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deleSayo:
It's definitely dominque - a raging feminist who can't stand women who aren't part of the crew. she should tell Seun what 'rules' your comment broke..

Newman20:
What was your comment about


Also see my comment where I bodied jovvialjune.

Help me ask her what rules I violated o.. Cry baby moderators. as if hiding comments will change the truth. mtchewww!

@Seun

Cocao:
I apologize for quoting you in the first place. Your history with online arguments have not been particularly favorable. Please feel free to do you and encourage the people around you in your own line of thinking. Have a nice day.

It's unfortunate I've had to 'troll' in the past just to get my point across to some block-headed bittches in the family section.

Yes, I've engaged in numerous arguments because so many ladies are stupid and extremely childish on this forum..

I've always stood by my truth and nobody can shame me for it.

Frustrated007:
I wonder who the unfortunate guy is ...the guy that married you.

She's lying.

JovialJune is a recent graduate from Covenant uni. She only said that to add credibility to her useless post.

Cocao:
Men,

Taking your wives to a civil society means that you should begin to see them as worthy partners. Do not think you can be their master and God abroad, instead, work in a partnership, like marriage was intended to be.

Women, this abroad is for everyone. It is not gender specific. If you want to be in a society that values your contribution as a woman, you can make the move for yourself without waiting for any man that would continue to use that help as a chain on your neck. Do your thing biko.

This in itself is a major contradiction.

A man TAKES you abroad, and you call that a partnership?

Gosh I can't with this mentality

Chii59:
My mother is a bobrisky.

Apt!

Cocao:
What you just typed has no relationship with what she said. Let me help you. Once you decide to take your wife abroad, you have to leave behind all traces of domineering attitude as the society there frowns on it. What usually causes friction is that Nigerian men think it is going to be business as sual even abroad. They expect the women to remain as the slaves they were in Nigeria which is not possible in a land of opportunity. It threatens them that their women are now free to hustle and make their own choices. So, maybe begin to see your wife as an equal partner and record less frictions.

Gibberish.

What happens to a Nigerian woman abroad is the case of what happens when you give a hungry policeman a uniform and a gun to patrol the streets - they will extort and abuse power!

Why is it that Indian & Chinese women don't do such when abroad? Despite how much these women earn, the value their culture and stay in their lane when it comes to domestic life. But Nigerian women? Power hungry, vicious and callous to the core.. any small power and they start displaying inbred witchcraft behaviour.

What gender is more culpable in child abuse and the maltreatment of househelps? ...this is to tell you what the average Nigerian woman is capable of when in a position of power.

Deep down, you yourself know the truth about female nature and will not take it lightly if someone does to your Male relatives what some of these women abroad do to our men.

Lol.

How do you wish a dead man 'happy birthday'.

JovialJune:
I have been civil and nice enough with you, but it's obvious you are below dirt and looking for who will.play in the mud with you,

This is my response to you here and on nl

Adios.

Nah, you've been coyly rude and subtly spreading lies and deceit which is why you caught my attention.

You desperately wanna belong to the resident crew of dumb NL feminists who obviously are clueless on what feminism truly stands for - so you write silly one-sided epistles which make no sense just so stupiid cunts like zzorr and co.. can cheer you on.

Yet despite all your effort, dem still no send you.

In this entire forum, no one has given you the attention you so desperately seek more than me

Adios to you too!

....

Pierocash:
I often say it. Nigerian women are the most wicked sets of women on earth. I read an article sometime ago about 10 different Nigerian women abroad,who where murdered by their husbands and are serving jail terms.

It is only a Nigerian woman you send to university she replies you with a new wedding card invitation.

Don't marry a black woman from Nigeria and relocate her abroad, marry her here,leave her here to take care of your kids. If you do otherwise, you either lose your life there,or lose your properties.

I'm a woman that fears my own gender.

I pity all the young men in my family.. girls of nowadays are worse than Jezebel

JovialJune:
Dude, you keep going off topic, I know the pain comes from personal experience, you will be fine.

The school fees your father ( a man) not your mother.. used to send you to Covenant university was a costly investment rendered useless. How can a recent graduate lack basic comprehension skills like this

JovialJune:
Lol I already have sons, I am and will continue to train them and teach them right on how to treat ladies well, regardless of where they are in future

Cheers.

