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It all happened yesterday around 9:00am while me and a friend were outside the house gate. It seems my next flat neighbour and his wife were having an outing that morning. While we were outside, the man fully dressed with Native, he brought out his car from the compound and parked outside close to where we were, waiting for his wife to join him.
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As usual, we greeted and i and my friend continued what we were doing.
After about 3minutes, the man told somebody to help him call his wife and the person returned with a message that ''She said she is coming''...
Again, after about some minutes the man send another person, this time a girl to help him call his wife and she came with a reply ''She said she coming''
The man yelled ''O God'' and ask the girl: ''what was she doing?''
The girl replied ''she is still doing her make-up.
The man said ''Make-up?'' and the girl said ''Yes'' and she left.
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With anger in the man's face, looking furious, he just kicked his car and Zoomed off without the wife knowing. And immediately, i just told my friend that we should act as though we don't know what happened if the woman comes out, so that she won't feel ashamed/mocked or more disappointed seeing us. So we turned and faced another direction were she cannot see us directly even if she comes out.
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After some minutes, the wife hurriedly came out gorgeously dressed in her Native with her hand bag and gadget. Truly speaking she was looking beautiful. To her amazement, she didn't see her husband's car outside and she asked the little kids outside ''Where is my husband'' and they replied ''He don enter motor go''.
She was heartbroken, disappointed and angered etc. She stood for about 2minutes outside, looking in one direction, with a finger in her mouth as a drop of tears roll-down her eyes as i piped. I almost shared tears seeing her, i felt disappointed myself and bitter towards the man (i put myself in the woman's shoes that moment.)
She went back into the house and didn't go to the outing again.
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Though there was no sign of quarrel between them before now because as the house is, you can hear from your own flat what is going on in the next flat, mostly if it involves shouting. And this couples got married since December 2013.
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My question is:
Is it that the man cannot be a bit patient for his wife to look more beautifuf or is it that the man is just being wicked to the woman because the thing got me thinking since yesterday.
If this has ever happened to you as a woman you can share your thoughts.
Ishilove, lalasticlala...

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lalasticlala and Ishilove i need to hear your views too...

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u sabi jesus or u don gain salvation yet.?

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CaroLyner:
omg.is that a true story? or fiction

True story my dear. The man is battling with life as we speak...

CaroLyner:
you cant see a girl drunk like this

That's true.
Girls don't get engaged in things that don't benefit them to a higher extent and they are more Responsible when it comes to situations like this but 'some' men are just like Rukewe and Sam Loco Efe... Imagine a man after he has gotten himself drunk, he just went straignt to an Electric Transformer on New Year's Eve and used is bare hand to remove a fuse from the transformer... The rest is a story now...

Chillext:
Its a year of SPREADING as declared by one pastor.
But it shall not spread to where we are IJN AMEN.

Gbam! We will only hear with our ears and see with our eyes, but they will not come near us. We are Immune to it...

And he told her:
He Love her from the bottom of his heart in sickness and in health and he turned out to be the sickness himself.
See the way anger can have complete dominion/control over some hot tempered folks. I wish her quick recovery in Jesus Name!
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@queenst and whom it may concern, am not trying to point anybody wrong, but just read carefully.
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First of all i will say i like your openness. But i don't think you've Loved him just yet. That's where people get it wrong. (Love don't just happen, the heart need time to develop it because Love is like a root that needs time to establish itself underground/soil (the heart).
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For now you are only emotionally drawn to him, that means you 'LIKE' him, not 'LOVE' yet.
Though it's not True what people call 'Unconditional Love', Love always have Incense/Conditions attached, (just as you said you love him because of the "way he dresses, as a computer guru and the rest". Conditions are always there, but it may just be silently unpronounced.
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Ok let me ask you.
Though you've not really known this guy as in the real knowing (Character, Attitude and his way of life etc. Which would really matter later in the future).
Question
¤ What if he turns out to be somebody you never thought he was, like: a hot tempered guy, a wife/girl beater, an infidel, a selfish dude as some people calls it and a dude who has less time for you as a woman, can you still LOVE him as you've earlier MENTIONED/SAID/AGREED to yourself?
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Am not trying to burn the guy's cable or give the OP a red-flag sign just as some are already thinking, what am trying to point out here is that this is exactly how "Some" people miss-it in Life, i repeat "some" people not all 'people' (Relationship wise) mostly the female folks. 'Some' (majority), use the wrong measuring instrument to measure the wrong thing, which will in turn start to manifest the mistakes made.
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There is what we call "Shine your eye" in 9ja but now eyes don't see clearly again because (opolo eye no be open eye), some peoples' eyes have become too Big and begining to Malfunction to the extent of leading them astray. I think the best one here and now should be "Use your sense."
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Of what use is it for someone to give you a free cap and cut-off the head you want to use to wear the so called cap in return.
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Favour is Deceitful Beauty is vain, but a Telecommunication Company that Fears the Lord Shall not be FINED by NCC

