Good evening Sir, I had this dream three days ago, in it, the president had come to Visit and there was a large crowd of people, but as the president was leaving the venue, he stopped right in front of me and smiled asking how I was doing and all that, I was afraid and wondered why he stopped at me, he then put forward his right hand and shook me, still smiling, he took off his hat and put it on my head,momentarily and wore it on again. Please what is the meaning of this dream.

Moji12:
you are so on point, that's wat I call thinking outside the box. There's is never a smoke without fire. He thought he could twist d whole story but alas d whole truth is starring and glaring. There is always three sides of the story, d first party's story, second party and the whole truth. Reading his story alone is choking me, I now imagine what the wife must have passed through.

you have no idea what you just concluded.
Let me make it a bit easier to comprehend.
I have never in my entire life hit my siblings, or anyone for that matter, the truth is and I will tell you. My estranged wife would easily slap me, and then sulk up to me later to apologise.
I grew up in a wonderful family, I never witnessed my parents fight or exchange words.
There has never been anything like domestic violence all the times she was with me till today.
What I now realize today, is the fact that she always had things her way, because I never checked,monitored or controlled her movement in and out of our home.
So, when I first noticed she was having affairs outside and repeated appeals for her to stop, she became something else.
She didn't pack out of our home, I drove her and the kids to her father's house.
I later found out from their security man that she always had male visitors, and most times wouldn't get back till the next day.
So, I told her the marriage was effectively over, that's when she conspired with her mum and brother to label domestic violence and all sorts against me and went to all the agencies you can imagine or think of in Lagos State, cos she knew she had lost the marriage.
I am a good man and I know so.
God will help me.

Notmyproblem:


Did you guys find your sister that was kidnapped? I was waiting to read the end of that incident and you never said anything about it.

Bros please when you come to us with problem please do come back to tell us how it ended ejoo.


As for your current predicament I hope enough has been said and I hope you act on it. It is unfortunate we will never hear your wife's version of the story but all the same God luck mate and may you find a perfect solution to your problem.

Thank you for bringing this up, yes we got her back.
We had prayers for her from all over the world.
My Eldest sister in the U.S ,my entire family members inEurope and S. A, and We here in Nigeria had marathon prayers on her behalf.
Quite sincerely, the kidnappers rejected the ransom, and brought her out at about 2.36 am on December,25th 2016.
We were overjoyed.
She eventually relocated to the U. S late last year, she is fine.
Thanks.

Dammylois:
I wonder what kind of a woman in her right senses will lv her husband's house to go lv wt her parents... Op how was she she able to convince you sef,who agrees to that?? Well we need to stop crying over spit milk.....You need your life back Sir,file for devorce,get a good lawyer if she lk mk she no show,money is her problem from the look of things,agree to pay fr child support...make sure you have contact with your kids anyhow,i'm sure they will still knw you as their Dad,but hw are we even sure they are your kids?

you won't believe this" in her petition to the office of the Public defender, and I quote" All medical expenses including payment for both C. S operations were paid for by a good samaritan" that's exactly how she put it, and I pinched myself! Is this woman for real! Of course I tendered all receipts of payments for the C. S operations and drugs, as well as bed space, which of course was a private air-conditioned room to the office of the public defender, and they carried out their investigations and confirmed that truly I made all payments from my U. B. A account. That's when they warned her and advised her to desist or face harsh penalties.
I am still in shock till today as regards the level of destruction this woman set out to inflict on me.

Chubhie:

Keep witnesses,records,evidences and timeline. it would come handy in front of a judge.

The little man would someday grow into a full fledged man. You are duty bound to guide him from your unfolding experiences. He must learn that a woman that loves him would move mountains to walk from calabar to Lagos to be in his arms. I'm sure you can take this joke?

Thanks, I certainly will.

Chubhie:
She wants a taste of two worlds. The security and stability you represents and the wild and free life with her boss.

