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I know people will start commenting negatively about girls on this thread.

It's all about your mindset, believe, confession and your faith. Some people have started having negative mindset about how difficult they will get a job while still in School and it's wrong.


Be positive about what comes out of ya mouth... Remember your tongue controls the direction of your life... Start having a positive mindset and confess the right words to your situation.
Thank you!

You know women are wonderful creatures... I think maybe she said that because of her PAST experiences.
Mind you even if she is lying or telling the truth, don't hurt her (any woman) emotionally in the Relationship you're about to start. Respect women and treat them well... And you'll enjoy the real stuff a woman is made of.

We all know what she has done, it's wrong. But we're all humans i think she need our prayers and forgiveness. We shouldn't be the Judge here. She needs our prayers folks!

Yes. This is just who i want to be HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD... And everybody will know you plainly that you're no STRICT, but just want to make the WORLD a better place.
#"Don't loose at Home" still ringing everywhere i go...

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi, I was sitting down in the library today when a random man walked up to me and said "Jesus Loves You"

What could this mean?[/color]

It takes the Grace of God and courage for a person to do that. He's simply doing what Jesus has instructed us to do, "win souls" and to "turn men/women from darkness to LIGHT."
You may have the whole world without being SAVED... But if you've Jesus in your life, you've got all you need for a Succesful life of limitless posibilities.
ACCEPT JESUS TODAY AND DO HIS WORD AND YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE TO THE BEST!

myworldtech:
Even in Nigeria where the league is not interesting..Techno is still fighting it with Infinix mobile.

Between Tecno and Infinix, generally speaking which company's product is BEST?

Bad belle!
That's why you've been running everywhere for prayers. How will it work when you JUDGE innocent people without fact.
Tufiakwa!!!

I love the competition on the Smartphone markets... Tougher than the EPL & LALIGA.
Am waiting till December boooooooms...

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your
husband. Its a sign of disrespect. (Pro v 15v1)

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to
your family and friends. You are each other's
keeper.(Eph 5v12)

3). Never use attitudes and moods to
communicate to your husband, you never know
how your husband will interpret them.(Prov
15v13)

4). Never compare your husband to other men,
you've no idea what their life is all about.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends
because you don't like them, the person who's
supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
(Prov 11v22)

6). Never forget that your
husband married you,
not your maid or anyone else. (Gen 2v24)

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your
husband, people may do
everything else but your
husband is your own
responsibility. (Eph 5v33)

. Never blame your husband if he comes back
home empty handed. Rather encourage him. (Deut. 3v28)

9). Never be a wasting wife, your husband's and your sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of
denying your husband sex (SS 7v12

11). Never compare your
husband to your one
time sex mate in bedroom.(SS. 5v9)

12). Never answer for your husband in public
opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to
him although he may answer for you in public
opinion polls. (Prov. 31v23)

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of the children (Eph 4v31)

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your
husband before he checks out. (Prov 12v4)

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to
your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women
who took their time on their looks.( 1Sam. 25v3)

17). Your parents or family or friends do not
have the final say in your
marriage. Don't waste
your time looking up to them for a final word.
(Luke 21v16)

18). Never base your love on material things.
Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention
and good listeners, never be too busy for him (mostly for the men, give her the attention she deserves). (Gal 6v9)

20). If your idea worked better than his, never
compare yourself to him. Its always a teamwork.
(Gal 6v10)

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. (Eph 4v29)

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't
even know that her body needs a bath (tufiakwa). (Prov 24v27, Prov 20v13)

23). Does your husband like cooked food?
Try to change your cooking stop telling him to get food from Tantalizers and Mr. Biggs. (Prov. 31v14)

24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes. (Luke 11v3)

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome
to your husband and everyone entering your
home. Sweetness of attitude and character is true beauty. (Prov. 31v11)

26). Don't associate with women who have a
wrong mental attitude about marriage. (Prov
22v14)

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the
value that you give it.
Recklessness is unacceptable. (Heb. 13v4)

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the
Lord boy or girl, love your children and teach them well. (Prov 22v6)

29). You are never too old to influence your
home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Prov 31v28)

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,
pray always for your husband, family and your marriage (1Thess. 5v17)

mt7511:
Hello house. I bought a used phone on amazon. When it arrived here in Nigeria and I put in my sim it did not work. I checked online and the imei has been blacklisted by t-mobile.

