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Definitely people would have respected my wisdom before thinking of paying me.you on the other hand is an empty brain filled with hate,and tribalism which makes you a village champion.surely you know nobody can pay you for that

naijaking1:
If they paid you to defend the stealing Amina, you're doing a very bad for them. Childish insults without any clear counter point will not help your case.

Its nice but I would need a payment plan to afford it

obidevine:
It's for sale,

Nice

Anybody who CAN recognize is a fraud.because can itself is a wing of PDP

UbanmeUdie:




T.B Joshua is not a prophet but a sorcerer!

He is an outcast and a spiritual bastard as far as the Nigerian christian community is concerned.

CAN does not know him!
PFN does not know him!

The Catholic church believes in tithing,
The Protestants also believe in tithing.

T.B Joshua does not fall in any category, so it is ok for him to tell his members to pay their tithes in anyway they deem fit. The question is, is that scriptural?

T.B Joshua is a dundee utd!
No bible sense at all.


Useless demonized pair from hell!

So also is it in Christianity. I usually laugh when Christians start insulting Muslims. And Muslims insulting Christians.now for educational purposes both Christianity and Islam are from one and the same source.they are both Abrahamice faiths meaning they are both from abrahams root and the funny part of it all is that Abraham himself was a jew

BlowBack:
Slavery is deeply embedded in Islamic law and tradition. Although a slave-owner is cautioned against treating slaves harshly, basic human rights are not obliged. The very fact that only non-Muslims may be taken as slaves is evidence of Islam's supremacist doctrine.

Of the five references to freeing a slave in the Quran, three are prescribed as punitive measures against the slaveholder for unrelated sin. They limit the emancipation to just a single slave. Another (24:33) appears to allow a slave to buy their own freedom if they are "good." This is in keeping with the traditional Islamic practice of wealth-building through taking and ransoming hostages, which began under Muhammad.

A tiny verse in one of the earliest chapters, 90:13, does say that freeing a slave is good, however, this was "revealed" at a time when the Muslim community was miniscule and several of their new and potential recruits were either actual slaves or newly freed slaves. Many of these same people, and Muhammad himself, later went on to become owners and traders of slaves, both male and female, as they acquired the power to do so (there is no record of Muhammad owning slaves prior to starting Islam). The language of the Quran changed to accommodate slavery, which is why this early verse has had negligible impact on slavery in the Islamic world.

The taking of women and children as slaves, particularly during the conquests outside Arabia, belies the notion that Jihad was being waged in self-defense, since the enemy's families reside neither with the Muslims nor (generally) on the battlefield. These were innocent people captured from their homes and pressed into slavery by Muhammad's companions and successors.

Contrary to popular belief, converting to Islam does not automatically earn a slave his freedom, although freeing a believing slave is said to increase the master's heavenly reward (Muslim slaves are implied in Quran (4:92)). As far as the Islamic courts are concerned, a master may treat his slaves however he chooses without fear of punishment.

By contrast, Christianity was a major impetus in the abolishment of slavery. Abolition had to be imposed on the Islamic world by the European West.

Given that there have never been abolitionary movement within the Islamic world, it is astonishing to see contemporary Muslims write their religion into the history of abolition. It is a lie.

There was no William Wilberforce or Bartoleme de las Casas in Islam. As mentioned, Muhammad, the most revered figure in the religion, practiced and approved of slavery. Even his own pulpit was built with slave labor. Caliphs since have had harems of hundreds, sometimes thousands of young girls and women brought from Christian, Hindu and African lands to serve Islam's religious equivalent of the pope in the most demeaning fashion.

