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hairyman:
This is the best suggestion so far with regards to available statistics.
Children raised by single fathers turn out as good as children raised in 2 parent homes.
However children raised by single mothers are significantly worse off. The statistics on them is somewhat alarming.

Fatherly figure is very important in children’s life, a girl will be protected, she’ll be submissive, learn how to respect men and understand masculinity.
let me not talk about the mother side sha cos being a hoe, very insultive is most likely

I don bet am straight draw already at 3.85od

Let’s wait it out

Barims:
Please I just got this jean today for the price of 6k, only for my brother to condemned it for me by saying it's a old fashion jeans and it's even belongs to the females, I don't know what to do, should I return it or I should use it

Sorry I don't know the right section to post this topic

looks sweet and smooth lol
If it’s pencil mouth and tights your laps just return it

Snap out of your dream and face reality
She has the hoe ideology so she’s most likely to be a hoe and fvked for penny

She’s not for you, it’s a public property

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian Men are Us*less.... All of them

You don’t mean it.... oya apologize

Or

You won’t get any dck for the rest of the year

Magnoliaa:
If it is their choice to say "yes" then it means a relationship cannot happen if a woman doesn't CHOOSE to be with a man, no matter what he does or doesn't.

Two people decide to be in a relationship with each other.

It takes TWO.

So stop setting up women as things waiting to be picked.

A woman can decide to be with a SF the same way a man can decide to be with a SM.

You forgot they’re incompetent, fickle minded and confused
It’s men that decides for them

Magnoliaa:
Okurrrr.

But it is a man's decision whether or not he'll be with a single mother or not?

I could have sworn that your guys preach that women are the "controllers" of a relationship and they are the ones who say, "yes" lmao.

You know, relationships or sex never happens until a woman decides to 'give in' to a pursuing man.

Yes it’s their choice to say yes but they have fickle mind, women are incompetent and confused, it takes little niceness to get them so emotional and so in love, they don’t know what they want but they surely can identify they love the present moment, it can’t go the other way round.

Chee59:
Well for me, I can't, I won't
Let him marry the mother of his children.
I didn't escape teenage pregnancy to become a mother to some woman's children, whilst she's still alive.
And as regards Okafor's Law, I hope y'all know there's a chance he'd still smash her sometime in the future.
Best to be completely avoided.
I'm a single childless woman. I want a man like me, so we can be experience family life and raising kids on a brand new page.

It’s not your decision to make, it’s about stability, worth, power and responsibility
It’s the single father’s decision to decide if you’ll be his own or not

One time I took one pop from a friend, he even said na women smoke say e no Dey strong

As I took the pop, I felt a very strong headache and I fall on the bed like someone who was shot, next thing I saw was morning

If you’re broke the last thing that should worry you is puccy

Pharaohny:
You have a male cow and a female cow which one would you kill first
Or better still A hen and a Cock which one would you kill first ?

Or better still you have 2 male and female cows and 2 hens and 2 roosters
Wouldn’t you balance it?

beejaay:
Yes because mthe husband are most of times older than the wife, sometimes by as much as 10yrs, now add the men wahala with chasing women and doing hard work and still providing for the family..

Older lol most of them not that old

uchennaq:
Trashy talk..

State your reasons

neonly:
Correction here are my own suggestions concerning single mums
They know how to treat a man (previous expirence)
They are very submissive
They don't toll with d new husband so that they won't be tag bad wife from previous relationship
Der kupus they get expirence
Not new to taking care of d house and children and how to manage d house
Most are slow to anger
Just depends on d individual
Etc
Single mother are not fat bad but is just d burden dat matters

You think people change? Lol when lot of men rejects them with their baby they’ll be forced to behave looking for scapegoat

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

They’re always sweet at first, it’s called fair play coz she knows you’re one zero down already, she’s using pretense key trying to unlock you

No man would want to ever lose a good woman, not her baby dad

You’re mocking Nigerians, not even half percent drop

If she grew with a single father - considerable, infact it’s ok
If she grew with a single mother - run for your life

kenedyx:
Thanks man.
He still needs to beat down his prices and make it more competitive.. or next time I definitely won't patronize him.

Thunder strike your ass

Resigning is more of a better option for you here than going against him


Mind you he won’t let you resign
Plead with him and make him see the obvious

Kobojunkie:
No it doesn't. The men who embark on these irrational unions — hypogamy— may do so believing it an achievement for themselves.

We’ve been through the circle
Marriage is responsibility, an achievement can’t be something that’ll likely send you to your grave or even great pain, suffering and depression

Kobojunkie:
Did she put a gun to your head before you decided to do this to yourself? You chose to enroll in a hypogamous union of your own, so why attempt to blame her for your decision?

