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My days was good. University hire with zero experience and sent overseas from UI

No Obinna!! and Ugonma. Big errro

Thanks for the new development. We this guy to fix our roads in Agbama Estate.The new Umuahia city.

Please what's the standard length for stairs case or how many steps.

Finally police got him.He has been around since 2009 and tried to swag one lady living in Lekki then,claiming hes a doctor.I cautioned them to be careful and finally today my instine is true.I wish she's reading this story.

My Lumia 920 always shaking and doing some activities by itself,sometimes I can't answer call when the phone rings as it will not accept the answer key press.Pls what's the solution for this kind of problem or any one with similar issue.

@Jodeci.Thanks for your reply and the details you have provided. I will get in touch with you and discuss more.

Please my job will be transferring me to Algiers and I plan moving with my family. Any contact with Nigeria community in Algiers. I have tried to contact the embassy and no response from many emails. I will appreciate any genuine detail or phone contact in Algiers for Nigerians.

My company is transferring me to Algiers.Any details of Nigeria community as I plan to come with family and kids.

Oman,
UAE, Dubai
Qatar,Doha
Kuwait
Saudi,Jeddah
Iran,
Thailand,
Malaysia
Singapore
France
Holland
Spain
Nigeria
Germany
Uk
US
Canada
Egypt
Ethiopia
Algeria
South Africa
Angola
Gabon
Congo Brazzaville
Congo kinshasha
Cameroon
Kenya
Italy

Married,Had my wife deliver overseas,my life time dream for my children as I did not get international Identity from parents.(Not their fault anyway),change a new job,managing SSA with oil and gas company. All in 2010.We thank God for his blessing and mercy.

I,m 5'' 6' and live large in Lagos.Most gals I know are close to 6ft and weight 75kg or more (What we call in Nigeria ''big Nyansh'').Not becos of my moni or cars,but they find other positive things in me when they visit.They dont actually want to leave, /

please can you chnage the date in this promotional fare both for BA and VS.

Go to Idown martins in VI.I,m sure Kwara Laison office is close to Mega Plaza also in VI.

@toba,Please if you are in Lagos.Can you drop the address of the place where you handle this issue in Lagos.I can try them to fix my car.

@my infinity FX 35 have excatly the same problem from 100km/h.I have the car taken to Nissan and no solution yet .I will really appreciate a geniune response,as I plan to do something again once I,m back to Nigeria from my business trip.

Thanks r231,Please send me your phone number by sms here +213-770985209 or even contact person in these church.I m still overseas.

send me your phone contact

@ 2legitsQui , My Dear is funny.The church I,m talking about is actually my parents church and they are no more in the township.My wife cant influence the date issue in her church which also is a branch of my parent church any way.

Honestly,I want my wedding in a pentecostal church or any good new generation church.Please give me Pastors contact if you have one.

Not really to bribe,but to help me close the gap and bless my marrigae if its possible.I have proof from my Church pastor and board approval.I,m also a full memeber of another pentacostal church.I,m only asking if its possible or not.I had people have done this.

I live in Nigeria but work outside the country.I,m planning my wedding for Novemeber this year and my church calender is full for the year and I want to wed next next month because of job issues and no time to wait for my church till next year or something.

Does any one have a good pentecostal church in Lagos prefreable in surulere or Island I could arrange a things with the pastor and do my wedding.

I would appreciate any response.

@Richyblack,

Many thanks for your recommendation and I,m going to try that option and look for TOEFL training for her.I live in Island and she stays in the mainland.Not sure if theres if theres any location for TOEFL training in the mainland,or may be Ikeja.I will need such information if you have one.

@ Omowunmimi.I dont have a probelm to help teach her few things but you need to see some improvement from time to time.Not when shes not able to cover or even handle some bascic things you expect someone whos going to be your wife to manage at her age and educational level.To me is really horrible when I see all these minor mistakes and not thinking for your actions or waiting on someone to fill you in everything you do,THEY CANT THINK OR WHAT!

@GEW,

Like I said in our previous discussion in this thread.I,m still finding it diffcult to find the things shes really good at.As you said I believe her education and home background matters here as well.

If you have one NL lady can try send me private email.

@Fiona007,

Thanks for your response.I have tried so many times to push her to search for job,but wrtitting good job application and preparing for interviews is another subject and I dont want to discuss that now.

I,m oilfield worker (Petroleum Engineer) and spend my time overseas more than I have time to know whats going on the local job market.Please if you have places she could try even for a volunteer job.I will really appreciate any response here (samsones2000@yahoo.com).

I,m still findind diffcult to understand what shes good at but I have seen alot of limitations.Many tmes she say I push her too much and that my expectations are many,I,m trying to stop that and see her grow if she CAN show by example on her own not talking,talking.

@Toyo120,

Thats exactly what I,m doing at the moment trying to size her thinking ablility and the basic values anyone expect to see in his WTB attitude.

The other thing is I,m not sure someone can quit a relationship,if you try all these options and she still cant measure to what you expect from her,even when you have given some project and sit down to discuss where she have fail.

From my conversation with her,shes ready to learn as long as you are there to train her like school gal daily.I dont have dat time at the moment.

@candyshore;@ifyalways.

I,m not in any way diffcult to relate to my gal or even to other women!I try to get along with her and have even tried giving her project and see how she handles it while I watch from far.She cant do much and dont even have the wisdom to ask people around her for help.And shes Economics graduate from a top university in Nigeria.


Anyway,I have find out I need to tutor her to measure up and at least help her to thnk for herself.I dont have anything to hide in my life and hope she buckle up,before I kick her ass.

People tell me becos of her background,against my own backgroung and my travelling experience world wide.

The point is we are struggling to match up but really love her.I did know I will find myself in this kind of relationship at the end for a wife.

@ToyosI20,The point here is every man expects to see certain level of values or probably smartness in simple things ,like taking care of your home without reminding her to do so, or even to call your parents to ask how they are doing when you are overseas,or even come up with simple initiative as your WTB to help ur life.May be her judgement ability needs to be improved,but whats the suggestion or skill to do dat.

@Gbogboaye, /I love my gf and try my best to support her.

@outstrip,I apologize if you find it diffcult to understand my post.I,m still waiting to hear response from sisters.

These gals are graduate,living in a family house and you should expect certain level of initiative from them to show that they have capacity of a wife.I may be wrong anyway.

People,

Whats the best means to judge your wife to be thinking ablity or test how she comes up with her own initiative to handle issues with out you telling her or getting support from elsewhere including her family people.

I would appreciate any honest reply.

Ikeyman00 ,I do business in oil and gas industry and come here once in two months if you care to know,do you know Nigerians here?

I have arrived Algiers for the 3rd time and alone in a five start hotel.Any contact of Nigerians here to meet for a chat or sight seeing.

Please does any one know a good computer school with in surulere,Ojuelegba to know basic use of computer systems and learn Desktop publishing ie MS word,powerpoint,  Excel and Typing skills.

I would appreciate any response or email me here (Samsones2000@yahoo.com)