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There is nothing impossible for God to do. His word is yea and amen. You need to study the word of God, meditate on them and quote them when and where necessary. Holy Spirit will interpret and help you. The word of God teaches us what to do when faced with issues. Here are what you can say and work on when faced with financial problems.
Haggai 2:8 God says gold and silver are His.
Will He not give us when we ask Him and do what we are supposed to do. When we are committed, hardworking, save and invest. God will multiply our finance and give us breakthrough. Know more Bible verses on money: https://youtube.com/shorts/iuFhnmZOJ-s?feature=share

Your boyfriend wants to hear things that will make him smile, feel loved and be happy with you.
Tell him things that will make him love you more
1. You stole my heart the moment we met and I don’t want to find it again
2 my love, please do not abandon me
3, please forgive me whenever I offend you
4. I love been with you
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SWEET THINGS TO SAY TO YOUR BOYFRIEND TO MAKE HIM SMILE AND LOVE YOU MORE ❤️‍#shorts
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Feel free to add those things you want to hear from your girlfriend or you want to say to your boyfriend. Others may learn from them

There is no strong door favor cannot open. There is no hardship favor can not break
There is no impossibility that favor cannot turn to possibility.
I pray for everyone either mighty or low, strong or feeble, healthy or sick, favor of God shall locate you, divine favor shall locate your work and your family in the name of Jesus. Where you cannot speak, favor will speak on your behalf in Jesus name AMEN

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I pray for all the pregnant mothers and their pregnancies, they shall be healthy, they shall deliver safely, no mistake on the day of the delivery in Jesus name. AMEN

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All men are not the same, what they want in women differs.

We will discuss generally acceptable traits men find irresistible in women

Any woman with these qualities will definitely be attractive to their men

1. Kindness
2. Intelligence
3. Humorous women
4. Commitment
5. Consistency
6 ....,,
7...,,,,
8.....,,

Women should put in more efforts to remain irresistible to their men
Happiness always


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No one goes to the marriage with the intention of being abused either emotionally, verbally, physically, sexually or psychologically. But it happens out of many reasons.

For whatever reason your partner is abusive, help them out by speaking to the right people, through prayer and support but if the abuse persists, separate from violence until there is a positive change. You are not stepping out to start or have another relationship but to be totally healed and ready to come together to live in harmony.

Do not allow fear of what people will say or how they will see you make you die in a violent marriage/relationship. God loves you
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MrBrownJay1:
by all mean, ask yourself these simple question:
- is your r/ship automatically toxic if your partner isnt comfortable (doesnt trust you) enough "yet" to reveal some of his/her secrets?
- is your r/ship automatically toxic if some action of your partner may be seen as neglect because they dont view/believe a certain way of life, as you do?
- is your r/ship automatically toxic if your partner is insecure because of "your" actions, which made her uncomfortable in your r/ship?
- is your r/ship automatically toxic if your partner is jealous seeing you surrounded by a bunch of people from the opposite sex?

Is your own relationship healthy, wonderful and interesting when all what you mentioned happen therein? If you are ok with those things you mentioned, it is your relationship and do enjoy it. But is better you comment and do not use unappreciative adjective

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!

1. Secrecy
there is nothing toxic about being secretive about some part of your life....it all depends on how close you guys are AND/OR how much trust there is between the two of you. furthermore, not all secret should come out within the get go.

3. Neglect
many people are different and therefore what may be seen as neglect, is simply miscommunication AND/OR being unaware about your partner's desire and wishes. also, just because a person doesnt call, doesnt get in contact, doesnt care (as much as you do), it may just be a communication issue, and nothing related to toxic environment.

4. Insecurity
as much as we all want great r/ship, insecurity is part of life....it take time to trust someone fully, and as much as some can trust within the get go, many will need more time. when time is right, these insecurities may just disappear.

5. Jealousy
a lil bit of jealousy aint that bad, as we all know that someone who aint jealous at all is more dangerous than someone who is jealous a little.

ARRANT NONSENSE ?? Hmmmm
Your comment was based on your level of experience and understanding.

Everyone desires healthy relationship but somehow people find themselves in a toxic relationship. Toxic relationship can be overwhelming if not quickly handled by both parties with a strong effort on making their relationship successful.
Here are 12 early and overlooked signs of toxic relationship that should be uprooted before destroying a relationship
1. Secrecy
2. Dishonesty
3. Neglect
4. Insecurity
5. Jealousy
6 - 12
Feel free to add any known signs for people to learn and amend

HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtsE9jxq7ZE

Intimacy is having safe communication about your opinion, beliefs, feelings, experiences, emotions and desires with your partner.
Physical Intimacy includes: holding hands, kissing, hugging, caressing and presence of partners in each other’s lives.

Why are Christians starving their partners of physical intimacy in the public when the Bible says Therefore, shall a man leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh?