Yes o! They won't see you because your God no dey sleep.

Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed (Proverbs 16:3 NIV).
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In setting new goals, and in your plan to create new levels of prosperity and growth, stay focused on the Word. Pray and meditate on the Word. Set definite times of fellowship with the Spirit. Every now and then, speak in tongues and talk to the Lord about your goals, and He’ll make sure you achieve them. Psalm 37:5 says, "Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass."
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Isaiah 26:3 says, "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee." The phrase translated "perfect peace" in the verse above implies peace with prosperity. It says, "thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee…." You must stay your mind on the Lord.
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Take your mind away from the news and information that cause fear, depression, and distractions, and stay your mind on the Lord and His eternal Word. Discipline your mind in one direction—the direction of God’s Word—and you’d have good success, prosperity with peace.
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Joshua 1:8 says, "This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for
then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success." Keeping your mind focused on the Lord and His Word guarantees you a life of true success. You might ask, "What’s the connection between my mind and my prosperity?"
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You see, your mind is where God seeks to work. If He can get a hold of your mind, you can become as healthy, prosperous, and successful as He wants you to be. Your mind is the doorway to your spirit, and out of your spirit are the issues of life.
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No matter how financially down and out, in debt, sick or afflicted someone might be, if the Word of God can get into that person’s system, things will change in a moment of time.
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God’s Word is God’s recipe for divine health, wealth, and the glorious life. Trust the Lord and stay focused on His Word.
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Prayer
Thank you precious Father, for your Word to me today! My mind is focused on the Word, and I refuse to be distracted. Therefore, victory, success, prosperity and divine health are evident in my life because I’ve given myself wholly to the Word, in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
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Further Study:
Hebrews 12:2; Jeremiah 17:7-8
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Cc: Ishilove, lalasticlala, mynd44 let them see it...

BE INSPIRING!
Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults… Don’t condemn those who are down; that hardness can boomerang. Be easy on people; you’ll find life a lot easier (Luke 6:37 MSG).
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God expects you to value others the same way He values you. When people come around you, they shouldn’t feel uneasy, dejected, imperfect, timid, insecure, afraid, or doubtful of themselves. Rather, they should be confident, inspired, courageous, strong, vibrant, and enthusiastic to face life and win. Don’t make people feel intimidated, worthless or hopeless.
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Consider the Lord in Genesis chapter eighteen: He appeared in the form of a man, and told Abraham who, at the time, was almost one hundred years old, that he was going to have a son through his wife Sarah. Sarah, who heard what the Lord said, laughed within herself, saying, "After I am waxed old shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?" (Genesis 18:12).
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Responding to Sarah’s unbelief, God asked Abraham, "Why did Sarah laugh?" (Genesis 18:13). The Bible says, "Then Sarah denied, saying, I didn’t laugh; for she was afraid" (Genesis 18:15). God could have reprimanded her thus: "You mean in my presence, you dare tell a lie?" But no, He wasn’t mad at her. Instead, He said to her lovingly, "No; but you did laugh" (Genesis 18:15.
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God didn’t make Sarah feel less than she was; He didn’t attack her personality. He was easy on her, because He knew the reason she lied was because she was afraid, and the solution for fear is faith that works by love. Let people be confident around you. Let them be free to be themselves around you. Let them be free to express themselves; they shouldn’t be afraid to "fail" or make a mistake around you.
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Every human person is bought with, and washed by, the blood of Jesus Christ; we’re sanctified by God, and are therefore valuable to Him. When you see, relate with, and talk to people with this understanding, they’ll be confident in themselves and know that’s how God sees them too. Thus, instead of running away from God when they do something wrong, they’ll run to Him.
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Prayer:
Merciful Father, I thank you for loving and accepting me, and teaching me to shower others with the same kindness, and cover them always with your love. I am confident in your love always, and sufficient in your sufficiency, in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
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Further Study:

