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Onegai:
My brother, you don't know the value of marriage and are treating it like a transaction. So because you're not yet benefitting, you're ready to leave as quickly as possible.

One Doctor told you PCOS (which is very easily treatable but you didn't even wait one moment, you're looking to replace her.

You don't seem like you're capable of loving or putting anyone else above your wants. Which is unfortunately quite common and even celebrated in moral society nowadays.

If you have an accident and they tell your wifeyour recovery period will be over 1 year and she says she can't wait and dumps you and hopes you find another woman to care for you, you will be very angry and feel betrayed.

You won't be able to take what you dish out. Most people can't.

This isn't emotions talking, just cold ,calm facts.

This is what happens when selfish people with no clue what foundation of marriage is decides to get married.

Can't just believe what I'm reading

Isn't that police duty? Nn

Eba50:
this guy was top shot then, but he lost concentration and now, he's struggling. how whizkid and davido stayed on top for 15 and 14 years respectively is a surprise

Maybe na cocaine, e no wan make government hold am make e provide the dealer.

I don't see no weed that expensive

Government school is the last place you wanna be deviant to your teachers, if it was back in the days that would be the end of their school life.

These guys look like fathers of 3 kids at least, not students

SultanOfPuna:
This one na child's play compared to wetin Hotel staffs dey do.

I can remember how slim the caretaker of one hotel in my hood was before he was assigned caretaker.

Now baba don fat like swollen eba
Saw him last Sunday night I almost no recognize am. Baba dey chop him Oga hotel money 100%

I just pity hotel owners living abroad 😂

I know a guy who was security guard in a restaurant, he got a cleaning job in an hotel... Within a year dey guy don buy 2 plots of land, rent and furnished apartment, bought 2 bikes give it out for returns.

E dey gist me I just shake head... 2 years later dem use police dey find all of the staffs. Manager don japa go Yankee

daylay7:
Even if it is a POS operator, the account must have a BVN or NIN. Cant anything be done using the info on the BVN to track the thief?

The money is moved directly from the op account to the POS account, there's nothing you can do, all tracking will end at the POS account.

The only possibility of catching the hacker is if by luck the tracking was done the same day and the POS agent by miracle knows who withdraw that amount of money that same day.

If tracking is done a week or even 3 days later, I will be almost impossible for POS agent to remember.

I wish I have the power to locate liveable planet and teleport there

AngelicBeing:
Hian, l disagree with you.

@ Topic,
To make Semovita, l take some Small quantity, put it inside a small bowl 🥣 of cold water, and l will stir it and keep it aside.

Meanwhile, my Water is boiling on my Gas cooker in a bowl 🥣.

I will now transfer the cold Semovita into the boiling water and began to stir it gently, while stirring it, l will be adding the powdered Semo gradually until it gets to the Kind of thickness that I want.

I can also add a little water, while I have turned it to some level of thickness, cover it on a low heat.

And that is it , you have a well prepared Semovita that goes with ogbono , egusi bitter leaf soup or nsala soup or ofe Owerri or Afang soup loaded with chicken Turkey, kpanla , Kpomo etc ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂


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@ Offpoint1, you are spot on ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂

Those who grew up in the north won't have issues making semo... Just apply tuwo making style and you're good 😂

Sophocles5050:
What technique do you use to get yours perfectly?

If you've live in the Northern part of Nigeria, making semo won't be problem.


Use this technique:
Once the water on fire has boiled, fetch a handful of semo and mix it with water (not the hot water) stir it till it's smooth, then turn it into the hot water you had on fire and stir for a minute. Cover it and let it boil for a minute or 2, then star adding your semo bit by bit and stir as you add until you have the texture you want (soft or hard), then add a little water, cover it and let it cook for 2-5 minutes so it can cook properly.


With this method your semo will never be seedy

pocohantas:
It is on social media I found out semo can taste sugary. Wetin una do am wey make am taste sugary? I have never made one that tasted sugary. But at first it was not firm enough.

When it's half done it's sugary... Those comments are from bad cooks

muyico:
Pure skits
Not real
Ladies can't pay for sex!

Lol... Check hook up sites you go see men with profiles and they're getting booked

daylay7:
hhmmmm. But can the money be recovered since it was transferred to a KUDA account?

The hackers might have spent all the money by now and there's 1000% possibility the Kudak account might be of a POS operator. Hackers will not transfer money directly to their own account knowing it will link back to them.

Recovering such money will be tracking the Kudak account and if it's a POS then it's a dead-end.

Unless its huge amount, the stress isn't worth it.

ClassicMan202:
Na DT pikin old like this

Na we dey old before we start to born... Americans don start to born in their teens to 20s

At 50s some of them are already great grandparents

LordIsaac:
They should have added Friday to it

They don't need to... We go add am jara 😂

Gbadugbakun:
I thought only delegates vote in primaries. What's with the 10m votes?

They have 10m delegates 😂
We don't need to vote in general election then

sleek214:
Rigging machine activated. Adamawa has never had up to 600k votes in a general election and yet Tinubu got over 600k votes in APC primaries. That's the 8th wonder of the world

10m in primary is a comedy 😂

westside365:
Which one is kannywood abeg. I never heard of it.

Hausa movie industry nn

helinues:
At least Nigeria can still borrow, same can't be said about Kenya or South Africa

Don't worry in another 4 years you won't be able to

Find her phone and you'll find her killa.

It would likely not be her boyfriend... Probably some dude she met online.


Me as man who is by nature physically stronger than a woman I cannot visit a woman at home, but our ladies don't reason beyond their noses.

Splendour99:
Have you heard of hefty penalties paid by Google, Meta, Amazon because of covert and underhanded practices?

You should read up on them.

GTB will fall soon.