Is it a sin to have physical and emotional intimacy with your partner?

What are the other intimacies that could make marriage enjoyable?

INTIMACY IN RELATIONSHIPS

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neonly:
A big Amen to dat pls
Fathers support u in life without expecting anything back
Father give up der dreams just to fund and raise u to be a man
God bless d fathers abeg

AMEN IN JESUS NAME

Our fathers are very precious and priceless. They deserve our prayer every time. May God bless them beyond measures in Jesus name.
PRAYER FOR MY FATHER

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The Bible says we should live in peace with all men.
John 14:27 says Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
We need peace, love, unity, calmness, etc to live together. We should eschew hatred, enmity, arrogance, etc if we want to live like brothers in our communities, nations and the world at large.
Our prayer of peace also goes to Ukraine and Russia. May God lead the leadership to dialogue and settle amicably.
May love, calmness and peace reign in our world. Amen

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Happy valentine to all the lovers all over the world. May your love continue to be blessed and blossomed. Your relationship will experience joy and happiness. No separation, no disappointment, no frustration in Jesus name.
Remember that everything needs prayer. Pray now and everyday for your love. May the good Lord answer your prayer in Jesus Name

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I pray for all the pregnant women that are due to deliver their babies to receive power and strength for easy childbirth. You shall deliver safely. No complications, no adversity in Jesus Name. AMEN


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Our sons need constant prayer. The parents should never stop praying for their sons as they carry glory that must not be joked with. Devil will not want to relent therefore we should pray without ceasing. Our sons need prayer of protection, they need prayer of breakthrough, they need prayer to succeed and remain in success, they need prayer against marine or wicked wives, prayer to live long and to get out of difficulties as well as prayer of restoration. The list is endless.
I pray that the good Lord will answer all our prayers in Jesus name. AMEN


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Our children need fervent and constant prayer because they are carriers of glory, devil will want to show his ugly effort but the fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much.
Let’s keep on praying for our children’s protection, deliverance, safety, pregnancy, health and husband.
May God answer all our prayers in Jesus name. AMEN


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It is a thing of surprise to see people debating if God is real or not. Can we debate if our parents are real or not. Every human being must believe the genuineness of God because He created everything on the planet.
If you still doubt the existence of God, read the word of God very well and think of miracles beyond your understanding that is happening around you.

Because someone is rich and the other is poor, one is alive and the other is dead does not mean there is no God.

I pray God will not allow devil to recreate us

You can add your testimonies or experiences of the existence of God so that
those that doubt that God is real will believe. God bless us greatly


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Marrying a right partner will make you enjoy your marriage but marrying a wrong partner could mar one’s marital life

A woman that is self centre could not be a good wife material
A woman that is extravagant will lavish her money on impulse
A negative woman will never see anything good in her husbands

Ensure you are marrying to the right person so that your marriage will not have any serious hiccups. May our marriages be enjoyable and great.

What is your opinion on a man marrying a wiser and more intelligent woman. Will such marriage not experience difficulty


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Husband is the head of the family. He carries heavy load and therefore needs his wife’s support, encouragement and prayer to succeed as a son, a wonderful husband and as an amazing father.
All the women in the house should always pray for their husbands.
If the head is destroyed, what will the body do?
May God answer all our prayers about our husbands in Jesus name
Strange women will not steal them from us in Jesus Name.

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In this new year, those that deserve a better job will receive it in Jesus name.
Those that have done interviews will be called to resume.
Those that have sent CV out will be called for interview
Those that are unemployed will be offered wonderful employment
Those that have sent proposal out will receive favorable response
I pray for favorable job, full employment and financial breakthrough for all of us in Jesus name. We will not run out of cash throughout this year, we shall have legal money and amazing source of income in abundance in Jesus Name

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ceede2:
Oop you guys should just stop all this nonsense, God can use anybody to change anybody's life or character regardless, even Pst Adeboye said the person that will take over from him his still in the beer parlor drinking and smoking, Note God will use somebody for him too.

My advc to you Oop if God send junkie to you, it might be for a reason manage the junkie for a while b'fore u call it quit

Shalom.

You are very correct that there is no one God cannot change. It is possible for anyone to quit bad habit and become new.

But what stops a bad guy to change before that innocent sister marries her. How old is your marriage before you call this nonsense. You can make your point without calling an advice nonsense. Do you know the rate of divorce and abuse in marriage these days?
Is it a nonsense if we join hands together to curb it?
Anyone with bad character should try to change before getting married so that no one will quit their marriage. Thanks

To all the single ladies in the house. God will surprise you and help you to marry a good man in Jesus Name.
To those that are already in courtship, I pray that you will not marry a chameleon in Jesus Name.