Please is there any solution for this problem? Can I unlock it or have the imei changed? I can't return the phone because the cost of shipping it back is very high.

Please house I need urgent help so this phone doesn't turn to a waste. Thanks.

How much did you buy it from Amazon (in dollors please)?

FTC

Good points you've noted here.

Read thoroughly before you comment.

"You won't know the Importance of a miracle, until you need one."

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Yes! Since you don give me the ingredients, wey i need, Suliat and Latifat here i come...
thumbs-up to BrianIke

Omotayor123:
You welcome sweet

Calling me 'sweet' just made my day, the thing dey totori me like sugar... I pray make Ishilove no see am ooo make my own no turn RED CARD!

What attract the guys to this set of ladies? LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE or LIKE BEGETH LIKE

All the names you mentioned that ended with ''rat'' & ''kat'' are berra. Because they remind me of something (Tom & Jerry)!

Omotayor123:
Get her A Teddy Bear.. Or make her a picture frame *Just take two or three of her most Beautiful pictures *

Thank me Later

@Omotayor123, You just helped me on what to do too... A beautiful Frame will do.

Thanks!!!

I published an article today about SEX in and outside marriage. I believe it will help and bless you.
Click the link below to read and drop your Comments, Likes and Shares...
Happy Reading!

www.nairaland.com/2638277/sex-sells-soul

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Am not judging here but i think we ALL know that you cannot LOVE or TRUST 99%, it has to be 100%. So does this mean 'you' can actually Approach, Date, Marry and have chiildren for a 'human-being' you don't TRUST 100%? Hmmm...human beings get mind ooooo...

Above all, i know He who created Marriage as a Union is not a 'Learner' anyway. [God isn't a Learner]

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE SELLS YOUR SOUL...

(READ WHAT REALLY HAPPENS)

Hebrews chapter 13:4 God said marriage is honourable the bed undefiled, is not a statement but a
command from God. Sex is only for the
married, there is no justification for it
outside marriage.
But so that you will know what really
happens during fornication and adultery
this message is very necessary. May be
when people know what actually takes place when they disobey God they may have a rethink. Man is made up of the spirit, the soul and the body. The body is the physical you, your spirit is the real you while the soul is made up of your mind, emotion and will. And sex is the only thing you do with your spirit, soul and body at the same time. So God designed sex only for marriage because the man and his wife are one.




Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5, Mark 10:7.
He didn’t say the man and His girlfriend or fiancée, marriage makes two people one and sex unites their spirit, soul and body together. So you can see how dangerous it is to be having sex with
someone you are not yet married to, or
sleeping with different people.



Pre-marital sex does not just kill love, it reduces your soul, your mind and mental faculty diminishes, your emotion becomes unstable and then your will is weak. When a man marries a woman, sex makesthem better, their capacity is increased. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12.



If fornicating with a person reduces your
soul, now imagine what happens when a
person begins to sleep around. It is not fun; it is the manipulation of the devil to destroy your soul. Sampson could not reason well as he continued in adultery with Delilah. A part of your soul goes with the person you sleep with, no wonder when there is a break-up of that relationship you may still keep seeing that fellow in dreams,unless you take that part of you in that person through sincere prayers and repentance you may not really reach the maximum of your destiny. This is why even after marriage most people still find themselves lusting after their EX. Sex is not just a commitment it is a spiritual transaction.


No wonder it is advisable to flee fornication and lusts. Destinies are being reduced through the instrumentality of fornication and the devil is making a big gain out of this because people don’t know that when you have sex with a person other than your wife/husband you’ve just enslaved your destiny, that person have taken a part of you and you’ve taken a part of that person also. Even when you stop having sex and
break-up you need to consciously retrieve that part that is in that person.