Don't die on top woman matter. take a week off from work and go some nice location,listen to your heart, reflect and then design a strategy and tactically follow it through.

yeah! Am definitely taking some time off work.
Travel out for a few weeks, and sort myself out.
It's been more of hell for me.
My Son's birthday was last week, but his mother is too busy and unavailable, funny part of it all is that she has been sacked at work, so I keep wondering where she goes to and spends long hours on end. I have no idea what sort of mother would abandon her Son on his birthday.
And so, I had my Son's head teacher in school organise a birthday party for him at school with his class mates this week.

Yeah! you guys are right. I failed to act decisively at the time. Methinks I never really realised how bad it could get, and I always was on out of station projects within and outside ,but hey I just wanna get my life back.

kingreign:

I still repeat op is a sissy.

When you have a plain disposition to everything, I guess name calling is the order!

Its so deplorable that even on the first day of school for my Son, she wasn't there.
I had sent her an SMS as well as to her Mum to prepare the child, so we can all drive to the school and get him inducted and all that. By the time I got to her father's house in surulere, she wasn't even at home that morning, well later on she came back home and just came to the living room where I and her father were talking and carelessly told me, it was no big deal.
I told her father, "did you hear that", that woman is incorrigible.

these days her father is the one who calls me on behalf of the children, she doesn't call or answer, even when the children need medical attention. I have never seen a thing like this. But I always remind her, not to drag the kids into the fray.,as they are innocent of everything.

thank you all for your contributions, I have learnt the hard way.

OceanmorganTrix:
When all these started, it was never published on NL now that it is about to finish you are posting it.


If I advise you, confusion go confuse you
Because I can not watch a football match at 89 minutes and claim to know how the match started

Didn't quite imagine it would get to this point, really.

Good evening Nairalanders, I have no idea how to go about making this as clear as possible, but truth is I married a stranger.
I met this Lady in 2012,we became friendly, and talked on consistently.
At the time she was on NYSC in Ikom cross River State. By the way she is from Obosi in Anambra state.
She was visiting me in Lagos every week, of course I paid for her flight tickets back and forth for all the times she visited till we got married and beyond. I have never let her use the bus or public transport to anywhere, it's either I drive her, she drives or a taxi.
A few months to her passing out, she told me she was pregnant, so I thought I would marry her and cut the drama short, but that was my undoing.
We got married, but all through, she spent more time with her parents and siblings.
Fast forward to 2016,my wife got a job through my sister in Abuja, and everything got worse, she wouldn't get back home till very late everyday.
Her explanation was that her boss delayed her.
I got to find out she was dating her boss later, even caught her at hotels in ikeja G. R,.A and on the island with her boss at very odd hours of the night.
Don't get me wrong, I am okay, I live in a 5 bedroom duplex in ikeja, the house is very comfortable and cosy, and almost completing my personal building at awoyaya in ibeju. i am not a poor man.
Well, she gave birth to my first child a boy, but insisted on C. S, then my daughter, through C. S too. All were elective!
She wouldn't come back home,and spent more time at her parents than in our home, always saying she needs herMum to watch the kids,while she is out, we got maids, but she was so violent with them, they all left.
Fast forward to 2017,i asked my wife to come back home, she refused, well I told her the marriage wouldn't work anymore,as she wasnt living with me for the past two years.
She immediately went and petitioned me at office of the Public defender in Lagos State citing domestic violence, irresponsibility as to my kids and stuff, I have always provided food, toiletries, medicals,as well as pay my children's school fees till this minute. But she teamed up with her Mum and brother to make up so many fabrications because they demanded I pay a stipend to them every month, and I said no, I won't do that, your daughter, my wife is in your house cos she wants to be there, not because I sent her away or anything like that.Her father is the only person who is sane, but the man is a pensioner and can't help himself much, so she treats him with intimidation She reported me to the police and all agencies you can think of, well at last they conducted their investigations and found out she was telling lies.
I am no more interested in keeping her, and she has vowed that I can't divorce her or I die, but my kids are the issue now.
I need sound advice on how to go about this.
Please no mockery, I am in dire need of good advice. Thanks.

When your cousin who is in Lagos looking for a job ,but driving with uber, accepts an uber request, only to find out the rider is your wife leaving a hotel, where she spent time with her lover, a woman who has two kids already. Can you beat that!

