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DO PERFECT MEN EXIST?

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Stand a chance to win N1,000 airtime when you answer this question:

DO PERFECT MEN EXIST?

Men who are faithful, loving, honest, handsome….with plenty money all at once. Men who don’t cheat or drink. Do they actually exist? Especially in Nigeria?
If they do, have you met one? Are you one? What was your opinion about him?

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DO PERFECT MEN EXIST?

Men who are faithful, loving, honest, handsome….with plenty money all at once. Men who don’t cheat or drink. Do they actually exist? Especially in Nigeria?
If they do, have you met one? Are you one? What was your opinion about him?

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Weddings bells have been ringing more than usual lately. It definitely seems like it’s a year made for weddings. You know at least two people who are getting married in a matter of weeks or months. You most likely know more than two people who are about to get married. And you might be feeling a bit left out or alone, even though you’re in a stable relationship. You shouldn’t feel that way because everything good happens in its time. Marriage isn’t something you should rush into without being sure of your feelings, your emotions and choice in a life partner.

Let me tell you a short story. This happened to a friend.

“Winnie served as a Youth Corps member in Bayelsa state, Nigeria in 2014 where she met DJ. DJ was one of the numerous Youth Corps members just like her who had come to serve their Motherland but they were just friends. Nothing more, nothing less.

After the compulsory one year Youth Service, Winnie moves back to Lagos and gets on with her life. 2 years pass and then she gets a call from DJ, who currently lives in Delta state. DJ says he’d be in Lagos and would love to meet her. Winnie says OK but that she’d be coming from work. DJ offers to wait for her at a well-known junction in Egbeda, Lagos. When she gets there, she discovers him with his bags and is surprised. They greet each other and decide to have an early dinner at a restaurant.

After eating, she discovers that he didn’t come to Lagos on business but came to see her. Then he says,

“Winnie, if I ask you to marry me, will you marry me?”

In surprise and shock, she begins to laugh and asks if he is serious. He says yes and affirms that is why he came”.

If you were Winnie, what would you do?

“Winnie leaves the restaurant after telling him she would think about it and goes home. DJ, meanwhile stays in Lagos for a month after that day but she refuses to have any contact with him. When she finally picks up his call, she says she still needs time to think about it.

Winnie, before DJ’s first call, had been and still is in a relationship with Tony, whom she’s been dating since she left college. Tony is settled, handsome and caring but he seems not ready to propose to her. They also fight about the littlest things. Fights that mean he doesn’t call or check up on her for days. When she calls, he doesn’t pick up. When he calls back, he says “are you ready to apologize now?” even when she doesn’t do anything wrong.

Winnie feels her clock is ticking. She’s attended 7 weddings and been a bridesmaid at 6 of those weddings in the last 2 years. She believes that Tony is taking too much time to make up his mind and that she needs to get married before she’s permanently booked on the ‘spinster shelf’.

This is why she tells DJ she’d think about his marriage proposal although she is not attracted to DJ in any way romantic.

Then Mike comes into the picture. Mike is funny, built, dresses well, and believes in fairy-tales. He seems like the perfect guy. Mike works with Winnie and has been asking her out for a year but because Winnie is dating Tony, she says no but that doesn’t deter him from sending her flowers and love notes.

A week after DJ’s unexpected proposal, Mike tells her he wants to speak with her and that it’s a matter of life and death. Winnie, worried that he’s sick or something, gets in his car and he drives her to the Island. He parks and they get down at a popular restaurant in Lekki. He escorts her into the restaurant, to a table for two. Perfect lights, perfect music, perfect dinner.

Mike begins to tell her of how much he appreciates her and how happy he’s been since he met her. And then says those words that almost every lady longs to hear;

“Will you marry me?”

Winnie wonders if she offended her ancestors or someone pretty old in her village. Every other guy apart from her boyfriend has proposed marriage to her but her boyfriend hasn’t”.

What would you do if you were Winnie?

