NwekeUG: An American woman, Jayla Brenae, made her husband emotional when she made him realise that all his debts have been paid off, IgbereTV reports.
She shared a video of her surprising her husband on Boxing Day with gifts which included a shoe.
In the video, the man is seen unwrapping the gifts when he saw the shoe with the inscription; “debt free”.
Jayla proceeded to hand him a phone on which he watches a video clip confirming that she has paid off his student loan debt.
On realising what his wife had done, the man became teary-eyed and was overwhelmed with emotion.
GurlFriend: I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.
My Experience
I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'
My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.
That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.
So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.
I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.
He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?
Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.
I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.
After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.
Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?
That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.
Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.
Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.
What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.
I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.
All lies. I smell rat here. A naija hal knew that a man has small D her went ahead with the marriage. Nooo...something didn't fit
Rinoxy: A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!
Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.
I said, and always say, "real men are no more!!" What is left are the products of retired slay queens, and westernised idiots who parade themselves as educated fellows.
Just a imagine what a woman a man married said to his face, and still have emfruntry to disrespect him further!! First, slap that fornication outta her, send her straight to her boyfriend's house. Call her people and schedule when you will come and collect your dowry!!
muheeb01: See what a human being reduced herself too chai...a mere sex object cos of 60k,no dignity nothing,it's not easy to raise a female child o
Check my signature and profile to contact me and my work,I have a very potent traditional or herbal solution for you on your health....
This is exactly why I don't blame people here shouting clitocurrency upandan. Cos gals of these days ee...what they do will make you think of being single all your life.
MNDY: Accept it Bro. You f.ucked up. Maybe you even thought only you was lashing her as at that time sef. Best thing to do for the gender is to occasionally get them small inexpensive gifts of dresses, clothes, panties, toiletries etc.
rentAcock: Everyone likes a conspiracy theory because it's intriguing and exciting. There is no alien encounter. These Americans love stiring the pot with all these alien stuff just to get Billions in funding for NASA and also to continue selling you Hollywood movies about this stuff. Less than 5% of the oceans have been studied, for all we know, there are likely millions of unknown species living in the depth of the ocean floor that we know nothing about, meanwhile, NASA's priority is to spend billions to explore other celestial bodies. That makes no sense to me, but it's an attention-grabbing news story for the gullible.
NovesaTillie: Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.
Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice. This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him. I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.
Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..
Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also. Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him We both stay in Abuja.
Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Product of single mothers. We know them when we see one. Your guy dey Bleep up ma'an, continue giving him see-finish until he comes back to his senses. I hate men dey no geh shame. I hate men without pride, that alpha male kinda ego. Chai...re men are really on decline!!
BadRadio: Just find a lady that's goal oriented, a supportive woman, a visionary, an independent woman with good manners and culinary skills... a graduate perhaps and get married. Stop checking for virginity and body counts.... just get married !!!
It is fair to say that you may have defiled and abused your countless ex's, but they are now married, If the guys who married them were scouting for virgins or were checking body counts like you are doing now then all the ladies in the world will grow old without getting married.
hotwax: My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.
She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle
The Problem
Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too. I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.
She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in. She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).
As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.
Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with. She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.
She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.
Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.
I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.
It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.
Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.
“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.
The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.
Op...okay...raise your right hand up let's induct you into the committee of redpillers. Repeat after me:
Say "I"...Hotwax, Solemnly swear....that i will uphold the rules and regulations of redpillers, both within and outside NL, and never to undermine her philosophies..., so help me God.
Congratulations bro...you are welcome aboard. If Hoes fail you, we can never fail you.
Newsmic: Popular Nollywood actress, Nkechi Blessing Sunday has shown off her new house as her greatest achievement in the year 2021, IgbereTV reports.
According to her, she never knew that building a house could be difficult as she built the house from tscratch. She stated that she wished her mum was alive to see the house.
Sharing photos of the house on Instagram, she wrote;
Lemme be honest with you, this is not Clitocurrency. This is a moderate house. If it's those ones that build houses in lekki, Ikeja, Banana island that is worth hundreds of millions and billions, mehn...I will say no fuvking way.
AGurlnoname: Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.
Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.
Rtk5: Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke.
Please I am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner.