GHANAIAN ARMY CHIEF ORDERS "SHOOT-TO-KILL" ON FULANI HERDSMEN


The about 200 combined military and police force deployed to evacuate the Fulani nomads from the Asante Akyem North and Sekyere Afram Plains Districts in the Ashanti region, have been advised to shoot on sight in the wake of the slightest threat.

The security personnel have been psyched to even shoot at a leave in the bush if it moves in a way they are suspicious of.

Addressing the battle-ready men in uniform as they set off to evacuate normally Fulani herdsmen from Agogo land, the Konongo Divisional police commander, Superintendent Bossman Ohene-Boadi painted a horrific picture of the nomads.

“They are not people we have to toil with, they are dangerous, if you joke with them, they will take your life,” he told his men.

The Fulani herdsmen have over the years been accused of destroying farmlands of Agogo residents and at times killing the farmers.

Three soldiers and a police officer were left in critical condition after being ambushed and shot by persons suspected to be Fulani herdsmen on Monday at Agogo on their normal operation.

The security personnel deployed at Asante Akyem North and Sekyere Afram Plains Districts have therefore been told to defend themselves.

“I believe in safety first,” Supt. Ohene-Boadi told an already charged team, “if you see anybody holding arms and wants to attack, please don’t waste time.”

He said the Operation Cowleg that were stationed there have been beefed with more officers from Accra.

He therefore enquired from the security personnel, “are Fulanis better than us? Can they shoot better than us?” which they answered in unison “no sir!”

“Nobody should die in the bush…no risk taking,” he reminded them of the potential threat ahead, revealing that some nomads calling themselves gorillas are bent on ambushing them.

It was based on this that he relayed the concern of the Member of Parliament for the area that, “if you see a leave waving and you are not sure of the leave, please shoot and see what it is”.


The commander issued clear instruction to his men that they should not allow the herdsmen to take over the Agogo land because it is the food basket of the country.

Ghanaweb

Let s take an objective look and comment on the write up.

The Rise and Fall of Buhari.

This write up coming from the London Economist, a magazine that endorsed Buhari for President in 2015, is perhaps the most significant, objective, unbiased, unsentimental and deeply incisive analysis of the policies and actions of this president so far. The facts are unimpeachable by any objective mind.

The Unprecedented Level of Patience Shown to Buhari---the ECONOMIST

Nigerians have never shown such level of patience and tolerance towards any of their past leaders for his record and strange policies as that shown to their current leader, Muhammadu Buhari – a former military dictator now self-confessed democrat who said he came to fight corruption.

Buhari, 75, is being plagued with failures across every single sector in the economy, the like as has never been seen before. Less than a year into office, the economy plummeted into recession, an economy which had till then grown at an average rate of 7% in previous years (2011-2014). The nation’s currency lost 70% of its value, unemployment rose from 6.5 to 26%, commodity prices tripled across many quarters and the state-regulated premium motor spirit prices were hiked by 67% without practically anybody batting an eye.

There have been stern opposition to his policies however and to his very personality as well, notably in the South East and South- South regions in the country as they are called, where he both received less than 5% of the votes cast at the last Presidential election and where he has always been sternly unpopular for his history of bigotry against the people, perceived incompetence and dictatorial tendencies. But in many other regions across the country the people have rather resolved to suffer patiently, drawing up excuses for him at will, blaming everyone including his hundreds of political appointees, anything and anybody but never the man himself.

Buhari’s party, the APC, promised Nigerians unprecedented swiping changes in government and the eviction of all corrupt individuals.
One possible explanation for this could be his party’s hope narrative in the 2015 General election where citizens were promised an unprecedented crackdown on corruption and the abolition of all government waste by a man whose financial worth they declared to have been less than N30million ($150,000 then), a historical low for a former top official in the country and most especially a former leader.

In a country plagued by acute corruption problems and with the unremitted crude oil revenue scandal of 2014 still fresh in the people’s minds, many were eager for an abrupt change, the like as never been seen before. He was seen an army general, already experienced in government, with a great strength of will, tough to take on the nation’s cabal of hardened criminals. He promised to appoint only technocrats to head the country’s departments and to see out the lingering Boko Haram insurgency from the warfront. For a nation lacking basic amenities such as power supply in spite of its huge energy resources and with the lingering insurgency crises, the choice seemed easy to many- the general with integrity was the man for the country.

