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Good morning, wonderful nairalanders.

I need your advices/ideas/suggestions $ experiences on suitable laptop type and perfect specifications to consider when buying a new laptop.

The major purposes are:
web designing/management, CCNA, CCNP etc. (On the side would be "movies $ PES/FIFA"

Price range will also be appreciated.

Geeks in the house, kindly help out.
Thanks so much.

braxjay:
YES O! MY BROTHER NA ME...

Na me go end am.... No dey deciv ursef

The max I can wait is 3 weeks. I have got no time for nonsense.
I DON'T and will never beg or persuade a lady to align her feelings with mine.
Lack of self esteem is what would make a sane guy be lurking around a lady.

When you move forward, you will discover there are ladies that are willing to have you and even better than the bone you are hanging on to.

Suprnov3r:
I will think about this your advice very well
I see a lot of these in my gf

Bro please do think deeply abt it. All these finz are like sitting on a time bomb whch is bound to explode sooner or later. Consider those finz u want in a woman first and wot u knw will mak u av d kind of home u av alwys wanted.(Dnt giv room for emotion to influence ur decision, beauty is vain and marriage is serious work). If u are thinking u can change her, it is nothing but lies. She can only change wen she deem it fit to(and u aren't sure of wen this would be).

She looks good, intelligent and career minded but these aren't enough.
It was a tough decision for me den(it was as if one can't find som1 better buh it is all lies, u will see somone better) buh I had to be sincere wit myself nd future.
I personally CAN'T deal with a lady possessing all that I said earlier.

Suprnov3r:
I will think about this your advice very well
I see a lot of these in my gf

Bro please do think deeply abt it. All these finz are like sitting on a time bomb whch is bound to explode sooner or later. If u are thinking u can change her, it is nothing but lies. She can only change wen she deem it fit to(and u aren't sure of wen this would be).

She looks good, intelligent and career minded but these aren't enough.
It was a tough decision for me den(it was as if one can't find som1 better buh it is all lies, u will see somone better) buh I had to be sincere wit myself nd future.
I personally CAN'T deal with a lady possessing all that I said earlier.

Useless, unreasonable, dubious and self-centred are perfect words to use for some of these ladies.
They usually don't think deep before they act.Unfortunately, they are much in the world of today. No matter how much you have spent on them, it is still as if a man have done nothing. They just do not worth it.

Obviously she was never prepared for the marriage. I guess she just wanted to put on the gown and feel the vibes just like others.

By the time she would be regretting her actions, it won't be possible for her to make correction but I am sure she would pay for it in a way.

Op, thanks for all your effort so far to the ex couple. Thanks for sharing too, this has opened my eyes to certain things and I have learned one more time.


That singular part of a domineering spouse is a no no for me. One of the reason I never regret losing my last relationship one bit and thanking God for the relationship coming to an end. It is a red flag that most guys should not ignore.
From my experience, ladies like that always know best, never take others idea/advice and always want to have their ways.

The husband should just take it as his loss for spending that much for the wedding(on someone that doesn't worth it) to the extent of having debt to settle. He made the mistake of ignoring the reg flag probably with the mind that it is not a big deal.
The more we continue to be real and to use our head instead of allowing emotion to control us, the better we will be and the better our marriages would be.
Thank you once again. I appreciate

Op if I may ask, did u both av sex during ur first short phase of ur relationship back in 2011/2012?


If "yes", Whatt are u trying to understand here?
U are just being used as a sex object. He comes at will wen he feels he need to cool himself sexually.
The earlier you stay away from him nd turn down all forms of plea from him when next he shows, the better for you.


Only if you enjoy being serviced as a side chick, you can continue to give him chance

1st of July. (We took the lead)



I did not get to see this on time.

#July rocks

braxjay:
NICE

For ur mind now, u don end am

Op, just calm ur nerves first.
Always prepare ur mind for d unexpected from anyone.

Now if u av any of her siblings no dat u knw wld b at home, u can call d person nd stylishly ask abt their welfare nd dat of ur babe...or better still let d person dat informed u ensure ur babe is aware of her presence in anoda guy's apartment.

He can as well go there to ask for somfin just for d babe to see him.

Call her tomorrow and ask abt her whereabout as at dis evening. Make sure u sound vry serious nd somone wit details.

Dat singular reason of lying is enuf to cut her off. U dnt need such a babe.

Op.... U only nid to figure out ur strengths and see reasons why she doesn't worth ur effort/time.

Av it in ur mind dat a successful man is every ladies/ everyone's man. Then concentrate on working hard to make sure u become a man of substance. U can be sure every body want to associate or be identified wit you.

My brother, please don't be bothered. The signs u av there(aggressiveness, irritation and d likes) are major signs u will get from somone that is no more into you. It is almost late but never late. Put every wedding plans on hold. Her actions defines women (bunch of confused idiots).
Ibi ti won ba ti ri je, oun ni ile won.
Aye n se most of them.


Your babe seem more of d materialistic type.