Luke 6:36:
Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
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Matthew 5:7:
Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
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1 Peter 4:8:
And above all things have fervent charity among yourselves: for charity
shall cover the multitude of sins.
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Cc: Ishilove, Mynd44, lalasticlala...

@ trusted, don't get discouraged by discouraging or 'negative' posts on your thread, trust me they will always come because people are different.
(So accept criticism, most on this forum because it will only make your better yourself when you accept and learn from your critics) but don't let it discourage you from helping other learn what's RIGHT.
Also, do not forget that ''Some people read to comment, not to learn'' and you can't change that from them.
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Yes! You are passing a message but who will learn will learn not everybody will out of the 100 who read. Some people will read and won't Comment/Like/Share but they will Pick, Apply and Learn. (At least, if your Post can make 1 person's life better) what more can i say.
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Once again, your post was really Educative to me and the Contribution from kepstone .

Mizwisdom:
Can someone explain why people are so rude

Am not judging anyone, but i just want to say that people are Rude or 'Become' Rude for many reasons:
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¤ Attitude:
Some, it is their attitude. Some people have a bad attitude online and off-line that they cannot control themself privately or even in public to the extent of taking such attitude online.
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¤ Attention/Recognition:
This one is very common here. Some just want to gain online Recognition by being or claiming rude thereby saying all sort unfriendly words against others even themselves just to attract attention other party.
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[b]¤ Likes:
This category are Plenty here. They are the people who just want others to LIKE their comment. Some will even be insulting their parents, themselves even the owner of the Forum so that their 'Bed of the same feathers' will LIKE their comment/post even when they know it's wrong. .
¤ Selfishness
Why some don't even know or practice Online-Etiqutte, they can't even create threads but they always see where people make grammatical error, instead of correcting with love, the right way, they will just post/comment on Thread harshly/rudely and insultingnot minding how it can hurt other people their words are unloving, and their rudeness are 'direct' forgetting that what you write online stays online.
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¤ Temper:
This ones cannot just control their hot temper, they become hot just because someone 'Oppose' their opinion they will just start Insulting or Replying with unwholesome words that will make others to start derailing peoples thread.
And the truth is that their Hot Temper cannot even Iron any shirt talkless of boiling water.
Truly speaking, this things ought not be so, lets try to control ourselves because Rudeness On and Off-line, it's never a good thing virtue. I imploy us to be more friendly online, show and express love everywhere in this New Year and lets Bury the old-wrong attitude of ours. To whom this thread is rebuking now, have a change of heart and lets STOP saying the Right things the Wrong way.

Please if a pregnant woman gives birth to a twin, the First one comes out by 11:54pm of December 31st, the Second at [b]12:03am January 1st.
Question:
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1. Are they age mate?
2. What year would both claim?
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Ishilove and lalasticlala, i need your responses too.

¤ Hunter:
They will be searching for animals in odd hours inside the bush/forest.
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¤ Fishermen:
This ones always see Karishikas dancing Shakiti-Bobo under water. Most times, Karishikas toast them.
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¤ LASTMA Officer:
My uncle use tyre climb one Left-leg back in August because the man was just shouting ''park...park...park.''
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Maiconyoung:
traces of guilt hw?

What i mean by 'traces of guilt' (from her side not from you) is that she may see something that may not necessarily mean you are cheating (infidelity) on your phone, but trust me women interpret things differently when it comes to a situation like this relationship-wise.

Maiconyoung:
Just on point. My ex went through my phn one day nd saw a number of anoda lady, b4 i cud say "jack", she has startd caln d oda grl, i was like u went tru my phn 2 spoil anoda persons day? I dnt like sumone spyn on my phn, i hate it.

'Most' people (majority) Dislike it when there are some traces of guilt on the phone.