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FamilyRe: Broken & Dejected: Found Out Wife Is Having An Affair With A Family Friend. by Ochyes: 2:56pm On Feb 17
How far OP? How did it end with your wife? What happened was really unfortunate.
FamilyRe: Parents Having An Affair by Ochyes: 2:51pm On Feb 17
@OP if you are reading this. How did it go? Did they later married? About 14-15 years might have gone.
Science/TechnologyRe: Rita Orji Appointed To UN Panel On AI by Ochyes: 2:03pm On Feb 16
Wow. Congratulations. I like this lady. She is so young. Continue to achieve much more.
PoliticsRe: How 36 Nigerian Youths Ended Up In Russia-Ukraine War by Ochyes: 7:02pm On Feb 15
Did each of the thirty six states of the federation donated one one soldier each? Hmmm
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Atletico Madrid Vs Barcelona: Copa Del Rey Semi Finals (4 - 0) On 12th Feb 2026 by Ochyes: 9:29pm On Feb 12
Wao. I'm loving this. Lookman go on and tear their net with too much goals
CelebritiesRe: My Doctor Asked Me Why I Didn’t Let My Brother-in-law Impregnate Me - Nkubi Wife by Ochyes: 3:08pm On Feb 11
HacheNoire:
This is why it is advisable to be armed when going to the hospital.
Armed with cutlass. Hahahaha
Please I'm just joking.
CelebritiesRe: "Men Contribute 95% To Failed Marriages” - Uche Ogbodo Sparks Debate by Ochyes: 8:03am On Feb 11
Just imagine the picture of the person who yearned this.
PoliticsRe: I Never Thought Trump Would Recognise Me – Remi Tinubu by Ochyes: 10:11pm On Feb 09
SpaceX:
my mama no Dey dull like her, once the woman open her mouth E go look like say she is not mentally okay.
How do we even believe you even respect your mother? Charity begins at home.
Foreign AffairsRe: Top 30 Countries By Electricity Production Capacity by Ochyes: 9:27am On Feb 09
Are there people in this country benefiting from us not having constant electricity? This is a matter to think about.
RomanceI Should Have Listened To My Mother” — Single Mother Of 2 Breaks Down In Tears by Ochyes(op): 5:01pm On Feb 06
"I should have listened to my mother" — Single mother of 2 breaks down in tears
A woman has sparked intense reactions online after breaking down in tears while sharing how ignoring her mother’s advice led her to becoming a single mother of two without a husband.

In a viral video circulating on X (formerly Twitter), the woman, identified as Goodness, spoke emotionally about the choices she made in her younger years and the regrets she now carries.

Goodness explained that during her early days at the university, she received several marriage proposals but turned them all down.

According to her, she believed she was too young and too beautiful to settle down at the time.

She said her mother repeatedly advised her not to reject every man who came seeking her hand in marriage, warning that she might regret it later.

However, she admitted that she ignored those warnings, believing marriage could wait.

While fighting back tears in the video, she said:

“Sometimes, it’s good to listen to your parent, it’s good to listen to them. My reason is this, I don’t want to cry.

My reason is this, I can remember when I was in my first semester in the university, even my send semester, my third semester, so many men were coming for my hand in marriage, I was doing guy, and thinking that I’m too beautiful.

I don’t want any man to tie me down, let me enjoy my life. My mum called me and was like, ‘Goodness you don’t need to reject all the men that want your hand in marriage’.

‘You don’t need to reject all at the same time, may be God want you to settle down, may be God want you to marry that time’, I told my mum marry for what, what am I using marriage to do, what is marriage, I’m too beautiful.

Anytime I want to marry, I will marry. That’s what I told my mum. I told her no man will say no to me when I really want to settle down that I very beautiful.

I was doing guy, rejecting all the men and my mum tried to talk to me, she tried to make me understand that may be when I will want husband I will not see it.

My mum told me ‘all the men that are coming for you can not be bad, look for one, may be God want you to marry’. I never listened to my mum.

I refused to listen to my mummy, now, today, I’m here, single mother of two looking for husband.”

Source: Opera News (Gistreel)

When I read her story, I actually felt for her. It doesn't mean you should accept every and anyone who proposes marriage to you.

But amongst the suitors, is there no suitable one among them? Time waits for no one. Make hay while the sun shines. Also there is a time and season for everything under the sun.

Read and be wise. God help us all.
IslamRe: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Ochyes: 11:31am On Feb 06
If you do as you said, you can be termed a"VIRTUOUS WOMAN".
CrimeRe: Indonesian Woman Flogged In Public For Sleeping With A Man (photos) by Ochyes: 7:39pm On Feb 05
This is partial if the man wasn't flogged.
PoliticsRe: Robert Orya Sentenced To 490 Years Imprisonment by Ochyes: 5:59pm On Feb 05
Running consecutively. Does it mean he will be serving 10 years only? Please somebody should explain.
BusinessRe: Naira Appreciates To ₦1,359/$ At Official Market As Reserves Hit $46.59 Billion by Ochyes: 5:55pm On Feb 05
Please let our Naira return back to below #200 to $1. How much was a dollar before 2015?
BusinessRe: Top 50 Assets In The World by Ochyes: 9:54pm On Jan 26
USA just dominate most of the assets. Where is China and Russia?
RomanceRe: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Ochyes: 5:39pm On Jan 22
The husband built his marriage on falsehood. What other lies has he possibly told?
RomanceRe: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by Ochyes: 5:36pm On Jan 22
Is 1972 till now not 53 or 54years as the case may be?
PoliticsRe: Terrorists Killing Thousands Of Nigerian Christians Are Being Annihilated- Trump by Ochyes: 3:41pm On Jan 22
I'm grateful for his concern to Nigerians
Foreign AffairsRe: Top Producing Countries by Ochyes: 9:11am On Jan 16
PHIPEX:
US is the largest producer of Beef. Yet dey no get "Fulani" wahala

