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"Kiss before you open"

misspicy:
why?

Because we seriously don't have facts about what happened between the couples leading to the wife committing adultery.
Am not judging your comment though.

misspicy:
seriously? no wonderr the wife is cheating,it shows the man is not strong,can't perform well yet he got beaten by the man fvcking his wife....if na me divorce straight

Divorce is not an option.

I just learned something new OP...

@Kagorba3, It's better to even be in love with someone that love you more than you love them.

What is the meaning of marriage if you think he possess some uncontrollable character?
Marriage means "Help Meet". You are in the marriage to make him better so does he. Don't look at the now, look at the seemingly brighter future you two would have together.

Physical appearance deceives, what you have in your heart is what counts. And with the way you're thinking, it's as if you don't expect EXCELLENCE in your marriage. You're being selfish with your thoughts now.

If you know you don't want or deserves this Wonderful man's Love in your life, i would advice you tell him now so that he'll go for his real soul-mate because what you want seems to be Physical Attraction.

With the waý you're going, i just pray you marriage(s) won't end up in Divorce(s). Think, pray and let God lead you.
Goodluck!!!

That man looks like a hungered VAMPIRE that needs to suck bload by force. Abeg make una help me dial Wesley Snip's number AKA (BLADE).

dgalon:
i tried all this mention above and many more..the only time it favored is when i found myself in friend-zone

You don't just do these things, you got to apply wisdom too and don't let it seem you're desperate...

Wooing a girl is not as easy as you think especially when it comes to dealings with Nigerian
girls, although most guys are nurturing the ideas that Nigeria girls are CHEAP and easy to be
SCREWED once you have the money.
Well it’s not all girls, a friend of mine will say "There are some 9ja girls that are naturally hard to get."

No matter how hard a girl seems to be, the right guy can still get into her heart because girls naturally are fragile in heart as so, they need to be followed up slowly, especially when you are nursing the idea of starting a relationship with them.

Not all guys have the gut to walk up to a lady and express their feelings for her, so here are Twelve (12) Tips on how to get
that 9ja girl that has been giving you sleepless night.

1. Start on a Friendship Note:
Most guys of now adays are always in a hurry to go into a relationship, that is why they end up running out of it when they later discover the true identity of the girl.
If you see a girl that you
like, before anything, you have to try as much as possible to strike a cool friendship with her before
anything.


2. Don’t Stalk her:
The fact that you are now friend with her doesn’t mean you should be stalking her. Just play it cool and safe.
Don’t call her during odd
hours except she permits you. Some Nigerian girls are quick to jump into conclusion that you can’t
afford Airtime, that’s why you are always calling during odd hours of the night. Extra cool thingz that year.

3. Don’t Fake it:
Don't just act natural, be natural. If your girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not. Try as much as possible to be natural in all your dealings with her. Don’t fake what you're not and don’t brag because girls hate guys that brag.
4. Be Confident:
Nothing is sexier like being Confident, it makes girls go gaga and trip for you the more.
Try as much as possible
not to let your gourd down when dealing with her. Work on your self-esteem even before striking a friendship with her. Girls are naturally fragile, they need protection; that doesn’t
mean you should go and flaunt your muscle with any guy that approaches her.

5. Don’t be Authoritative:
All girls hate guys that always questions their moves. Don’t check her
mails, sms, phone contacts & other personal stuff. Give her freedom & I bet you, she will be the one always wanting your
company. Smile at her even when you see her with a guy in such an un-compromising manner.

6. Be Neat:
Girls hate dirty guys.
Even a well known dirty girl will tell you she hate dirty guys, how much more the clean ones. Make sure you are always neat whether she is around you or not. Brush your teeth/tongue, comb your ponk, clean your nails & always wear a nice Fragrance when visiting her or she is visiting you. Don’t go to her sweaty, if you are
just returning from an exercise, make sure you shower and look calm, cool & reserved before you go visiting.


7. Be Fashionable:
Fashion is not just for girls. It's for guys to be
recognized by girls too. Get a nice shoe, T'Shirt & some pair of cool jean. Don't just buy one outfit. Clothes should never be worn more than twice a
week. Don’t overdress & don’t under dress. A wrist watch should be okay. Wearing sun glasses, three to four neck chains
& dressing like Chally-Boy
claiming its SWAGS might turn her off. To me in person, SWAG has got nothing to do with dressing. Shave your bears if you keep one, don’t go to her looking
tattered like 'werey'. She will shun you.


8. Like what she Likes:
Girls are unpredictable, so you have to be tactical when dealing with them.
The closer you get to her, the more you get to know her better. Like her siblings, her family & especially her friends.


9. Be Romantic:
Girls like romantic guys, so be romantic with your words. Don’t forget to tell her how beautiful she is & how happy you are each time you're around her. Hold her hands when necessary & look into her eyes sexily but don’t get
lust in her eyes because some girls have sexy eyes. This might embarrass her. An early morning Good Morning Beautiful sms will go a long way in her developing interest in you.


