edego2up: I married my wife and my father in-law gave us his blessings after that every year ending I use to give my father in-law things like rice chicken and some ingredients for the celebration, By late last year my in-law died and these things which i use to give my father in-law now goes to my mother inlaw, but the senior brother to my father in-law is now on my neck, anytime he sees my wife,he always is threatening fire and brimstone.
He says that since his brother's demised we have not been visiting him and infact have not received any Christmas gift from US Meanwhile,in every Christmas i always do for my mother inlaw what i should have done for my father in-law.
I am now confused i don't know who to serve now between my mother in-law and uncle in-law.he is now blowing fire and brimestone
The major matter now is how i can be able to service my mother inlaw and my uncle in-law then my family. I am a low income earner just managing to keep ends meet, see where i now find myself.
The main reason i am nolonger at ease is because these tribe are mainly known to practice witchcraft especialy the very family.
Please nairalanders what should I do now to save my head and the head of my loved ones. If you love jokes kindly skip this Post for this is a very serious matter.
Even now my mind is telling me to devorse her and life goes on, will this decision also affect me? infact how, how, hooooooowwwwee?
Oga...I'm very angry with you RN. Like, how do you fidget on matters with less relevance. I don't know from which culture you are marrying from, but from the Igbo culture that I know very well, your uncle in law has no right to request anything from you.
On the demise of your father in law, the woman should be the next in line. When next he calls to tell you shii, boss, be the man you ought to be and make a strong statement, I didn't say you should shout at him, "make a fucking strong statement "!!
Make it clear to him that you owe him nothing, and don't also take it lightly with your wife too. Make her feel the heat too. And as for the thought of divorce, call it quit, she has not done any thing wrong you, unless she is insisting you be gifting the both of the knowing fully well you are not that buoyant. Just make her feel the heat, make her understand you are angry, that way, she won't feel relaxed.
And as for the witchcrafting, this is where you must man up. This is Africa, everyone has his own juju, just that you don't know it yet.
KiNg0G: too many weak men in our generation who can't man up to speak when need be..... thank you Lord for creating men like us different.
If you think that this generation of men are weak, wait till the next 10 years. Then you will see the product of all these low IQ feminists and single mothers on this forum.
[quote author= post=108806149]May Devil punish all terrorists and kidnappers in Nigeria, from boko haram, to ipob terrorist organizations, esn, bandits, evil ones among the herdsmen, ritualists, cannibals, kidnappers etc
Any sane, honest and hardworking Nigerian will gladly say AMEN to the above if they know they are not supporting and cheering on terrorists and murderers in this nation.
Karma knows everyone address and posterity will judge us all, whether for good or for bad..
We Rise.[/quote]I can't help it but to feel pity for you each time I read your comments. Just imagine what an adult is typing?!
twilliamx: 15m wey dey suppose by guns to protect themselves...keep embolding terrorist...fools
Buy guns? So that lia Muhammad and Mallami, with their bounch of political goons will label them terrorists and annihilate them using the same Nigerian Army.
Insecurity: We need help, our forests now accommodate terrorists, bandits, robbers — Ganduje begs Buhari Ganduje Appeals for more military institutions in Kano forest
Tycyborg: What are you going to gain when you spread lies.. Dollar is 410 and in history the highest is 413 and i repeat in history... When you spread false news you think you damage others or trying to change peoples perspective towards something or someone but you damage yourself more and please i speak with fact... research it yourself... in additional the inflation in Nigeria is a Self caused one.... We are greedy in nature... Yes there are some things currency falls affected but they are not up to 30% of commodities but nigerians due to our greedy nature makes the inflation 200% now compare 30% to 200% and yet we do our normal routine in which we know the truth but we point fingers are others for being greedy or failing... imagine cray fish, periwinkle, onions and other things not even affected by exchange rate being expensive all of a sudden... instead of us to blame ourselves we keep pointing hands and that is why this country can never change... government caused 30% of our problems for being neglectful and corrupt and we caused 70% we forget the people in the government today are the extension of what we really are as a citizen.
Ignorance is forgivable, but you see foolishness, it makes one look disgusting, which is how you look right now.
I wouldn't have replied you if had made your comment as a suggestion, but the fact you started calling people a lair made it even worse. How can you just quote the interbank rate and neglecting the black market?
Who in his right senses will even change dollar in the bank knowing the price the black market. But let's even go by the interbank rate, is that the best thing your president can offer? Or should you also blame it on ipob as usual?
And you even have the nerve to say that things currency fall doesn't affect is not up to 30%. How old are you sef? What do you do for a living? Cos you sound like a kid to me. How can somebody living in this mess of a country say that the inflation is caused by the people?! Are you normal at all.