They wan kill our farmers in Nigeria because of the little drop of beef we dey chop
This one enter me.
Foreign AffairsRe: Top Producing Countries by Ochyes: 9:09am On Jan 16
Wetin Naija con de produce na.
If you want to be prosperous, you got to be productive.
SportsTunisia Offer Chelle $100,000 A Month Deal To Dump Super Eagles After AFCON by Ochyes(op): 8:55am On Jan 12
Tunisia have reportedly made a strong move to lure Super Eagles head coach Eric Chelle away from Nigeria following his impressive outing at the ongoing Africa Cup of Nations, according to OwnGoalNigeria.


Chelle has emerged as one of the most sought-after coaches on the continent after guiding Nigeria to the semi-finals of the tournament. The Super Eagles’ performances have drawn widespread attention, placing the former Mali coach firmly on the radar of several African football federations.

The Tunisia Football Federation is currently in the market for a new head coach after parting ways with Sami Trabelsi. Tunisia’s decision followed their elimination from the competition, having earlier suffered a 3–2 defeat to Nigeria during the group stage.

According to reports, Tunisian officials have sounded out Chelle and are prepared to offer him a lucrative contract worth $100,000 per month. An official approach to his representatives is expected after the conclusion of the AFCON.

Chelle’s contractual situation with the Nigeria Football Federation remains unclear, despite achieving the target of reaching the semi-finals. Aside from Tunisia, Angola and Guinea are also said to have submitted proposals, further underlining Chelle’s rising profile in African football.

Source: Opera News
Christianity EtcRe: Stop These Sexual Acts In 2026 by Ochyes: 1:11pm On Jan 04
Antichristian2:
Why should Christians stop the sexual act when Samson was active sexually without marriage and Holy spirit was still empowering him?
Looking unto Jesus the Author and Finisher of our faith. Jesus told the woman caught in adultery to"go and sin no more". Samson had character problem. He died prematurely. He lost his anointing, ministry, eyes and life. Follow good examples not bad ones.
PoliticsRe: You Failed As Anambra Governor, Bayo Onanuga Slams Peter Obi by Ochyes: 12:06pm On Jan 01
You can't bring someone down who is already down. You go down when you are pushing someone down. Make sure you are righteous before condemning others.
FoodRe: Lady Kills The Snake Eating Her Chicken, Then Eats The Snake For Lunch by Ochyes: 10:50am On Jan 01
Please who can remind us the name of the nairaland guy that likes snake?
FamilyRe: I Tried Feminism With My Husband And He Stopped Eating My Food - Nigerian Wife by Ochyes: 10:42am On Jan 01
Samantha125:
I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out... grin grin grin
So You are willingto destoy something beautiful. So so sorry.
FamilyRe: My Candid Advice For You This 2026 by Ochyes: 10:29am On Jan 01
Why
RollinTNDA:
Go to brothels in the afternoon
Instead of going there at night.
PoliticsRe: We made the biggest political mistake fielding Obi in 2023, we apologise - LP by Ochyes: 7:51pm On Dec 31, 2025
To me, Obi move to ADC is painful. I think Peter Obi made them more popular. How popular were they before Peter Obi joined them?
Foreign AffairsRe: Insecurity: Turkey Arrests 357 Islamic State Terrorists Planning New Year Attack by Ochyes: 6:51pm On Dec 31, 2025
ISIS is also troubling Turkey? Someone asked for Turkey. We want peace.
RomanceRe: Women Cheat More, They Are Just More Discreet” — Toke Makinwa Sparks Debate by Ochyes: 12:10am On Dec 29, 2025
Antoeni:
A Woman Can Develop Feelings For a Man Who Fixed Her Car On The Road And Forget The Man Who Bought The Car.
You don't mean it?
PoliticsRe: Only Fresh Passage, Not Re-Gazetting Can Validate Tax Reform Laws - Atiku by Ochyes: 11:57pm On Dec 28, 2025
I support Atiku on this. This should be properly handled because of the future.
PoliticsRe: US Resumes Surveillance Of Sambisa Forest After Air Strikes In Sokoto by Ochyes: 8:49pm On Dec 28, 2025
Please the Americans should not divulge their plans and strategies to any Naija. I don talk my own. All terrorists should be taken by surprise without anyone informing them.
Foreign AffairsRe: EFF Condemns US Attacks In Northwest Nigeria by Ochyes: 4:08pm On Dec 26, 2025
Where was this ETF when terrorists were wreaking havock and destroying lives?

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