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Soleymania, you need to sit with you wife and you two should discuss about her/your decision and on the way forward. There is nothing wrong doing an House Maid Job (humility pays). Doing it and earning wages/salary is better than stealing, borrowing, and owing debts if that is should be the case.
Also, just filter the Right and Encouring advice from this thread too.

airsaylongcon:
Lagos. If you are in Lagos I can arrange a meet. If outside I can send it via transport company or post office. I will upload pics later today

Ok. Upload it let me see its picture. Send me a PM about the Price.

airsaylongcon:
PM me

Where do you reside and how can i get it?

Ravenna:
If humans won't do those things, who will?
At 31, i'v had regrets too e.g voting in daura cow.

I don't think it's Right, Wise and Matured to insult the President of our Nation. No where in the Bible or Quran that states we should insult our leader rather to 'Pray for them'.
If i may ask, when last did you pray for Nigeria and her Leaders (specifically or generally)?

Congratulations. Since she is a Girl, name her Miracle

airsaylongcon:
As long as it's Huawei you should be fine. I've got an Airtel Huawei for sale. I want to sell it to get a Smile modem

How much?

I Love my Country because there is no other country in the world i would rather come from. It's fun to be a Nigerian!

It is called Ego. 'Some' men just allow Ego to destroy their relationship. And the worst is that they flaunt their Ego in wrong ways instead to show maturity,
mostly in situations they are suppose to show maturity. Ego is never a promoter of person rather it demote.

Please i need a Modem (Not Direct Universal), but a Network modem that i can crack myself.
My challenge is that i don't know the Best to choose from between (Airtel, Etisalat and GLO) that would be easy to crack.

I will appreciate it if i can know their various prices too.
Please i need your kind suggestions.
Thank you!
lalasticlala, Mynd44, Ishilove

I think HARDDON should use simple words, those slangs you are using are not really helping at all. I expect you to use understandable words that every person should understand... Just my opinion though!

Nice post OP. But you forget that:
Even after taking those steps above and master them, without Putting your Trust first in GOD, no matter the connection you have and how high you may seemingly rise, if your foundation are people (mere men) your success will be [1-Step forward and 2-Step Backward], temporal and eventually you will crashland. 'Yes i can hear you say God-forbid'.
True success is inevitable when God is your Foundation, Fountain and Sufficiency.
Don't forget that the Real Success starts and stays in God!

I think the OP is really passing a message.
''When using Earpiece/Headphone, atleast reduce its volume so that you can still hear sound from background.'' Too much of Fun is bad, mostly dirty things like this.

16. Majority of them, after a stressful day of sweating, when they get home, they will just raise up their left arm and smell the aroma emanating from their Ampit to know if that was why the handsome dude sitting next to them in that taxi didn't whisper a word to them even when she greet in the dude's language..

Nice exhortation.
"We are nothing but pencils in the hands of our Creator" is a WRONG statement people often make. We are really SOMETHING in God's watch.

I wish her quick recovery. For the boy, God will judge.

It seems the OP doesn't like living a peaceful life has she has always been living.
Your Conscience is already judging your actions. Conscience is an open wound, only truth can heal it. Tell yourself the truth.

You should know that this is Nigeria, not India. Moreover, some girls (matured) ones make the first move sometimes, it really don't matter.
The problem why i think most girls don't make the first move in this part of the world is because ''they understand'' the MEN they have here in Nigerian. Most men (majority) of the Men take them forgranted and make them look desperate, while some dude play with their innocent heart as if they are playing Temple Run...

HateU2:
Lagos.

Why do you choose Lagos?

NezerLawren:
Please guys I am really in need of your help o... Jamb give me admission to study in Mapoly but I am having difficulty confirming the admission status in the school website... Please if you know what can be done please help a bro in need o...

Seem all hope is lost

Just go to Jamb website and print your admission Letter. The school is aware of the admission. Some schools don't have Jamb merit list on their websites. And since it's Jamb that gave you, you are automatically a student. Except if you have deficiency in any of your Credencials e.g SSCE Results and so on!

HateU2:
Awaiting corper. Batch A

Interesting. Where do u like to serve?

Just be very careful. As little as this seems, it can destroy or promote your marriage. Even if she is acting 'funny', try to endure because some things happen for reasons. I know it's getting you upset, but you need to act maturedly as i think you are. 'Pretend' you don't even care about it even though you really do and "be very wise and sensible" towards her and your husband.
Out of 100 people that will see or hear this from you, i bet you, 99 of them will advice you to take a drastic (negative) step, mostly the male folks.
This may just be the TEST that will Promote or Demote you/your Status and Dignity in your Husband's Heart!
Above all, Win her completely with Love by expressing unfeigned towards her and her dad because love conquers all and nobody resist the thing call love, not even Lucifer!

HateU2:
I am fucking bored here despite that it's friday night . Who will go into interview segment with me? I promise to answer all the questions. Let's hit it up and make friday night interesting for a fellow nairalander. Bashing is allowed

Are you a Student?

swemzkid:
guy she aint married she just happen to have kids out of wedlock

OK. But you didn't indicate it on your post that she is NOT presently with any man and that the kids were out of wedlock. All the same, i hope you find the Best and Appropriate advice(s) on this thread as it applies to your situation.

Make up your mind never to do it no matter the obsessions.
It's better you give her reasons why you just can't do it.
Call her face to face and in a Loving way Tell her you respect her union with her husband and herself as a married woman and that you wouldn't like it if someone elso do the same to you to. It's a no-go area for a 'responsible' dude.
Also, becareful not to say the Right things to her in the Wrong way

I rejoice with those who are rejoicing.
Congratulation! The poster below me has something to say.

My neighbour Osas has been doing No. 3 for the past 5 years now in Canada. He has built 4Bedroom Self Contain for his Mum, established a mighty business for her and he also bought her a Camry.
I even hear last week say he don buy house for FCT...

This may sound harsh to some, but it's thw truth: You really may not know what happened.
The problem most people have is that they Judge too early and quick to Assume wrongly.
@ OP, you are already saying your true intention that ''you wouldn't have given her any money.'' Even though 'some' ladies may just want to suck a guy dry, 'some,' when they found that you are really a Nice, Wonderful and Scarce Comodity in their market, they will just change their Negative intention of turning you to a Maga and give you a chance into their heart without stress.
Maybe, i repeat maybe she just knew the kind of person you were from the begining that's why she turned you down instantly.
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I think before we even approach a lady, we should go with the RIGHT intentions, not the NEGATIVE ones because anything done with Sincerity always LAST, mostly in a relationship, YES it does Last!

According to what the writer sent, she said that ''Her boyfriend just bought the phone'' meaning those files could be files the seller saved on the phone before selling it to you Boyfriend... Don't judge and don't conclude yet.
Assumption destroy relationship.

This is the problem of most people, they never want to solve problems, but they want the already solved problem free-off-charge.
Leaving the girl will not change anything.
Maybe, i repeat maybe God just brought him to the girl's life so that the girl will see the Light and be delivered out of Darkness.
They say the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.
But thank God that both of them have been delivered from their darkness...

Abegi, make them go sitdown. This is not a time to show folishness. They are Attention seekers!

Benue people need to becareful. Infact their Governor should bound Rat eating.