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Automolite:
Bro..we seem to be saying the same thing but from different perspective.
How does make friends "fake or true" when u can't even be in the midst of pple?.
Fake alot of things on the streets?..that's for pple with low self esteem.
In the journey of "pursing goals"..how will u forge partnership when u cannot engage the next man in idle chat?. or hold my interest long enough to strike a bond?
If I may ask, ur present crop of valuable friends. Did u meet them by spending time at home or u built ur friendship through socialization and companionship.
U will never meet or make friends if u cannot socialize whether online or offline..
Even if you and I have a shared mindset and goal...we will at best forever be acquaintances if we cannot strike a bond and enjoy each other's company.
In summary, he needs to learn to socialize..

Once again you're mistaking introvertism for dumbness, you're a loner doesn't mean you can't talk to people when need arises. Even your national newscaster or that receptionist you know might be introverted.

My kinda friendship are more like partnership friendship. It's not something I'm forcing. Same league friendship.

Automolite:
The aim has always been to be successful. But u don't have to be a loner to achieve that. U mentioned things like staying focused, addiction, women and overspending; discipline, not loneliness is needed. Op's problem is socializing and building relationship. Not a single friend..offline or online, nobody he can call and crack dry joke with..and u want him to continue?..if he doesn't start learning how to do that now, when will he?..is it till he has millions, he will now be looking for friends?..abi na inside house e wan dey learn the nitty gritty of life?

Baba you're talking it as if it's a disability
That he's a loner doesn't mean he can not do necessary talking, introverted is different from dumbness.
What he needs is the right friends not just friends, there are too much toxicity in the street, he gets on track with this people it can only lead to depression, regrets and more depression, why? Because you'll have to fake a lot of things, if he continues faking it he'll see himself balancing to dishonest lifestyle, that alone will change you, change your personality and dreams.
Why not allow life to balance itself and give your purpose while you're working hard, pursuing your goals you're more likely to meet people who shared same mindset, the process of life struggles will get you to meet genuine friendships as well as great partnership and valuable friends.

PROVERBZ:
All my life I never fantomed how someone would be brave enough to do such. As some one that lives off campus I hear it happens in the hostel anytime I visit but I never believed.

Recently the guy I started staying with brought his girlfriend she was nice and looked responsible. As the costom that I was used to, I expected him to inform me if he wanted to start anything intimate.
I just stepped into the kitchen to grab snacks and I walked into the room. What I saw I could not comprehend at first. Took me like 20seconds to understand what was going on. I felt second hand embarrassment but they did not seem to worry about it like I did.

And after that the girl would still come sometimes and instead of the guy to tell me early to leave or find somewhere to stay for the night. To my surprise like at 9 the girl would emerge from no where and I would have nO where to go cuz it's late.

Then they would start fucking and I have to pretend to be sleeping while they are doing it.

Nothing wrong with that
Shey you no fit have sex party ni

But a guy thinking about women in one room apartment
Nawaoo shey ehm wan recycle poverty

Automolite:
Nansense!..
U think everything in this life is money?..na ur type dem go murder inside house for 1 week nobody go know. U think building relationship is for urself alone?.
No man is an island...

The aim is to be successful and if you're lucky enough to find yourself in right lane then no need forcing it to get on the wrong one.

Getting a valuable friend you must be valuable yourself, all this useless street friendship or women are almost useless.

caspee:
Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

Baba believe me no mind anybody, in fact it's necessary to be a loner in order focus in life and avoid unnecessary spending, addiction.
With this your situation put the energy in chasing your dreams and ambitions instead looking for mere friendship or someone to talk to.


When you start balling you go see how meaningless this thing you dey worry about be. Na you go dey reject and command people. Overconfidence go dey worry you cos your akant dey blow your head but never lose yourself sha.

PUSSYHOE:
Simi go beat her for toto

Tiwa own wasn't impressive

I was searching for religious enlightenment on google, if it's true God exist.


The rest is a history

You both cheaters
She might even be worst

I hope she doesn't kill you

More reason men shouldn't fall in love.

