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selena:
Abi o

daduke2k:
It fit b am cos fine.

BlueDiva:
Ivanovic.
I expect the top clubs to start bidding at the summer.

chaircover:
Sorry, this is an essay but I will like to use myself as an example here.

My simple advise is to put the baby to bed and have a heart to heart with your husband. Crucially, you need to be honest with yourself on if he was like this before you married him and you just choose to ignore his excesses or if he has changed since the wedding.

If he has changed since the wedding then there is still hope that it is a phase and things can get back to normal again

You also have to question him deeply to find out if his attitude is as a result of something that you have done/do/not done etc

I am always reading one marriage book or the other and have just completed the 5 Love languages by Gary Chapman. I was discussing the book with my husband and asked him which of the 5 languages were his and he just told me point blank that none of them were and that his language wasn’t even listed in the book.

That wiped the snug smile off my face and I said OK so what is it? and he told me that he wanted my trust. When I got him to explain further, he wanted me to know that he wanted me to trust him totally in everything.

All along, I thought that I was being the good wife by making some crucial lone decisions without his input, such as picking holiday destinations, flights, mortgage lenders etc.

I thought that I was avoiding him being stressed or bothered by them, especially when he had other things on his plate but in actual fact it made him feel that I didn’t trust him enough to make good decisions and take care of us all. Thankfully my husband and I talk a lot so we were able to discuss this, otherwise resentment would have just grown over a period of time & I wouldn’t be any the wiser.

Now I make a conscious effort to guide from behind and not to be so much in his face; of course I will not sit back and watch him invest all our life savings in forex or some other non existent get rich scheme. . . . . I will stop him with “style” LOL

Sorry for the essay & back to the poster; call your husband and talk to him. He is your husband . . . emphasis on the “YOUR”. Get him to open up to you and try and take things from there.

Grass is not always greener on the other side and we all have our challenges in our relationships and as SA Lady said please please please try and find yourself a job.

chic2pimp:
Another Bash Naija Women Thread abi?

saxywale:
small boi nokia e72 and blackberry = no difference

arkinses:
Fadeyi Oloro!!! Mo'fo extreme to death

https://www.naijarules.com/photo/data/557/fadeyi.jpg

ayettymama:
so why arent there buddist extremists??

christian extremists??

pagan extremists??

extreme philosiphers??

extreme babalawos??

how is the quoran turned upside down

is arabic no longer understood by the arabs??

does it not say what the terrorists quote??

iice:
[color=#9900ff]The wicker man/Ghostrider - It's disturbing that Nic Cage still has a career [/color]

MzDarkSkin:
Nope! I perfectly fine with my LG Glimmer lol.

Top of the line pictures/ videos, fast internet access and guess what? I can actually call ppl on it lol. Please it does the same thing. Forget a blackberry. My sister wont leave her blackberry alone.