Brings us back to it’s not an achievement for men

Kobojunkie:
1. How does this statement of yours reveal that marriage is an achievement for women as you claim?

Bcoz you’re there grinding to secure her comfortability at the expense of your life

Vinnie2000:
Dis ur Death Analogy No follow @All.

Anybody can Die @ Anytime, whether Man or Woman.

There’s always reason for death, life expectancy in Africa is different from Europe, single vs married you know what I mean

To women yes
To men no

In my village na widows full everywhere infact I’m finding it difficult to see a marriage where the woman died first, it’s either they both alive or the man died

If it’s same on your side hit like


edited
For the fact this is the most liked comment in the thread shows a lot, everyone is seeing the obvious

ColdHunter:
I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.

Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.

Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?

Experienced people should please contribute.

A foolish woman, she’ll surely get what she deserves
First she married coz of money, now she has gotten enough of the man’s wealth to settle herself and finally realize she’s totally better off without him coz she never married him out of love, I’m also sure lots of hot men are chasing her up and down which prompt to her decision she can have a much more better life than presently ( wow what an upgrade)
She knows what she’s doing and understands it’s too painful for any man to let it slide which is also the reason for her fear.


Fear women, I hope the man gives her wotowoto, nonsense!!

wonderr:
I have being living fine with my wife and two kids. She loves me an I love her too. Sincerely speaking she has being a very good wife. But now we have a problem, we got a tenant into our house last year, a single guy ever since this guy came into our house he has being showing so much love towards my kids buying them gifts from time to time almost everyday and this makes my wife like this guy and they have seem to be good friends, at first I feel cool with it thinking the guy is just nice and there is no strings attached, but lately I feel the intimacy is getting too much that even when am at home my wife would leave me inside and start talking to the guy outside at night, sometimes I would be inside and my wife would be cooking inside the kitchen this guy will leave whatever he is doing and go and keep my wife company in the kitchen, I started feeling disrespected I talked to her about it and she promised to ameliorate the third day same thing happened The guy came back from work and my wife was cooking at the kitchen before the guy even enter his room he went straight to the kitchen and start to keep her company again both of them alone at night all other tenants are in their rooms. I became very exasperated I had to walk up to the kitchen and tell her right in the guys presence that she is not okay and that is her last warning my intention of doing this is to let the guy know that am not cool with the intimacy between them that he should caution himself. now I feel am not being respected because after I warned her I believe she should have excused the guy and not give him so much attention again, now I think he is being kind to my kids just to gain my wife's attention, even if they both have a pure heart and nothing in mind if the intimacy continues It might later lead to relationship and sex, so I called her parents yesterday to inform them of what is happening they promise to talk to her, meanwhile she has invited the guy to our family church weeks ago. my only aunty that I can say she is the only family I gat because am the only child of my parents and am an orphan now, so I do not have many relatives this my aunt's husband is the pastor of the church. Now my wife has narrated the story to my aunt and she is now telling me I must not quarell with my wife or the guy because the guy is now a member of the church they do not want to loose a member I do not know what to do because my aunt seems to be at her side saying she can't do such thing but I know what I am seeing and experiencing at home if they can be doing such in my presence what would they do in my absence, and I do a shifting job I only sleep at hope for two weeks in a month am scared and confused, Don't want to loose her and I can't even give the guy a quit notice now because my only aunt wold be furious I don't want her to be mad at me she's the only family I gat am confused please advise me

Fake story
Carry it and shove on your ass

Religious people cry and fight such type of development, they will prefer to stick with their prayers and continue to preach their end time nonsense


Altering religionists end time possibility, how are they going to achieve their end time goal and misery

YinkaOlusesi16:
someone like me can never knack her with her baby inside the room, but i can marry such lady. 90% of nigeria girls doing runs are tired of the life~style, they will be serious when they get married.

Goat of simps

Blame game should be significant, failures always find something to put as reason for their failure

2elliot:
When I newly dated this girl in school and then found out that she was using a spoilt phone which she was using rubber to hold it together. Even as a student with limited fund, I used my month allowance to buy this girl a new BlackBerry phone. Before I handed her the phone, I topped airtime and data on it. Then that evening, that girl uploaded the picture of her other guy on her WhatsApp profile. In less than three weeks, the other guy called me to warn me to leave his girlfriend. And before that, in less than a week, this girl asked me what I have done for her during a minor quarrel. Fear women.

Baba take heart this woman are very wicked I swear
I smell bulshit from one very fine girl like that and I was like eh!! Shey no be you cry the other day over this same thing you’re doing

Sadio mane their powerhouse is gone, klop should get ready for sack