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Pierocash:
Anybody who have assaulted me or downgraded me in one way or the other can never be my friend for ever. No grudges ,or bitterness, but I don't mingle with traitors.

No matter the apology, or friendly gesture, you have given yourself out as a vengeful being

Sometimes, you just have to forgive and let go! Life no too hard.

azammi:
we no de happy , wanted to see another decking .

Wait those you boys beat the man ni ?

Yes na. After he nearly removed my eyes with mad punch.

I guess it was an eye for an eye.

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeeeewwwwwwwww.

Rest!

https://www.nairaland.com/7099204/how-married-man-left-me

Click the link above for the first thread.

Earlier today, I wanted to go get some stuffs at the supermarket. I always go there because it's closer to my flat and they somehow have everything. So, you just shop ones and leave.

As I entered the supermarket, lo and behold the man was sitting somewhere around the cashier's desk operating his device. Now, this is the first time since the incident happened that I am going there to get stuffs.

Wouldn't lie, I was taken aback when I saw him. In between those seconds he rose up his head and saw me. Immediately, he stood up and started advancing towards me.

I was like, "shey this man na serious wahala man", "the decking wey them deck you never do abi?". I was calculating my options. Looking at possible exist. Checking his hands to see if he was with any sharp or harmful object.

But the game changed when he was inches from me. He brought out his hand and gestured to shake me. Ha! I was kinda surprised. Asked if I've got some few minutes before my shopping, I answered affirmatively.

We proceeded to a secluded place and he apologized. Saying his emotions took a better part of him. That he has known me as their very good customer and shouldn't have reacted in such savage manner.

Also, that his wife was really furious with him. Saying, I am just a good and loyal customer. That I am usually free while communicating with her even when he's around. So, the whole fuse was really uncalled for.

I apologized too. As a gentleman. Told him that I also have a very beautiful girlfriend whom I wouldn't trade for anyone. And I've got money too. So he has nothing on me.

Well, he added a bottle of Martell Cognac Blue Swift to my cart as a gesture of peace. I appreciated him and we laughed over some few jokes. Especially what Chelsea passed through for Everton hand yesterday. Haha.

JONSYN7154:
You Bleep up big time.

Nemesis is catching up with you.

See this bush man, na this kind long thread you de quote? Don't you know that you're derailing it?

I really think that you're day dreaming. Wake up from your slumber young man.

Still irks me how you made a grown man read such a long thread only for it to revolve around hitting another man's wife.

The three niggaz above me are high on cheap Ijebu weed.

Patrioticbreed9:
She dosn't pray at all. She even admit to that. Apart from that she admit being a christian, you can easily rate her an athiest. Ladies i know will shout blood of jesus or back to sender when they have a nightmare but she dosnt, instead she'll just pull close to me. She dosn't exibhit any atom of spirituality, she is 100% physical, let me stop here.

Where you been wan stop before?

olatuneji:
Alright thanks but if I can ask, is it possible to make money freelancing with graphics design, people keep talking about how saturated it is. Do you think one can make money with graphics design on either fiverr or upwork

Let me be real with you; it might be quite dauting. From experience, my candid advice would be for you to evolve. As designs have greatly moved from just graphics to human centric designs that comes with contemporary design thinking process and tools.

A freelance graphic designer who'sworking smart would always be abreast of diversifying.

Also, except you're making it big on Fiverr, snub those platforms. Hustle offline via network marketing while building your online brand.

Lizav:
Bros, please what do you do now?

I'm a software and digital experience designer. With many digital side hustles bringing in the bag.

olatuneji:
Sir, the design, do you mean graphic design

Not really. But I started with it. Graphics design really shaped my designing path. Today, I am a digital experience designer. Anything product and consumers. What people call UI/UX or product designer. But I don't tag myself that. Because I am some levels ahead of them. Haha .

Cokahot:
I can't comment without you. Yahoo boy

Haha . Funny enough, I hate that shît! I always distance myself from individuals who into that.

Na God and my Skills de feed me right now. I sincerely give it to God. I can't take away his Glory.

Impactech:
Boss, I am interested in knowing what venture you engaged in that changed the whole game. Thanks

IT skills my gee. I spent sleepless days learning programming, designing and how to sale (digital marketing). I learnt them concurrently. Designs started paying my bills, then digital marketing before programming crowned it all.

