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nelson7777:
thanks 4 ur opinion big bro, but just out of curiosity, do a girl really hv to end up being ur wife b4 u wish her well??

deepwater:
The next 10 years would have a Nigeria with so many kids raised by single parent. Not for sake of death but for sake of choice

You are boxed up, marry your girl, build a home, simple

I don't understand how a girl would get pregnant for a guy who can afford to marry her but decides not to but is very willing donate his sperms and you just open your dirty Kongo to collect sperm like it is blood tonic

BTW. NwaAmaikpe go and marry

adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?

praxisnetworks:
Can you?

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

PANDA2:
KATE HENSHAW, WHO COULD NOT EVEN PERFORM THE SIMPLE DETECTIVE ACT THAT EVERY SMART WOMAN CAN DO INSTINCTIVELY, WHICH IS, FINDING OUT WHEN HER HUSBAND IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WAS SO DUMB AS NOT TO DISCOVER THAT HER HUSBAND, MR RODERICK NUTTAL WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER HOUSEMAID RIGHT UNDER HER VERY NOSE. AN OYIBO MAN FOR THAT MATTER, WHO IS NOT EVEN AS SHARP AS NIGERIAN MEN WHEN IT COMES TO COVERING THEIR TRACKS IN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS

AND SHE NOW HAS THE NERVE TO CRITICIZE NIGERIA POLICE
UPON THE FACT THAT SHE NO FIT CATCH FLY!!!!
Agbaya.

Jazzlite:
Ishilove... Obowunmi

pennywys:
Op if you ask me I will tell you to go ahead with him, most times things do happened, but that doesn't mean things and situations don't change.
I don't know how you gonna rate me but I must confess to you before I met my wife I was seriously in Love and date with my cousin for years, we had sex till the day my then fiance caught us and I confess to her, though she wanted to leave but I couldn't let her work away so I pleaded. I advise you not force him to confess before his parents nor his family before you go ahead with him cos in the future the same family and others may use it as subject to embarrass you. In my own case my fiance and now my wife didn't take it to social media seek advice from the society, nor friends, but we kept it secret between the three of us till date. And I swear to her not to commit such a sin again and I kept my promise, nd never cheat on her.

I must agree with your man that's a devil's work, yea it could be against you to loss a better man or against him to loss a perfect woman just I was to lose I perfect woman. All you need is prayers, forgive him don't mind what the internet tyrant said. Mind you, your life is your business and your happiness is your concern. Don't mind those advising you to leave, well I wont say they are wrong but I urge you to be be careful. Most of them are having relationship issues most don't even have a boyfriend but they will advise you to quit your relationship,

You may say bird of the same feathers or called me names and that I don't care neither am I saying this cos I was once guilty of the same sin your man committed but I advise you as my heart chooses. Forgive him and pray for him, times and moments do change and so does situation too and negative things do change positively. I know moments like this do create bad memories but that can only happen if you have mental pictures of it.

Move on sister and forgive him and try not to remember

sweetangel04:
Fellow nairalanders. am new on this platform. I am dating a guy whose love for me has successfully built up my confidence in him.ò we have been dating for over a year and just recently he proposed to me which I accepted because I never expected his marriage proposal to come so soon.

Fast forward, last weekend I came to visit him. on entering his sitting room I met a young lady in her late 30s. my guy introduced her to me as his niece which she as well confirmed. just early this morning at about 1am I woke up to ease myself only to discover that that my guy was not in bed with me. I tiptoed to the guest room door and I head voices. my guy's so called niece was moaning heavily. i tried opening the door, it opened, low and behold my man was aggressively banging this girl with reckless abandon. he did not stop until he ejaculated that was when they both realised there was a third party watching them. my man has been pleading telling me it's was the devil who pushed him.

I discovered that the lady is actually his niece. right now I don't want to continue with him anymore. few hours ago his parent called and begged me not to leave their son. I asked if their son told them what he did? they said he did not. but as things stands now am pulling out of the relationship until he confesses to the world what he did and why he did it.