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OK. I’ve heard people talk about their favorite parents. Some say their dads, others their mothers.
For me…I think I’d remain on the fence.

By the thing is have you ever really wondered who you think loves more or cares more between your dad or mum?
This is like an opinion poll.

Then why not tell us your opinion by commenting right on this post? Whose love do you really think is greater
Please use #DoesItMatter? #MumVSDad


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Loyalblak007:
Mine isn't boring

Mehn. Then you're doing something right then. Congrats.

Do you feel like your relationship is dangling and less interesting? So many times, you just feel like pulling out and it’s so crazy you don’t know what to do. Relationships at times feels like stress and you begin to have thoughts on where you missed it or who did something wrong.

You can spice up your relationship and make it feel so much like fun. It depends on what you want and maybe how you want it. Relationships should not feel like so much of burden, if you do what is needed.

These are 5 crazy reasons your relationship is dangling or becoming boring. It could be something you are not getting right.

1. You are too rigid

Rigidity kills relationship. Your relationship shouldn’t be programmed to act in a particular way or manner. There should be room for flexibility. You should research on ways to make it feel interesting. Go out more often. Do things together frequently, it strengthens the bond between you two. Your relationship is boring or tiring because either you or your partner don’t make efforts to grow. Your mind is fixed on doing things the way your parents or people around you act in theirs. Create your own type of relationship.

2. You hold on to things

Definitely, there are times your partner does things that gets on your nerve and you just want to yank off. Issues are bound to occur once in a while, due to differences in individuals. But fights should not be allowed to linger on for long. When you or your partner finds it difficult to let go, it makes it feel like work. Holding on to things for so long, affects how you or your partner take handle the relationship. When fights happen always in a relationship and no one is ready to let go, it prevents growth.

3. Distractions[b][/b] https://afmobiblog./2017/06/13/5-crazy-reasons-why-your-relationship-is-becoming-boring/

Distractions keeps your mind off the relationship. When your attention is divided, you are not able to put more into the relationship. Distractions could come in various forms. It could be your phone, social media, attractions from opposite sex, work, and other things. If anything is getting your attention more than the relationship, it affects all you put into it. If this is not dealt with on time, you gradually begin to pull back till you get fed up of the relationship eventually.
Read the rest here: https://afmobiblog./2017/06/13/5-crazy-reasons-why-your-relationship-is-becoming-boring

Your man may say he loves you but can you really tell that he truly loves you? What if he has never even really said those three amazing words to you? Fact is being able to tell whether a guy really loves you or not can be tricky but I have some tips for you to know whether he’s real or not. You will need to look for different signs but keep in mind that every man is different so not all these tips may apply to him. You may just have to have a little faith in the fact that he really does love you.

But here’s the first way to know if your man really loves you;

1. He treats you right.[/b]

Men who truly love their women treat them with respect. Your man cares about what you’re going through and cares enough to listen to you when you’re talking…even when it seems you don’t make sense. I have someone like that so trust me when I say I know.

If your man values you and your opinions and notices even the littlest things about you, especially those things you like, then it’s a sign he loves you.
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2. You don’t doubt his feelings for you.

Do you question his feelings for you all the time? Because if you do, you may not be so sure about him. But if a guy really loves you, you won’t be doubtful or even question it. Because he makes you feel his love one way or the other- he shows it to you by what he does, how he behaves around you and even how he tells you.

However, don’t let your insecurities overshadow the obvious signs of his love. It could be your anxieties talking when you say or think he doesn’t love you. So, you need to be really sure that you’re not doubting him for nothing. For instance, if your partners in your previous relationships have said that you’re too clingy or too managing, it could be that you’re insecure. It could also be that you’re really going out of your way to claim his love by doing any and everything without thinking about how you really feel about him.See, love is a two-way thing.

3. He spends quality time with you.

When a man loves a woman, he definitely wants to spend time with her. If he goes out of his way regularly to see you and to spend time with you, what do you think?

