₦airaland Forum

cbrass:
you will be bored. 95% will pic their system over a wife let alone GF

That's my expectation....

Let me grab my chair and read comments.....

Happy birthday the IrokoTv boss. God bless your new age.

That your position and fingers are saying otherwise, someone helped harvested it....

He went to do ritual.....at least I know the reason he died.

Na every snake una dey chop?? Ah....ah!

There must be an ice cream man in every gathering....be it inside or outside
Spot him out there......

Jceeee:
Hello everybody ,
I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .

I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.

My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.

I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .

I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.

I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .

Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.

Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.

I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.

Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .

please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do

It's CONFESSION time!!
I would advise you to get to know her Pastor....then confess to him about everything. Your father will eventually know of this, your mum will be involved too. Let the Pastor be a mediator between you and your family.... including your husband. You will tell your husband, then the Pastor will come in..... but if your husband's family get to know this.... there will be war. You can't kill your sister.

Died on the spot? I don't believe that.... how come the injuries on his face, from the shootout?

If the President had said "some" Nigerian youths are lazy..... maybe he wouldn't have received a backlash. This is the real lazy Nigerian Youths..... foolish

Good one..... keep trying.

thatsleepboy1:
olooh

òwú ọnwụ.

ọsọ gị wu onye ma ndị dị ndụ and ndị wuru anwụ. biko kposiri gị gáfè m n'azu

adaka

Kama I ga agwa nwa okorobia ezigbo okwu.....Ina akogheri. Pray that you don't find yourself in a situation you feel weak. Please shift, let me see those standing up.

thatsleepboy1:
your moniker says it all


odefa
m kwo ókwú gị gbụo onwé gí

Nke I di ò bū ndù?

Coolcalmcollect:
you should learn to mind your business, make thunder no strike you

Tell that to your brain....

Terrible!!!

A welcomed development....

Coolcalmcollect:
na your papa get empty brain, going to sell stuff at arena na work?
broke bish supporting broke bish

You mustn't comment rubbish if you don't have any thing reasonable in your head to say.....

Cashsteady:
Mention any country that is crime free.. but it's absolutely annoying when ur host are in ur land committing all sorts of crimes.. mention any Yoruba you have seen in the east committing crimes but your brothers are everywhere in the west committing lot of crimes is because we Yorubas are silent about it or we don't Know that 80% of crimes in our land are by igbos and other foreigners... Don't worry when this useless country divides una go understand score

Take it easy on yourself man.... tribalism is gradually eating you up. That's not healthy for you. A crime is a crime, no matter who's involved.... it's even worse if a community is well known for an evil act.

thatsleepboy1:
buy a thick towel and soak it inside hot oil and use it to massage your chest.

Don't show yourself here...go and sleep

Cashsteady:
At least in is land.. we don't go to other people's land and commit crimes like you and your fulani brothers.. from baby factory to car theft and other sort of crimes make una carry ur crime go ur region abeg

So it's cool when you have your murderous brothers live amongst you.... really? They rather commit the atrocities in their land..... it's totally acceptable to you. Wonders shall never end.

Coolcalmcollect:
that's why isn't never good to marry a poor and jobless or broke woman, the pressue becomes too much when you experience a down turn in your business or job...marrying a woman that works or has money will be a cushion in those moments. but some men will never listen, na those broke bishes dey sweet them pass so them go fit control dem. this one broke wife don frustrate am him don kill am.... lolzz

Stop exposing your empty head......go back and read that thing. She had something doing.

Cashsteady:
Can we just kick this stupid element out of our land.. this people are really painting us bad with the crimes they are committing in the west from baby factory to robbery shey na crime make person accommodate?

When someone from your tribe commit murder..... how do you feel about it?

Chineke ekwekwala ihe ojo...... this is just getting too much.

This news get as e be

When the head doesn't even understand what his work is all about.... tell me what orders he will issue to his officials. That's our problem

Cool

So many people are just trying to be relevant in the negative way..... this is so pathetic. Girls are seriously reducing their worth nowadays....
Decent girls/ladies out there, hold up your heads high..... every sensible man will choose you over and over again.

What a fuckery!!!

I think there is a wave of Madness in this country....
Who is fooling who? The fact that the locals support the insurgents and their likes cannot be under emphasized. It is so true.... They provide the logistics and their elites provide the funds, then they milk the country and foreign countries with the situation.
God will punish them one after the other.

No be small Bollywood music video

Pelxmiye:
She's already a weak link for anyone's government, but well, this is Nigeria where being logical and reasonable makes you either an hater or IPOB, I don't know think she's a plus for any government, other than shining her kongo by top polithiefian,yet many still argue that BBNaija wasn't created for furthering the whoring agendas of some hoes ,this year's candidates have shown clearly that all that women with big asses and big boobs needs to climb the next ladder of life is "BBNaija"....SSA my foot, we need to seperate being a celebrity from being a leader, they're like North and South, but here in Nigeria, just be a celebrity, everything else would fall into your laps ....what do you say? you give me that number I asked for or do I do my research myself , but nah I dont have time for stalking people

My goodness!!!! You again . I didn't know it was you all along.

Pelxmiye:
Does it matter?

It matters Bro.... either she focuses on social media lifestyle or the other way round..
Opponents can use it as a tool against the government.