₦airaland Forum

After all the bragging you come dey Nairaland as in Nigeria land in case you no know the meaning.instead of some dem site.am sorry for you poverty they say is a thing of the mind no be building oh.you are poor end of story.you dey America for your mind you done reach heaven and other people dey hell but you won identify with hell.i done tell you dem are crazy people so I clearly understand your case as for me plus over half of America and the rest of the world. Trump all the way to 2025.no more room to allow mad people govern the world affairs.

Abbeybailey:
Brainstem, who is a migrant ?. Obviously your medulla is not functioning right. That's what poverty did to your fractured brain. Grew up here and have all my family here and i am a good citizen and have all the right to critique my government unlike a cave man yapping junk about a country he can't even get a visa to visit.

After all the bragging you come dey Nairaland as in Nigeria land in case you no know the meaning.instead of some dem site.am sorry for you poverty they say is a thing of the mind no be building oh.you are poor end of story.you dey America for your mind you done reach heaven and other people dey hell but you won identify with hell.i done tell you dem are crazy people so I clearly understand your case as for me plus over half of America and the rest of the world. Trump all the way to 2025.no more room to allow mad people govern the world affairs

Abbeybailey:
Brainstem, who is a migrant ?. Obviously your medulla is not functioning right. That's what poverty did to your fractured brain. Grew up here and have all my family here and i am a good citizen and have all the right to critique my government unlike a cave man yapping junk about a country he can't even get a visa to visit.

Na you get stake, migrant like you.you generation no fit hold office na you children go get hope that is if Trump no deport you.as for me,i get country and guess what I love am die.no be where migrant dey who 3 jobs then come on the Internet to pose,for here we no dey buy credit anything you see no matter how small paid for in full. Get it

Abbeybailey:
You know all that from Nigeria. Why don't you right the many wrongs in Nigeria before getting obsessed about a country you have no stake in.

Typical character of a dem.insults and no substance,just follow the leader and watch actors and actress.my friend keep quite. Read my lips dem is a party of crazy people.

Abbeybailey:
Typical clown that knows nothing about America. It's the lies that he spewed out everyday.

This are private matter, which didn't occur while he was in office.i really think the dem haven't realized yet that people are not as stupid as the think.trump all the way to 2025 after him,then they should put another trump.and if Nigeria still need an older president then America should please give us Trump

I would think 10years experience should be good enough to speak.not social media knowledge oh.the real deal

Ziggylady:
I hope you are married yourself ...Though it will be a pity if you are with this warped mentality of yours

I laugh when people who are not married start advising people who are married.gentle men,if you make the mistake of resigning you die well,that 750k your wife would use to finish you,as in intimidate you,insult you, abuse you. Then she would make sure nothing works for you,so she can keep doing it.just quite tell her woman congratulations on your new job,you stay in kd while I stay in Lagos then we figure out a way to make it work.

we know the game,time to clean him out,american men the most abused men in the world

Correctbae2:
National football league Superstar, LeSan McCoy has been called out on Instagram for assaulting his girlfriend who is a fashion designer, his son and dog.

He was called out by his girlfriend bestfriend who Accuses him of beating his dog until he had kidney failure, beating his son for peeing and now beat her friend yesterday.

Her post:

@shadymccoy is THE DEVIL!!! YOU ARE AN ANIMAL!!!!!! We didn’t say anything about how you beat your dog “Henny” into kidney failure. Let’s not talk about all the times my best friend had to stop you from VICIOUSLY beating your son for small things like peeing in the bed. We kept quiet about your drug usage … all the ILLEGAL steroids and needles you were using, but we will not keep quiet about this!!!!!! I can’t believe you did this to my best friend!!!!! YOUR KARMA IS GOING TO BE SO REAL!!!!!! The world needs to know what type of animal you really are!!!!!!! This was just her yesterday on the left and now this morning this is her on the right!!!!

