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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Sweeetheart(m): 11:07pm On Mar 17, 2022
the guy is a sincere friend, you should keep someone like him as bestie for life, left to me I go don know say you dey crush on me hence your vagina must have been getting hot by now



I don't keep female friends, I fúck female friends, who have time for nonsense bestie ti o mu owo wole


just pray you no jam bad guy as bestie, five guys go don fúck for free before your senses come back to tell you that when you love a man that don't have affectionate for you, you will only be either his sex slave or he turned you to his emotional exploitation

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by house10s2: 11:10pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......
m single, les start dating
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by gazilion: 11:20pm On Mar 17, 2022
Sheleads:


I want more, i love the guy.

The guy doesn't love you and you have sold yourself cheaply to a man who could be seeing many other women!!

He will finally move on to someone else. You need repent and cut off all ties with him so you can regain your sanity.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by CountVersailles(f): 11:29pm On Mar 17, 2022
Having feelings is a choice. You can control, stop, engage, or do whatever you like with it. You can stop doing that if you want. I don't know why you guys put yourselves in these kinds of situation
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by tctrills: 11:31pm On Mar 17, 2022
Munzy14:

Woman fear rejection more than men...Just few will muster the courage to shoot there shots. cheesy

It is funny and Interesting when they do it...A man will be blushing like a baby.
That may be true but life is about facing your fears. We can't always be in our comfort zone.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jawalis(m): 11:46pm On Mar 17, 2022
Candidlady:


On the contrary ihave been inlove, iam just a product of the pit of love ifell into... Hence my signature


Your signature makes no sense. Your comments are always dumb or out of point. Pls for the sake of next time. Sometimes, learn to read comments and move on without commenting on every posts.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 11:49pm On Mar 17, 2022
jawalis:

Your signature makes no sense. Your comments are always dumb or out of point. Pls for the sake of next time. Sometimes, learn to read comments and move on without commenting on every posts.

OK

Do have have lovely night
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by macho44(m): 12:02am On Mar 18, 2022
Candidlady:


On the contrary ihave been inlove, iam just a product of the pit of love ifell into... Hence my signature


Ya Need To Climb Outta That Pit, No Time To Check Time.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 12:04am On Mar 18, 2022
macho44:

Ya Need To Climb Outta That Pit, No Time To Check Time.

Thank you. Iam out already

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by iLegendd(m): 12:07am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:
...

If he has opened up to you before and you said no, don't worry about being the one to open up now. He knows you see him as plan B and smart guys hate being option B.

Even if you rejected him through your body language at first, don't worry trying to open up. Just be friends or friends with benefit.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by macho44(m): 12:07am On Mar 18, 2022
Candidlady:


Thank you. Iam out already
That's The Spirit. It's Foolhardy Crying Over Spilt MILK, & If You Keep Looking Back @ The Past, Then You Might Never Find Your Way To The Future.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 12:09am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:


I want more, i love the guy.
Sometimes love is not enough
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 12:10am On Mar 18, 2022
macho44:

That's The Spirit. It's Foolhardy Crying Over Spilt MILK, & If You Keep Looking Back @ The Past, Then You Might Never Find Your Way To The Future.

True!! thank you

Do have a lovely night rest

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:14am On Mar 18, 2022
To be honest with you,it depends on your
values in life.

You are who u are,we all have different
values and different ways to absorb things.

If he is immature mentally,he may brag about
it and keep u for sex.

Two weeks ago,I met a girl in our estate that
told me am cute that she likes me,she was with her friends...they kinda dared her.(She later told me)

I didn't swell up because I saw it as a normal thing,as a matter of fact she was in my place
yesterday....we just had rough romance but
no sex....she wants to take it slowly and I
allowed it to be her way. I respect her wish and I don't try to force anything on her.

So my dear observe and know the kind of guy
he is,if u did based on yiur observatiob,either
u quit the friendship or you take it to another level.

