₦airaland Forum

Kriss216:
One of the advantages of having a young leader.

Our darling daddy is busy with cows and twitter ban.


And to think some group of people are cheering Tinubu an old man to replace Buhari an ancestor

this tinubu that is older than buhari o, ndi mmadu sef

You can start with minding your own business

I wonder, don't mind them

Na lie

Is this real or a joke? What is happening?

tito44:
So paying people 30k per month for some months will take them out of poverty... 30k they ve been paying the likes of helinuas, simplyshit, vulturebbqgrills and other host of zombies since 2015 and they re still deep neck in poverty... This our FG is very daft.

Nawao lol, wetin those people do you nitoro olorun

family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

in davido's voice......kayamata for you, dey on top your matter!!!!!!

Kingzjayzee:
You are one of the problem of this country. Money wey no be ur own enter ur acct. Gbam! U start dey spend am like ay na ur own. Nna then! I people are funny o.

hypocrite, you will do worst if it was you, for this life, na who dem catch be thief

stagger:
You withdrew money you know was not yours, and spent out of it.

YOU ARE A THIEF!

Case closed.

hypocrite, you will do worst if it was you, for this life, na who dem catch be thief

ngadaAwo:


lol i bought an LG g8x for 60k TLC on ebay

why will I buy trashion phone for that amount when I know my way for ebay.

Infact same amount will get me a neat pixel 3xl.

na people wey no sabi their way dey buy crap

Bro how can I get that LG?

SmileArena:
PLS EVERYONE SHOULD BE CAREFUL OF PEOPLE ADVERTISING DATA PLANS ONLINE, ESPECIALLY ON NAIRALAND.
THEY ARE SCAMMERS.

yes all of them

uunwanaobong3:
Choi, GUARDIOLA IS EVIL AND MAD TODAY.

CHAI, THIS MAN WANT TO DESTROY PSG TONIGHT. FERNANDINHO THE DESTROYER IN THE MIDFIELD CHAI, IF PSG SCORE JUST ONE GOAL, THEN CALL ME A JACKASS.
IF THERE WAS ANY DOUBT I HAD ABOUT THIS MATCH, THEN THAT DOUBT HAS BEEN DESTROYED WITH THIS LINE UP.
THIS LINE UP IS THE MOST COMPLETE LINE UP I EVER SEE GUARDIOLA CHOSING, THIS LINE-UP IS MEANT TO KILL AND TO STRANGLE.
LINE UP;
EDERSON.
WALKER.
STONE.
DAIZ.
ZENCHENCKO (the aggresive one).
FERNANDINHO.
GUNDOGAN.
DEBRYUNE.
SILVA.
MEHREZ.
FODEN.

THIS IS CALLED FINISHING.
IF U BEAT THIS LINE-UP, U HAVE BEATEN THE BEST OF MANCITY.

PEP GUARDIOLA, U HAVE SATISFY ME FOR THE FIRST TIME

what if it ends in tears?

Earlystar698:
If your given her doggy,watch how the beads would be singing for you cha cah cha omg the sweetness especially if she's saying something like hmmmm hmmmm

the Simpsons

sotall:
The thief on the cross gave his life to Jesus at the last minute and he made it.

A story you were told, were you there? the answer is NO, but I get it you believe with faith

ESN vs ESL

HenryThegreat1:
They are all members of ruling APC.
Their sins have been forgiven.

tolugar:
Pls take NOTE

Still on call etiquette

When making an official call,

The person making the call have to first start with introduction like..

Hello, this is Mr. Mathew calling from Zet bank ,
Am I speaking with Mrs Grace?....

Most HRs get this wrong.


For security reasons, you don’t have to call someone and start asking their names and whereabouts.


Let’s be civilized

does it take anything to be polite?

Kondomatic:
Now unah don see why fear fear Seuñ no wan demove that swearing for Muslim posts

uptimum123:
Whichever way Jagaban


Nigerians are with you

yet you blame those that supported buhari

richmond500:
slowomiir, are u still alive?

OlayemiAshraf:
Gbe enu soun... I can't believe you're still waiting for a white man to come out of the sky with another man that's holding trumpet ogbeni they've brain washed you with their fictional character

He will be like, get behind me satan

Omihanifa:
Maybe the lion died of hunger

Am sure the zoo officials were busy diverting the goats and sheeps that were budgeted for feeding the lion and they replaced it with tuwo shinkanfa

you are mad sir

This is bad

Bornsinner7:
Great..

CongratulationsReal recognise real.. it's high time you drop your own and stop wasting it on tissue papers whenever you jerk off inside your invisible lexus, GLK and venza

omoh

IAmMysterious:
Okay oo!

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scammer, transferred money to you, and you blocked me

Why are people wicked

EzeAro:
Nwokem ignore that raving lunatic, we still remember how the Hausa boys dealt with them when they tried nonsense in Fagba during the Endsars spillover of violence, we still have the receipts of them crying all over Twitter about Hausas chasing them away and burning their properties . We dey wait them tomorrow in all the Igbo dominated areas to ignite that fire they will never put out, they tried our patience in Okota during the election disenfranchisements from their hungry Tinubu sponsored thugs who were harassing people at polling booths etc.. until Igbo boys rallied together to beat shege banza comot for their body and nearly lynched their kingpin (an OPC guy) called Demola to death.

for the record it was the Igbos that rescued the opc guy from being lynched, stop tribalism biko, even if you are paid to cause fight at least do it with sense, shey na 30k a month abi na 200k? Use your head o

3gpvids:
I go open the fish belle put the other ones inside then chop the fish



multi national vitamins

sense no go kill you

wagazala:
Stupid. Couldn't they have followed the container to its final destination?
Why arrest the Agents knowing fully well they wouldn't have an idea of the illegal contents thereby allowing the main guys flee.
Naija sha.

arrest must be made nah is it not Nigeria again?

Kudos to the man....best decision ever...this reminds me of a movie KNIVES OUT this is exactly what happened, the man must have watched the movie secretly