Source: https://correct.com.ng/nfl-superstar-mccoy-accused-of-assaulting-his-girlfriend-child-and-dog-photos/

quite there,slave mentality,iboris case in the uk has been proven that the uk police rigged the process to get a guilty plea .as for your boss indeed time would judge him,his minister of finance commit fraud,they have borrowed 11 trillion yet nothing to show for it,all Nigeria has become is a blood ground and you expect anything else,the man has failed take it from us who started supporting him since 2003 not una when just come. Buhari has failed because he appointed incompetent people all around him ,the tribalism became his yard stick a man who appointed 16 out of 18 security chiefs from one region of the country in contravention to federal character laws,then turns around and says i am not a tribalist

NgeneUkwenu:
Why should you be surprised? Was it not the same Nigerian Courts discharged and acquitted Ibori only to be convicted in London Courts?

Buhari has done his Job and Posterity will always be kind to him.

Let the idiotic pigs of Biafra continue with their celebration of corruption, after all everybody suffers from it.

rubbish,on behalf of myself ,the hausa and all other tribes in the north we would like to inform you that we do not support him anylonger probably speak to the fulani

godliman:
Majority of nigerians you say? Let wait till 2019 if dont rig. You should say most Hausa fulani

Well that is the generation where wife ended and mothers ended,now we have yahoo girls, hustlers and slay queens

you never travel ,so you do not know better,i sew her hit the camera that alone is enough for her to get shot in the united states,in south america ordinary insult with mouth on a police officer would get you before a judge.so you people better know what is right

michael142:
Your head nor correct slowpoke. Did you see her slap the officer abi you dey drunk? Secondly, which sars or police officer them done arraigne to court?

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It is time the Lagos police commissioner do the needful,just as he has been arresting police officers to bring them to line with best standard,it is equally nice he bring the citizen to best standards,the young lady should be fished out arrested and placed before the court for assaulting an officer of the law .that is how it is done in developed countries

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aribisala0:
Shut your mouth. You are an empty headed noisemaker

clap for yourself.i hope you read what you write,since you are so impressed with yourself,i here by award you insult chief of the year.but insult chief does actually make you intelligent .you simple sound like the dem

aribisala0:
All that bully boy nonsense may work with others but never wih me. I can read you like the badly written book that you are , a book written by a mongol.
Clearly you are an expert on homosexuality and you know which countries to find them?.

Perhaps you can show us some of your research into Arab homosexuality?

So your thesis is broken homes leadd to homosexuality. Surely then Portugal with 70% divorce should be the world gay capital.
You are another one of those dolts that eats too much eba that someone else pays for, belches, farts and then without censorship start to ejaculate your gay theories and unrivalled foolishness reserves with delusional fervor..
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Your last sentence is gibberish. You are a raucous empty vessel

Then you are a single parent

LaudableXX:
Unfortunately for you, I am not from a single parent family, but I have friends and relatives who grew up in one, through no fault of their own. I have seen children from single parent families in church and at the workplace, enough to know that your current quest to demonize single-parent families, is not only wrong, but illogical. Did a single-parent offend you somewhere, at some point in time, that you now feel the urge to lash out at them and their children?

Your 80% assessment is not backed by any known research or scientific study in Nigeria, neither is it backed by data or fact. How many gay or lesbian people do you know personally, who were raised by single parents? The American examples you cited among the Black and Hispanic community, are flawed because you are attributing the social causes of their youngsters' deviant behaviour solely to single-parenthood, when there are so many other factors responsible for why youngsters in those communities turn out the way they do.

In my spare time, I work as a health volunteer and I have met many single parents in the course of my activities. I have met the good, bad and ugly ones. And I must say, that there are many single parents doing a good job, and I doff my hat to them. You do not know anything about social re-engineering. You are just tossing the term around in a bid to sound important, but you only succeeded in sounding illogical.

People become single parents through a variety of reasons, and rarely by choice. Some become single parents through widowhood, after losing their better half to death. Others through divorce as a result of incompatibility or abusive spouses, while some were jilted prior to the wedding, and were unable to give birth within the confines of wedlock. There are still some who ended up as single parents due to the wrong relationships they had with married people. The reasons are long and endless.

People learn to relate with the opposite sexes through a process of socialisation, which may be acquired from the home or from their environment. You are a product of not just your home, but also your environment. As long as there is a father figure in the shape of an uncle, relative or grandfather fulfilling that role, then what is your problem?