There is no big deal for a lady to toast a guy,to me its nothing believe me,is not.






quote author=Sheleads post=110466509]I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......[/quote]
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:19am On Mar 18, 2022
Its not really bad for a lady to express her
feelings....you ladies are humans dear so
don't let whatever to tie that down.

Well as for me,I keep saying is an immature
guy that will try to exploit a lady that fell for
him.Maybe it looks easy to me because I
come across and get girls easily so my view
maybe different from others.

Yes there are guys that gossip far more than women those are the type ladies should avoid like a virus.





[color=#000099][/color]quote author=CountVersailles post=111131087]Having feelings is a choice. You can control, stop, engage, or do whatever you like with it. You can stop doing that if you want. I don't know why you guys put yourselves in these kinds of situation[/quote]
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Osek(m): 12:26am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:


He is single, I am single too. but he has lots of female friends, including me.
Hmmm... Oga is just catching cruise with you, if u know u know
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:28am On Mar 18, 2022
You are right bro but it depends on the guys,most of them are brainless and
senseless. Yabbing a girl they slept with or
told them about their feelings.

I have slept with over 700 girls.....bro believe
me and am still counting .....am so confused
that I don't know the girl i want to settle
down with am still single.

When it comes to women, there is virtually
nothing I have not done but you never see
me here or anywhere yabbing women or
calling them names. That's maturity bro.....not gossiping like school kids. If not this,many girls will freely express themselves to guys they like.








uote author=LollySeaSide post=111128195]
I don't have any reasonable thing to say.
In fact what I have to say is that I don't have any thing to say.
Come and beat me.
�������

On a serious note...
I respect women who have enough courage to live against the societal view that men should do the wooing.
If you feel something, say something.
You might just be harvesting your life happiness.
For it is written, the game of love suffereth violence and only the violent take it by force.
#PEACE[/quote]
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:31am On Mar 18, 2022
Modified: the last encounter I had with a girl
my dodo is still sore and I wounded myself inside her. It made me to hold myself even
the one that visited me yesterday we just had
romance. No sex cos am still recovering.....

I say these things so guys will know that its all about maturity and regard for women.








LollySeaSide:

I don't have any reasonable thing to say.
In fact what I have to say is that I don't have any thing to say.
Come and beat me.
�������

On a serious note...
I respect women who have enough courage to live against the societal view that men should do the wooing.
If you feel something, say something.
You might just be harvesting your life happiness.
For it is written, the game of love suffereth violence and only the violent take it by force.
#PEACE
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by masseratti: 12:34am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......
first, how can you quantify someone you met just 4months ago as your best friend?
2,he is already jealous of you seeing someone else... That means he has a feeling for you but just want a fling with you.
3,he is a manipulator.. Run very fast from him, cos if he really wants you and he is seeing a rival.. He will fight for your love.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Fiscus105(m): 12:37am On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
That only applies when the man and woman in question are confused. I have known many friends of the opposite sex that never ended up anyways else....it all has to do with the maturity of those in the relationship. undecided
.


Keep on, until you push another man pregnancy for ur husband in future.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 12:39am On Mar 18, 2022
Fiscus105:
.Keep on, until you push another man pregnancy for ur husband in future.
undecided
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by obinna58(m): 12:51am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:
grin grin never knew this post go enter front pageoooo lol.

*Update*
I have told him several times he was just laughing at me. He finally said that he doesn't want to cage me, that he wants the best for me. He still want me to experience life, and that I may meet other men and loose interest in him. And sometimes he avoids such discussion with me.
Anyway he said he doesn't want to tell me anything for now.
I just tire...
The tactics wise men use for the women they fear, no wonder you liked him. Should you both find yourselves as couple he knows he'll die of hypertension.
Not caging you, he knows you belong to the wild(big statement you ignored it)
He doesn't think you can stay with him cos you're shallow minded, you can turn around any time.
Experience life hahaha translation means go and taste different dvks you crave for.
I have a girl I like so much, I told her same thing in a funny way cos I know she can do and undo, she kept wanting relationship which she never got. She wouldn't think deep.

