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TrapHedges:
So I came back to pH yesterday.. (Saturday) my niece's dedication is today.. So I helped then around the house.. After everything.. Since I havnt seen my home boys for so long.. We decided to go to d mall and grab one or two.. You know!
We got there.. My man bought wah he wanted.. I was good tho.. So I didn't buy anything.. We chilled.. Next thing I Know .. We saw dis hot ass chic.. She was talking with a boy.. We over heard.... "I live at old GRA" my boys was like bro.. She is A1, I told them to not conclude already.. So when she was about going home.. One of my nigga decided to stalk her.. So we followed.. Bro wer she headed was a different thing.. We decided to slow down.. Btw we parked around the mall.. So after a long walk.. Lol bro you won't believe d place dis girl entered.. My entire life I havnt seen such crowdy area.. And d kids there was yelling.. Anti kewe don come!!! Obviously she lived there.. And tat place's nothing close to old GRA


^NOW MY QUESTION IS; why some girls be doing this?

Na now u knw say girls sabi lie niii
Girls lie dey roasted plantain sef

StarBukola:
I hate to disappoint u but 70% of girls don't like it rather they enjoy fore play

That i agree

Softcurls:
To make him cum faster so he can stop

Does it mean girls feel nothing at all?
If yes thats why i stop dating long time ago.

importexpert:
How frequent is it when you notice that your anger and emotions are getting out of control that's driving you to commit all sorts of inappropriate, reckless, crazy behaviors?

To the majority of us, it's undeniable that life is tough, challenging and stressful these days. However, it is still important to learn how to control your temper.

One critical thing to remember is that you are always 100% in control of your emotions.

While you should never find yourself in a situation that you can't control, you always have choices as to how to react to any kind of situations.

By allowing yourself to even think that your temper is controlled by other people or circumstances, you are just making an excuse for yourself!

To a certain extent, anger is actually a powerful emotional response.

It reminds you what you don't like about your life, other people and what matters to you. It allows you to freely express your frustrated feelings, but it should never overpower your self-control.

If you find that you are turning into a violent beast when anger hits you, you have an imminent dangerous problem to fix. If you really find it difficult to handle, you might as well consult some anger management experts for advice.

Remember this powerful paradigm shift: It is not how you are feeling that is wrong. It is what you do with your feelings that become the issue.

If you allow yourself to throw a tantrum and fling your arms around, ranting wildly like a lion king, this is obviously not a good sign. You are liable to hurt other people's feelings as well as possibly causing them physical harm.

When you let your temper get the better out of you, you may face serious consequences like:

1. Detrimental to your unstable mental health

2. Severely damaging your physical health, some may even trigger heart attacks or latent diseases

3. Ruining your professional career because you're confronting your boss, colleagues or even clients in a mindless way

4.Destroying relationships with friends, family, lovers and co-workers

5. Failing to create the kind of impact you want in the world because no one wants to help you with your vision and mission

Luckily, there are solutions to this problem.

Your first step is to seek out help and learn to manage your temper in a more effective way. This can include group discussion on possible solutions with family and friends or it can consist of you learning how to manage your anger by yourself either in books or online.

Learning to control your temper will take time, energy, effort and patience. One of the first things you should do is to try to determine what the root cause of your anger is.

Did you grow up in an angry household where you witnessed a lot of fights and dramas?
Have you experienced a traumatic event in the past about people?

Sometimes the root cause of anger can be hidden deep inside. It is only with a lot of self-reflection, soul-searching and meditating that the answers will be revealed.

Find a quiet place where you won't be disturbed and start making a list of all the things that make you angry. Then put them in order of importance - which one lights your fuse first. Once you know what your root cause is, you will be able to devise a better strategy to deal with it and slowly change your behavior.