When last did you travel outside the country? How many states have you even travelled to?! All you guys know is to read rubbish by your brown envelope media!! Damn Ignorance fellows on this forum!!
Don't you read the news: the rising pump prices, the chronic borrowing that are never accounted for, the bad policies, the always increasing taxes on virtually everything we do here. Come...have you cleared a goods from the wharf? Who dey Bleep is this kid?!
See kid, just stop quoting me till you are 18. What a dumb ass!!
bloomstories: XMAS RUSH!!! Nollywood Actress, Empress Njamah Hits Abuja With Her Fashion Brand, House Of Empress
In an apparent effort to diversify her streams of income, popular Nollywood screen diva, Empress Njamah has taken her fashion brand, House of Empress to the doorstep of Abuja residents, the nation's capital.
The fashion entrepreneur at a recent event to unveil the brand assembled top rated socialites, entertainers, fashion designers, fabrics dealers and top class businessmen and women.
Located at suite B6, Primus Mall, 1st Avenue Gwarinpa, Abuja, House of Empress, HOE is a place to be for world class scents, suitable shoe line, Italian Silks, Virgin Hairs, ready to wear materials, as well as Luxury Fabrics, Customized Clothings and lots more.
Speaking with newsmen shortly after unveiling the brand, Empress Njamah noted that the need for the launch of the new HOE Branch was to ensure her expansion and meet the requirements of their fast increasing national and international Customers.
She therefore stated that HOE will remain committed to the need and creative requirements of her brand lovers.
The multi-million fashion brand was established in 2011, which followed the diversification of her CEO into the apparel business.
The brand has continued to introduce several amazing designs, unique styles and other beautifully fabricated and customised clothings.
Users of her brand have expressed satisfaction in the services delivered by the HOE Brand, stressing that the unveiling of Abuja branch is a step in the right direction in serving them.
Landmack: You as an ipob minion need to check your mental health too.
this time around there's no DSS in the picture to put all d blame on.
if u dont know,know it now that despite buhari's harsh economic policies...the pple of south east had never had to cry like they're doing now,money flow in the two economic states (Anambra and Imo) were 70% good...
but now,,the story has changed. no thanks to ipob who caused the economic decline of south east starting from August this year. they were busy burning and shutting down igbo businesses and giving orders for sit at homes all because of MNK who's still rotting in prison. never seen a more foolish group
Sometimes I wonder which dog vomited people like you. No brains at all. How come you haven't answered by question? Is ipob responsible for the 15% inflation rate, or are they responsible for high dollar exchange rate, or responsible for the embarrassing high rate of borrowing? Answer or keep shut!!
Landmack: so are u trying to rule out the fact that sit at homes by terrorist ipob didn't contribute to the dwindling economy of south east?
just talk rubbish, make balls of thunder fall on that ur empty head
You are guys are just a bunch of determined low-life BMC fools. Coronavirus saw everyone lovkef up for two months, and the SE economy didn't collapse. How is it that that closing the market for just one day will liquidate all businesses?! You are definitely a terrible economist.
For the records though, closing the market on Mondays is never the cause of the low patronage. Blame your vegetable of aso rock father that has collapsed the economy through chronic borrowing and bad policies. And mind you, ipob is never behind the Monday closure of shops in the SE, blame it on your underpaid political thugs sponsored by the same aso rock chief terrorist himself.
Again, the debt to GDP ratio is definitely nothing to write home about. I guess ipob caused that too? Una mumu here is just Legendary.
SayAsSeen: Hello friends, I'd like to ask intelligent and older minds for advise about an issue before I react.
My wife's elder brother is visiting my house and my wife has been serving his food first before serving and bringing my good, in my own house.
Please I just want to ask if this is wrong or right or even just normal?
I worked all through the night and was famished by the time the day broke this morning. I gave her some dough and told her to prepare me noodles and sardine, emphasizing on the fact that I was very hungry.
NOTE: Her Brother was still asleep at this time.
She prepared the meal, split it into two. Woke up and served her brother first in my guest room before coming to my room to give her hungry husband his food.
I was so mad, I ignored the food, went out to smoke a cigarette. While I was doing that it occured to me ask for advice here, because I didn't want to ask anybody I knew personally.
I still don't know whether to be mad, or to just ignore it.
I am a strong believer of common sense and respect and her actions this morning lack both! It would have take her less than 30 seconds to give me my food then go wake and serve her brother!
Is she told me she needed money for something and I put my younger sister's need over her's-no matter how tribal her's might be-i know how she'd react and the amount of making up I'd have to do.
I am trying to be very mature about this, that's why I keeping things anonymous?
Besides I'd like to know, I possibly can't be the only person who has experienced this sort of situation because they say there's nothing new under the sun. Please who has ever felt this way, I am very understanding and if something irks me, it would irk every body else too.
