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you ppl are not answering my qtion, if you care for something or somebody you have take good care of it,i am not saying saying she turn in to an ant, but being more careful, or i dont care atitude may be the cos of finding an ant in a cup of early morning tea,or what do you think?

rusky:
I see no difficulty in this issue. The truth which we all have refused to look at is the aspect of reading. If the woman had read her books very well and passed the exam there would be no need for anything to occur. I have not seen anybody here give this advice.

however if she did not pass her exams and she is not WILLING  to repeat the year, then you cannot blame the lecturer who decides to take advantage.

This is so simple.

you are right, i see from ur point.

wanville:
All this aristo discussion is all longthing. I'm not in support of aristo but I know a billion aristo gals that have the best husbands in the world, They always "change' and find this amazing guy who is willing 2 accept them they way they are, So yeah they get their happy ending, while we sit back judging them, In the end its all a mooo point, Whateva any body wants 2 do with their life- na their own cup of tea. Wethin concern bridge with aeroplane?

something tell's me you are one of them, hahahahahahah,

ok what happen to this if you give your wife allowance and all she will do is keep the money after some time she will send it to her mother of sister, and after she will ask you to help her parent,is she doing the right thing, and i believe that is why some poeple dont give money to there wife, if she need anything all she do is mathew 7;7 read your bible

sweetnekys:
I think my own marriage is different because i will never think of asking my husband allowance since we share our problem together ,if my husband have just 1# in the house i will know without expecting him to telling me,we make money together and spend it to gather we are open up to each other because even though i have access in all our accounts does not mean that when i spend any money even to buy my underwears i must let him know since he is my husband and he deserve the respect , so my advice is that in any marriage they must be open up and and trust even if the woman is not working but she still have right to know how much her husband is making and have access to it anytime she want and if she finished the money in a day she will be the one to suffer for it .As for me i believe that this issue of paying a woman allowance in her own house is not proper .

you are inteligent, you are not asking for allowance, but you have access to the whole money hmmmmm

if you wake up in the morning, and about to take your breakfast only to find {ant} in your cup of tea, and you ask your wife she start to rise her voice that is not her fault, what do think, is she a careing wife or i dont care woman?

please if any body have idea on this dont forget to help a brother

may God help nigerians

please what is happening in nigeria, are we safe in nigeria or not? cheak out the in nigeria

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/news/national/2009/may/05/national-05-05-2009.htm

chaircover:
Poster you are not alone o! This colour issue can be trouble sometimes.

Hubby and I are both dark but our daughter is very light skinned compared to us.

You won't beleive it but I was in a restaurant once with my daughter when a lady came up to me from nowhere and asked me if  my husband was light skinned. I said no and she kind of looked at me funny. I was quite upset at the time but my hubby just laughed it off and told me to ignore it.

People can be so insensitive sometimes.

can you send me your contact, i will like to ask you something

i beg make she talk true, the man no collect only money how mamy time the man yash am, i mean sama the kongo for her, nigerian girl with money[igbo girls]

idupaul:
wetin concern us

please if you dont have anything to contibute or advice her why not read and pass, instead of saying watin concern you. Amebo, 1

Horus:
You can look on the Website of the Nigeria Customs Service: http://www.customs.gov.ng/

thanks for this information.

nollywood

tpiah:
i dont see anything in your first post that gives any indication the child isnt yours.

Do you have any evidence besides the baby's lighter skin?

be careful with your suspicions- how do you know your wife was cheating on you?

ok now imagine you are carrying your baby and some one just come after looking at you and ask are you the father of that baby, my friend what will come to your mind?,and again you looking at the baby you cant see one or 2 thing about yourself, any way i will do the DNA, and found out, cos you dont expect me to catch them redhanded before i will have evidence or do you?, thanx once again for the adivice.

chaircover:
Has anyone noticed that this guy still loves his wife.

What a strange world we live in.

There are women praying everyday for a husband and then there are some who are blessed with husbands who love them but still go out and cheat.

Na wa o!

Poster - its your call, however as you havent decided what you intend doing if the DNA test says you are not the father inspite of your wifes cheating, then I suggest you dont bother doing it, afterall what is the point if you won't do anything?

my dear it is not that i wont do any thing but i dont want to do thing that i will regreat, if i found out she is going no 2 ways, please dont get me wrong. thanx for your advice too

i like how you women handle things when it come to a man cheating but when it come to woman cheating no one cough, weeeeeeemen

MRbrownJAY:
you have supposedly caught her cheating and you STILL worry about HER trusting YOU when going for the DNA test, WTF?!
i will be polite and tell you that you shouldnt really care what you "wife" thinks. if you REALLY caught her cheating then YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO DO A DNA TEST TO ALL YOUR CHILDREN!!!! sorry to bust your dreams but there is no trust in your marriage because if there was, she would go and get drilled by some stranger.

thank very much for this advice, but one thing is still on my mind what happen if the baby is not mine,should i send the two away?i am not praying for that but i am asking incase,becouse the world is,

MRbrownJAY:
you have supposedly caught her cheating and you STILL worry about HER trusting YOU when going for the DNA test, WTF?!
i will be polite and tell you that you shouldnt really care what you "wife" thinks. if you REALLY caught her cheating then YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO DO A DNA TEST TO ALL YOUR CHILDREN!!!! sorry to bust your dreams but there is no trust in your marriage because if there was, she would go and get drilled by some stranger.

thax for this advice i will do just that to be sure iam with my childrean

dae:
DNA, DNA is the answer!

thank you very much for the advice, but can i go and do DNA with out her knowing, you understand if she understand that and it happen that the child is our child the trust will never be there any more.b/cos i dont know what to do know

please what will you do if you found out that your wife is cheating on you, and to make the matter worse she now have a child that dose not look like you, fair in complaxtion,while you are dark and she too is some how dark too, plaese advice is needed ugently is you love your brother here in N/L

posakosa:
my ex-bf was a male prostitute, 


He was, is, and will always remain jobless. Women pay him to have sex with them,  he has a huge d#$k  and was darn goood!

why all the was is he late now? and why are you not with him again,if he has a huge dik,

this is comon here in europe, the white men killing there wife,not only nigerian, but there fellow white, so our ladies take note