₦airaland Forum

How is Wike a looser? Are you aware that inec electoral act does not allow anyone who has contested in primary election to be elected as vice president?
Having contested with Atiku, he is no more legible to be chosen as a V. P.
So how is he a looser?

Coming

Ororocelemi:
Bros how old are you

Obviously you know he's much older than you. It's rude of you to ask of his age.

favour2much:
Pls God restore back our country

Amen

burritto:
1989 was when the price really went up, I remembered we started building one of our houses with #4.50k per bag in February that year, then it moved to #20 and then #38 or #40. In May of 1989 it was #38. The price went up really high that year

By 1991 it was already #80

40 bags of cement for N1, 520? Nigeria will rise again.

Another take away for me is the way you were able to neatly keep the receipt since 1989. It looks as if it was just issued yesterday. I give it to you.

I was in primary 4 in 1989 in shomolu.

What happens to his N100 Million?
Please somebody clear me

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

I hope you are not married, because you will someday, kill your wife,unless you gain control over your anger.

LagosNissan:
I sent you a mail pls

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Klington:
Peter Obi is the only politician that's plays politics without adding bitterness or his own selfish interest to it.

But unfortunately, Nigerians prefer to die for those who steal their common patrimony than those who have genuine empathy towards their ordeal.

Instead of atiku, Tinubu or Gej to become president, buhari should continue to his destruction work.

Holy ghost fayaaaa

crazygod:
Both teams are playing too cautiously.

Yes, the 2 are playing with their hands on the break. One of them has to score before the game becomes opened

THELATTERMAN:
My account has been frozen since September last year for almost this same issue. To make it worst, by BVN has also been backlisted, am doing barred from USSD transactions. However, I’m still able to open account with apps like Kuda, Carbon, with same BVN.

THE STORY:
Last year September, someone transferred 5.1k to my junior brother through my account (UBA). He withdrew it same day. After 24 hours, my account balanced turned negative. I contacted my bank and I was told the transaction was fraudulent and that I should make a deposit of similar sum accompany with a letter of reverse order. I did and nothing happened after several days.

After some weeks, I received a call from the bank asking if I knew the sender’s location and base. I said no.

To cut the story short... I gave up on following up.

Don't just give up. BVN is linked to your NIN. NIN is linked to immigration data base, meaning you may even have issue with getting international passport later.
Ask your brother to open up to you. Refund their money and let them clear your BVN.
You don't know how this will affect you in the future.

tonididdy:
If you have done your homework right and no illegal activities, bro storm the bank like a boss OTHERWISE.....

Court order does not know the boss.
He will still be arreststed.

TruthinAction:
Get a lawyer. If you are sure you are into legitimate business, you don't have to worry. Get a lawyer and sue them. Claim damages.

You cant sue if there's a court order to restrict your account. They are duty bound to comply with the order, unless and except you have a counter order.

LagosNissan:
I tried transferring money from my GTB account only to get error messages.

I thought it was network or app issues.

I tried several times from then till next day but same response.

I tried buying airtime but it failed too.

I now contacted the bank and they said account is restricted/frozen; that I should visit a branch.

I called account officer and he confirmed the restrictions but gave no reason for that.

He was just evasive but hinted that restrictions were placed by law enforcement agency. No agency specifically was mentioned.

I tried UBA and Zenith too, similar restrictions yet no reason.

I use the accounts for legit businesses online and have had them since over 14 years, so can't say with certainty what the issue is.

How do I handle this now as going to the banking hall might lead to arrests etc, so I need to be prepared.

I need suggestions please.

Please note that you will be arrested when you visit any of their branches as there is already a memo pad to do so. At the same time, if you don't clear yourself, your BVN will be blacklisted, which means you won't be able to open account again in any bank.

If you are clean and sure you are not involved in any fraudulent transaction, kindly visit them. Let them arrest and take you for questioning, then defend yourself. You may also need to get a standby lawyer.
You may pm me. I want to engage you offline.

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NLElder:
First of all don't be quick to judge me. I am just here for matured help/advice cos I am fast loosing it. I am sure if it's abroad I will to told to go meet a therapist.

I am a young man in my early 40s and married for 9 years now with 2 kids. My nature of work is such that I am living on another town 5hours away from my family. This has been the case 6years out of the 9 years I am married. I have never really enjoyed my marriage as a young man cos I am always driving up and down every weekend to meet my family and when I got a promotion with more responsibility I reduced it to every 2 weeks, and as the stress of work and driving became more stressful, I now go every month. I have tried all my best even till date to see if I can get another work in the same state my wife and kids reside to no avail and my wife can't leave her work in the state join me as she is in a federal government establishment that has no branch in the state I live and work.

