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FamilyRe: Father Vs Mother: Who Does It Better? by OlapejuB(op): 5:16pm On Nov 17, 2021
neonly:
God bless d dads in d house
Amen and the moms too.���
FamilyRe: Father Vs Mother: Who Does It Better? by OlapejuB(op): 5:15pm On Nov 17, 2021
Iyaebe:
It depends on how responsible they are,it could be the father in some cases while the mother in other cases as well.
Exactly. That’s why we can’t use a particular idea to judge. The bottom line is for the both parents to do their best��
FamilyFather Vs Mother: Who Does It Better? by OlapejuB(op): 3:43pm On Nov 17, 2021
The importance and roles of father and mother in the life of children can not be over emphasized.
Father is a crucial figure to mould, train and provide security for his children. Father and mother are to love and pay a big sacrifice for their children.
Parents are always happy in the old age when the children God gives them prosper and succeed. There are about 9 characteristics of father and mother that were compared.
Love, involvement, discipline, etc
What is your own experience as a mother, father and child? Who plays the roles better?
May God bless all the parents, give them long life to enjoy the fruits of their labour and may He repair the lives of those that have become wayward. AMEN.
Analyze with me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTBFkTOK5E
FamilyRe: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by OlapejuB: 11:47pm On Nov 16, 2021
Lamanii22:
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....
Thank God you recognized what you are doing as a bad habit. To solve it is very simple: it is impossible for you to yell at parents, at religious leader and your teacher. He occupies a much higher position than them.
Listen attentively when he is talking, ask for spirit of patience and increase your love and respect for him. You will not want to hurt someone you love and respect. Also assume that the people you are mentoring are watching, you know you won’t want to disgrace yourself in their presence, gradually you will change but don’t be too hard on yourself because it isn’t a day journey. Reciprocate his love with humility and respect, you will be amazed with his transformation. You can get some points here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5eeMYUzrWg
FamilyDisciplining Your Child Without Hitting And Yelling by OlapejuB(op): 3:11pm On Nov 16, 2021
Disciplining our children is a must so that they will come out responsible and valuable to themselves, family and the nation at large
To a large extent, parents shout, hit and even curse their children in the process of disciplining them. There are better ways to discipline stubborn children that do not care about the consequences of their action:
To have a disciplined child:
*The parents must have listening ears. A good parent is always patient when their children are talking to them.
*Parents must have kind and gentle words while training their children
*Children follow the footsteps of their parents. What do you do or say to your children, that is what they will understand as the best way of life.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aV7jK76jASE

You can share your ideas of disciplining children
Christianity EtcRe: Effective Prayers by OlapejuB(op): 2:36pm On Nov 16, 2021
Damnfailure:
As I sleep this night I don't want to wake up tomorrow
God forbids.
What could have happened
There is a better days/years ahead. Please forget about the present situation and look forward to what the author and finisher of our faith will do. Happiness always in Jesus name
Christianity EtcEffective Prayers by OlapejuB(op): 6:49pm On Nov 14, 2021
It is so unhelpful when we substitute hard work and efficiency with prayers.
Prayer gives supernatural strength besides being a means of communication between man and God. Please do all the necessary preparation for anything you want to do, then support and strengthen it with prayer. The result will be amazing.

I pray for those that have end of the term/semester exam, job interview, promotional examination, contract/project interview to receive Favour. No implication, no replacement, no sad result in Jesus Name.
Prayer for exam wishes and success

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ2G7oBbtTI
FamilyRe: Marriage Is BORING! Fact! Soul mate or JUST MATES? by OlapejuB: 6:34pm On Nov 14, 2021
Marriage is boring when one is married to a flat mate that has the opposite character, belief, etc but very interesting when one is married to soul mate that shares the same ideology and value
It is so unfortunate there is no much time to study each other during courtship because of work, distance, etc
But it is still workable if they are ready to pay the sacrifice by adding these vital ingredients and if not ready to pay the sacrifice, each will look for what makes them happy without sinning to God


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2_baCZsSFw
FamilyRe: What Do You Think Is Wrong With African Style Of Parenting? by OlapejuB: 6:10pm On Nov 14, 2021
Not believing their children’s privacy should not be infringed, abusing their children forgetting that their children are their reproduction, favoritism, saying many toxic things like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1V2X_cofuhA
FamilyRe: Pray For My Wife Who Is In Serious Labour Since Yesterday Afternoon. by OlapejuB: 3:10pm On Nov 10, 2021
How is she now?
The mother, the baby and your humble self shall be covered with the blood of the Almighty God. Good news shall be heard concerning your house hold.
There is a power in the name of Jesus Christ. Testimony galore in Jesus Name. More prayers are here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWQy4UUfLjE
Christianity EtcPrayer For The Sick by OlapejuB(op): 7:25am On Nov 08, 2021
In the book of Luke chapter 8:27-33, Jesus met a man who had a legion of devil living in him. Devil turned this man to a naked and homeless man. He could not leave in a house again but in the tomb. But his life was turned around, the day he met Christ.

I pray for the sick people, irrespective of the type of the ailment, so far you have faith in Christ, the greatest healer, be healed, be healed, be healed in Jesus Name.
Be it financial sickness, mental sickness, marital sickness, etc, Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow, He will give you perfect healing, you will have testimony and His name will be glorified.
For more prayer, watch this


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MP7eAkqmdck
Christianity EtcRe: THESE GOODS ARE PAID FOR!!! by OlapejuB: 7:06am On Nov 08, 2021
He is our loving father
BusinessRe: Life Story: Why Idea, Skill And Passion Are Not Enough [Part 1] by OlapejuB: 1:26pm On Nov 06, 2021
Very Correct!!
FamilyRe: Do You Know Some Men Are The Wife In Many Marriages by OlapejuB: 11:58pm On Nov 04, 2021
Please which book defines the roles to be played by individuals in a marriage?
Now that the man is helping the woman and washing his baby’s cloth, he is weak so when the baby refuses to take care of him in old age, what will the child be called, if he is sick and the wife refuses to help, what will she be called. There is a reward for everything we do either in marriage or to anyone. One good turn deserves another, besides, he is doing it to his family. The Bible says men should love their wives as Christ loved the church and died for it. Men want submission without loving first. Hmmm
FamilyRe: Indecision- She Needs Advice by OlapejuB: 11:36pm On Nov 04, 2021
Is she ready to be lonely in marriage?
She shouldn’t not have given her virginity to to the person she was not sure will be her husband. She should just allow the first man to go and for the second man, biblically is not good, but if at all she wants to have anything with him, that should be after he has perfected the divorce else it is dangerous. It is never too late to see the right guy, she can wait a bit. Marriage is a life time affair and marrying wrongly is a life time imprisonment.
She can get 5 things that will help her in her choice here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c2_baCZsSFw.

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