Music/Radio › Re: "Take You Home" By Lazyreporta by oboy81: 11:01pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
JamaicanLove: Calling someone you don't know a bitch, eyaa it must be hard for you. My condolences Why did you insult the guy's song? fat ass bitch!  |
Romance › Re: Ladies Only Wear Clean Pant When They Want To Visit A Guy by oboy81: 10:55pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
vikkimimi: Mr Op sir... that you've been rolling with some stinking girlfriend doesn't give you the right to generalize your view on your experience... Next time top your game instead... Mtcheew Is it a must to reply? Sensible girls will skip a Useless topic like this YOU ARE A FOOL!!  |
Romance › Re: What Is The Most Terrible Sex You've Ever Had by oboy81: 10:48pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
DanDeeBoss: You always have stories to tell.... You bad oooo  Foolish bitch ass Nigga! That's the kinda thing you like  Empty head! You know nothing jon snow morofocka! |
Music/Radio › Re: "Take You Home" By Lazyreporta by oboy81: 10:42pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
JamaicanLove: Yen yen yen
Nigga shift Yh Sure! I would shift your womb bitch!  |
Music/Radio › Re: "Take You Home" By Lazyreporta by oboy81: 10:40pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
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Music/Radio › Re: "Take You Home" By Lazyreporta by oboy81: 10:32pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
azraeljaheel: Odes make una drop una SHIT make we see if e go smell  Lol Am i a Singer  |
Politics › Re: Osaretin Igbinedion Dies In Car Accident In The US (Photos) by oboy81: 10:22pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
SalamRushdie: Painful when a person dodge all the bad roads in Nigeria and American road ends up killing the person ...RIP LMAO
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Politics › Re: Osaretin Igbinedion Dies In Car Accident In The US (Photos) by oboy81: 10:08pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
emeijeh: My condolences to Lucky, Eki, the Esama and Lady Cherry. What a loss.  Aaaaaargh Fvck You! �� |
Politics › Re: Osaretin Igbinedion Dies In Car Accident In The US (Photos) by oboy81: 10:03pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Wow This Is Beautiful News  . Now i believe God exists This Man's relative Showed Us Pepper that year too much Frustration and Oppression Thank You Allah and Jesus for this Beautiful Event  |
Music/Radio › Re: "Take You Home" By Lazyreporta by oboy81: 10:00pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Shiit is wack! Lol just listened to it pure Garbage lmao |
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole Asks INEC To Apologize, The Look On INEC Chairman Got Nigerians Talki by oboy81: 9:38pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
tegafej: They are just contradicting each other with their body language.
They really think we are fools don't they?
This government is trash The Former Governments Are Not trash!  |
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole Asks INEC To Apologize, The Look On INEC Chairman Got Nigerians Talki by oboy81: 9:36pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Poll Shift: Oshiomhole Dares INEC, To Resume Campaigns Despite Restriction by oboy81: 9:23pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
dustmalik: Oshiomhole is spot-on on this. The law says 24hrs to elections, and we've 5 days to go, so why not? Correct! |
Politics › Re: Chidi Odinkalu: 'El-Rufai Lied, He Cooked Up The Story Of 66 People Killed' by oboy81: 9:22pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Charmingrascal: Hellrufai is a religious and tribal bigot.
I won't doubt this, that fool might actually cooked up this story to cause unrest and make it appear as if Fulanis (Muslims) are being attacked in Kaduna by Southern Kaduna Christians just to justify the Fulanis when they eventually unleash terror on innocent Southern Kaduna people. That midget lost two of his children because of his wickedness and yet he is unrepentant.
I wonder why hellrufai was voted a Governor in the first place Elrufai Lost two children to this? Where?  Where did you hear that?  |
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Crime › Re: Children Burnt To Death After Maid Sneaked Out To Visit Boyfriend.Graphic Photos by oboy81: 5:25pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Children Burnt To Death After Maid Sneaked Out To Visit Boyfriend.Graphic Photos by oboy81: 5:22pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Award should be given to that Boyfriend. Shiit was So Good she was ready to sacrifice All!  |
Romance › Re: Lady Shows Off Her Partner Spreading Her Underwear Outside, Advices Men. Photos by oboy81: 5:20pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Share Your Experience: INEC Ad-Hoc Staff by oboy81: 4:37pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Lol Who Gives a Bleep  Lmao your Page is Still on pg 1 Nigga Fvck outta here nobody Cares  |
Romance › Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by oboy81: 3:23pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: Part 1- THE NARCISSIST. Good day Nairalanders, I decided to start a series to help others in relationships to recognize red flags and seek help where necessary and also avoid placing themselves in such situations.
This series will be like an expose especially on some B personality types like narcissists, borderlines, sociopaths and psychopaths. The continuity of this series will be based on your feedback, so please share and comment, you may be helping someone.
Who is a narcissist? He/she is someone who has an excessive in or admiration of themselves simple. While everyone has some narcissistic Traits so that we have good self-esteem. It becomes pathological when you have narcissist qualities to high degrees and at the expense of others. These are the narcissists I am referring to. We’ll call tem Narcs for short.
