truth is that it all still depend on how the man sees it. i've actually questioned some of my male friends on that and i found out it's only one of them that share the dream with me so u see it wont be easy with the spouse to agree to it. u know wat? i always pray that whoever it becomes will share the same dream with me,"" to give those orphans the priviledge of knowing what it feels like to have a real home""

my friend u talk as if it's only women that have the thing. sincerely speaking i've come across more guys that stink that i ve of ladies. majority of guys hardly take care of themselves, they hardly bathe once a day talk more of using anti perspirants. all human smells esp after sweating though some have very offensive body odour, sweat or no sweat owing to lack of proper hygiene.
the truth is that it's not a big deal for u to come here and start writing such. seems to me u dont have better things to do with u time.

i may not feel ur pains but i do understand well the love of a mother to her child. it is perfectly alright for u to grief. i cant stop imagining what it actually feels like to carry a life for nine months, delivers it only to lose it within a twinkling of an eye, yet it happens. u cannot get over this pain until u accept the fact that ur precious baby is more. healing comes when u accept the inevitable. so my darling brace urself up and face reality. it will be hard but it'is worth doing . God knows the best i believe and by His precious grace u will be mother of children.
pls accept my deepest sympathy for ur loss. IT IS WELL.

you have to understand that we all have weaknesses. that, probably is hers so u just have to be patient with her also bearing in mind that she is not educated. she will always have myopic thinking in certain issues. all u have to do is to know how best to handle her when ever she starts ranting. divorce is not the best issue my dear, remember it is for better for worse. besides there are several ways/strategies to make one change.
try being very sweet and loving to her whenever she starts, i believe that u do raise ur voice too when she raises hers. two barking dogs can never hear each other. so find a means to calm her down and explain well to her.

i hope this will be a warning to those out there that dabble into affairs with uneducated spouses cos they will never see things the western way.

congrats my dear. i know somebody that works in inter and he really confirmed to me that the bank pays well and is among the well paid banks in nigeria now. so dear u should go for inter, besides i have a 2-2 in computer engineering, to serve next yr february, i will really appreciate it if u can give me one of ur links. u can reach me via this engrbillyj@yahoo.com. thanks. congratulations once again.

well to be honest here, i as a person don't like it at all. if boyfriend should call me that i will be like "do look like ur mum?" or ""dont u know where u mum is?"". it feels like he wants u to be a mother-hen to him. some like it though so they are entitled to their own feelings and opinion

hey, you need not exercise any fear as regards being a female engineer cos there are alot of them out there. i for one, am a computer engineer and guess what dearie, it's really fun. why not check out this site, www.apwen.com, it's an orgnization for women engineers in nigeria
. i also want u to know that my school graduated a lot of female engineers in my set and are still doing so, so imagine when u bring all higer instiutions in nigeria together, go for it girly and have fun