As for me, the single root cause that lights my fuse the most is "people getting angry and reacting with anger for no justifiable cause." i have identified mine and i am already working tirelessly towards accommodating it. lets hear yours

cc: lalasticlala Mynd44

The best post i have seen on nairaland in the whole of 2016

All what you guys are saying here is poo....which kind love? There is nothing like love. Me have never tell a girl that i love her unless she compels me to and i knw most guys feels same but if a girl is giving u attention appreciate it by reciprocating and possibly bang her very well....wen she wants to go good and fine. No time for nonsense

IRobot7:
I have heard all that from them all. Any girl i date, becomes so obsessed with me and it gets me scared. Presently, i have decided to stay out of relationships. They still call me and i hear stuffs like "even after i have married, i pray God will make it possible for our paths to cross". When i ask why, i get responses like "i want to keep f**king you till i die". Honestly, am so scared of girls now. I just keep them in friendzone these days. I have many of them in that zone and i prefer it that way.

Mehn am facing same issue here finding a wife sef is an issue for me nw

astarotte:
Do I need to tell you that it is rich guys that girls say those things to?

When you guys just returned from shoprite and you gavr her a very good bleeeeep of her life
You hear such things

The American President Elect Donald J. Trump has already start creating job for Americans even when he is yet to be sworn in. See pics

patriotic9jaboy:

Guy you f***k up big time
That comment is so lame and sounds like one frm a village hunter

But reno is right
Look at what buhari had turned our graduates to

Na runs girl
Run for your life

Wetin concern me
I will sleep well well
If the noise becomes too much i hang on my earpiece and play kenny G and Yanni songs
Will sleep off asap

Ferruccio:
[b][color=Black]This is not some story that I made up on my backyard, but a painful and factual story. Matter of fact, my ego is hurt as I type this. I'm romantically involved with some colored girl. The first time we had sexual intercourse, she just lay there unresponsive like a bag of potatoes. She was in fact giving me on of those "can this dude hurry up and finish " kind of looks. When I confronted her about it, and asked if I'm a horrid fuvcker or what, she assured me that there is nothing wrong with my performance; she's just not the type to bxtch and moan in bed as she's shy. The second time we had sex, she started reading a magazine whilst I was on top literally sweating like an individual who works in a warehouse with no air conditioning. Again, I confronted her about it, this time she said I'm simply making a huge issue out of nothing. The third time, she fell asleep whilst I was on top of her. This is frustrating. Is there something wrong with my girlfriend, or I'm just horrible in bed?[/color][/b]

Runs for your life
She is an olosho
Her punna is too wide

Cucumber the endangered specie

Enasdan:
how did u go about the process

Log in and click in pprofile. If u see participant click on it and u ll see ur name. If u see applicant means u haven't been screen maybe next batch

Log in and check your name...i just did and my name is on the list

dprof2016:
But wen re u selecting d remainig 300,000? Cox I knw dat dere z nobody dat I knw dat wil b amongs dese 200.000.

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I got an opportunity to work as a waiter in a five star hotel. As a graduate how much do you think the salary will be as am about to resign from a job that pays 45k.
Please help a friend out

STFUareyouG0d:
Damn! Those n!pples

Whats d title of za movie

Porting to airtel is the only solution...better network reception, 4G browsing speed, same call rate 11k/s

kehinde1588:
After I have registered my sim more than 3times, MTN still asked me to register again. Got the message few minutes ago.
Cc: lalasticlala

Me i have ported since to airtel. Better network reception, better 4G download speed same call rate 11k/s to all network

So we that couldn't log in because we received only text message and not email will be left out just like that?

Was born on this day some few years back.....

The first gat me lmao

Older women are hooottttttt especially those aunties with light make up and always remembers u need handouts in school you knw what i mean

Can't log in ooooo. Epp

Twinkle62:
Pls nairalanders how much can police charge for a report verifying that you are crime free?

Depends on the station and d person u meet.

naijamakossa:
are you shocked she accepted your friend request.??

mumu....

Like seriously i hate it wen i see guys thanking a girl for accepting frnd request...

Mehn OP u gat it right...most of us suffered same thing. Aunty onyemowo is now a road safety officer and still single i guess cos the last time i saw her while on wheels no ring on d finger. It was fun tho. But why do they like kids (boys)