₦airaland Forum

Hello Nairalanders,I hate how some Men run away from their resposibility!children are blessing given from God.
Why would a Man pregnate a woman nowing that he don't want anything to do with her?this same men go infront of people and brag off.
How can you sit down eat bele full not even think one minite has my daughter or son had anything to eat?!is she or he ok? is she or he sick?
Guys remember the strock of God is very painful and the blood of this kids will aunt you for ever.Eg how can you let another man raise your daughter
He can molest her even more!!Am writting this because am so sad that this happend to my sister.I personally have two daughters and i can never leave my blood to suffer while i enjoy.

I seconded it yes indeed your husband is a very lucky Man,"like i said to find a Woman like this!!!!one in a million.

For me i dont care about the sex of achild,provided they are my blood.what really matters is how you train them.my uncle has 5boys and 1girl. they all drop out from school became alcoholic,starded stilling from their father!now they just still every,except the girl,very hard working next year she's finishing her masters degree.before the father never wanted anything to do with the girl but now he regrates and says he wish all those boy were girls..i think this male idea is a crazy traditional whatever,and only some part of African countries still believe in this male bulshit.but the educated once thinks way big

For me it took less than a month,The reson was, she thought i was cheating on her with some female friends and the worse is when i added a girl on facebook and she ask me to unfriend her but i refused,than she kept on nagging and there she quit the relationship. But i came to my sences that i gat nothing to lose if i unfriend the girl from my facebook,Rather than playing stupid and losing the woman of my life. so i did so and also tried to avoid the other women and made my woman feel secured. went and apologize an now we are happly together.

Nairalanders,ladies en gents,We should learn to ask for forgiveness en forgive others because you might not know about tomorrow.
And am sure most of us wouldn't like to die knowing That they have wronged someone badly and is too late to apologize.
Life is too short and u never know,eg u might not wake up to see the morning,u might get un accident on ur way to work,u might enter a plane
and the plane crashes,u might just walk and get attack and die etc. so brothers and sister if you know have wronged someone so bad just lower ur pride and apologize,
But remember is not a must.

JallowBah: I my eyes, too many people do it for bullshit-reasons, and without thinking really good about the fact that it will be on your body the rest of your life, unless you pay up to get a cove-up-tattoo, or lasers.

I will get my husband name on my body. I already have almost 20 tattooes, big and small, and I do plan on getting much, much more.
I have e cheast-pice, old-school-motive, where I will get our daughters name over my heart, and his lastname on the other side.

I will also tattoo his firstname on a part of my body that only he will see ( unless I am showering in a public bath or something.. ).
If we divorce, and I do pray that we wont, and I do not believe we will, I would porbably just keep it.
The way I look at him, there is no other man for me. If we divorce, I would never, ever marry someone else.
I dont want kids with any other men, my babies will have only ONE father and ONE mother.
I dont want to promise my whole life to more than one man. I promised it to him.
I promised him my soul, my mind, my heart and my head. A tattoo is, for me who is a person who already adores tattoes, the least I can do.

He knows I will get it, but he wont see it until it`s suddenly there

Thats very good of you,and as for me if my woman does the same i will never let her go,because i wouldnt want onother man to be seing or even touching my name.i know tattoo is painful but if someone goes under all this pain to please someone then to me i dont see it as stupidty but love.sorry Nairalanders but thats my opinion..

freecocoa: Give that girl a kiss on my behalf,you dey craze indeed

Why i dey craze i think u girls say you can do anything for love
why not try this to prove it!

Mmmmmmh now you see when i say is 1 over a million!!according to all your comments i guess no one can do that lol.bye the way i asked my girl if she could
tattoo my name on her body, she told me i dey craz!!!

Ladies who put tattoo of their Men's name are 1 in a million,i consider this to be true love.Because most of the girls (ladies) will never
want to walk with a Man's name on their body,if a girl does this for you consider her.True love is hard to find nowadys.

Man to Man,if your wrong try to put your ego down and start the talking and know her stand.
women like to now if you love them and care and they like to be appreciated.
they also like to have afeeling of security..Women want to feel safe with a man,lastly show interest in her, and make her feel beautiful and wanted.

bendazum: Poor mentality. Go wash your brain. Its not a good reason.

And i think you are the one to wash your brain,are you the judge here to know what reasons are go or not good!
I can't judge you because i don't know your age and your respond to my opinion sound childish!

bendazum: Poor mentality. Go wash your brain. Its not a good reason.

I don't care,u have your opinion and thats mine.

Meeeeen do this women pregnate themself offcos i can date and marry a woman with kids,1 or 2 provided that we understand each other and she's beautiful.
This thing is a both way, poster u should also ask ladies if they can date a man with kids!

Men who go for younger gurls are sick,if u had children eg gurls would u imagine a 4oyr old man sleeping or marrying ur 13,15,16,20yr daughter
(Just an example)
For me i prefer resposible mature women who know what they want in future life.gut no time to waste taking care of young gurls who will later cheat on you with a younger boy of their age!

Is true some people still live in medieval,all what matters is a health baby,boy or girl always thank God for what he has given u cos some people such for just any kid health or unhealth just to be called father or mother.And is not funny how some people say they can divorce their wife for giving them girls!!!come on guys,who is giving who? she's is to divorce u for giving her Y chromosomes!.

Yes he is a Nigerian,but this thing happens usually in African countries.but mostlly it happends to the uneducated ones!!But for me i know that girls are more sensitive and need their daddy most in their life and has my Gfather use to tell me, what ever u do to ur woman,one day another man will do to ur daughter.I will never allow another man to take care of my daughter,this world is cruel.

I have a friend of mine, whom we grew up and went the same school.But right now am asking for ur contributions pls.My friend and his woman has being engaged for over 2years,they planned to have kids finaly she end up giving him a baby girl.my friend acted some how weird after this and started acusing the woman of each small thing he would find just to get rid of her!since i know both very well,i tried to talk to him about it but he wouldn't listen!I even tried to explain to him biogically that we men determine the sex of the child.Now he has left to US for over 5months,and never communicate with her neither support them!I tried to help her with some money, but she wouldn't accept my help. last year My friend told her to quit her job and that he would take care of her (she did cos she did everthing he said). she and my wife her very good friends and my wife has being telling me how she's really suffering,but she plays it cool to everybody outside!Is true that some men are lucky to get the best but they let it go out of ego, cos this woman is down to earth.For me am a proud daddy for 2girl and thats what i work for.I hope my friend will not be a loser and am sure he will read this plus your comments and maybe he will do something like a man.