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Am of the opinions that UK govt suppose give us visa for our Grandma burial, what do you think?

Collect my number

Na benin city carry this #OBI-DIENT movement, we no dey carry last

Thank God for dis post, a brother just call to inform me about dis same job, that dey pay weekly n in dollar I say make I do research. Thanks a lot, I don Japa b dat

My own is still showing processing, ECOBANK. Any ecobank in d house?

Perfecttouchade:
hi bro, I tried the sac farming about 3 years ago and was able to make it to harvest, I did it in my compound but the stress is too much..strictly organic

Does Goat, sheep or cow eat d leafs of cucumber?

winnah:
I voluntarily send money and a job offer to a fraudster who called to scam me today.

I can remember having this congratulatory messages from this scammer... I ignored it but I was surprised to still receive a similar message again. So this morning while I was in my office and going through my phone I decided to engage this person...

To cut the Long story short below is our conversation... I just hope am doing the right thing.... How can I trust this person with a job... God!!! But if he can truly repent, that will be more than rewarding

op, am not a scammer but I really need a job. I stay in Auchi, Edo state pls help a brother (B.sc stat)

Prevent:
We are not drug abuser like you are.

I no join those wey dey frustrate nao

My legs need more of the apologize because I don trekk tire for dis life
Let's hear yours

Na plan video just to trend, na my area b dat

I no See OMOSEXY, abi na musician she b

Na only for naija person dey behave opposite their name. Imagine Mr. Nice

ZendayaColeman:
Dangana boys hostel

Inikpi girls hostel

KSU (KOGI)

Share ur view on this prayer

My dashboard was showing pending but I don received alert already

[qauote author=Charly500 post=108971488]November stipend has been removed from the payroll, please check your dash board to confirm.[/quote]True, I b think na only me

Mine is showing October and November pending

God works in a mysterious ways n we can't question Him

OnyeMmeri:
Oh he's a real pastor then? Yet can't see with his spiritual eyes that the lady he's about to spend the rest of his life with is nothing but a hoe and a murderer. Pathetic!

OnyeMmeri:
I tell you, I'm as confounded as you are. They're mostly fake pastors that see nada.

sorry bro, is not a fake Pastor

I can't share d chat I had with him encouraging him to hasten up d process, am not a bad person n am very cool with both coming together

EhischemNg:
Guy shut your mouth up. You are the bad person here not she.

"You don't want to be a prisoner of ring".. Yet slept with her to the extent of getting her pregnant.
You irresponsibility level is high now you wanna add gossip.

You have nothing to lose for shutting up your mouth

Don't spoil her happiness cause of your stinky pride and lifestyle

wirinet:
Na here I go come vex for you. Are you just platonic friends or friends with benefits. You need to have a heart to heart talk with bae, to establish your relationship and boundaries. It's immoral to continue have sexual relations with her while she is married or preparing to marry.

platonic friends after d break up with heavy plank for d boundaries n Am not crossing d line knowing wat is on ground. I wanted to b sure doing d right thing by zipping up my mouth n watch na y I share d story. But d accuses against me is not cool.

wirinet:
I hope you would mind if she too inform your prospective bride (whenever you are ready for prisoner ring ) that you have been responsible for abortions (now we don't know how many).
I wonder why people only blame the woman for abortions. You went in raw but you were not ready for prisoner ring. If you had promised her marriage, i am sure she would not choose to abort.

You are so hell bent in destroying the life of the lady. Why the hate? She offend you?

u are wrong about me, I love as a friend even b4 n after d dating. We are very very gud friends, am wishing Dem gud by zipping up. Thanks

FREEBNB:
uesless man she abort for u. and u no fit marry am. u wan spoil her show as person wan marry am na people like u them dey curse say u no go see pikin till u die. so u think telling ur friend and she won't know it's u. u be big mumu. ur mate dey marry babe way abort for them but u no fit mind ur business. no be ur mate wan marry so. smh. too many useless men

no b me frustrate U nap, d bae na my close friends like we are still dating. Am not telling him anything not now or ever moreover am not like u

stinflame:
Don't be silly Mr, in the first place where you ready to cater for the said baby then. Where you even seeing her as a future wife or you were just all about bringing a baby whose parents aren't ready to live together till death do them part.
Move on unless you are A Simp and an Enemy of Progress. Your future wife only God knows how many times she would have aborted before meeting you.
So move on

none of d above, I felt I was doing d wrong by not letting him know, I just wanted to b sure na y I brought it up here. D comments aren't nice at all. Thanks

thinksquad:
if the pastor was your brother and you know something like that about the wife to be , will you wish them well and look away?? Na jus question ooo

I will spill out 2secs. Blood will understand later but friend will see me as a betrayed. Hardly dis He take decision without letting me know, we are so close

Favfables1:
I agree with the moniker you quoted...
The MOG is your friend and he came to you to seek advice in making one of the most important decision in his life...