To know a man doesn’t really care about you, he blows you off and doesn’t make time for you as often as you’d like. Even when he does make time, the bloke may cancel your date at the last minute, However, if your man really cares about you, he may have a really genuine reason why he’s canceling your date but he will call you or text you in advance to tell you this. Your man will also be very interested in rescheduling your date.

4. He comes up with plans for both of you.

Yep. If you’re the one scheduling all the dates and plans and movie outings and stuff, he probably isn’t really interested in you. If you want to know how willing he is, he makes plans too without being prodded by you. But, you shouldn’t plan anything if you want to know this. Give him a chance and if he takes up that chance, he cares about you.

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5. He’s willing to compromise.

Sacrifices and compromises are important in any relationship. This means when you give a little more, he gives a little more too. If your man is willing to take part in some give and take, then he’s really your man. Give and take may involve you watching a football match with him, even though you don’t like football. It could also be him watching a chick flick with you even though he doesn’t like all the sappy romance and tears. Do you get my drift? It may not be both your thing but you’re both willing to make compromises for each other’s happiness.

6. He does the small romantic things.

This part totally makes me happy. When he does the small romantic things, it means he notices the little things you like or don’t like. For instance, does he anticipate when you need a back rub from having a stressful day?

Or does he ask if you want water on his way to the kitchen? Or does he give you a piggyback ride when you’re all sad and moody? Does he plug in your phone when he notices the battery is low? Or does he give you a hug when you least expect it? And not just because you asked him to? If he does these and more, then your man really cares about you.

7. He isn’t embarrassed by you in public.

Your man shouldn’t be embarrassed by you if he loves you and wants to be with you. He should be willing to introduce you to his family and friends. If he’s not, that could be a red flag. He’s either not sure about you yet or has other reasons like differences in political affiliations, religion, beliefs and more. But if he can’t take you out in public or acts embarrassed by you when you’re together publicly, then he may not care about you.

8. He likes being close to you in public.

This definitely is related to the previous sign. If the bloke is embarrassed by you, he definitely won’t want to be close to you in public. Does he hold your hand when you’re walking together? Does he hug you spontaneously? Does he pull you close when he’s introducing you to a friend? If not, it could be he doesn’t like you that much or he’s shy in public. So it’s left to you to really know which one it is.

Read the rest here: https://afmobiblog./2017/05/25/14-ways-to-know-your-man-really-loves-you/

We have been married for four years now and to the glory of God, we have a set of twins to show for it.

My wife is a kind of woman that everyone will like to be with, you will feel alive around her, she’s jovial, so with this, she has good number of friends.

Recently my wife now makes uncalled demands, unlike her before, she compares me with her friend’s hubby, her friend’s hubby bought this for her, that the cloth she wore the other day is so so amount.

Her hubby took her to Paris for holidays, she nowadays don’t appreciate things I do for her, not openly though but the signs are there. I earn well, I mean okay to keep my family up and running, but for luxury, it wont work. She knows our total income, but now she’s more focused on how she wants her friends to see her, the Camry LE 2015 Model I bought for her last year has become too old for her to use, I kept wondering if it’s her friends that are influencing her or she’s just punishing me intentionally. My Wife is a faithful woman that I am sure.

Now should I control the friends she keeps? Should I be the one to determine her friends?

I have tried to figure who these her friends are, all I could get is “..a friend” or “… One of my Friends” they are just nameless and faceless, some visit once in a while if they are going for outing, I get to hear or know their presence with uncontrolled calls almost every 30mins interval.

Please, is it right to choose friend for your hubby or wife?

Is it mandatory to know all your spouse’ friends?

Truth is women love to play hard to get. Sometimes, it is a matter of forming, the other time it is just based on principle not to give that heart out to any random guy. But, this does not mean she does not love you, it only means maybe you are not doing the right thing or she is not so interested in you.

Below are 5 tips to make a woman want more of you and also grow fond of you.