You have sons indeed

Please train them to worship the female gender very well o. Train them to be totally subservient to women. They will benefit greatly from doing so

Cheers.

JovialJune:
Funny thing about this men abroad is that, the can take any bullshit fromn other women abroad comfortably, even if she tells them to do weird irritating things, they'll gladly do it, but if it's our naija ladies, they will be fuming from their mouth to the head, with smoke visibly coming out, lmao, you guys will be fine o.

That's because Nigerian women have rendered themselves useless!

When you spend your entire youth being a bambiala to men, how do you expect such men to respect you?

JovialJune:
What are you saying and what is the thread about?

A traditional man wants a stay at home wife because he like it that way, and his authority cannot be questioned which is fine with the wife

A working class wife here is expected to submit and abide by the rules of her husband regardless of equal financial responsibility they both provide, and most times, she has no choice but to follow suit, because well, this is Nigeria

Now, in the abroad

A husband who brings his wife over there and sponsors her education and whatnot, still expects the wife to obey and abide by his rules regardless of her bringing 90% of her income, when she doesnt comply, issues start to happen whereby the husband will question himself as the man of the house, wife decide to use the law to her advantage, she realises she doesnt have to continuously be married to him hence divorce, he flips and becomes vengeful by killing her, or loses everything to her, becomes depressed and kills himself

Now, what is the root cause of the problem? The root cause is the inability of a typical naija man to tame his domineering persona cos he brought his wife over, their law doesnt give fvck about that, in other to be safe than sorry, why not see her as an equal, do things like equally like human beings and live peacefully, surely it shouldn't be that hard,

Pls focus on what the thread is about next time, I like intelligent debate.

A ridiculous rant again as I expected.

You are obviously still a young girl.

My prayer point for you is that you bear sons who will fall victim to the highlighted - let's see your online bravado and rants when that happens

OP, you better be careful before JovialJune, apatheticme & CHoccolaTE will soon accuse you of being a male pretending to be female.


Meanwhile.. the biggest disgrace to womanhood are those urgent 2k girls - dirty lazy girls who refuse to work legitimate jobs for their money.. rather they whoore around, begging for alms from men up and down, then come on NL forming feminism.

bambiala girls putting real hardworking women to shame.

frozen70:
Even if she is 10yrs younger than your present age, pls address her by either sister or Aunty before mentioning her name

She is already married that's enough respect for her, one day she will birth a child and you call her by her child's name

If you are living with them, do so, the house belongs to her and she knows best how to butt you out or allow you to stay with them

So according to your logic, a woman is only worthy of respect when a man puts her under his roof as a wife?

Let me call @CHoccolaTE ..come and see your co-feminist

But why did she draw six pack on her tummy tho . It would've still looked flat without it

JovialJune:
Dude, I'm not in the mood with you, take your frustrated self elsewhere.

Mtchewww!
Didn't expect any less from a dunce like you.

JovialJune:
Wait, you are a female? Wow.

Why won't you say 'wow'.

When in your tiny little brain you think anyone who doesn't go around insulting men & isn't a feminist must be male

TerrorSquad147:
is that how they discipline them in Harvard university and other reputable private universities??
You're a dumbass

Tell dem

stagger:
This young and rebellious generation.

What is this compared to what we faced in secondary school all those years ago? I remember being flogged 24 strokes of the cane in primary school in one sitting back then, yet I am still standing. My wife was in the crowd watching all those years ago. From way back then, she knew I had it in me to take pain and still stand strong.

Now young children of nowadays come here complaining of pure nonsense. If you cannot stand discipline, get out of the place.

hehehe.

your wife chose you because she found a perfect endurer for all her wicked ways. congratulations

aside the point, upon all the flogging we don dey chop since childhood, naija is still one of the most rotten, corrupt , backward societies in the world.

SAMBARRY:
school is for students not thieves

You want to tell me that a parent who sent their kids to a private school cannot give their children ₦10 to buy pure water Abi is pure water ₦50,000,000

what is this one saying must you expose your idi0cy everywhere you go? shut d fvck up!