10. Be Current:
In as much as girls don’t like guys that talk too
much like Derenle, they like guys that are current.
Getting current informations online about happening around you will make her know that you are learned and that you follow trend. No girl will like to be with a bush guy.

11. Be Funny:
Being funny does not mean you should turn to a jester. Always crack sensible joke once in a while when speaking with her. Always try as much as possible to make her smile & laugh but don’t overdo it like Sikiru.
Girls hate boring guys.


12. Ask her Out:
With all these qualities, I doubt if a sensible girl will turn you down.
Goodluck to the wise guys who implore these tips.

Mobile Markets are filled with Fake Phones and they selling them as Original even with Branded tags beside it the replica phones are present in the market that looks similar to the original phone, to check whether your phone is original or fake there are two ways of checking it. These methods will help you a lot while buying a used cell phone.

1. First Check the following Features :

Be careful about the spellings For example, Soniericsson, Nokla, Techno and Samsvng
Warranties: Always insist on 12 months warranty certificate from the handset manufacturers; Never an oral agreement with the seller. Fake phones come with a shorter warranty periods since counterfeiters cannot guarantee it will last so long.

Check for performance of the handset: Some people carry their phones home without testing it first. Some dealers encourage this, knowing the handset is fake. As you check it out, you may notice some points of low performance such as memory which is smaller or poor quality photos.

Appearances: like dull colors , Fake logos,built quality difference in weight, screen size, location of buttons and battery, quality of printing and paint finish, added or missing functions, quality control stickers and holograms and an overall lack of quality.



2. The other method is checking Phones quality through 15 digit IMEI code:

Dial *#06#

IMEI stands for International Mobile Equipment Identity. It is a 15-digit number and may be found in the packet of the mobile phone. It may also be found by removing the back cover and it may be placed on the battery sticker.

The number might be as below:
3 6 9 3 9 5 [b]0 1 2 3 5 5 6 7 8[/b]
Now look at the 7th and 8th digit. These two digits will ensure your phone’s quality!

If the seventh and eighth digits are 00 this indicates your cell phone is manufactured in Original Factory which ensures the best quality.

If the seventh and eighth digits are 01 or 10 this indicates your cell phone is manufactured in Finland which is high quality.

If the seventh and eighth digits are 13 this indicates your cell phone is assembled in Azerbaijan which is too bad. And it is also dangerous for health!

If the seventh and eighth digits are 02 or 20 this indicates your cell phone is assembled in Emirates which is very poor quality.
(NB: Some Indian sets have this number)

If the seventh and eighth digits are either 03/30 04/40, this indicates your phone is made in China but its quality is good. But not good either as 00, 01 or 10.

If the seventh and eighth digits are 05 or 50 this indicates your cell phone is manufactured either in Brazil or USA or Finland.

If the seventh and eighth digits are 06 or 60 this indicates your cell phone is manufactured either in Hong Kong, or China or Mexico.

If the seventh and eighth digits are 08 or 80 this indicates your cell phone is manufactured in Germany which is fair quality.

This will help you to pick the good one. Try it. But, remember, these tips may not work with the Sony Erickson Mobile Phone.
Though the above information has been collected from very reliable sources, 1 or 2 of them may slightly vary.

I hope this help.

There is no foreign contry in the world that Insults her leaders the way 'some' Nigerians do. Who are you to judge

Ladies, before you remove your #PANT. He has removed his CLOTH and waiting for you to remove your panties... I honestly know the guys will hate this and maybe hate me, but who cares, what is right is gonna be right. But before you remove your panties, think about these (7) things.


1. Are you taking off your panties because you love him? He makes you smile, he has a Big 6inches penis, but do you really love this man? Is sex the key to success in the relationship?

2. How much do you know about him? You know he's good looking, dress nice and bigly, you know he's funny, you know he smells good and look matured for your liking but what do
u really know about his personality?
(His attitude,character and behaviour)?


3. After the sex, what happens next? Will it be another sex & another sex & another sex, and later on he become board eating from your 'precious' garden and nothing serious happens? Will you stay with him or jump into another boyfriends for more sex?


4. If you get pregnant, are you ready to be a mother, can you be proud of him? Can he be the man you want him to be? Hope the baby will be well trained by both of you? What does he normally do as at now? How would he behave by the time you guys get married? Compare his attitude now to the time you met him and how the character would be later...



5. Are you sure of his love for you or is it just about the hot sex and the dirty emotions? Beyond sex, what other way do you connect together? What does he always talk about for the future, is it about the fun today, fun tomorow and fun till you reach menopause?

6. If he so much want to have sex with you then why can't he commit to you and make you his wife?


7. Think of the future. Will you be proud of yourself after.

NOTE: Don't sacrifice your future on the alter of temporal pleasure. Be wise, don't let emotions destroy your future for you.

Can someone please drop a name for a Dual Sim Samsung Phone that has an excellent Camera

@ Cruzita, i will advice you to tell your friend that she should go and see a female doctor.