1. Appreciate her

Nothing makes a woman feel better than knowing that her man appreciates her. Appreciation goes a long way in making a woman stay glued and true to you. Women love it when you tell them how wonderful they are, how tasty the meal is, how gorgeous their hair looks and how you love grateful you are having them. When a woman feels unappreciated, she gets infuriated and tries to search for it somewhere else.

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2. Pamper her

Ladies love to be pampered no matter how little. Though it does not guarantee that she likes you, but it is an extra advantage when she feels pampered. Take her out on a romantic date, get her gifts, make breakfast in bed, fix her bills once in a while. Defend her when people try to make her feel less, this feeling makes a woman feel loved. When you pamper her and treat her like a queen that she is, it becomes almost impossible for her to go after somewhere else.


3. Give her time

Ladies love their private time. As much as she likes you and all, she doesn’t want you bugging her and getting in the way of all she does. Intentionally give her space, don’t force anything, good things take time. A woman that feels unnecessarily pressured wouldn’t spend time with you. Give her time to know what she truly wants. Give her little space, so she is the one running after you. Note- you must have practised 1 and 2 before you think of the space, else she wouldn’t miss your absence.

Read the rest here: https://afmobiblog./2017/06/04/5-tips-to-make-your-woman-want-more-of-you/

10 Things You Can Relate To If You’ve Enter Entered A Keke Napep In Lagos, #3 Is Common!

Keke Napep is one of the means of public transport in Nigeria.

For those who don’t know, Keke means tricycle and it is one of the numerous means Lagosians use in getting around. Using kekes can be sweet or sour depending on the situation. Here are some things you’d definitely be able to relate to if you’ve been in a keke.

1. When the trip costs 50 Naira and you have a 1000 naira note
The driver will never have change.

2. When you have to wait forever for the Keke to get full

3. When you’re squashed in between two fat people

4. And a passenger has body odour

5. When you’re the last person and you have to sit in front

6. And you almost fall while the Keke is in motion

7. When the driver is reckless

8. How all the passengers are when the Keke hits a Jeep

9. But you know the Keke napep will take you to your destination on time

10. When the trip ends and the driver says he does not have change

Have you had any other funny or interesting experience? Please share it in the comment box!

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Abeg Na Who Mumu Pass? A, B, C Or D
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In A Situation Like This, If Asked you the Answer Of 2 + 2 What Would you do
If it was you, What would be your Answer? See Photo bellow:
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Can you see it? Look at her legs and compare it with other parts of the body, Its kinda obvious:
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This photo of a ‘couple’ kissing passionately has hit the internet .However,many are confused and feel the guy is a mannequin,not a real person. He looks real to me. What do you think?
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Just a few days, after they declared a one-month freeze in Nigeria, operators of the ponzi scheme, Mavrodi Mondial Moneybox, otherwise known as ‘MMM’, have moved their business to Kenya.
The website http://kenya-/, carried the following announcement: “YES, IT IS POSSIBLE TO EARN 40% PER MONTH HERE, BUT THIS IS NOT A HYIP!
“This is a community of ordinary people, selflessly helping each other, a kind of the Global Fund of mutual aid. This is the first sprout of something new in modern soulless and ruthless world of greed and hard cash. The goal here is not the money. The goal is to destroy the world’s unjust financial system. Financial Apocalypse! Before you join, be sure to get acquainted with our IDEOLOGY!”
Before Nigeria, MMM had taken its message to African countries like South Africa and Zimbabwe. Earlier this year, South Africans who take part in MMM, had their accounts frozen and up till now, it has remained that way.
Anonymous leaders of the South African wing, blamed “media panic” for the reboot on April 30. MMM SA told members: “We have to declare a restart and start all over again. We have no choice.”
MMM was founded by former Russian politician, Sergey Mavrodi, who went on the run when the original MMM collapsed in the late 1990s, with investors losing an estimated $100m.
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Can someone tell me what is going on here? See below
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The scheme put up this message for it's participants, saying it will freeze all confirmed accounts for a month.
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Lobatan!!! he has finally admitted that he is gay!!