For the first time I totally agree with Reno

Who the gods wishes to punch, they first make mad.this woman done mad.this was the same woman who removed history from our schools when she was minister,madam go and rest once you have held office and failed to do anything you lack all moral right to come and lecture us about what you think.why didn't you run for president abi anybody block you.or let me guess you expect it to be handed to you because you have breast

Since this fool has come out to tell the world that he distroyed people property and attack people please the Nigerian police need to do there job and arrest this fool,then charge him to court

Africans are not stupid people.rape in the African context is forceful sex without intent.in other words the sex must occur without responsibility been placed on the woman.so in your mind you think women get a free pass simply because they are woman.that trash can never work here.you can not go to a man house at night,alone,then change into seductive wear,then sleep on the same bed with him and then claim rape.if you check the criminal code seduction is still a crime.so if you want to claim rape first go and do the time for seduction.rape would have been he came to my house and forced himself on me.that is rape but once you say I went to his house,then went further to establish intent by saying we agreed I would spend the night then that can never be rape.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Even the pastor self must do.haha open ministry

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

Go and make money,na only poor man they think say him mama na witch

Preeck:
Dear Nairalanders, i have a been a registered user on this platform going back as far as 2008. I decided to use this moniker to create this thread because of the sensitivity of this personal issue.
I am a realist as well as a spiritual person, a born Christian to be precise.
I don't want to bore you with so much details, all I have to ask is: what do you do when you are told that your mum is a witch. I have tried to do away with this information or revelation for some years now because I thought it's just some callous scammers trying to get something out of you, but today somewhere in a faraway place I have never been to or known, I was told the same thing about my mum. What do I do. Of course she's my mum and I will ever be grateful she brought me to this world but what do I do to be free from her spiritual grasp over me.
I know this is an open forum but I will really want kids to stay away from commenting on this post.

God bless you.so you have an idea what I was talking about

TheCabal:
NGO's are like contractors, they use third world countries to inflate budgets.

The question here are the figures painted ,not corruption and if you must know corruption is every where in the world.in the united states it is even legal.go and find out what a lobbist is

jumpandpas:
No body is painting a fake picture of Nigeria to the world, even pmb told the world that Nigerians are corrupt. The truth is that some Northern elements are benefiting from Boko Haram hence their total eradication becomes impossible. Are you not surprise that till this moment no arrest has been made on the sponsors of Boko Haram. Don't forget that Buhari was their spokesman, his inability to look into the sponsors of Boko Haram makes him a suspect, it seems that he's afraid of something.

If what I just wrote isn't fact enough,then you need help.you slave

PointZerom:
Stop ranting and counter UN with facts. Your Nigeria is a Ghost of herself... kiss the truth.

All this fake news with fake figures to paint a fake picture of Nigeria to the world.only a fool will believe that bokoharam which is operating in just 5 local government out of 774 local government which is neither in lagos nor kano displaced 10% of the total Nigerian population.if this truly came from the UN then it is either of two things.the UN are reckless liers or the people working at the UN are useless workers with an agenda

This is what happens when you bring up weak children.first does your father have a male child,second if yes is he above 18,third if yes again then he is a disgrace.according to most traditional law in Nigeria he should have taken charge and laid claim to all his father's property.he should have warned the village people and your father's brother in fact get your father's brother locked up if he tries more than himself.your mother shouldn't be speaking.his brother only comes in where there is no male child.and lastly for the love of God defend your mother you weak children.when my father died me and my brother even though we are not the first but the first and second from my mother we took over things.we told the village people to beat it or blood would flow,one stupid old woman was even saying they should have my mother under go some retual to prove that she didn't kill my father,we told them that if we haven't complain then nobody should make noise it was real war,they said we can't lay him in the ground without somethings been sorted out we told them after he enters the ground let them go and dig him out,we brought in the military and mobile police,then they sew our witch pass there own they backed down and nobody ever make noise till date.rather once in a while they go and instigate factions within the family .so my brother you guys are weak children

Alexas58:
Please am in need of advices here

My dad has a younger brother whom he trained to the university before he died, being his only brother!
My dads father died when he finished secondary school and my dad was the only one that the family could look up to. So he did some jobs, got some money and trained his younger brother to the university level..

My uncle graduated 10 years ago and nothing to show of it.. My father tried giving him a work to do in a bank, he refused the work and started having problems with my father.

Fast forward now my dad is late, has left behind some kids which are in the university and others are still attending school.

