So you would rather have women poor and 100%dependent on their husbands?
No situation is helping anything, if you gave an ungrateful and insorbordinate wife the whole world, she'll still insult you and say "what have you done ?"
No woman deserves a man who wouldn't want her to be successful so she can be submissive!

'obtain favour from whatever God'?
Was that a mistake or you meant it, you took the issue too personally because of your personal experience which is nobody's business whereas those who married while struggling and got blessing greatly by God afterwards will tell you a different story.
GOD is not your mate, infact HE is greater than the greatest thing you know!

Pochettino:
We women love men like this

speak for yourself madam

Do you mind computer science?
Let's have a chat!

OP, do not let the type of mistake that almost everyone makes before they marry these days destroy what you have with your woman. Even though she said it without remorse, it's still true that she probably had to flow with the happenings in her life then which I strongly believe she isn't proud of hence the reason for her denial at first.
Please find a place in your heart to forgive her, think of her in a different light and help her overcome the everlasting heartache that it would cause. One more thing though...

She probably had gone to him for certain medical processes that suggest she could be game for casual sex

08036250404, thanks

08036250404, thanks God bless you.

You know what mister, it looks like you really love your girl, is this true or its the intimacy and the time you have spent together? This is an issue that concerns tour life and future if you are considering marrying her, so you just have to give it time to get the truth. Your girlfriend may or may not be a runs girl but believe me if she really has that kind of friend, its either she joins the company someday or she ignorantly allows her friend to displace her.
I suggest you study her well, let her feel relaxed and be nicer than before, also give a little impression that you have gotten more busy and wouldn't have time tokeep tabs on her, then try and investigate her movement very well! I'm sure you'll find something and that will help you so you don't feel guilty all your life that you dumped her. If she is really a runs girl she'll keep pretending while doing her thing in secret until she is caught red handed, then I'm sure the mum won't even blame you and you can walk away guiltless! And pray as well to God for directions so that you don't go left when your solution is on the right, God will help you.

I need love, peace and a very nice job now that I am through serving my fatherland

slim

hi everyone, i'm new here

beautiful mum and daughter

when she go 'disvirgin' nah

its a very sensitive ish mister, your wife is only a kid and she allowed her siblings totalk her into blivin that dia is nothing like real hapiness in the world. its so bad u r d victim here but here are the things i thibk you can do;
give the marriage a break
pray to God for directions
search through your heart very well cos ur wifes deeds cud be a nemesis for what u av done to someone else in the past, if she is ur nemesis, even if u marry a woman wt no siblng at all, she will stil do the same tin or worse to u.
if u still love here nd u still beliv in d survival of ur union wt her, dnt expose her yet, u can confide in ur dad or anybody else but kip d mata off ur moms knowledge for now, dat is if u still love ur wife. this is because dey may neva be frnds again nd dis wud affect the marriage negatively nd ur wife wnt be hapi nd free anymore as ur wife, cos she is gonna spend the better years in that marriage trying to right her wrongs...
that said, a think a word is enof for u in dis situation no one is in dis but u, u know beta dan everyone but i bliv dia is notin God cannot do, maybe its ur call to save ur marriage dis time, pls do nd dnt forget God,He only knows all... The Lord will help you nd giv u rest, Amen

[quote author=bebe2 post=44284912]Haba tonto,

Who died na aaa

She looking so down and rough, if she looked like thI'd the man wud not have approached.

I know those night feeds can take its toll on a new mum but Dats no excuse.



hmmmmm, true talk. she sudnt be like our Nigerian aunties who stopped maintaining their beauties after just a child

how many men av u slept wt ursef, don't be so serious karma is sure

HBD

D point is men like both nice and crazy gals. Some like nice gals as wives and crazy ones as girlfriends to cool off stress and remain happy anytime d ' nice' one at home gets nasty. I dont even know where dis world is heading, men feel more like men wit nice gals but they feel more alive and happier wt crazy gals. If u r married to a complete nice gal, ur marriage will soon turn to government work where u r d boss and u decide. If u were married to a crazy gal u might not nid to worry abt a lot of tins cos she wants to be involved actively in evry facet of ur life and tins u do but she will have problems with ur family.
Girls sud av dis in mind GUY'S FAMILIES ALWYS WANT NICE AND CALM GALS AS WIVES FOR THEIR SONS BUT DEY WONT WANT THEIR FEMALE CHILDREN TO BE SO NICE SO THAT NO HUSBAND'S FAMILY WILL CHEAT DEM. So to cap it all to keep ur husband happy and alive in d spirit wt u, u nid to be crazy and to keep a good relationship wt his family u nid to be nice. WE NID BOTH. Good luck to us!

dis is cweous o