I remember when I lost my job and things became so bad that I planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was I fell into a deep sleep that I didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.
Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, I stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened.
There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview, i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home.
In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her.
Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here.
The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is that things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belongs. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house.
Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.
Keep thinking about what people will say until she kee you trowa.
Na children things nah...the guy lacks orientation. He didn't come out well. Again, the gal Don observe em come see say na small boy, he has nothing to offer.
bloomstories: Abuja, the nation's capital could be safely said to be one of the cities that has ended the year 2021 on a high note especially with the recently concluded biggest pool party in town, Abuja All White Pool Party.
The annual fun-filled event organised by one of the leading entertainment entrepreneurs in Abuja, Ambassador Kingsley Amafibe seeks to provide a conducive atmosphere for residents of the capital city to unwind after the long year of hustling and bustling.
It also seeks to bring together high and mighty in Abuja to cross-fertilize ideas, network and build new business relationships with the aim of starting the fresh year on an excellent footing.
In a chat with newsmen shortly after the All White Pool Party which took place at at Commodore Suite, 25 Kumasi Crescent Wuse 2 Abuja, the lead organiser, Amb. Amafibe said seeing the end of the year is worth celebrating despite the challenges that came with it.
He remarked that it may have come with unmet targets for some individuals and organizations but it is worth celebrating irrespective of the ups and downs at least for the gift of life and health.
According to Amafibe one of the reasons for the party is for people to build a new network and contact to enable them take their businesses and career to greater heights.
Participants were thrilled with over 40 super models assembled from across the country and beyond.
Music and jaw-dropping comedy to make residents laugh off the challenges of the year was in sufficient abundance as A-line artistes and DJs were assembled to feed the fun fantasy of participants.
Also, lots of prices were also won at the event.
Dj_icemo, @iamdjhippsonstep, @dilegend, @iamdjyounggee, @djemmi and more were among those who electrified the venue with their music.
The event was proudly powered by Good Dream Multimedia Concept.
Amafibe who is also the CEO of Peace Ambassador Agency and organiser of Miss Ambassador for Peace Pageant expressed gratitude to the participants, noting that his brand will continue to wet the appetite of Abuja residents with unforgettable pool party experience and other social events.
The participants who could not hide their joy expressed satisfaction with the quality of content they were thrilled with. Video:
Kzinne: imagine the thrash you wrote up there. Do you know how many men have changed their communities around? Not just families? You never see money so go sit down
Read in-between lines, you will notice that guys don use this one do trade by barter. She is frustrated, but I strongly believe she is product of a single mother. They are always like that, aggressive and bitter one men.
pocohantas: Beautiful. That is why I love girls. Even if they are doing olosho in town, they don’t mind milking all the men in Lagos/Abj and sending it home. Once a girl starts dating a working man, let alone working, you will start seeing little changes in her family house. Even if na curtain, she go buy.
But you see Tallesty’s gender. That is how they’ll be posting “Mama’s prayer keeps me going”. “Doing this for mama”.
Make mama looseguard drop 2k for parlour, them go move am.
If they even do yahoo and hit big, their family house would become below them. They will stay in a hotel for months.
I can’t imagine life without a daughter. Chukwu okike ekwela ihe ojo!!!!!
Hanti...your hate has been noted. But you and I knows that all those things you said there is complete trash!!
I don't know who you are, but very sure that in your village, 99.9% who were helped in businesses were done by a man. Look at all the families doing well in your Village and your current neighbourhood, 99.9% of the sponsors are all men too. Seriously, what do women like you have against the male folks?! You think people like you will even last one month without a man in the picture.
I respect women (who respect themselves), but never for one day will I compare a woman to a man: it is a direct insult. I also noted your prayer, and I join you in saying the same prayer: May you conceive all females, and may the males that should be amongst them be converted to females too.
Tingotoe: My good friend and secondary School classmate Buhari's ADC Colonel Yusuf Dodo tested positive for covid too. Wishing him and the others a quick recovery. Amen
I wish your friend quick recovery, but you see that other name you mentioned, may Godswill be done ontop em head. Amen!!
Family › Re: Woman Surprises Her Husband By Paying Off His Debt (Photos, Video) by od501: 8:42pm On Dec 29, 2021