Instead of my uncle to put hands with my mum and burry my father, he is busy dragging my mum to the village that they should share some of my father's property with him, saying that my dad never did anything for him, meanwhile my dad trained him to the University which he never did to any of his children before he died.

Please..my need for posting this is to know if there is any place or anywhere that says that my Uncle must inherit a part of my late father's property, because its part of this property we the children are going to use and establish ourselves and my dad gave a wish that nobody should sell any of his lands while on the sick bed!

Please which legal backing and traditional backing can we use to prevent my uncle from going near that land!..because that land is worth hundreds of millions of naira now!!
Thanks


Please I need solutions too..because we are suspecting him of killing my father because of all his actions!...

Thanks

That is not 2012 model

you know what,i think i want to be a child,first of all nobody set up a company only to pick incompetent people to work there,so the issue of less qualified is trash,women Bleep there way to success ,you can say what you like but it is a fact .in my secondary school we commit crime we got flogged but the girls all they had to do was cry or do some funny face and they get away with there crimes.when i got to university most of my class girls where in abuja fucking politicians and driving fancy cars in school,i can even remember once when one of our lecturer scolded a girl for coming late to a test right infront of everybody she put a call to the then minister of education and all hell broke loss.most girls in my class bleeped there way to there degrees,then it came to NYSC same story,you go for interview same story .the only child i see is you. women are very very manipulative creatures.then tomorrow one stupid lady would say she was raped .please save me that crap.

cococandy:
this is quite ignorant I must say. So you don’t and have never seen a less qualified person given a position where the more qualified ones are passed over just because the person who has the power to give such positions benefits from the less qualified person? Willful ignorance is no excuse for condoning evil. You can pretend all you want but the truth is still the truth.

because only a few women are in the position to hand you succes. And of the one who are in such positions, many do not see come for an audition or interview and immediately start thinking of how to get into your pants. Shows where the problem lies.


You’re a child obviously. Thank you for wasting my time.

I say rubbish,they are not qualified if not they would have said no and rain wouldn't fall.the qualified candidate is a candidate that can't be replaced.the women bleeped there way to sucess and while they where fucking at that time they were braging to there friend,I just bleeped wEinstein oh my god. Then turn back after he has helped them.I repeat when would men have the opportunity to bleeped there way to sucess.we have to work for it no woman hands us sucess,we work for it.so please women start requesting for sex from us so we can be sucessful.and from your comment you join the 80%.that is why anywhere I go I see women in charge I usually ask the staff did she work her way to the top or bleeped her way there

cococandy:
Of course.

A man in power insists on sexual favors before qualified candidates are cast for a role, given a job or any other example from the many instances where powerful men take advantage of those beneath them. But wait for it.... these men are the victims.

If these women weren’t throtting about looking to make a career instead of staying home, the men wouldn’t have to ask them for sex in order to give them positions they are qualified for. I can’t believe I did not see how this wasn’t the abusers’ fault. Silly me

Leave this American rubbish for Americans we Africans are not mad people.the women used wEinstein even more than he used them.after they rode on him to success they did the American thing distory him.I have no sorry for him because he is the chief character in promoting this same rubbish on tv.there are very few independent women.80% of women round the world bleeped there way to success then turn and start making noise.I wonder when we men would begin to get the opportunity to bleeped our way to sucess.

NgcoboP:
There's a growing list of sexual assault allegations. Harvey Weinstein, 65, has been fired from his production company and his wife has left him. So reports that he is about to undergo therapy for sex addiction are unsurprising.

His wife Georgina Chapman, 41, was initially thought to be standing by him. But then the Marchesa designer described his behaviour as "unforgivable" and said her "heart breaks for all women who suffered pain".

So just what constitutes a "sex addiction" and what effect can it have on a spouse?

Shock, isolation and disbelief are the first things a woman feels when she finds out her partner has a sex addiction.

One of the first questions women ask is: Can sex addiction be real, or is it an excuse for infidelity, porn and bad behaviour?

That's understandable. Whatever drives a partner's behaviour, the result will be betrayal. Adultery is adultery.

