₦airaland Forum

Abagworo:
Disgusting I must say. Evidence of poor planning necessitating costly, huge, complex and risky net of overhead bridges. I will not pray for that in Nigeria.

my sentiments as well..dt road is more of a problem than a solution....

7inches:
shut up ur mouth joor
which yoruba culture?..
didnt u see the pictures posted here some time ago wen old men were greeting the young oni of ife... was he not sitting down?..

you are among the senseless ibos that allowed yorubas have their way into thier brain... and turned it around with lies and propaganda.

yorubas are respectful yet olamide insulted donjazzy incuding his innocent parents

yorubas are respectful wizkid insulted linda ikeji including her parents... went as far as insulting lindas womanhood

yorubas are respectful yet davido insulted the shit out of dele momodu old enuff to be his father.

YORUBAS ARE RESPECTFUL IS A SCAM
reset ur brain and stop letting them get açcess into ur brain with this scam.

PET EDOCHIE WAS ONLY RESPECTING THE POST HE OCCUPIES NO WIKE...use ur head it is not there for fancy.
stop thinkin like a robot programmed i 18th century

thank you sir...I just did a brain reset....

SultanOfBrunei:
political power makes one lose respect for elders.

by cultural norms Wike shouldn't be sitting down while shaking hand with an elder like Pete Edochie.

my exact sentiments...if I didn't learn anything from the yoruba culture being ibo...I learnt conscious respect for elders even if it's eye service...

how come we no hear the song...

safarigirl:
All these half news y'all be bringing sef.

Last I checked, E! Africa will be doing a doccie on selected African celebrities one of whom is Tiwa, others like Diamond from Tanzania, Mafikizolo from SA as well as fellow Nigerian, Rita Dominic will also be part of the show.

Please, write it like that next time

Modified:

I know some Nigerians abhor being enlightened, but it is my duty to explain to those who want to be in the know, the terms of this 'goldmine'....you can call it whatever 'hating' 'butthurting'....explore your vocabulary to your heart's delight. As long as my message has been passed, that is the most important thing.

Thank you

Well..even if it's E!Sambisa..at least she got featured..some didn't get to be featured..its nt like she is so good like dt sef...an African adage says..."the lizard who falls from the iroko tree with no one to applaud it..applauds itself"...

HtwoOw:
History always finds a way to repeat itself

I got chills reading this as well..now I know why we av refused to advance in this country....a portion of this country is drawing us back just because they don't want to leave their preindependence mentality and face d realities of the 21st century...who will suggest a systematic genocide in this age ND times...we are still trying to forget the injustice of the civil war and somebody is opening festering wounds....this is incredible...

Xbabangida:
Its a lieutenant that's a commissioned officer not a second lieutenant. You people r just arguing blindly.

just stop it...kai mana...

INDESTRUCTABLEX:
Good morning guys, I am a graduate from the Premier University and recently passed out from NYSC programme. I have always been into business right from my university days because I crave independence.

While serving, I was also into business. Before passing out, I launched my startup and currently have 2 employees. Although, I studied mechanical engineering, I have no plans to work in the industry, except as a business person utilizing my skills.

Now for the purpose of this post. I have an uncle who has contacted me twice to join the armed forces - police and recently army. He is a politician and has a slot and wants someone from our family to fill the position. I outrightly turned down the police offer but recently army came in and I am having second thoughts.

As a child I wanted to be a soldier but I was an only son. Hell no, there's no way my parents would have allowed me go to NDA. I am 23, ambitious, and still crave independence and financial buoyancy.

I want to find out what the benefits of joining the army are. Specifically as a second lieutenant. Would I be commanding troops? Can I combine it with my business? The latter is my major concern, I don't have plans of touching the salary I get from NA.