I believe that he has other friends, some of whom are also MOG, buh he choose to bring this up with you and seek your counsel, not just because you and the girl are close ((I guess they're other people who are also close to the girl)), buh probably because he trusts your judgement...

Don't forget that, the lady he is thinking of getting married to, will eventually become "mummy in the Lord" to lots of people... She will probably climb the "altar" to "preach" and probably take part in counseling young ladies etc... In order words, she probably will become a "role model"...

I'm not in anyway saying that the lady has to be perfect for all these, NO, ((even me sef, I'm full of flaws)), all I'm saying is that, as much as you don't want to "put sand sand in her garri", don't also play a part in deciet ((cause intentionally hiding the truth can be considered as deception))...

I understand you bro, but am not giving him any advise I will just zip up like many Nairaland suggest. He doesn't know she is also a Tomboy. U can't see on skirts except Sunday's, Monday to Friday on trouser n shirt

Ogbrave:
Sir..if you would also be okay and allow her to tell your wife to be when you want to get married that you both also did abortion in the past, then fine ...you can go ahead and tell her fiance now pending when your turn reach...hopefully your other exs don't come and also contribute..Smiles.

I won't do to other wat I don't want others to do to me. Am clearing d issues off my head

Opeyemiextra:
Don't do that. That's her own story to tell and whatever consequences comes with telling or not telling rest with her. It might not have worked out with you but don't be the reason why this one won't work for her.

She has made mistakes, no doubt, of which you have played a part. Many ladies have abortions and if you aren't told, you will never know. It's a privilege information that you must not hang over her head. Give her a chance to be. You mentioned he is a pastor so let the spirit lead him.

Aside from the abortion, in your time together, was she a good person and all? Even if she is not, Wish them well and look away. Do not use your hand download problems for yourself, please.

am zipping up my mouth.

killmods:
If he's ur friend u would hint at it in a way for him to decode that's why i said u should tell him to not rush and be fervent in prayers about it. Let it be sus na part of the process to allow him find out himself but if he's not ur friend u have no business even congratulating him. Nothing stays hidden forever u should know. So even if it's 10 years after and he knows. How do u think he would feel about u as a friend? U go marry one day or might need his assistance on something one day in future. Man is not God that forgives and gives us a clean slate. He might use it against u or anything u hold dear in future. What I'm saying is in this life always try to get a clean record as best u can. Do the right thing. Friendship pass Howfar Howfar. Again except he's not ur friend

I understand, as I speak with u, he is right here with me in the office base on d marriage matter.

killmods:
If he's ur friend u would hint at it in a way for him to decode that's why i said u should tell him to not rush and be fervent in prayers about it. Let it be sus na part of the process to allow him find out himself but if he's not ur friend u have no business even congratulating him. Nothing stays hidden forever u should know. So even if it's 10 years after and he knows. How do u think he would feel about u as a friend? U go marry one day or might need his assistance on something one day in future. Man is not God that forgives and gives us a clean slate. He might use it against u or anything u hold dear in future. What I'm saying is in this life always try to get a clean record as best u can. Do the right thing. Friendship pass Howfar Howfar. Again except he's not ur friend

as I speak with u he is right here with me discussing d matter self

killmods:
Keep quiet keep quiet naim this world take spoil reach like this so.. there are subtler ways he can send the point across. Nothing like keep quiet here. She should be able to accommodate the consequences of her actions and not to trap the poor MOG down with future frustrations. If it's me I will advise her to cut all plans with the marriage to the innocent servant of God and if she proves stubborn I will invite all my friends that have had her before and after me, invite her and the pastor over and spill the beans.. The pastor is his friend for chrissakes

just one sensible comment spotted. As for me I just allow the pastor figure it out himself.

killmods:
I know these types of girls... she's dated 2 close friends before u, and then u, now she's trapping ur pastor friend.. I don't know why sha but some pastors don't even know how to pray about something. Most young pastors I knew while growing up always end up marrying the loose hoes we niggaz have passed around. And these girls would be raising shoulder when they eventually tie the knot but painful thing is 80% of them do not change as they still come back to get dicked by some unprincipled fools who see no wrong in fvcking a married woman

As for u Op u say he's ur friend and he doesn't know her sexual history as a cheerleader for the D? Just tell him not to rush into anything with her but he should pray seriously about it. Abi u want tell am say u dey blast am too. No let MOG bite off ur ear

Thumb up for you, am not planning to tell Him not now not ever. As for telling to intense prayer it will look suspicious. So far I just congratate him n ask him to hasten up d process