Wish I could explain better
Oga nawa for you oo...why you come dey observe like woman. Or don't you have anything better to do?
"Just hearing the terrible news coming out from my ancestral home Kaita LG in Katsina State. Armed bandits attacked the LG yesterday night and killed dozens & displaced uncountable people from their home."
CotenantNIG: In terms of State distribution, Ebonyi, Anambra and Enugu were the three top States with the highest prices of beans (white black eye, sold loose) at N887.77, N875.73, and N783.56 respectively. The least prices were recorded in Bauchi State, Adamawa State and Borno State with N235.22, N251.59 and N254.87 respectively.
Moreover, Ogun State, Bayelsa State, Ondo State and Lagos State recorded the highest prices of agric egg (medium size price of one) at N70.06 for Ogun State and N70.00 each for Bayelsa State, Ondo State and Lagos State. Taraba State, Yobe State and Plateau State had the least prices of egg in November 2021 at N41.51, N41.64 and N41.91 respectively.
Looking at a bottle of vegetable oil, Ekiti State, Abuja and Ebonyi State recorded the most prices at N1,250.00, N1,213.33 and N1,153.33 respectively. Others such as Niger State, Gombe State and Plateau State had the least prices with N495.89, N523.81 and N524.44 respectively. In terms of prices of palm oil, Enugu State, Anambra State and Abuja were top with high prices at N1,063.89, N1,043.14 and N1,026.67 respectively, while Kwara State, Benue State and Bauchi State recorded the least with N446.67, N468.89 and N472.22 respectively.
Interestingly, tubers were most expensive in Lagos State, Rivers State and Akwa Ibom State at N600.27, N556.68 and N529.90 respectively, while Taraba State, Gombe State and Bauchi State had the cheapest with N125.33, N126.89 and N127.35 respectively.
Prices are collected across all the 774 local governments across all States and the FCT from over 10,000 respondents and locations and reflect actual prices households state they actually bought those items.
Lets look at the prices region by region. Data was gotten from the Nigerian Bureau of Statistic
Come oo...izzy not the same guy dem wan chase commot for house? Which means em no geh house lidis. As in, he can't afford to pay house rent. What is he doing with a car? Bad economist, that is, if its true they wanted to throw him out tru tru
Thandiubani: Tiwa Savage’s son, Jamil Balogun and Davido’s first daughter, Imade have been spotted on a play date with fans urging their parents to allow them marry in the future.
It is no longer news that Jamil and Imade are very good and close friends.
However, their parents have consolidated the friendship by making it possible for the kids to always interact with each other to build love and friendship.
In the video, the two friends could be seen swimming in a pool together and having their lunch.
Nigerians have applauded the closeness between the two. Some have urged the parents to make sure that the two marry in the future.
EmekaStanley: It's a great time to be alive as on this day, 22nd December 2021, I declare my intentions to contest for Nigeria's Presidency come 2023.
Nigerians have been plagued with bad leadership all these years but today, a new dawn beckons on us all. Time to choose between light and darkness, youthful vigor and tiredness of old age, fresh air and air filled with rot, . Nigerians can now choose between sincerity of purpose and the dark lane of status quo.
I am the right man to lead this nation to that land where security of lives and properties is paramount, that land of prosperity and that land of power among the comity of nations.
The ball is in our court at this time to take back our nation and rescue it from snakes and scorpions.
The biggest thing you could ever do as a Nigerian in ensuring that you and your generation unborn enjoys a nation where they can be safe, a nation where the opportunity to thrive is equal, is clamoring, supporting and voting me to become Nigeria's President come 2023.
You can't afford to give up now, heave a sigh of relief, for you are about to witness the rebirth of this nation.
EmekaStanley: It's a great time to be alive as on this day, 22nd December 2021, I declare my intentions to contest for Nigeria's Presidency come 2023.
Nigerians have been plagued with bad leadership all these years but today, a new dawn beckons on us all. Time to choose between light and darkness, youthful vigor and tiredness of old age, fresh air and air filled with rot, . Nigerians can now choose between sincerity of purpose and the dark lane of status quo.
I am the right man to lead this nation to that land where security of lives and properties is paramount, that land of prosperity and that land of power among the comity of nations.
The ball is in our court at this time to take back our nation and rescue it from snakes and scorpions.
The biggest thing you could ever do as a Nigerian in ensuring that you and your generation unborn enjoys a nation where they can be safe, a nation where the opportunity to thrive is equal, is clamoring, supporting and voting me to become Nigeria's President come 2023.
You can't afford to give up now, heave a sigh of relief, for you are about to witness the rebirth of this nation.
Culture › Re: Dancing Igbo Egedege Music With My Russian Girlfriend by od501: 9:10pm On Dec 25, 2021