Basically, what is my job description, the demands of the job, and the time I get for myself. Thanks in anticipation.

it is always said...where there is a will..there is a way..however..in the Nigerian Military it does necessarily pan out like dt...I am also in ur shoes..don't join the NA hoping for financial buoyancy..it won't come...as per running a business alongside..u will only get frustrated...by the time you are posted severally..u will av rethink...except you get into a good and well spelt out partnership...about being independent or being ur own boss..u av no idea...d military will take ur time and ur life..depending on wherever u are serving..about commanding troops...u will av to be in d action..at the forefront...in fact wen u get in...u won't even want to go to the field...I use to be enthusiastic about the military..but my brother...if u av any other use for ur life or urself...go for it..but if you dont...lay it down then for the service of King and country...

Xbabangida:
Commanding troops as a 2nd lieutenant? I laugh in Spanish. . The war front somewhere in Adamawa or borno is where your bubble will burst as you are a noncommissioned officer. Only the commissioned officer (From Major , colonel , brigadier general, major general, General) command troops and sit inside AC dashing out orders . Your job as a lieutenant is to assisist a captain of a troop in organization and tactical approach during warfare.
Modified: A second lieutenant is a commissioned officer. Only if you attained that from passing through the NDA

why are u so confused...a 2nd lieutenant in d the NA is a commissioned officer...

successinlife:
I have talked with you,i hope we get a good one soon.On it.

ok sire

geedeex2:
Fayose who mention your name?

dude just snitched on himself...only in Ekiti...

successinlife:
kindly add my whatsapp number then we can talk better. +33605670366

I av texted you sir...

otedola1:
Good Job Boss, well done

how do u mean..

it's hard making a choice but it has to be made anyway..I gave posted here on nairaland severally but I have not gotten a clean offer...I have been looking for a clean but not too expensive E200 - E230 Mercedes Benz 1997 - 2002 model as well as a BMW 518i - 525i 1997 - 2003 model...clean but not too expensive...I will be glad if u can help...thanks...I m on whatsapp...07032769167..i need pictures as well...thanks...waiting to hear from you.

why is Toyota so lazy..the difference between this model and the 2014 model is that lower grill..every other thing is the same
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Sugarhugs:
Loooool it's God o.

...yeah..

Sugarhugs:
E yaf tay since I last entered fp

why are you so cute...now I can't get ur image off my subconscious....

BrownShawty:
I use paste

no you don't love money..those who really love money don't say it...

Zehner:
I thought she said she doesn't want to be addressed as "MAMA GEE" again.

I thought the same as well...

Berlyn:

Gaborone:
Let thine own cistern satisfy thee.

as in.

drink water from thine own well....hmmn....our people like to drink from other people's cistern....they will never hear word...

Berlyn:
hmmm m not telemundo fan so i still dnt know him

then I can't help you anymore...

Berlyn:
who's Kelechi Iheanacho ??

he acts telemundo,bollywood movies as well as the main actor in the current superstory showing on NTA...you should know him...

But why psychology...I mean...a first degree is enough...she should have tried maybe another course or an allied course...

he should kuki tie fish on his neck...which one is sea green...black tie rocks any suit..of all the things to fuss about he chose tie...

what kinda roof is that..looks funny..

kai..oga..if humans had a quota of lies...you just exhausted yours with this post...

donholy28:
Fake!!! but well composed!!,how can ur boss who had too much drinks at night and probably has a hangover wake up,get to office and compose a mail b4 u could wake up?

all I can reply to this is "u never jam some kind people"..

I like dis ur car except say na manual and also fabric..if u get automatic and leather or leather and fabric,i go dey very interested.

Ibe Kachikwu and cock and bull tales by moonlight story...this guy should just Zip it..maybe if he zips it...fuel price will stabilise..btw..i think it's time we outsource some political appointments to the white colonial masters..some of those guys there have no idea what to do..(I know nairaland will turn it to rooster and bull..boda seun..i hailing oh)

nlfan:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

try to stay away from him,avoid him for a while,if absence doesn't make your heart grow fonder fine..however..if it does..think about it...