End point is you're a bad girl generally and unworthy of a quality man. Change for good.

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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by greggng: 1:15am On Mar 18, 2022
Descottes:
yikes!
You shouldve mentioned this on your initial post ma'am
You eff'd up really bad, I must say. This guy obviously doesn't want anything defined with you, he's just enjoying the 'fling'.
He's prolly a Playboy.
You're not ok with just sex and you want more, he won't give you that. The signs are crystal clear and you can see it.
Move on miss, forget about the friendship with him... you lost on this one.
You'll definitely meet someone for you, who'd love you as much as you love him. But first you gotta drop this dude.. and be fast about it.

She never said she is having sex with him . They do other things together except sex..I once found my in that situation as a guy. The lady truly want more but I pretended. One day I called her to come to my place and she came. I told her that I saw her travelling with her husband to USA. ..infact I explained to her that I saw that in my dream. I don't wanna get sexually involved with her cos she belongs to another man according to my dream. Guess what she thanked me for being honest with her.two months later I drove her to a party and as she was dancing a young man ask to see her outside. The rest is history. That young man married her and took her to the USA. She has given birth to a baby . All relationship will not end up in marriage .
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 1:16am On Mar 18, 2022
Either he is not interested in getting a girlfriend or he lacks ability to move to a girl and keeps ending up in the friend zone.

By boldly telling him or showing him how you feel, you would soon find out which one it is.

Why not start behaving as if you have assumed the position of his girlfriend just by your actions alone, if he is not interested he would eventually check you.
Sheleads:


He is single, I am single too. but he has lots of female friends, including me.
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by horlarsaac(m): 1:25am On Mar 18, 2022
Sheleads:
I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well.

The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there...

I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate.

If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......


What you were saying was just contracting each other... You should have stated that you guys were having sex and doing other things together n these would have been straight forward.... You want to promote your relationship from friend with benefit to main chick after all the zazu zeh.... You've loss already just move on... But on a norms e no dey better for any women wey dey do this kind things.. W*r*y omo
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by IBRAHEEM8(m): 2:57am On Mar 18, 2022
HenryDion:
Be open, tell him you have a crush on him. If he doesn't feel the same way, that should be the end of the friendship. Move on!

Reason for this is simple: you don't like him as a friend. You want more.

Being friendzoned by someone you have feelings for is the worst. You deserve better. It doesn't make him a bad person. You can't force attraction.

You have really said well and given best advice.
But naija guys hehn
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by bepositive11: 3:10am On Mar 18, 2022
BoredBerry:
Not insensitive... But mature...

I've liked some of my male friends...

But out of respect for our relationship... I killed the feelings before they grew...

Plus... I can be really close to a guy without liking him...

But it seems some people can't...

Any relationship with someone they are compatible with... They start crushing

Exactly

People who develop feelings easily are emotionally immature

The lady who started this thread has only known the guy for 3 months. She's just infatuated
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by bepositive11: 3:10am On Mar 18, 2022
Descottes:
You have never been in love or had very strong affections for someone, your insensitive post proves so.

I don't think she was insensitive. I think she was being mature

Really, can't you just be friends with the other gender without developing romantic feelings?

A lot of people would fall for the first person who gives them attention - that's not even love in the first place.

In fact, she posted this in February when she knew the guy for barely 3 months. She's infatuated. You need to see all sides of a person first to truly know whether you love them

Feelings or no feelings, at the end of the day, compatibility is more important and people should be able to keep that in mind and know when to kill their feelings
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jonahhh: 3:16am On Mar 18, 2022
My sister you’re going to achieve nothing but do free pussy give away
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by wowcatty: 3:42am On Mar 18, 2022
Hehehe! Though it's too early to call someone your bestfriend but I say GO GET HIM!

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