Proverbs 11:9 says through knowledge
shall the just be delivered. It is time to stop the devil from controlling your mind. The truth you know and do something about can make you free.


John 8:32. The devil manipulates the minds of people just to make them feel they can’t do without sex, he pollutes their minds with indecency, music and many more. So they eventually become sex slave not being able to flee and say no, but it is time to arise.




Right now if you are involved in pre-marital sex it is time to stop and take that part of you that you sold through fornication and God will restore you back in the name of Jesus.
Joel 2:25, God can restore but that is not
until you truly repent and pray with the
understanding of what happens during
fornication.



Furthermore, man’s sperm is not supposed to be spilled and wasted; it’s a spiritual raw material for procreation invented by God. It is dangerous to waste it, God hates waste. Genesis 38:7-9.



If you don’t deal with past sex experiences, your marriage may be affected because you cannot really commit your total self to your spouse and when there is a sex problem there will be a communication problem in marriage. Please pass this message to many people.You never can tell how many people’s mindset will change for the better through the conviction of the Holy Spirit.



Thanks for reading,
God bless you.

These strong men and women of Valour am mentioning below..... Hmmm (winks). So Na God Win:
Oga Seun, Lalasticlala, LadyF, Ishilove, Dygeasy, tosyne2much twaci, iceberylin, djeezy, cherryice, falconey, Falconey, Cooljoe, tallesty1, mzchinny, cutieberie1, mirexx, sexkillz, coolerboy, cooljoe, Marieolae, Djeezy,Vickybee, mirexxx, Cherryice, Kannymoore, Blackett, Alberto2k, sweetgirl, alomo, Orijin101, Ireneony and FriedPlantain.

Hope una learn something?

Trust is the bedrock for building a strong
relationship. However, lack of trust is one
of the most common themes to surface in most relationships. If you are struggling
with the issue of trust in your relationship
below are some tips to help you develop greater trust with your partner.



Trust means that you have placed your
confidence and faith in your partner, and
that you expect honesty, integrity, loyalty
and respect to be at the center of your
relationship. You also expect your partner
to keep promises and confidences and to stay with you when the going gets tough. Your trust should always be earned; you
should not give it to another lightly. When
you first met your partner, you probably
shared information that helped you to
figure out whether or not he or she was
“worthy” of your trust and of your heart.




As you got to know your partner better,
you most likely shared more vulnerable
information about yourself, expecting
that he or she would hold this most
precious part of you in a place of safety
and love. At some point, however, your wonderful partner may have either said
or done something that triggered you and
your trust was broken. We are all inherently complex beings who
bring our past experiences, hurts, fears
and expectations into every new
relationship we enter. Sometimes our
woundedness spills over into our
relationship and we lose our ability to feel safe in our relationship – regardless
of whether or not our partner actually
“deserved” our lack of trust. If you would like to deepen the trust between you and your partner, please try these 10 tips:



1. Keep what your partner tells you
within the confines of your
relationship. Telling others what your
partner has shared with you in
confidence destroys trust.



2. Don’t rely on email, phone calls and

texts to communicate with your
partner. Spend time communicating
face-to-face. Communicating in
person will help each of you to build a
greater sense of security as you become more open and vulnerable
with one another.



3. Consider your partner’s interests. The
more you do for him or her, the more
he or she will know that they can
count on you and that you have their
best interests at heart. If your partner
feels like they can count on you, it will make it much easier for them to
share the more vulnerable parts of
themselves with you.



4. Follow through with the little
promises that you make. For example,
if you say that you will call or be some
place at a certain time, be sure that
you do these things. Small action s
matter toward helping you to build a strong foundation of trust.




5. Learn to apologize when you make a
mistake or disappoint your partner.
An authentic apology should be
sincere and from the heart. To be
truly meaningful, take responsibility
for your actions and reassure your partner that you understand how your
action impacted him or her.



6. As you learn more about your partner,
allow yourself to share more personal
information and history with him or
her. Aim for balance between how
much each of you shares, since trust is
not built if only one person shares.