But sex addiction is a real condition. And the longer it goes untreated, the more extreme behaviour the addict has to explore to achieve the same level of dopamine release.

Partners of sex addicts often feel intense shame. They ask if the addiction is somehow their fault: Were they loving, attractive, sexy enough? They fear they will be judged. That they "should" have known and stopped it. Unlike drugs, alcohol or gambling, there are often no outward signs. Couples can have been together for years without any hint of a problem.

Some addicts lose interest in marital sex entirely. Women often discover their seemingly celibate partners are addicts.

One of the most important things a woman can do is meet with others in the same situation.

Self-care, physical and emotional, is also vital. Weinstein's wife has already announced she is leaving him, but a therapist would suggest no further decision-making for six months to allow recovery from the sheer shock.

Only when a woman is feeling safe and secure - and her other half is in recovery - can she decide whether she wants to go on with the relationship.

https://www.timeslive.co.za/sunday-times/lifestyle/health-and-sex/2017-10-13-what-to-do-if-your-man-is-a-sex-addict/

He is a losser because he took care of his well been.the only losser I see is a woman who abandoned her home and left it to a maid then comes back to cry because the maid took care of the home as she requested.the man isn't dependent on her financially he has two cars that gives him return,how come all the women in this forum somehow didn't read that part.no African woman in her right senses would give birth to one child and a girl and then tell herself all is well on the home front.secondly what ever she is her husband made her.the uba she worked her husband got her the job,the money she use to start business her husband contributed his savings.as a wife she failed her family.so insult her not the man.in fact that the man didn't go outside to do this clearer indicate that he is not the cheating type.because those type know how to take care of this matters

dominique:
You know your husband is a serial cheat yet you brought in a teenage relative to look after the him in your absence. What did you expect will happen?

She should just count her losses, cut the loser off financially and start aquiring property in her own name. But being the virtuous woman, she'll most likely send the help packing, probably end her business and start petting the husband in a bid to save her marriage.

I know that is where u would go,well sure you didn't read that inspite of the fact that he wasnt working, he was still earning money.he had two cars running taxi for him that paid him weekly,so unlike you think he wasn't broke the fact is the woman left her home to the maid and the maid took total care of it.she should beg her husband and accept her cousin as a second wife.end of story that way she can travel to Mars if she likes

dominique:
STFU! Dont men travel abroad for greener pastures, marry for papers and neglect the wife for years? Should the wife be justified if she gets pregnant for someone else because of that? Read the story well, the deadbeat has been out of a job for 13 years, if the wife didn't hustle to bring something to the table, would he have had a property in his name? If I were married to such a loser, I marry my business and money and dump the asswipe. Reconcile fire!

What are you talking about what street?in case you didn't read.he helped her get the job at uba.her business he and her contribute there savings.from where I am seating that makes him an investor.the truth should be said the woman abandon her husband and child to the house help.since the house help is performing all her roles why not complete it with the bedroom.which normal Africa woman would give birth to one child and a girl and think all is well on the home front.abeg you better learn from her mistake.she should go and beg her husband and accept the second wife because if she was doing her job all this wouldn't have happened

Benita27:
She seem soft. She should make sure he goes back to the streets where he belongs. His audacity is nauseating. I guess he must have saved off a lot from the proceeds of the house projects. This one isn't a husband but an opportunist, and should be dealt with.

No wonder some women buy properties in their names.

I wonder who is torenting who.you marry a man born one ,do not care if he is ok,neglect your home and you are complaining .the house girl has been doing her job,so I see nothing wrong in finishing it

pocohantas:
As in ehn...
Our men have guts o.
They torment their wives even in death

He didn't move into there house,he moved away.the man has done the right thing.you got married to business the house mad helps you after all she is already doing all your job why not finish it.

Benita27:
LMAO. Just imagine the yeye man moving into the lady's house with his maid.

to some white racist surely they cant fathom how a black woman for that matter would be deputy at the united nation,when the french woman turn the world health organization on its head defiled lay down agreement and race for the top job,we didn't see all this racist journalist writing anything.