If a child grows up in a single-parent household, it is NOT the fault of that child. You are calling human beings created by God, as 'defective?' It says a lot about the prejudice, myopia and hate that colours your world view. Free your mind and seek help before it is too late. What about single fathers? Do their children grow up defective too, if they are raised by single fathers who lost their wives to sickness, death or divorce? How many single fathers do you know that have raised defective children? Please tell us.

Let me give you a little assignment. Go and read the story of Dr. Ben Carson, one of the first surgeons to separate co-joined Siamese twins in America.



Now, would it be asking too much if I say that you should kindly take yourself and your brand of ill-gotten logic out of my mentions? God bless you as you comply.

You are definitely from a broken home,well probably homosexual too,so there is no point going further.in closing usually those who accuses others of bullying and love name calling are usually referring to themself .most of what you have written is actually correct,how ever you failed to state that all the Arab leaning countries you mention tend to have more family orientation and less homosexual .which still goes back to my point,why you may not get 100% the majority would suffice

aribisala0:
Were you sexually molested as a child? You assert that homosexuality is a product of sexual abuse in childhood.

Your style seems to be that of a bully by trying to make things personal. That is your territory.

The reality is you the generation that rebuilt Europe after WW II and Japan , that survived Biafra had large numbers of orphaned children . They were not defective.

According to your logic there should be no "defective" children in Zamfara State in Kano , In Saudi Arabia and Afghanistan.

The truth is that there are so many factors affecting outcome that are external or environmental and there are some that are intrinsic or personal .

It is dishonest to pretend that one factor e.g being raised by married parents is more important than other factors e.g

1. Neighbourhood ( social class of neighbours)
2. Poverty e.g
3. Proximity to crime e.g drugs,gangs, violence, sexual precocity, childhood pregnacy
4. Quality of education
5. Health e.g Parents with mental health or or issues that impair parenting effectiveness
6 .Educational status of parents
7. "PARENTING" is another factor on this list and can be defined in a variety of formats as caregiving which may be given effectively by persons who are not necessarily blood relatives or by a range of arrangements across cultures around the world and traditionally for Africans has been communal in contrast to the European model of monogamous nuclear family units.

Many of our middle class married families have their children raised effectively by schools and housegirls.

it appears you are from a single parent and you see my comment as some personal attack.but far from the truth.they are defective end of story,a girl child is usually and as you know on no subject matter can you get a 100% result with humans and that is why we are humans but the majority would be used as assessment on the subject issue,back to what i was say male children are a reflection of there father,and female there mother,if you wish to get married and you want to know how your supposed spouse would behave,just look at there parent you can make a safe 80% assessment .this is a fact.while you may learn from the world but your life as a human is mostly molded by what happens within the 4 walls of the home and that guardians and counselling i spoke about.so save me that research talk,america right now is suffering from low male self esteem issues,plus what they term weaker men and higher gayism among black and Hispanic men.what do they have in common,they where raised by single women,the white who mostly grow in a family(husband and wife )setting is suffer same effect at a far less rate .so you can deceive yourself but the reality is what it is .surely you there not produce finding with such conclusion or those responsible for what is term social re-engineering would eat you.

LaudableXX:
Do you have any empirical evidence or research that supports your assertions? Single parenthood is not responsible for the prevalence of gays and lesbians in our society. There are tons of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people who were raised in homes with two parents - a mother & a father. So how do you explain that?

So if for example, a child's father dies before he or she grows up, are you saying that he/she would automatically grow up in a defective manner to become a lesbian or gay individual, if they are raised by the mother? Where did you hear that one? As long as the child's uncle, grandfather or mum's male relative, can offer fatherly guidance, there shouldn't be problems.

People relate with members of the opposite sex, based on socialisation. After all, the single mother can have platonic friends of both sexes, or neighbours, or relatives who would visit from time to time, and the child could learn from the way his/her mum relates with them. No man or woman is an island. That is why I said earlier it is essential for the single parent to be an honest, disciplined, respectful, responsible and well-adjusted individual.

Usually challenges arise, when such single mums or single dads remarry, and the kids now find it difficult adjusting to their father or mother's new spouse. Stories of step-mums or stepdads maltreating kids are all too common.