7. Spend time together doing things
that make each of you happy. Since
you are two different people, you will
naturally like some different things.
Being open to a new experience that
your partner brings to you will build the bond between you and trust will
follow.



8. Practice forgiveness when you are
upset with your partner, and let go of
a hurt after the two of you have
talked it through. Receiving a sincere
apology builds trust in an important
way.



9. Take some time away from your
partner to check in with yourself, and
get some feedback from your trusted
friends or relatives. By taking space
and speaking with a trusted friend or
relative, you may gain a new perspective about your relationship.
For example, you may discover that
you have been pushing aside
information about your partner that
tells you this person cannot be
trusted. On the other hand, you may discover that your partner is
ultimately worthy of your trust.



10. Trust can fluctuate over time as each
of you experiences the bumps of life.
Reassure each other that your love
and safety are still intact. This will
further strengthen the foundation of
trust between the two of you.




Culled from Sunday Idika's: Build a Stronger Relationship.

"He should know that I'm his responsibility, he must take care of me''. "Oh my God, why will this lady refuse to come over to do laundry for me this weekend, can't she come and cook at least I'll know how she can take care of the home when we marry, I can't go to kitchen, never, I need a woman!".
"I need to be with someone, i can't afford to be lonely, I need a man/woman so I can be who I ought to be, I don't like my look except he/she says its beautiful".



If you're in these categories, please make use of today to be independent too, you need to be your own person and not to rely on someone else solely to define you.



The more comfortable you are with yourself, the more likely you are to attract someone who will be comfortable with you. Tell me; how can you nurture a marriage if you cannot learn to take care of yourself first? If you don’t know who you are and aren’t comfortable in your own skin, how could you possibly know what type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with?



What is wrong with a man knowing how to cook? That you are a man does not mean you cannot help baby-sit or help her do some house chores, she's not your maid, she is your partner, your wife!



Being a woman is not a license to laziness! 'It is his job to take care of me'. C'mon! Some ladies need to grow up and get a life, stop waiting for men to get you this and that when you can always get them for yourself. Wake up, rise up and do something for yourself, give yourself a treat sometimes.



I'm not encouraging men to be stingy though, so don't get me wrong! I am saying don't be overly dependent, learn to do some things for yourself.



Nigeria is celebrating independence day today, celebrate yours too, (either you're single in courtship, single and single/still searching or even married) learn to be independent. Get a vision, work it out, be purposeful, and love the whole of you.



Don't forget to pray for Nigeria, we can still be better, with prayer and conscious effort; particularly stop following the directions of your erection as a man or emotion as a woman, because when its leads to your destruction, it affects the nation, zip up! Let's collectively work towards a better nation. Be free!


Happy Independence Day Nigerians.


Culled from #Oluwatoyin Adebowale.

Let it start from You and I.
Let the Better Nigeria we want begin from You and I. We are all the Government because without You and I, no Government. If you do Right, I do right, thingss will turn out Right.


Happy Independence to you all and more blessings to the soul of of our Mighty Men of Valour who Fought the Good Fight for this Day to Exist!!!

I don't think the innocent life they are wasting worth it. If Amnesty will stop it fine. All we need is a strategy that will make Peace to Reign because they are insugent doesn't mean they are not human though... Let God be the Judge folks because we have not Fact as humans.

I just love the Competition in the Smart Phone Business. Good specs phone are coming out every minutes for great prices on like before... Though, my NOKIA E5 is still on POINT, it's in charge of this Comments!!!

May be it is based on how people order for them.

Anyway, i just saw on the news that Infinix Hot 2 can be gotten for a discount of just N14,000 only on www.payporte.com. Go and check it out for yourself.

Thank you all for your Comments. They all went along way in helping me. Am glad to tell you all that every comment here was really helpfull to me. I prepared it immediately i came back from Church, the Groundnut-oil and Salt i added were too much though, but it was still okay and eatable. I will perform better next time.
My thanks goes to:
gracile, missKiffy, swissheart, saiprojects and my ECONS oga art'd top marshalcarter.
#Thank you all.