Takeit2017:
ALL THIS REDPILLTHREAD ABOUT GIRLS NIGERIA WOMEN
SHIT

Hustle so that u'll have enough money
WOMEN GO COME
Note: is forbidden to care/or give attention to any girl u dnt wanna take serious

MAKE MONEY
WOMEN GO COME


REDPILL NA FOR BROKE AND GUYS THAT WANNA DATE A NIGERIAN WOMEN THAT ALREADY HAS 4 BOYFRIENDS

SHIT

light my kpoli in peace i come

Redpill has nothing to do with having money, it's what guides you to reach your expectations in life.
Redpill is a hell lot of wisdom you can only attempt to have, who doesn't want a fulfilling life.

Swallow realities now before it consumes you.

We can now see God with our own two eyes
I like people who take religion for what it is "joke"

Where are the redpillers
E don happen

Sick people are in hospital bed not in Chinese restaurant.

Donnie835:
Hi Guys
I really appreciate everyone here for your immense work so far.
Ubunja, caveadullam, Martinez, heart of city and many others.

I'm a young man in my late twenties, a university graduate but still trying to gain ground financially, I earn 40k monthly.
I met this young lady 23 years around February this year and we became friends. In the course of our friendship, she was down to earth, the attraction was there for each other, submissive and she depicted good characters too. So, we became friends for two months, then I asked her out in May, she said YES after a week.
The redflags and issues started 3 weeks into the relationship, she started saying she wants "a man that can take care of all her needs" I never took those words to heart then. Reality sets in when started demanding and desiring many outings. I tried my best with the little I earn to take her out and she had fun, on different occasions.
On my birthday in September, I received the first gift from her which is a cap, I smiled and I appreciate her for that. On her birthday too, in the same month, I did my very best to put a smile on her face and she was glad about it.

When I started noticing that this babe is all after what a man can offer her, materialistic, I started withholding my resources, then last month, She labeled me that "I am not giver" despite what I have done for her in the past few months

Cave, Martinez, bloodysperm and others,your comment please

Hope coochie felt your presence sha

Do Toto comparison

MasonKendall:
After talking to her, what next?

He bleeps her of course

ObaKlaz:
One is a team player, the very nucleus of his team. He's irreplaceable!

The other is spoonfed the sweat of everyone else in the team just so he can look good and stay happy. Unlike the first guy, this other guy gets carried by his team, then he takes the glory.
He got booted out & his ex team is doing awesome. His ex team mates that have worked so hard over the years to make him look good are balling now, as they don't have an overrated parasite on them anymore.

I bet this OP doesn't get that his post is even trolling his Portuguese gay lover.

No penalty, no party.
No tap-in, no orgasm.
No Luxembourg, no glory.

Siiii !!

Factos!
You wanna know the Penaldo Mod who is aiding and abetting the op? That's 'Mynd404'!

Brutality

I never regretted anything talk less of something costly.
Sadly I'm a loner, never believed in anybody except myself, in fact my life as a kid was disaster but that made me a better person.
I always think over things

I'm loving this thread lately

Very impressive, any man loving women is very stupid, love the ass and boobs they're willing to give but not the heart.
This girls a very wicked right even when professing love their character and attitude will always proof otherwise

Baba How many people you don hack

No game to play today but lass las we go get green�

ahnie:
I was very active whilst single,crazily spontaneous loves head.but unfortunately whom I m married too isn't a fan.so it finally killed my spoil for sex and my libido packed up and went on a vacay.

But a good head from him might resuscitate those old gone libidos.but we don't share same sexual orientation.

So I packed my kpekus off for good and only procreation purposes.but I m done with child birth.

My God!
Hope you allowed him cheat in peace

Chaii

Depressing though but I think you're not respecting yourself.

As e day hot
What's your take

babyfaceafrica:
It's only fun, when you win, when you loss it isn't fun

I know the feeling
Esp when man city fail to get a draw against Leipzig
Ordinary draw

Uzomarrr123:
Thanks , but I still stand my ground

I’m done gambling
All these small small winnings with 2 odd is unnecessary risk

I’m better off this way without Bet9ja

Doesn’t make sense to me carrying 20k to win 30k, it unnecessary risk

All the same , Thanks !

Well then stop preaching so negatively about it
It's a fun game

obinna58:

Uzomarrr123

This is today

Still green
2.79od

obinna58:
Today's team with high competency level

Uzomarrr123

Last two days
2.70od


Another green

obinna58:
At least they won't bottle down your ticket
If they have to spoil it at least they'll be forced to give it their best
Today's team with high competency

Uzomarrr123

Baba if you bet as you should you wouldn't complain so much cos you won't be losing so much

I dropped this game three days ago

It came out green.
2.40od