1Alex4u:
Thanks all for the comements...advices and all. Clearly i failed to take actions against the behaviours i had observed while we courted....or simply put...i thought it was something i could change while in the marriage...but i v realised i cant....and that's y i came here for help.

Advice to folks...never assume any behavior of ur partner during marriage. If u cannot change it before marriage...then better opt out.

2ndly, its usually not so generally advisable togo for intertribal....sincerely. It just gets complicated and makes the marriage not so enjoyable at all when differences start to arrive. Compliments to all those who are currently in a good or working intertribal marriages though...but its best to avoid them if one can....saves alot of headaches.

I didnt also mention i m catholic and she is core protestant. That has also brought its own big challenges as well.

Obviously you only want to point out your griveances against inter tribal marriage.

If at all your story is true, your wife has a bad character which you choose to negelect at the onset. It has nothing to do with tribe.

I have seen several inter tribal marriages that lasted for years and still counting.

Tribalizing every issue as a nation will not help.
Dalu kwa.

ariesbull:


Yes...But culture has a role to play ..Take it or leave it


Do you want examples

Culture has a role to play in ones values and not character.

Yea i need examples.

Kondomatic:
Same thing goes to the people that benefited from MMM.

And what has mmm got to do with this post?

Wow!! So nice. but she needs keto Asap.
For the sake of her health.

Wow!! So nice. but she needs keto Asap.
For her health.

NIGHTMAREOO7:


Abeg joor that's how most of their women behave I know Some1 who went through this.

They always dnt want hear u speak ur language.
Coz they assume u speaking about them.

Obviously you are mixing with the wrong ones.

My cousin married a lady from Ekiti.Nobody was in support of the marriage at first, but he insisted and we have no choice but to leave him to his decision.
This lady is among the best SIL one can ever have. Cool headed, homely and very respectful. Till the day she died nobody spoke ill of her. She is a full Ekiti born and bred.

But the one from my town, ahhh!!! she is trouble personified. she practically chased everybody away from her home. We don't visit her and she doesn't visit any of us. Anybody from her husband's family is a treated like a leper.

Will you still attribute such to tribe? Its a personality thing. No tribe has a monopoly of bad wives.

ariesbull:


Without been tribalistic ...This is one thing I don't like about intern tribal things...It messes everything up


No Igbo woman will curse his husband in front of her umunne di.


If she does that ...She knows the implications


Oga ..Carry your cross ...Do you want me to tell u divorce her. I can't , and you have to take decision. Thank your stars no kids yet


Umu nwoke Ha Na agbara umunwanyi fa oso , ina agbakwunye FA......Onye nzuzu


Umunna gI ejekwara igba nwku ya


Carry your cross and don't disturb us here

Na we send u ?

Oga you are wrong oh. I have seen cases where the lady cursed both the father in law, husband's siblings and even there ancestors. Infront of the whole kindred

This whole thing boils down to personal character. it has nothing to do with tribe.

Kindly let her know you have your own responsibilities to take care of.

1wolex85:


We need to make this happen. How else can we stop all these mad rush during Xmas?

Maybe, re orientation on the use of Mobile banking and other similar channels.

1wolex85:


Oga please read again! I can still transfer money on my phone without internet! and Yes if I go to Mile 12, as long as the aboki has an account number, I can buy pepper

I understand where you are coming from. But seriously how many market women will want you to pay into there accounts? Majority of them feed there family daily from the proceeds of there petty business. She sales pepper to you, take the profit and buy garri for her family, use the capital and buy pepper again.

Then the 100# they charge for every transaction is not encouraging. Even the kenya and ghana you are citing as an example still have a percentage of their population that is not used to mobile banking.

Its better to be realistic.

martineverest:
about half of dem resigned from their work because to MMM

You personally wrote the resignation letter for them.

Carnnival my foot, when civil servants are dying of hunger.....
I pity imo youths eziokwum.w

vivian gist, have you been to Nzam, Omogho,ufuma? Next time get your facts right about Anambra not having a rice mill.

Chai!! Where will my cousin get 5m guarantor? So our late night writing and editing of business plans is just a waste?

It is well.

samx4real:
FG should just sack them and employ new Docs.












These resident Doctors too dey disturb.

Just listen to your self... So people demanding for their remuneration are disturbing....SMH for some Nigerians

lynnfeb:
Thanks but I reside in Lagos.

too bad. i am far from lagos.

lynnfeb:
I just need foodstuffs . Santa please locate me.

If you are in Anambra i can send across some painters of garri.

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tojahh:


And why will Seun give attention to Lautech? Make people wey strike go open school the school. After all you don't need school to "PROVIDe HELP".

Oya listen to yourself. have you thought of the effect on the students? if seun is forming concerned Nigerian, let him extend his voice of concern to the plight of lautech students.

RealSleek:
This is fake.lautech has bn on strike fr the past seven months. So those fake lsutech student stories are all made up. Bad belle people plenty for mmm o. Ota po go , buh its allowed

And seun hasn't posted a thing about the students that has been on strike for the past 7months.

If the kind of attention given to mmm on nairaland has been given to lautech, the school would have been reopened by now.

loveymom:
Soft homemade bread. Getting better at it.

very nice. but you need to knead a little longer to get a smooth dough.

This man sure deserves to be lynched.
May God give mama musa fortitude ti bear this lose. Amen

So someone believed this lie? We live on importation yes, but no to import egusi soup. they fly am abi they ship am? People can lie sha.