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"Pure water, I have always said, is cheaper than sex" Has the Nigerian society gotten so morally bankrupt? I thought only 21st century girls had lost it morality wise never thought older women were also involved.

in saner climes his source of wealth will be investigated, you might say its nobody's business but truth be told the worship of money by most Nigerians has contributed to increase in financial crimes in the country sine you are sure nobody will ask questions as to your source of wealth.
Seeing how some peps defend the illogical on this thread baffles me, so nations that have systems and institutions to check peoples sources of income are stupid and backward cause they don't mind their business. But I know of a truth that if we Africans were emulating such stupidity our society would have been a better place by now.

What's she trying to prove? People should know the high sensitivity of religion to so many people, just imagine she did this to another religious belief and she gets attacked then we blame them not knowing she irked their anger. Let us all learn to Respect people's religious practices and traditions.

Let the deception continue, seems he lives in dream land.

Like I said earlier give him the benefit of doubt, do the calling for a little while and if he does not change then you move on. I do not subscribe to people forcing themself on another person

I would advice you give him some benefit of doubt, he just might be going through some issues which has made him a little bit withdrawn from social engagements. Also do well to call his attention to your observations about his attitude of late. If after this is done and on improvement from his side I will say you find love somewhere else.

Ambode has really shut the mouths of his critics with the pace of infrastructural development in the state, if he continues this way he will surpass Fashola's achievements in Lagos.

Blame the girls mostly, if only you had a chance to see how these girls force themselves on the rich married men you will realise it takes the Grace of God to be a faithful husband in this age.

Good words of advice, if only guys will adhere to them.

Wrong assumption, so it is compulsory to dole out money foolishly to a girl just because she is your girlfriend. And where did Nigerian girls get the idea that it is their right to get spent on when in a relationship.

Tell your friend to let go of the married man and make herself available to eligible singles of her age. The problem with people like her is they are beclouded by something which 99% is money that the married man has to offer. The story of not having a boyfriend at her age holds no water how did she meet the married guy? She decided not to cause she wants them as rich as her married lover.

God surely does, we are supposed to be His children upholding high moral values. What happened to you when you saw the girl is also what other guys had to battle with. And scriptures condem indecent dressing in all totalty.

This is pure wickedness, taking away from the already downtrodden. I hope they deal severely with the culprits.

True but also it does not stop giving assistance whenever the need arises. Cause I belief relationships are for mutual benefits.

Has she bothered to check herself attitude wise, cause many girls lack the right attitude to keep a man. If you are a wife able person some one someday will come for you.

This e money of a guy seems obsessed with showing off his wealth. And what really is his source of income that allows such spendings.

Does the average nigerian girl understand the true concept of love and romance? If you like kill yourself to please them without spending foolishly on them they tag you unromantic.

The guy is a good comic actor, his actions are funny even without talking. Nice family pics.

Seems you love her cause she's a damsel, if this holds true then you are not loving but lusting. And my advise for you knowing she has a guy is to search for love else where if she is not ready to leave the guy for you. Remember you deserve to be loved in return and someone some where craves for your love just search deeper.

Nice Pics, wishing them marital bliss.

Although am not a football freak, I really respect Arsenal fans for their long standing loyalty to the club despite their losses. Very few clubs have loyal fans as arsenal does.

Though most students fall into this situations but I attribute it to indiscipline and stupidity in financial matters. If you plan well you spend with caution from the first day of resumption.

Any body that bleaches his or her skin to me suffers from low self esteem.

Doing most of this listed things for a boss is out of place, but also some things like making some payments or withdrawals for your boss when he is truly busy can pass, though it's also based on the relationship btw both parties.

I respect people irrespective of background, status or class but am really pissed off by dem girls forming what's not. Some from humble background treat broke guys like they are not humans.

Women can not claim equal status with men and yet want to shy away from men responsibilities. Common sharing of bills on a date is an uphill task for them.

Lies esp for the girls, people who even when they know a loaded guy has cash with numerous girlfriends of even a wife they will still profess their fake love for him. So cheating and apologizing with cash will make the love grow stronger.

Funny just last week a road side mechanic told a friend he could not fix a fault with his car(the model is rare) cause he did not want to get something else go wrong. And I really appreciated his honesty to my friend.

Hmmm, if this works the killers have indeed murdered sleep.

[quote author=MzPecs post=46629218][font=serif][size=11pt][i]It's not really cool as a man. Relationship will be boring so like your friend would say to you, pls come out of your shell and try to be lively.
I have tried but seems outside my shell is so confusing, do not really understand the ways of the opposite sex. Maybe I just have to take the deceit, fakeness, betrayals, love for money as being part of the ways of the average girl.

My friend tells me to come out of my shell and interact more with people especially the opp. sex, he says my world is lonely and boring but I think I love the way I am cause the peps I have tried meeting through social media are not encouraging. Being Introverted is cool, I just don't understand why people think we are not.