Narcs are usually selfish, entitled (believe they are the best thing since sliced bread), grandiose (believe that they are bigger and greater than they are or someone they aren’t), arrogant, manipulative, shallow/superficial and most importantly lack empathy (do not consider other people's feelings). They constantly seek validation and have a need for continuous admiration by all to boost their self-esteem and ego because they can’t draw such from themselves. Any person, thing or environment that provides this ego boost in any form to the narcissist is termed “narcissist supply”. Status symbols like sports cars, wealth, beauty; a yes man or sidekick or arm candy, a beautiful lady in the midst of less pretty ones so that she stands out more and so on are prime examples of narc supply
Narcissism is a spectrum, but we will broadly classify them into two but keep in mind that they overlap. The overt narcissists and the covert narcissists. Overt narcissists are easier to spot. They are usually extroverts. Most CEOs and a certain president who called our country a shithole are prime examples. We all know that arrogant person who doesn’t care for other people’s feelings, or that high and mighty boss who doesn’t care or give you leave because your mother is ill. Or that bf/gf who always want to be the center of attraction, it has to be about them. When in a relationship with such a person they do anything to make themselves look good even belittling you and chipping away your self-esteem so that you want to be like them, it can go on for so long you don’t know what is real anymore. ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ANYONE! Covert narcissists are harder to spot, they have narcissist traits but hide it. They are experts of victim mentality, blame shifting, sabotaging and passive aggression. When in a relationship with such a person, you will always feel bad and not know why, everything seems perfect on the outside but something nags you and you can’t pinpoint the problem. If you feel such you might be in a relationship with a covert narc. They will make you feel bad on your birthday, or show fake concern if you are overweight. Some spiritual leaders, marriage counselors and therapists are prime examples, when you got to them they throw it back at you and tell you the problem is your fault. A covert narc may apologize for wrong doing, and promise to change but will go back to old habits soon after.
Narcs are not capable of sustaining deep intimate relationships where give and take is involved. They take and take until the giver is half of themselves. The relationship becomes 11/2 = 1/2 instead of 1=1 and sadly Nigerian upbringing is producing a lot of male covert narcissists.
So the question is should one stay or leave a relationship with a narc? That is entirely up to the person. Narcissists cannot be completely changed because it is a personality disorder. But something can be done which we will address in part 2. Please ask questions and feel free to share personal examples or your ordeals with a narc. Cc Nobody Cares, MUMU face your Responsibility and work  |
Politics › Re: 2019 Election Will Hold After 6 Days. I See Postponement by oboy81: 11:32am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Evablizin: I love you  Stupid Bitch!  with a fish brain gets wet easily. Can't control her emotions and slippery pussy  **spits**  |
Politics › Re: 2019 Election Will Hold After 6 Days. I See Postponement by oboy81: 11:22am On Feb 16, 2019 |
madridguy: Crying wailers PHOOL!  who is Crying Now |
Celebrities › Re: I Met My Wife On Set - Ali Nuhu by oboy81: 11:20am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Stupid Gay Bitch! Buhari Sycophantic Idiot!  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Postponed Her Day Of Judgement By One Week – Sowore by oboy81: 11:17am On Feb 16, 2019 |
A God has Spoken!
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Politics › Re: 2019 Election Will Hold After 6 Days. I See Postponement by oboy81: 10:54am On Feb 16, 2019 |
asdfjklhaha: must everything be turned into gambling. Haba Fine Gurl how far  |
Politics › Re: 2019 Election Will Hold After 6 Days. I See Postponement by oboy81: 10:33am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Dawinlove: I posted this Feb 23/2018 it will be a year Feb 23/2019
God is a God of perfection, believe him and is will be done. Nigga, SHUT THE Bleep UP!  |
Events › Re: My 45-Year-Old Aunty Is Getting Married On February 23rd – Nigerian Man Cries by oboy81: 10:15am On Feb 16, 2019 |
madridguy: You should have listen to your lord Mazi Kanu 
Sincerely INEC Chairman messed up, i wish we still have a good radical lawyer like the Late Gani Fawehinmi that can fight for we masses. Yh yeah the way you fight for your Corrupt Leaders. Stupid Pathetic Muslim Cunt! Corrupt hypocritical Illiterate Phool!  Madridgay  |
Romance › Re: What Career Would You Profit From By Looking Handsome? by oboy81: 8:02am On Feb 16, 2019 |
Guys Pls Drop your Nice Suggestions. I'm currently in the same Situation currently as we speaks Thank you all |
Celebrities › Re: "I Have Missed My Period, Can't Wait To Be A Mother" - Bobrisky by oboy81: 7:47am On Feb 16, 2019 |
stephleena: lol...sometimes I forget this guy has a dick,a real dick. He still gets erected. What a waste of dick!! PHOOL! Is it your Problem?  Ugly Bitch! |
Romance › Re: Is This Girls Leg Straight Or Not? #CONFUSED (photo) by oboy81: 11:59pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
ceeroh: OP, the leg is deformed. But is there a way she can visit you at night? That's your best bet. Cos people like us wey our shakara for area na top notch, dem no suppose see us with dis kain package. Your market value go drop one time..  You can't live long bro. I'm sorry  |
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo 'shoot Himself In The Leg', Causing Confusion In Lagos, Support PDP by oboy81: 11:34pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Obaofusa: every day of my life I'm so filled with regrets having to be in this beautiful world as a Nigerian.
I lay curse on any one that will preach karma to me until karma dealt with obasanjo, tinubu, atiku, buhari, rochas,ibori,lucky igbinedion, anenih in his death, ojukwu, IBB, abacha in his death and his family and lots more I won't stop regretting....
May God almighty punish karma for leaving Africa's leaders and dealing with poor people.
Karma may God punish you and all those that believes in you.
This very mc oluomo has been a thug for a very long time now his direct and indirect actions has left many people dead the only time karma would have paid him back he survived once again karma may God punish you and all the people that believes in you Lmao hahahaha  |
Politics › Re: MC Oluomo 'shoot Himself In The Leg', Causing Confusion In Lagos, Support PDP by oboy81: 11:31pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
daddytime: Just look at our National Police whose salaries are from our collective taxes guarding and protecting an Urchin...
Stuffs like these are always obtainable only in our climes...
Eyesore You are Very BIG FOOL! Are You surprised  Shows that you don't know anything about Nigeria Mumu Boi  |