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Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Sweeetheart(m): 11:07pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
the guy is a sincere friend, you should keep someone like him as bestie for life, left to me I go don know say you dey crush on me hence your vagina must have been getting hot by now I don't keep female friends, I fúck female friends, who have time for nonsense bestie ti o mu owo wole just pray you no jam bad guy as bestie, five guys go don fúck for free before your senses come back to tell you that when you love a man that don't have affectionate for you, you will only be either his sex slave or he turned you to his emotional exploitation 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by house10s2: 11:10pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Sheleads:m single, les start dating |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by gazilion: 11:20pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Sheleads: The guy doesn't love you and you have sold yourself cheaply to a man who could be seeing many other women!! He will finally move on to someone else. You need repent and cut off all ties with him so you can regain your sanity. |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by CountVersailles(f): 11:29pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Having feelings is a choice. You can control, stop, engage, or do whatever you like with it. You can stop doing that if you want. I don't know why you guys put yourselves in these kinds of situation |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by tctrills: 11:31pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Munzy14:That may be true but life is about facing your fears. We can't always be in our comfort zone. |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jawalis(m): 11:46pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
Candidlady:Your signature makes no sense. Your comments are always dumb or out of point. Pls for the sake of next time. Sometimes, learn to read comments and move on without commenting on every posts. 2 Likes |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 11:49pm On Mar 17, 2022 |
jawalis: OK Do have have lovely night |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by macho44(m): 12:02am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Candidlady:Ya Need To Climb Outta That Pit, No Time To Check Time. |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 12:04am On Mar 18, 2022 |
macho44: Thank you. Iam out already 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by iLegendd(m): 12:07am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads: If he has opened up to you before and you said no, don't worry about being the one to open up now. He knows you see him as plan B and smart guys hate being option B. Even if you rejected him through your body language at first, don't worry trying to open up. Just be friends or friends with benefit. 3 Likes |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by macho44(m): 12:07am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Candidlady:That's The Spirit. It's Foolhardy Crying Over Spilt MILK, & If You Keep Looking Back @ The Past, Then You Might Never Find Your Way To The Future. |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 12:09am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads:Sometimes love is not enough |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Candidlady: 12:10am On Mar 18, 2022 |
macho44: True!! thank you Do have a lovely night rest 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:14am On Mar 18, 2022 |
To be honest with you,it depends on your values in life. You are who u are,we all have different values and different ways to absorb things. If he is immature mentally,he may brag about it and keep u for sex. Two weeks ago,I met a girl in our estate that told me am cute that she likes me,she was with her friends...they kinda dared her.(She later told me) I didn't swell up because I saw it as a normal thing,as a matter of fact she was in my place yesterday....we just had rough romance but no sex....she wants to take it slowly and I allowed it to be her way. I respect her wish and I don't try to force anything on her. So my dear observe and know the kind of guy he is,if u did based on yiur observatiob,either u quit the friendship or you take it to another level. There is no big deal for a lady to toast a guy,to me its nothing believe me,is not. quote author=Sheleads post=110466509]I met this best friend of mine early December last year, since then we have bonded very well. The truth is that I am already loving this guy, but it looks like he is interested in another woman out there... I don't want to come out desperate or a "do or die affair" he watches me get closer to another guy, but he speaks ill of the new guy I want to date. Right inside my heart, he is the guy I love. Since this guy isn't reciprocating my feelings, should I discard our friendship and move on with my life? Or reduce our closeness? I don't want to be hurt or look desperate. If you don't Have anything reasonable to say don't comment.......[/quote] |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:19am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Its not really bad for a lady to express her feelings....you ladies are humans dear so don't let whatever to tie that down. Well as for me,I keep saying is an immature guy that will try to exploit a lady that fell for him.Maybe it looks easy to me because I come across and get girls easily so my view maybe different from others. Yes there are guys that gossip far more than women those are the type ladies should avoid like a virus. [color=#000099][/color]quote author=CountVersailles post=111131087]Having feelings is a choice. You can control, stop, engage, or do whatever you like with it. You can stop doing that if you want. I don't know why you guys put yourselves in these kinds of situation[/quote] |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Osek(m): 12:26am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads:Hmmm... Oga is just catching cruise with you, if u know u know |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:28am On Mar 18, 2022 |