The scenario so far shows you that I am not enjoying a healthy sex life with my wife, but being someone brought up to respect the marriage institution, I have resigned to my fate and taken life as I have seen it. To make matters worse, with due respect to my wife, she suffered female genital mutilation and you know it affects women's sex life and their man is always worse off for it. In summary we lead a routine boring sex life in the few occasions we even get to have it. However, the 6 years I have lived and worked in another state, I have never cheated or thought of cheating on her despite all the cold lonely nights I have to spend alone. I am a kind of introvert and never hide it from people that I am married. Some will be like "u no get side chick"? I will say no.

The problem started 4 years earlier out of the 6years in the city I live and work. Since I am always lonely and bored in my crib, I mostly do video calls with my wife and kids daily or chat online with friends to keep my mind busy and avoid unnecessary tensions that will remind me of the lonely boring life I was living. This also keeps me away from sexual urges if I feel any as a fool-blooded young man I was. It was in one of these online chats that I got close to one young lady of about 30. We really got close through chatting and graduated to exchanging numbers. I always make it known that I was married to everyone I meet and she was no exception. We became best friends online and kept our limits as married man and a single lady would. We became curious and excited to meet each other live when we found out we were in same city.

We arranged a harmless date in a restaurant in town were we really got to know more about each other. I found out that she was a struggling young girl teaching in a private school with NCE and was unable to proceed to degree level due to lack of funds. Her salary wasn't even up to 18k and she was squatting with one lady in very uncomfortable circumstances. After that 1st live meeting, a very good friendship ensued but entirely platonic .

All these past 4 years before I met her, I cook for myself and go to market by myself. One Friday she called and I did not immediately pick cos I was in the kitchen. I called her back later and told her I was cooking and she jokingly asked if she could help. As at then she was yet to come to my place, so I told her if she really wanted to help then I would come and pick her up and that was how for the first time in 4 years, a lady visited me in that town. It felt awkward. It did not take long for me to find out how homely she was...washed plates, tidied everywhere, and finished up the cooking. I really felt at peace and started getting worried at the same time. We spent time chatting but kept our distance and nothing happened between us and I dropped her off later where she was squatting.

After that, our friendship went to another level and the visits became more frequent but still nothing happened between us. I got to know she was a well brought up lady that still had values and I also confirmed she had no man as at the time she met me. She said she had always wished to be married before now and never believed she would reach 30 and still be single.

I know my story is getting rather long, so let me try to wrap up. In summary, she started having issues with the family she was squatting with and didn't have enough money to rent a place of her own. I didn't have enough to rent for her either as I was already carrying a lot of financial responsibilities for her by then...monthly stipend of ₦10k to add to her salary, tolletries, making hairs and even helping out with her sick mum hospital bills.

So without a 2nd thought, both of us decided she move into my place. Inside me I knew it was somehow but I think by then we were already in love with each but maybe living in denial.

So she moved in and that was it. Yes, we started having sex, uncomfortably at 1st but later became 2 sex maniacs. It was as if she was sent to compensate me for my horrible marriage sex experience I have endured all these years. We couldn't have enough of each other. In fact when I want to travel and see my family, she breaks down crying. I knew it was more than a side chick matter. In fact this lady gave me a fulfilled sex life that I swear if it's in the olden days I wouldn't mind taking her as a 2nd wife. Months grew into years and our passion for each other grew to the point that we got jealous of the opposite sex calling us. She even starts frowning when my wife calls or tears will start running down her eyes. People, I became so confused. We both knew we have gone too far and yet were not ready to end it.

I even because part of her own family cos I go with her to see her sick mum and played a prominent role when she died. I don't know her older siblings knew if I was married or not , but I think she confided in her older sister who seemed to like me so much and only warned her to be "careful."

After 2 years, she started agitating about marriage so much that she said she needed to move out of my place. That as long as she is with me, she might not get married since it's obvious I wasn't going to marry her no matter how much both of us pretended about it. Deep inside me I knew she was right and I couldn't be selfish to keep her from meeting single suitors but I felt an inexplicable pain in my heart as if a part of me was about to be cut off. However, I forced myself to assist her to get a place and yet she on her own kept coming to my place every weekend until she moved in again leaving her place wasting for over 2 months., only going there once in a while to pick things..

All the 2 years we were together she was open and truthful to me about relationships she was now trying to build with single guys she hoped would marry her. I was already feeling bad inside me that she was about to leave my life, but she kept assuring me that she was with me and truly told me everything happeneing in the new relationship she was building.

She later moved out completely from my place after 2years on a new year day. She said needed to start the year on a good and clean note and had gotten serious with the guy that said he wants to marry her. I began to feel extreme jealous I couldn't explain. I knew it was not right but I couldn't stop myself. I tried my best and stopped calling or chatting with her but I still didn't find peace. One evening a month after when it was now clear that she has decided to get serious with the guy she said was coming for marriage, she visited me and and you can't believe it, we made hot passionate love. And when we were lying side by side, her new man called and she quickly ran into the toilet to answer him. I felt it was time I ended this whole thing, it wasn't looking right again.

