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Patrick33:
I miss those good old days everyone will just comment on how they dont give a Fvck...

Instablogger9ja:
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Bornsinner7:
No be small..

I've observed that this David guy try as much as possible to always come through for people.. and that's good..

longetivity:
keep quiet joor

SmartMen:
RedPill, Alpha Male... Is the new song that a bunch of sissies now embrace as a clout to hide their weakness.

Initially, I love the idea, I read up on them a long time ago in one of those threads championed by "experts " on the subject and as much I appreciate the motive behind it, I can't hide my disgust by the nauseating trend that is now engulfing the idea.

In every thread that makes the front page, you will see guys (who I presume to be weak) chanting "red pill", "blue pill", "Alpha male". When you probe them further to know what they understand about these terms, all you see or hear are from minds that are fascinated by the idea of manipulating another human and in some context, to dislike or hate women, which I will like to call the male version of Nigerian feminism.

I say "Nigerian feminism" because the Nigerian Idea of feminism among Nigerian women is tailored and propagated to hate on men, which isn't the true ideology of what feminism stands for.

Now, if your idea about RedPill, Alpha Male is "women-centric" as a mechanical defense against women, what will be your mechanical defense against fellow men? Or do you think men can't do to you what you ideally perceived as propagated by women? I know that you are blinded by this fact because, for the records, you ain't gay nor do you date men. So, it may not seem obvious to you until you take a bird's eye view of the whole situation that make up your existence and human interactions.

Unlike what you are made to believe in Nairaland or other fora, you are either a man or you are not. I don't know what you guys derive from all these "Red Pill", "Blue Pill", "Alpha Male" chant that is almost blocking one's ears and eyes.

Real Men don't even go by those tags. It is all made up by the MEDIA... yeah, it is all someone's IDEA.

You either act like a man or you don't. You either allow people, men or women, to disrespect you or you don't.

Have you also noticed that you find it hard to follow ALL the "Red Pills" or "Alpha Male" tutorials to a T? WHY?

You don't need to be manipulative or downright hating on the opposite sex just because you want to guard your heart against heartbreaks.

We all have had those horrible moments with women, INCLUDING our EXPERTS who champion this narrative on Nairaland... If some of them are sincere enough to tell you their experience with Nigerian women, you might just discover that you are actually not as bad (mugu-wise) as they want you to believe. As in, it might be a case of them being a worse mugu than yourself. I say so because I have experienced this before with a member on here. He laughed at me but the day I heard his story, I was nowhere close to his "mugulosisies". I mean, I didn't sponsor any girl to school for 5 years

Do you get the point?

All you have to do is SET STANDARDS... and these STANDARDS must not be focused on women only, but also for men. The idea is to NEVER give room for anyone to disrespect you under any guise.. This is what a MAN is supposed to do. Don't take bullshitz from anybody.

osamz007:
OYINBO PEOPLE SEF
ANOTHER GENERATION GO COME RECOVER AM AFTER 70 MILLION YEARS

5hanklee:
Omoh! I no get money for better gym o. And normal exercise just dey make me loose weight ni.

YorubaKinging:
The end is near
Let's get ready for the end times
These are perilous times
Let's get ready

Derinofzion:
Correction:Na woman she be.