Throwback:
They are trying to say she does not deserve the role in UN.

Anything liberals and activists hold dear, must be held dear by everyone else.

see how stupid you sound,a local champion you would remain,we are talking of the black race your stupid myopic self is thinking of tribalism ,for your information Ngozi worked at the world bank not united nation and when she was on her way there all Africans and indeed all blacks backed her candidacy

naijaking1:
Ngozi Iweala held a UN position before her, and nobody tried to pull her down, Amina is a criminal for signing those documents without thinking about her country and her people. We know Buhari is a notorious thief, and a corrupt dictator, but she ought to know better.
She is never going to be succeed in the UN again, because they just found that she is a lying petty thief!
She deserves jail time, not an office in UN.

Some stupid fool,who surely must be racists think he can slander this woman's image.Nairaland.com make sure this never get the publicity this evil people are looking for.if you know the politics of international organizations, you would understand that when ever a black person rises some white racist start publishing trash.what has been writen is trash and should be treated as such

May God help us men.younger one I urge you think 50 times before you marry,make sure you test every spirit in the woman before you marry her,less she distroy you....
According to this woman she has seen to it that the man was jailed in Europe and his career distroyed that wasn't enough for her,she has now moved to Nigeria.by law all the children except one are above 18 which means they are adult there father shouldn't provide for them,secondly you have taken his house in Europe that is not enough for you,you now think his property in Nigeria are equally yours.in fact that man no beat you well.you woman are evil ,devils standing solider .my brother if she comes near your house again set juju for am

Very easy to spot unmarried people.when you marry your ear go hear pass that one.when I hear young single men doing woman advocate, them go talk any man that lays his hand on a woman is this and that.I dey laugh may God help una to marry then una go respect married men,the thing when there eye dey see

Modelqwen:




Hia..... everyday wahala..

Op.... me too the matter tire me.

I doubt a woman that loves her husband
would say such prayer for her spouse.

This is why I love northerners,they hold there leaders accountable if na our igbo brothers,them go worship who thief pass come they say aboki na there problem

Your story is pregnant,first you claimed the house was her own,then at the end you turn around and said they built it together then added the husband tricked her over twenty years ago.there are no foul here,i can safely assume that the husband is the owner of the house,he packed out of the house and left the woman there for many years,leading the woman to assume that the house is hers and now he feel the children are grown and he wants to sell off his house the woman thought she was connected and tried to intimidate him,he simply showed her that she is a learner .

temple2grace:
Good morning FAM,

Please my friend's mum is in a very dire situation. The husband left her 1993 with six kids to nurture and train without any assistance save for putting her and the kids up in a four bedroom bungalow.

She single handedly trained the kids through school. Infact the eldest son made a first class and is currently out of the country.

She traveled to visit one her children only to return and discovered that all her properties have been carted away. The gate of house was broken same with the doors. On enquiry her estranged husband claimed responsibility and told her he sold the house.

She reported the matter to the police, the police made attempt to recover few of her properties. Now the few properties was returned to the said sold house. The man seems highly connected as a call was put through to AIG zone 9 who squashed the case. Now the IPO can't do anything. To make matters worse, the estranged husband colluded with some persons who claimed to have bought the house to make a report at the State CID that they bought the house with her properties. Only God knows how much they used to bribe them. She was arrested alongside her daughter. She managed to contact a lawyer through the help of her former IPO and was granted bail. Enugu State police command without recourse to the former case file visited the house and moved her properties away.

She is currently homeless and being treated like a criminal. Further enquiry revealed that one Mr Uche Eluke of radio Nigeria in conjunction with one construction company Toshel Nigeria wants to buy the house at a price far below the market value. The estranged husband is currently in his seventies is eager to dispose the house which according to my friends mum they built together but the man tricked her and made the house documents in his name. They have vowed to put the woman behind bars, according to them they will show my friends family that this is Nigeria where money can do anything.

Please your help and suggestions is needed to save a wonderful woman. He also claims to have some voice recordings of what transpired. Please mods help get this to front page.