Nice write up prettydynamic.

You see, the answer to this is very simple.
If it's the 'real love' i know, there is no racism, tribalism or cultural discrimination in love.



It shows that parents who do this, truly don't know how love works sometimes because love is not really a physical thin.
While some just do this because of what they have heard, feel or seen in the past, thereby using the past of others to judge their own childrens future.

Brethren, this things ought not be so...

Ehyaaa!
I just can't believe this OP is talking to the Unmarried people. OP are you?

Please the (Bed and Sex Aspect) of thread should be/is for the married, not the umarried/single/courting folks so that you won't go and sacrifice your seemingly bright future on the alter of temporal pleasure.

Shior.....Tufiakwa!

You can't just let the first lady go like that as some posters above me said.
Put yourself in her shoes for God sake. How would you feel, if someone treat a Sister, Daughter of yours like this?
She is not a Sex machine after all. This is somebody's treasure too.



The truth is that you never liked her, you pretend to just because you want to Sleep with her period. I hate it when guys behave immature.









If you really know what to look for in a relationship, you won't even create this thread. Set you priorities right. Go for a girl who is a friend, a girl you are happy to be with, a girl that have humour, brilliant and intelligent (Educated or Illitrate) because the future is what matters, not the now thing.


Relationship is a about growth, both parties should be thankful to God that they meet each others in their journey in life, not regretting while they met.




Guys, sorry for whom this post is affecting, but it's high time we do what is RIGHT to our future wives. Remember, what you do to one's future wife, another smart dude will do it to you own too.

Lets learn!

Nice thread OP.
The the truth is that 'most' girls have the virtues to do these things naturally, but SELF-PRIDE would'nt let them. While some feel they would look cheap and desperate in too.

But matured girls do all these things the OP mentioned. That's why i respect some girls because they are Mature in speech, behaviour, character and attitude.
Kudos to the matured ladies...

I love this Android competition, it reminds me of Android Messi vs Android Ronaldo

mosjames:
Camon c8 is a fantastic phone
I love it

Please i want to order the phone, but i just heared the phone does not Minimize/Multitask. Is it true ?

Fabulocity:
A 'nice' surprise

A 'nice' surprise Like Galazy S6? Or Point and Order on Konga/Jumia?

timmyblast:
U mean 4 bead op, ash for that matter with a red rope I guess. The girl in question is from maiduguri, the NoRTH. Hmmmmmmmm haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. She should be fair in complexion. Mehnnnn u don jammmm

ewoooo... Wetin i jam abeg tell me ooo... Fear dey catch me.

Richy4:
Not a big deal bro. Some use it to know when they are gaining weight. so they can reduce food intake. Indians does it a lot

And please don't even think what I feel you are thinking because it is just........

What do you feel bro? Lemme learn from you...

Rukkydelta:
Please take this to the right section

Please which section if i may ask?

There was a gas explosion in the factory, every body died except
one man. He did not die because he was not supposed to die...
There was a plane crash, every body perished except one man, he did not perish because he was not supposed to perish...
There was an epidemic in the City, everybody was infected except one man. He was not infected because he was not supposed to be infected...
There was a fire outbreak in the market some couple of month ago, all the shops were burnt down exception of one.
The shop was not burnt because it was not supposed to be burnt...
There was global economic melt down, all the CEOs were retrenching their staffs but someone was busy employing
new staffs...
There was hunger and poverty in the land, everybody was managing and begging but someone was busy giving out money and some precious items...
There was a ship wreck in Town, everybody drawned except one man...
The man is absolutely
"unkillable!" Do you know who he is?
Heaven recognizes him as
the "NEW CREATION". Who are you?
Are you a NEW CREATION?
If you are a NEW CREATION, then you have overcome the world.
"This is the victory that
overcometh the world, even our faith!"

misspicy:
If I clinch a HIM before christmas,I'd buy him a cool wristwatch ...if i clinch a maga I'd he would buy me a ferrari

Your faith strong ooo

I was just playing with this matured girl of about 20yrs and suddenly my 'right hand' found 4 ash coloured beads on her waist and i became afraid because of the myth i've heard about ladies with beads on their waist and the shocking thing is that the girl is from Maiduguri...
What do you think about this?

Targaryen:
there is a woman that lost her husband last week in a ghastly motor accident, "well b4 the accident she has been trying to seduce me so last week when i went to console her, after everybody had gone home i stayed back to boil water for her, so i took the water to her room for tea, so she used that opportunity to seduce me and i fell 4 her so i had sex with her, but now im afraid if there are repercussions in what i did? "cc lalasticlala, dominique

Your signature already has the answer to you problem... Read it again and again.

As for me, am not in any Relationship... But since it's Jesus' Birthday a ''Thank You Jesus'' to Jesus is okay for me.
What about you? Comment lets keep it rolling...

Somethings might look like disappointments on the surface but are actually blessings in disguise.