Can you afford a legal team that will beat GTB legal team? 😂

Have you ever heard of such a fine in Nigeria?

mindtricks:
Denying the app all those sensitive permissions that will enable the hacker succeed, is that not enough or will the app be able to give itself permissions not granted it?

Infested apps don't need you to grant them any permission, all they need you to do is to "install" them.

There's a reason your phone warns you if you want to install an app from unknown sources.

DeepSightZ:
THIS LINE ALONE REVEALS YOUR STATE OF MIND WHICH IS WORRISOME -



You need to refocus your life. You have no valid complaints.


Ordeal?

Hahahahahahahaha!

Dude is broke with -N in his account yet want to dictate how a multi billion naira bank runs its promos... It's funny

Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening, pls I need help on something
I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.

I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.

It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.

Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.

And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.

My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.

You're an introvert, I am too.... There's nothing wrong with you, that's just our ways.

We have the softest heart and can go all out for anybody. We tend to avoid conflict or whatever will cause conflicts because we might have the softest heart, but when we offended.... We have the strongest hearts, not that we don't forgive, it's just that relationship can never go back to "normal"... Unless it's our partner (which might still take time)

Nothing is wrong with you, I totally understand you 💯

I'll like to be a friend with you if that's fine by you

Dogalmighty17:
How do you exhaust 100 million and you are back to square one?

Lol! Financial management is not a joke, it's easier to make money than manage money.

People who lack financial management or discipline can waste one billion naira before you blink.

There's a dude who won 23m in my street, dude wasted it all in just 2 months.

Small but mighty... Little men doing great things ☺️

hakeem4:
UBA is the worst. it looks like something done in the medieval period

UBA messed their app up 3 years ago in the name of upgrade... Ever since then their app has been been shxtty

Basic123:
You just hate the president doing it.
Intelligent people know this.
Peter OBI signed Onitsha Monorail MOU since 2010,16yrs after nothing happened.Such a backward act will never be an issue because you love him

Mr intelligent, you're so intelligent to jump into conclusions that I hate the President.

I hate everything Nigeria politicians after our founding fathers, those were the only people with vision for this country.

Owombakara:
This is really insightful. So there's been a lawsuit withholding the progress of this port all this while.

It's such a shame that the progress that would have been made was stalled by a name change. Why change the name in the first place? Looking at the other 4 proposed ports you can easily see they are named after the community they're located. But a mischievous person decided to rename the Akwa Ibom port and look at what it has caused.

Thanks for sharing this Oga Naptu2, you doing a yoeman's job!!!

It was more than a name change, it was relocation... Even though Ibaka is the better location because there will be no need for drilling, the shore there is deep enough.

Some mischievous people in power wanted the port relocated to their own local government.

naptu2:
Ibom Port

I hope they have resolved the dispute. This is my Jan 23, 2023 post.

Anytime that someone mentions the Lekki Deep Sea Port, someone will mention the Ibom Port and claim that the government or some unnamed people are "frustrating it". They don't name the people, but you have an idea of who they are referring to.

Those people do not know what they are talking about. The problem with Ibom Port reminds me of the issues that stalled the Olokola Free Trade Zone in Ogun and Ondo States.

The new port in Akwa Ibom State was originally called the Ibaka Port and it was meant to have been sited at Ibaka Bay. However, the location was changed in 2014 and it was renamed Ibom Port. See here: https://www.nairaland.com/2051694/controversial-ibaka-seaport-relocated-renamed


The community in the original location (Ibaka) then sued the Akwa Ibom State Government and everybody involved in the project in order to stop the relocation. No work can be done on the site due to the lawsuit. See here: http://nationalnewstrack.com/ibaka-deep-seaport-court-grants-oro-nation-leave-for-judicial-review/


And that's actually what is delaying construction of the Ibom Port.

China Harbour Engineering Company, the company responsible for both the Lekki Port (remember that I told you that Governor Tinubu went to China and Singaport to seek for investors in the Lekki Free Zone in the year 2000) and the Ibom Port says that it is still interested in the project, but it can't do anything now due to the lawsuit.

The best place to site Akwa Ibom Port is Ibaka, there will be no need for drilling, the water body there is extremely deep even at the shore.

The relocation was purely politics whereby the leaders on seat want development to only happen in their local government or closest to them.

martinskelly:
To some large extent, you and i knows what the OP is saying, well he wouldn't have said it the way he said it thereby making everyone that works in every local govt in nigeria looks lazy.

I have worked at a government hospital and I know exactly what the OP is saying but saying the pregnant wife is working a non stressful work is an understatement, even the gossip they gossip there na work on it's own.

I used to frequent federal secretarial and other government offices 4 years ago, that's was when I know Nigeria is just wasting money on unproductive staff.
Their duty is just to come in a mark attendance, some will go back home to their various business and those that remains at the office will do nothing all day.

You only see most of them on salary week

Lifestone:
We Nigerians are quick to appreciate good projects but yet kills such initiative in our country!
1. Buhari in 1984 shut down the Metroline that the government of Lateef Jakande proposed for Lagos.
2. Some Nigerians are today criticizing the Coaster Road and the Lagos, Sokoto Road.
We need to support transformative project irrespective if whether we like the government in power or not. It's our resources, it out life time

We criticize because we know the projects are means of stealing for our politicians, it'll never be completed during their tenure or in 30 years time.

You see how long it take China to complete this project? That's less than 4 years... Nigeria would have taken 50 years and cost 100x

Sonnobax15:
. All lies. No hospital would do that. Abi na Dem wan help the man pay the money if the money don accumulate?

No hospital will discharged you if the doctor did not certify you fit... I'll be a serious case against such hospital & doctors if you went home and something went wrong.

If you insist you must sign undertaken