Also, I started high level networking. Meeting individuals who are in a specific strata of the society. Strategically, pitching myself. Doing a lot of stuffs to scale my worth.

Lastly, a man with one source of income won't last. I also learnt skills that fetch money even when I am sleeping or grooving. Not ponzi schemes or. Stuffs live Fiverr, Amazon KDP, crypto/NFT's et al.

Let me be real with you bro; no matter the business you delve into, if you don't have a winning mentality, it'll be difficult to scale through.

Change your mindset. Have goals and stay focused. Even if na pure water you de sell, it'll bloom.

A lot of people fail in businesses, careers, etcetera not because they're not talented or have the bucks, but because their attitude was lacklustre.

A wise man once said; "The ultimate idea is to win in LIFE". Not on social media or your head.

Let me be real with you OP; leaving your parents house then was easy. I am talking about right up to Goodluck Jonathan's tenure. When things were a bit soft and chilling.

But try am now, you go see shege. I am talking from experience. Real shege if you just leave your parents house without some good cash or a skill that's fetching you money.

"I left home to feed home, don de call home make them abeg send am garri".

I became independent immediately after my university. My mum called tiredlessly that I should at least spend a year with them before japaying to the wider world. I said no!

I graduated with roughly about 500k in my account. So I thought I was the man. I moved, rented an apartment of about 250k furnished it and when I checked my account balance, hot tears nearly devoured me. Wetin ah pass through for hunger hand no be here. Fine crib but no money to feed.

I didn't give up sha. I was solid like a rock. After a year, i couldn't renew my rent, landlord served me quit notice. Haha.

Also, even though I was talented/skillful at that time, navigating through the murky waters of independency wasn't easy. As I was lazy and procrastinated a lot.

After I was relegated to a crib were mosquitoes, insects of different species and other ruminant animals were co-tenants na that time my eyes open and clear.

All these happened between a year and 6ix months. All that is history now. God, hardwork and Grace saw me through. I can comfortably afford any lifestyle I want right now.

gentleman82:
Op na ashawo you be, she is sexy , beautiful and young and you wan go try luck,

Try luck Kee you there!
Someone that I've known for more than a year.

Candidlady:
Motivational speakers everywhere!!!!

Iremember when ihad only a seed of orange at wuse market iwas laughed at...

But now my seed of orange got me two orange plantations at uke nasarawa

Ubanka
Men and lies/lice
Filthy dogs

Maye!!!!
Uwarki!!!

Candidlady:
Iheard there is a pill that can help with this your current state
Very cheap and affordable



Redpill

and please do not forget to OD on it...

For matter wey no need red pill una go carry redpill put inside.

Keep your heads up boy. You're a champ. People will always talk. Don't let that get to you.

I remember when a once caretaker of mine ridiculed me because of my footwear lols. In front of many guys like that. The footwear chop badly for side but I was managing it because that was all I've got while also hustling legitimately.

Today, he cruise in a Lexus but my whip can get him 3 more Lexus 330 in addition to his.

MartinCorridon:
Whether the story is fictional or real...

I can't say.

But you see the part that the OP claims to have called "red beret" is a big fat lie.

He wish he had.... it would take away the pain a bit.

See why you lots fail? Unintelligence. Una no even get number 6 let alone good sense for proper logical assimilation.

I dare you to quote were I stated that I called red beret men. Person go just open mouth waaahh! The person I called is a mate of mine. A lieutenant who came with his boys.

Upgrade your life sir. All these things are easy to get when you're in a particular strata of the society. Until then, keep wallowing.

WickedPisa:
Fool, ode no fit even stand en ground...e deh call people to help am fight lool man on diapers, dem sound am en go call en full street

Omo! My guy. I no get strength at all o. Na to come de fight. Haa! You want make them kee me?

My strengths de for the network I've built over the years. Ah get men ah no de gather boys. Check your phone rn, scroll through your contacts, na that time you go know the difference between me and you.

Nonexisting:
I wish he was the one that called the soldiers for you. You are shameless and may thunder fire you if you deny that you never nursed feelings for his wife. Ordinary mind your business, you couldn't but you had the nerve to call soldiers for a man whose wife you were trying to fucck. Idiot.