Friendships are one of life’s greatest joys, with it we find someone we can share our heart with — someone who understands and accepts us just the way we are.
But at times these opposite sex friendships can also be a great challenge. One of the most exciting, but frightening, barriers a friendship faces is when one person falls in love with their best friend of the opposite sex. The feelings are so intense, and the fear of revealing them can be paralyzing.

Falling in love with your best friend is the most wonderful thing?

Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?

What do you think?
Any one with an experience?
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I once asked a girl, “If you were asked to purchase either a pack of sanitary pads or a pack of condoms, which would you go for?”
She told me blatantly she would go for neither. “WHAT?”
If most girls think this way, then how do they get by?
What do they use?
Guys what do you think?
Ladies what do you think?
#palmgossip

Papikush:
You mean I should marry a girl who has got a bore hole as pussý?

Bore hole or not it, still the same name nah! P..y

MrCork:
...lightskin

Or


Dakskin?

Light skin or dark skin Can you walk down the aisle with a self-confessed and repented aristo?

Can You Marry A Repented Prostitute?

Can you walk down the aisle with a self-confessed and repented aristo? Men! I'm seeing this poo rearing its ugly head before me. Even if I forgive her for Love's sake, will my parents and entire extended family forgive her?
#Palmgossip.

A happy, fulfilling, and successful marriage is supposed to be lifetime where the couple grow together in loving, understanding and caring for each other. Likewise, ideally, they learn from each other and reciprocate each others needs and simultaneously progress in their pursuit to achieve their mutual dreams.
Which do you prefer, to marry an already very rich prospect without love or to marry the love of your life where you both can build your future together.
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The reason why I asked is that, I was on Facebook and watched a video about a dad bathing his baby girl..she might be 6-7 months old ..not sure.
The wife posted the video on Facebook and was praising him.

when I read through the comments ,,,almost everyone was thanking him for caring for baby. ,as if he is not suppose to do it..and when a woman does it she doesn't receive thanks.

I guess it is his wife that have been doing it all these while and does not receive the same thanks bla bla...
why is it that it is labeled as a woman thing...

just a question ... voice your opinion ...why don't women receive same praise when they do it?
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Some ladies sha, how can someone go to the market & get herself a T-Shirt that this was inscribed on.
But the lady tight oooo!!
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Guys, ever been attracted to your girlfriend's sister? How did you handle that?
I'm insanely attracted to my girlfriends sister. What do I Do?
So, I'm going out with this girl and she's pretty and is a loving, sensitive, kind hearted person.

Problem is I am insanely sexually attracted to her little sister. Her looks, her body, her voice, her hands, the way she walks, her high sex drive, her laugh, her confidence, her energy. They all make my heart race.
Ladies what do you think?
#Palmgossip

The shocking things we see on social media these days. A young man deemed it fit to share pictures of his unclad girlfriend online after having sex. In the photos shared on Snapchat, the guy described his woman as crazy and also said she makes him more crazy (guess they are both crazy in love). Now the young couple have become a topic of discussion online following their trending photos...
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Nigerian actor and politician, Desmond Elliot is definitely a man with a great heart for the people of his constituency.

The actor was pictured with a fan in Surulere enjoying bread and beans with one of the people who supported him during election.

The user who shared the photo captioned it:

"Desmond Elliot is not forgetting the people that made him an Hon, he was in Surulere recently and he enjoyed bread and beans with the boys".

See photo below;
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These photos of Ms Lopez and her son JayChris have been making the rounds on the Internet and it's causing a lot of outrage. According to Lopez's Facebook page, she is single and has another child, a daughter, Tia. In all her Facebook and Instagram pages, there is no photo of her kissing her daughter but there are several intimate photos of her kissing her son, as far back as when he was a lot younger. People have asked for Child protection services to be invited to her home to check her activities.
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