Even when both parents are still married, there are some men who are irresponsible absentee fathers, who despite being married, play no active role, in the upbringing of the child. There are married women like that too, who abdicate their responsibilities to the maid, nanny or whoever is on ground.

Oga, it is bad parenting that makes children grow up in a defective manner, and not single parenthood. Not all single parents are automatically bad parents.

first of all love is a continuous process meaning you can only declare love at the end of the road,as for been with more than one woman,simply ask yourself how women cope with multiple boyfriends.as for the reasons you stated above those are same reasons women stay with men.in conclusion men are better lovers than women.women are mostly driven by motives .

MariaLavina:
Lol.. If they do how is it possible to be with more than one at a time?

Most men do not love, they only get attracted .It is the sense of responsibility,Religious believes, satisfactions (sexual, social, moral and maybe Financial )they get from their women and sometimes lack of money that keeps them in relationships. Take these things away and watch them move on.

Men hardly ever willing love

we can debate this issue,but the fact remains single parenting raises defective children.go and check the back ground of most gay and lesbians two thing always stand out,sexual abuse at young age and single parenting .simply put men and women have different mental and physical make up,while growing up this imitation takes place,how to relate with the sexes take place and guardian and counselling takes place. eg if a girl child is raised by a single mother,she has no male impute meaning she wouldn't know how to relate in the context of a relationship,because she never really sew her mother relate in such context.her mother most likely turns her into a girls girl,meaning she would already have issue with men.if its a boy raise by a single mother,the mother has no knowledge on what it takes to be a man,so she rather teaches him what she knows which is been a woman,so you have a woman in a mans skin.same thing if roles are switched .as for those who grow up in homes where either partner has died,usually the kids got to have an idea of how it was and what they learnt probably just in a shorter time

LaudableXX:
Permit me to disagree. Single parenting does not necessarily raise defective children, if such single parents are honest, disciplined, respectful, responsible and well-adjusted individuals . It is better for a child or children to be raised by one normal, responsible parent than to be raised in a home run by two irresponsible, ill-mannered, abusive, rude and dysfunctional parents. Take your pick. There are children today, who grew up in single parent homes, either because their father or one of their parents died during their childhood. Yet, such children turned out right.

We should learn to be careful about generalising or lumping people, situations and things together. There are different strokes for different folks. Kids that grow up in households where they saw their father or mother being abused by their spouses, or other halves, will think such behaviour is normal. They may grow up to replicate such behaviour as adults. Those that see such actions as abnormal, end up with emotional scars.

please we need a future and single parenting raises what i term defective children beside you may be more lucky than myself

Ibrahim3307:
you still believe say I go marry?

you never marry,when you do,you go understand

Ibrahim3307:
you weak pass the op

keep quite forgien woman worse pass read my lip women think the same the world over

Pipedreams:
Marry a foreign girl with foreign mentality or have a baby mama mbok. Nigerians ladies are fast on the decline. No thanks to social media. Everybody wants to slay. I know a yahoo boy school dropout that has fxcked sweet working class godly wife materials all because he drives a white 2015 C class.

oh boy my case even worse pass,my wife done enter menopause ,for 7 years i dey beg am.her mother dey tell am no mind me.now story done dey not even one pikin.i go dey on my wife the mama go call,for my house na daily report,my wife must give morning report,afternoon report ,evening report even midnight report.na just problem.every plan i have made her mother has seen to it that it fails.i no even understand myself again.i have made up my mind second wife loading .i cant shout again ,if she won go,i wish her best of luck .

the beauty of the internet,people can run there mouth at anybody while hiding behind fake names,but let me ask you quickly are you sure you can repeat any of your statement in person

slyfoxxjoe:
lol I'm.becile..if you need money to at least go Ghana so you can say you have been abroad in your life...let me know. I laugh so hard when I see wretched people talking about going abroad like it is some big deal. Gosh..poverty has really finished my people

because the stupid white man,thinks they can use black american way of life for Africans to copy .so they can mess up the society like they have done to the blacks in america

SoapQueen:
Madam, you just dey do yourself. Guys don't really care. In fact, you just gave him a ticket to explore more.


Why do all these people on twitter sound same way? Like same "gangsta" typa way.