She is now subjecting you to emotional torture. Ignore her completely for some time and see if she would return to factory setting or not. Gather as much evidence as you can and meet her parents/immediate family to explain the reason(s) behind ur actions to them before she wld frame u up, making u become d bad person.

I find it difficult at times to figure if their problems are more of village people or they are just naturally crazy.

Please, dnt force or beg her into changing her mind else u will on be on a long thing.
Her case is typical of somone dat doesn't know wot she is standing for, she is already falling for any$everything.
She is obviously not ready for marriage.
If she is not sensible to reconsider wot she saw bfor she had d introduction wit u, let her go I beg you.(Tho it is painful but it is for ur good). She is not worth d effort.

elmisti:
..Kwasu babes can be good mummies..lol

Lies.... very few of dem. I won't dispute dat on anoda level sha

Kbs468:
Relatively, Cost of living is moderate across board except around the highbrow environment you know due to student population within and around the various available campuses in the state that includes

1. Federal University Lafia in Lafia


2. Nasarawa State polytechnic in Lafia

3. College of Education in Akwanga

4. Nasarawa State University in Keffi

5. College of Health Technology in Keffi

6. Federal Polytechnic Nasarawa in Nasarawa

7. You know PRIVATE UNIVERSITY LIFE STYLES NAUW. I THINK IT'S 1 OR 2 THAT WE HAVE IN NASARAWA STATE. Especially the one closer to New Karu side wey be say na like boarding school that you hardly know or hear anything from or about them until Vacation Among others.

But you can always contact the present B15 serving CORPS MEMBERS within the state to ease your task when you eventually get deployed through this link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/2683257/nassarawa-state-corpers-batch-b

As created by my very Good friend-Olami90. He would always assist accordingly.

GRACIAS OLAMI



GOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE AND GREAT CITIZENS

Baba, u are doing very well. Thanks so much. I wouldn't av answered it better.

God bless u.

Baba, make I know where dem post u go if call up letter don show mention me. More grace

Op, I can sense dat u never know what u wanted bfor u started the relationship.
You were caught up in d middle of love and sexual emotion whereby u gav in to sex only for u to be feeling guilty at d end. This is wot I call misplaced priority, indecision, low self esteem.

Obviously u are regretting d sex u had with him (medicine after death). If u are fortunate, he will stay, stand by u nd get married to u but if not, u should be ready to bear d emotional trauma nd torture u'v caused ursef outta ur unreadiness nd foolishness(sorry for dis choice of word, can't find any better phrase).

There is nothing u can do except if there is more to u dan sex nd also if he is capable of seeing it. U can't eat ur cake and av it.

Next time, u will learn how to choose wot matters to u d most.

I was a victim of some of those aforementioned offences. I knw wot is good nd bad so I dnt misbehave even in presence of visitors

I used to be beaten mostly for crying anytym a meal is delayed

Op, it is so obvious that u are desperate and lack confidence.
D fact dat she was ur childhood crush doesn't mean she has wot it takes to make a home.

It is "very" wrong for u to take it as duty to always allow her av her way, even wen she is wrong so she can be happy. I am sorry to tell u truthfully that u lack self confidence.
No guy will ever present himself as a sissy and expect to be in charge of anyfin of home.
Would u like to exchange a crown for moronic love?
I knw d feeling of achieving ur aim/dreams(feeling lucky $ victorious) of having her frm childhood but marriage relationship is far frm dat
Bros, think nd act like a man, not like yori yori boys.

Wot is love in d first place?
Love isn't and can never be enough to sustain a relationship.

D signs are clearly staring at u in d face but u want to ignorantly shun it.

She has assaulted ur sis wit belt, get ready coz ur mum might be beaten(silly) soon.
Don't ever think of changing her because it will not be genuine. The attitude has been with her for years.

You ought to knw a woman dat is homely and wonderful if u actually know wot u want and those things that matters to u wen u meet one.
You ought to av set ur wants in a lady as it matter to u so u can excuse any lady dat doesn't fit into ur plan

If u aren't okay with all these, there is no reason for u to compromise.

I can bet dat u avn't seen anyfin, u will suffer for it if u remain hell-bent.

God bless you

Op, u av said it all.
Ignore those dat are insulting and against u. They obviously belong to d class of those that propose to ladies for d fun of it and with the sole intention of marking their punny register.

Let any lady that has ear nd place value on herself listen, learn nd be wise.

God bless you

jayloms:
Thank you so very much Sir.

You are welcom sir.

D 4th outta d pictures I sent earlier is block B for male. All d blocks(male$female) av same structural design nd colour...

jayloms:
Ok. Pls, for redeployment, can one use security reasons? I hear some parts of d state have this Herdsmen wahala.

Tanx a mil for d pics and God bless.

For nasarawa, security reason is not standard and not being given consideration dat much coz there is no threat so to say. Buh som can be fortunate to av it granted based on dat

elmisti:
Issorite..as yorubas will say...na awse stool dey wait for yansh..

She be one of my mummies here o...

jayloms:
@ swista hurmolawlah, bruv Olami90 and Egbon michade, lovely evening to you all.

Pls, have you guys explored nasarawa state? I ask because I was wondering if the state has cool sights or spots to visit and make a memory out of.