Talk was cheap then but now reality has taken its course. His earliest opponents pointed out to his track record and not to his speech, noting that the last time Nigeria fell into dismal failure, currency woes and commodity shortages was when he had seized power as a military general in 1983 and stating that the facts of that record contradicted the poems of his image brokers.

Many however just wanted “change” as it was then called and so voted the General and sat to wait for the sung promises. But from the onset of his government, the course was as his critics had predefined: Incompetency, bigotry and dictatorial tendencies plaguing the country.

He ignored the newly born genocide in the middle belt of the country perpetuated by the Fulani herdsmen of his kindred against the Christian communities in Benue, Plateau and later on Kaduna. He breached the Central Bank’s 2007 Act of Independence, telling it to suspend forex disbursements to steel importers and other manufacturing sectors in a bid to defend the Naira, a disastrous action which kick-started a spiral of recession.


He took 3 months to appoint his Chief of Staff, 6 months to appoint a cabinet and now 23 months and yet counting to appoint heads of agencies and board members he was so eager to fire upon his assumption into office and rose import duties on the most basic of commodities in a bid to raise government revenue.

And as for the corruption fight, the facts on ground do not show any one at all. Apart from a few officials harassed or imprisoned without court order, the country is yet to witness the first victim of the said campaign at the court stands.

Government waste is on the rise, officials publicly caught in graft acts were swiftly excused, the 2016 Budget year passed without implementation and most worrisome, the Central Bank’s foreign reserves were being shared among unknown Bureau De Change operators at variable rates at the detriment of critical manufacturing, business and banking sectors.

The government continues to praise itself but the people seem to be increasingly tired of the paraded self-righteousness. The President’s recent illness was greeted with cheers by many. Many are just tired of the government. But the remarkable level of patience shown so far has been unprecedented and many a times the general reactions towards acts of constitutional violations was one of calmness or insensitivity.

If the Change narrative of the 2015 election and the songs of man of integrity are to account for this, then Nigerians may have just certified themselves on the world map as a nation easy to fool with propaganda. An adult should be judged on his track record not on his tongue.

Culled from The Economist

LoveJesus87:
funny you. Talking as if d mods have any sense at all in d first place. Ur are on ur own here

havent laughed so hard in a long time, this guy kill me wit laugh

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you curved Him for that long? you probably will be so curved, even crayfish go better pass you, when the time comes.
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Fake diamonds! Trust me ,I can tell.

PRESIDENT BUHARI HAS GOOD INTENTIONS FOR NIGERIA, I WISH WE COULD SEE HIM FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF HUMANITY MORE THAN POLITICISING EVERYTHING.
HE IS A HUMAN BEING FIRST BEFORE BEING A PRESIDENT OF FELLOW HUMANS.
WE MUST NOT REASON AS IF WE ARE ALIENS.
LETS PRAY FOR OUR PRESIDENT, MUSLIMS, CHRISTIANS AND ALL.
GOD IS NOT HUMAN, AND DOESNT REASON AS HUMANS DO, IF HE HAS ERRED, IT IS HUMAN TO ERR.
WE ALL HAVE ERRED IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER.
ALMIGHTY GOD IS SUPREME!
LETS PRAY FOR OUR PRESIDENT.
I KNOW ALMIGHTY GOD CAN AND WILL HEAL HIM, IF WE CONCERTEDLY PRAY FOR THIS.

JESUS CHRIST CAN HEAL OUR PRESIDENT, I LOVE HIM AS A PERSON AND AS MY PRESIDENT.
I HAVE SEEN WORSE CASE SCENARIOS, BUT JESUS CHRIST HEALED AND RESTORED THEM.

The 2442 code doesnt work, i have sent STOP to 2442 more than 4 occasions till today, I still get unsolicited messages and shit notifications from Etisalat.
NCC is a joke!