Haha.. this really cracked me up . Why so pained?? You're sounding like the man honestly.

headbasher96:
The man too try na so una go start from compliments before u know e don turn another thing thank god the man know people like u so he was guarding his territory very well.


Mind your business oga its not everybody u start a conversation with most especially a married woman wont u do what took u there and leave had it been u lost a eye it could have been for what?

Start conversation kee you there. Somebody that we've been in communication for more than a year. Y'all misunderstanding these stuffs as though I was wooing her or something. Na normal talk we de talk. And I just told her that her was beautiful which was the reality.

Sucre6:
Op u crossed the line I wouldn't blame the man, you don't compliment another man's wife more than necessary knowing full well that the woman is married, we are Africans and we don't do such here.

Its not only annoying, it's disrespectful, you would have bought what u came for and left no one would have given you a black eye, mr one eye Sunday

Nawa Oh! So you don't know the meaning of compliments and you're here shouting "Africans". She's my friend. And we relate on a strict mutual level.

Compliments are harmless, unprovocative and with good intentions. The husband mistook the whole scenery.

Jeon:
this is the best treatment that should be given to Albertone because of the fugliness of his characters and appearance that can not be photoshopped..

If brain cells had value, you'd be broke.albertone

Which one? The man that was decked black and blue my non smiling force men or the dude that got an unexpected jab?

Stallionhorse:
Why you go compliment person wife for him front.. Nigga If it was me I would have beat the living day light out of you.. When does your mates come nah to rush you go hospital,

Did you read the thread? Or you're just a morón?

Datboredberri:
The guy is a fuc*ing insecure bastard! For a compliment, he beat you? That's bullsh**...

Some men feel so damn insecure... He doesn't trust his wife?

Thank god I wasn't there... Sorry... You're kind...

Haha.. I trust you. You for break bottle for him head. He's just insecure.

Fairmedia:
Why you no break his head.

My guys help me settle scores.

Shalommy:
Good for you! Go and marry joor. Chaiii.. Thank God, she wasn't a P.boy's wife!

Wetin ah wan do with him wife? Na just normal friends we be. I can't even get an erection for her because I don't do married women. It's a no no! for me.

czarr:
Keep his wife's hair out your fvcking mouth!!

STFU!!

Yaass! You read the headline right. The Oga gave it to me wotowoto.

There's this supermarket close to my flat where I usually go to buy stuffs. The woman managing it is married but she's young, very pretty and still sexy. Having lived in that area for a while now, we do relate well enough.

I'll call her my friend because we do have lots of conversations anytime I go there to buy stuffs. Her husband knows me also. As he has seen me relate with his wife on several occasions on a mutual ground.

So yesterday, I went to buy sardines and eggs. When I got there, I noticed that she made her hair and she was looking all beautiful. The I decided to tease her a little. I didn't notice that her husband was around. Just behind a counter. Even if he was around, and I noticed, I'd still have complimented her though. But not loudly anyways.

I told her "Madam! You made your hair?" She began smiling then I rounded up with "hmm.. Madam, why so beautiful?".

I didn't even take the next breath before I felt someone dragging my shoulders. I turned, the next thing was a heavy slap/blow that landed on my face. I can't say if it's was a slap or blow because at that point, I was struggling to get myself. Her husband must be an ex boxer or old soldier.

In my confusion and moments of gathering stamina, the only thing I was hearing was "ahh! Darling why na", "she's my wife, you don't talk to her as such", "I've been noticing you", "bla blaa blaaa".

I managed to regain mild consciousness. Na water abi tears na him full my eyes. Got my phone and dial my mates number who's a lieutenant. I think her husband overhead me. So he went on in making his own calls too.

My mate came with some red beret officers and the respect now is overdose.

I've a serious crush on Nancy Isieme. Maybe her backside or her lovely face. But she intrigues me so well.

Then Chidinma Okoli. Stumbled on her IG page one time when perusing through Instagram. I love her curves and cute smile. She's engaged now sha.

Meeting Arya Starr would be the quickest between all these my celeb crush sha. She has mad sèx appeal and banging facàde.