Also, how possible is redeployment from nasarawa?

Thanks and God bless as you respond.

I am yet to explore d state...mayb coz I am quite reserved.

Redeployment was easy during ours buh not sure of d next batch because a new state coordinator would be recivin batch A to d state

jayloms:
Abeg O my leaders, Una fit help us wiv any pic of d camp hostel, abeg, dat's if Una get anyone. Eye dey scratch pesin

E blike dis march come too tey O

Cc michade, hurmolawlah, Olami90, callmeOO7

Pcms, I am very sorry to av responded late. I actually tried uploading it immediately I got d mention buh couldn't locate d folder it was saved. I decided to try dis evening again nd I got it. Som are here.

elmisti:
Mke I dey look u s u dey try sign d babe, 4 ur mind now, u don catch nysc pekus....*dust chair.....who get pop corn*

Laughs who tell u say ah wan sign her?
Far from dat bro....I am sure if ur pop corn finishes, u go comot enter room to sleep

naughtylagosguy:
She make sense well well.

Hmmm...... She has bin good here buh pls tell me lil u know about her. If she knw u wella and u dnt mind, tell me wot she knw u as.

KeriBaby:
My people! ! Happy new year
Elmisti
Hilsocial
Olami90
Mobi18
Et al i hail o!

Keri d sweet baby...... Weldon nd welcome. How av u been and ur location?

Op, u haven't done anything wrong at all if all you said is true. I am sorry to tell you that your husband is one selfish $ egocentric person.

I so hate people that doesn't accept fault but play smart by making u feel guilty. It is wickedness.

Op, relax ur muscles. If u av tried to sit him down to talk things through and he is hell-bent or not givin listening ear, go talk to somone u know he respect a lot(his dad/mum/mentor or a true man of God) and explain things. Hopefully, he should be able to come back to his senses.

naughtylagosguy:
I know Tosin very well.

Washerey paddy nla.....

How she be?

jayloms:
Egbon Olami90 thanks again for d answers, really do appreciate your contributions.

@danemenike, are you also with us??

We are holding back from creating a WhatsApp group for now because we can't ascertain the verity of our CUL yet. More so, march 30th is still a bit far.

We also want this thread to gain some real momentum before we move on to WhatsApp.


@Everest25, Phinity318, twoondei, Arcfrisky, Val601, walexz02, lizzyfearless, hope y'all are having a wonderful weekend?

Regards.

You are welcome sir.

jayloms:
Hello again my senior colleagues, I hope you guys are faring well at your respective PPAs?

@Swista Hurmolawlah, you said something about giving out ones ATM to those at the mami mart to help one make withdrawal from outside the camp, isn't that too much of a risk? Are there no alternative means. What if I come with enough cash to last me for d duration of the camp? Do I still need to worry about theft even under the nose of Soldiers?

Still on camping, hope the soldiers assigned to these camps do not go about with their guns, cause I hate being around guns, it scares the shiit out of me. I have heard one too many touchy stories.

Also, how is the general teaching experience in state schools, how would you assess the responsiveness of the students. For those of us who may get assigned to private PPAs, are we going to get paid, do you have an idea of the pay?

Ehen! Very important, do you have an idea of the ratio of Muslims to Christians. Do we have more in a certain area vis a vis other areas or they're evenly spread across the state?

Tachu flenty as you help us with some answers.

Cc michade
Olami90.

Giving out atm card is a risk and for only those that are ready to take d risk and bear d consequence shld there be any.

You have to worry about theft. In a situation where you aren't sure of d spot u lost the cash, you can hold anyone responsible.

You can actually hold enough cash that will last you when going to camp, it is all about knowing how to be xtra careful. I know how to do it, I did it and it was a success. There is waist purse and u av to always be at alert.

Soldiers don't always move around with guns esp. wen corps members are on parade ground.

Most private schools pays not less dan 5k and in most cases coms wit accommodation.

I only know of just one private law firm in lafia dat doesn't pay.

I can't really say no of christians to muslims buh I can assure you christians are quite much. D diff is not noticeable.

Those in govt second schls said d students are more like average while som are finding it difficult to influence d students.

Dekatron:
if you are not a fvcktard, since I am a student and you are the graduate, why stoop so low to exchange words with me?? That shows you are a slowpoke. .



Broken marriage you say? Hehehehehehehehehehehehe. Atleast, my parents are. . . I remind you of how many decent parents you had?



We have 12 year old CEO, but since they didn't have the 'graduate' tag, they are not CEO . . . You just proved you think in reverse.



Bastard son of a thousand fathers

That isn't stooping low, idiot. There are tym kids like u with fish brain needs panel beating. If it is not working, u will be left to be torn into pieces by reality of life.. At least wen storm of life drops u in wilderness, ur eyes go clear.


Loooolzzzz, if we have a 12yr old as CEO then u're like - a failure, and at ur age is a failure................
Being d first to gain admission into higher institution in ur entire generation doesn't mean u shld be jumping here $ there like a moraf**cker. U're alredy behind time.