There are some habits that when your man is exhibiting them, you should be sensitive and careful. Marriage is a life time journey, may your journey of marriage not be terminated untimely in Jesus name.
There are many habits a good husband must not have.
12 of them are mentioned here:
A violent man is not a marriage material
A bad influencer should be avoided
A bossy man will kill your dream
Others are:

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Thanksgiving will make a way for us this year. There are many reasons we should thank God. He protected us from all dangers of last year. He proved His faithfulness and kindness in all ways. He will do much more than our expectations in all areas in this new year. He lifts His word more than His name. Will you be able to thank Him ahead?
The more we thank Him, the more we receive from Him. May our thankfulness pave ways for our miracles in Jesus name. We should always remember that whatever God cannot complete, He will not start it.

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Many are depressed because of the debt on them. Many are running from pillar to post because of the financial crisis they are experiencing. Many are being mocked and harassed.
I pray for anyone in financial debt caused by either loss of job, under employment, loss of loved one or economy situation, the good Lord will send helpers to you, open multiple doors of blessings and surprise you in Jesus Name.

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To marry a wrong spouse can slow one down in life. Marriage is an important issue that can not be handled lightly. I pray for every marriageable people on this forum you will not marry your enemy. You will marry your friend, confidant and gist mate in Jesus name.

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We need breakthrough in our job, in our business, in our relationship, in our finance. Our children need breakthrough in their academic, careers and every area of their lives. Our husbands/ wives/friends need all round breakthrough. The Lord will answer all our prayers and grant our desires in Jesus Name.

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A relationship becomes sour when one of them is cheating.
Cheating is giving your partner bitter water to drink
Cheating hurts
Cheating brings ridicule, public shame and insult to the cheater
Cheating is a betrayal of trust

Learn why it is wrong to cheat in your relationship in this video and avoid it completely.


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Kashamadupe02:
Good day Great people, I will make this simple and short. I'm a young adult in my mid 30s, early stage of my life was rosy because I got a good job a year after service before then I was working double shift as a sch teacher during the day and security operative at night(just to let you know am not lazy) Worked at one of this new generation banks for almost 5yrs before I was retrenched, I ventured into a new business shortly after then, got married and to God be the Glory I have kids .

The last two years have been terrible, my business suffered a great loss in 2019 and up till now have not been able to pickup myself. I believe in being self made but am running out of ideas which is making me loose it. I've applied for several jobs but yet to be called, family and friends have been great but I can't keep replying on them.

I need someone to talk to, someone to inspire me, am getting depressed, am beginning to doubt my capacity. I survived a BP of almost 240 just recently,Bills keeps coming, I hate the fact that I have to rely on people when emergency pops up. I like making my own money. I NEED HELP. So many things have gone wrong which I won't want to delve into, I don't even feel like a man any longer.

I need great minds to give me healthy advice, I hardly sleep. I still believe in myself but I just don't know where to start again. I'm STUCK!
I NEED A JOB TO KEEP ME BUSY, AM LOSING IT. I NEED SOMEONE TO TALK, I NEED TO ENGAGE MY MIND.

Firstly, appreciate God for everything both good and bad. There is nothing impossible for Him. Thank God you are not lazy. The economy can make one looks depressed and sick. See the national problem as if not yours alone. Let’s appreciate those that have been supportive. Many in this situation don’t even have who to run to.
I believe your spouse is working at least to take care of your kid?
Just two things to quickly do.
Quickly check through your family if this is a recurrence, you need serious prayer to stop the generational problem. If it is not a recurring issue, then meet your creator in 3 days serious prayer to show you your purpose and directive to what to do. If you do it with sincerity, He will reveal Himself to you, then follow the path. You may only need to change or improve or learn something. I advise you do it.

Secondly don’t be afraid to pick up any job available, from there you will move up.

Above all, take care of your health as tomorrow will be okay and is not good to be successful in bad health. You are not the only one in this situation. It comes and it will go. Always ask for mercy of God in your prayer. It is not only job you need, you need to discover your purpose and live it.

When you discover your partner is cheating, you do not have to fight, you do not have to leave the relationship unless you are no longer interested and you do not have to destroy anything.
Do these simple things and your relationship will be interesting again.


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Why will your spouse, partner, girlfriend and boyfriend cheat when you are faithful and committed to the relationship or marriage. There are many reasons why people cheat and individual reaction differs.

Here are 10 major reasons why your partner may cheat on you
1. Absence of genuine love
2. Revenge
3. Nonchalant attitude
4. Lack of personal sacrifice

If spouse can avoid all these 10 reasons why your spouse may cheat, they will never experience cheating and their relationship will be enjoyable.


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Kudos to all the mothers for their prayers on their children. The good Lord will answer all our requests for our children in Jesus name. God will bless all the parents and give them long life to enjoy the fruits of their labor. We will not labour loss on our children in Jesus Name. The Bible says we should pray without ceasing. Do not relent, your testimonies are here. Add these to your prayer points for your children. God bless all the parents in the house.


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