You are right bro but it depends on the guys,most of them are brainless and senseless. Yabbing a girl they slept with or told them about their feelings. I have slept with over 700 girls.....bro believe me and am still counting .....am so confused that I don't know the girl i want to settle down with am still single. When it comes to women, there is virtually nothing I have not done but you never see me here or anywhere yabbing women or calling them names. That's maturity bro.....not gossiping like school kids. If not this,many girls will freely express themselves to guys they like. uote author=LollySeaSide post=111128195] I don't have any reasonable thing to say. In fact what I have to say is that I don't have any thing to say. Come and beat me. ������� On a serious note... I respect women who have enough courage to live against the societal view that men should do the wooing. If you feel something, say something. You might just be harvesting your life happiness. For it is written, the game of love suffereth violence and only the violent take it by force. #PEACE[/quote] |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Rawhumper(m): 12:31am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Modified: the last encounter I had with a girl my dodo is still sore and I wounded myself inside her. It made me to hold myself even the one that visited me yesterday we just had romance. No sex cos am still recovering..... I say these things so guys will know that its all about maturity and regard for women. LollySeaSide: |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by masseratti: 12:34am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads:first, how can you quantify someone you met just 4months ago as your best friend? 2,he is already jealous of you seeing someone else... That means he has a feeling for you but just want a fling with you. 3,he is a manipulator.. Run very fast from him, cos if he really wants you and he is seeing a rival.. He will fight for your love. 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Fiscus105(m): 12:37am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:. Keep on, until you push another man pregnancy for ur husband in future. |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Kobojunkie: 12:39am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Fiscus105: |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by obinna58(m): 12:51am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads:The tactics wise men use for the women they fear, no wonder you liked him. Should you both find yourselves as couple he knows he'll die of hypertension. Not caging you, he knows you belong to the wild(big statement you ignored it) He doesn't think you can stay with him cos you're shallow minded, you can turn around any time. Experience life hahaha translation means go and taste different dvks you crave for. I have a girl I like so much, I told her same thing in a funny way cos I know she can do and undo, she kept wanting relationship which she never got. She wouldn't think deep. End point is you're a bad girl generally and unworthy of a quality man. Change for good. 2 Likes |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by greggng: 1:15am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Descottes: She never said she is having sex with him . They do other things together except sex..I once found my in that situation as a guy. The lady truly want more but I pretended. One day I called her to come to my place and she came. I told her that I saw her travelling with her husband to USA. ..infact I explained to her that I saw that in my dream. I don't wanna get sexually involved with her cos she belongs to another man according to my dream. Guess what she thanked me for being honest with her.two months later I drove her to a party and as she was dancing a young man ask to see her outside. The rest is history. That young man married her and took her to the USA. She has given birth to a baby . All relationship will not end up in marriage . |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by Nobody: 1:16am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Either he is not interested in getting a girlfriend or he lacks ability to move to a girl and keeps ending up in the friend zone. By boldly telling him or showing him how you feel, you would soon find out which one it is. Why not start behaving as if you have assumed the position of his girlfriend just by your actions alone, if he is not interested he would eventually check you. Sheleads: |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by horlarsaac(m): 1:25am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Sheleads: What you were saying was just contracting each other... You should have stated that you guys were having sex and doing other things together n these would have been straight forward.... You want to promote your relationship from friend with benefit to main chick after all the zazu zeh.... You've loss already just move on... But on a norms e no dey better for any women wey dey do this kind things.. W*r*y omo |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by IBRAHEEM8(m): 2:57am On Mar 18, 2022 |
HenryDion: You have really said well and given best advice. But naija guys hehn |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by bepositive11: 3:10am On Mar 18, 2022 |
BoredBerry: Exactly People who develop feelings easily are emotionally immature The lady who started this thread has only known the guy for 3 months. She's just infatuated |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by bepositive11: 3:10am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Descottes: I don't think she was insensitive. I think she was being mature Really, can't you just be friends with the other gender without developing romantic feelings? A lot of people would fall for the first person who gives them attention - that's not even love in the first place. In fact, she posted this in February when she knew the guy for barely 3 months. She's infatuated. You need to see all sides of a person first to truly know whether you love them Feelings or no feelings, at the end of the day, compatibility is more important and people should be able to keep that in mind and know when to kill their feelings |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by jonahhh: 3:16am On Mar 18, 2022 |
My sister you’re going to achieve nothing but do free pussy give away |
Re: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by wowcatty: 3:42am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Hehehe! Though it's too early to call someone your bestfriend but I say GO GET HIM! |
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