So I confronted her why she was still leading me on when she is now in a marriage -bound relationship and she said because she still loves me and doesn't know how to let go of me. We cried together that it wiould be tough as we would soon separate from each other for life and she left. I cried like a baby as we made love again and she consoling me to try and teach my wife the things she does to me despite her FGM predicament.

The period she was with me, she was uncomfortable answering calls from her man and I got fed up and decided to investigate. So I went to the street where she showed me the guy lives(she was truly open to me and I give her that) and waited to see if she has started visiting him as she mostly denies and lo and behold, I saw her entering the guy's house. I felt a sharp pang of jealousy which I couldn't control. I picked up my phone after some minutes and started calling her, but her phone rang severally and she didn't pick. I was almost half-dead with jealousy. I cried iny heart and drove away. I sent her a text that because she was "enjoying" herself with her man she was now avoiding my calls. That maybe tbe guy was so good at it. She called about 2 hours later and really took offence that because she visited him and did not pick my call was simply because she doesn't want him to start asking questions and not necessarily that they were doing anything.

We quarrelled like never before and said hurtful things to each other and I asked her to return my key at my office the next day cos by then she no longer visited my house as she has really gotten serious with the guy. She returned the key and for over 2 months we stopped communicating and became strangers.

Instead of pushing her out my mind, I felt a daily torture looking through her Facebook pics, WhatsApp status, and other social media. I will go to her guy's street and painfully watch her enter his house from afar. I was fast losing my mind. I knew it was over for good and don't want her back but the obsession is yet to leave me till date. Everyday, I check her pictures and feels pangs of pain and jealousy as I see her lovely smiles. My people it's punishment and torture for me. I keep obsessing every second of my life about her. Who can help me? Something is definitely wrong. In one of her recent status, I saw her flaunt her hands with an engagement ring and I felt a sharp pang of sadness instead of happiness. People help me I am loosing it. Even though she has apologized to me and I too have apologized for the hurtful things we said in the course of our quarrel, my mind is still not at peace.

Even now presently she is engaged she still calls me and tries to engage me in friendly conversations but I will just be answering without interest. She even sent me a pic recently at a wedding she went to and I told her she should stop sending me her pics but should be sending to her man. She apologized and said she has taken note. Yet, I will feel bad inside me if I don't see her friendly chats which my attitude has made her reduce. Yet in all these, first thing in the morning I will quickly rush to check her pics, if she has made new posts, etc etc. I need help, I really do. Sorry my people for the long post but I really needed to empty myself to see the help I can get if any cos I want my normal sane life back. I have also prayed to God and asked for forgiveness for cheating on my wife ....I have no excuses for doing so but from the long story you can see it was never my intention.

If there's anyone that needs this, it is your wife. Please tell her all you have been doing with another lady. In this lies your peace.

Gottiii:
I still can’t believe my elder brother is planning to send me a Es330 (2006) from the United States.

I have told him several times i can’t drive such car, I am already imagining the look of people when they see me. I mean people wey dey my area. People for area know say I be big boy.

I don tell am several times say I no need car wey dey less than yr 2017. The money dey but very stingy. I sure say na the wife dey give am wrong advice.

The car clean sha, full option but below my level. I go just sell am.

Abeg, make una advice me.

The question is are you truly a big boy? Why cant you buy yourself a car of your choice?

bobchigar:
Hello Nairalanders.

I feel like seeking your advise about how I can accelerate the process of returning the money that I guess was wrongly transferred to my personal bank account.

About two months ago, I received credit alert of about ₦200k in one of my savings accounts. Based on the narration of the credit alert, it shows that It was done through ATM and I did not do any transaction to have been expecting such money.
I have been expecting to get alert for reversal of the transaction but the money is still sitting in my bank account.

I have also been expecting my banker to have contacted me for approval to reverse the transaction but I have not been contacted by my banker.
I was considering the option of complaining to my banker to trace the owner from their ends but some people discouraged me from doing so; stating that those bankers may conspire with someone and falsely claim the money.

I have been thinking of possibilities of tracing the owner by myself but credit alert did not state the details of the account from which the money was transferred to my bank account.

I am feeling concerned for the person who did the transfer because his fund has been tied down.

A banker told me that the owner must have complained to his/her bank but banks ways of attending to the customers complain is slow but definitely they will contact me for reversal.

Do I keep my fingers crossed and be expecting my banker to contact me for reversal approval?
or
Complain to my banker to help me locate the owner of the transaction?

Or any other suggestions will be welcome from you but my objective is to hasten process of returning the money to the true owner.

Thank you.

You are putting yourself in a dangerous position by keeping the money without any form of reporting. if the money was a proceed of crime, and it's traced to your account during investigation, you will held liable and you wont be justified for not touching the money.

My advise: Do an official e-mail to the customer care of your bank. Ask them to do their investigation and return the money to the sender's account, as you do not know him, neither are you expecting any inflow to your account. Also ask them to acknowledge your e-mail. By so doing, you have reported officially to the bank. Again, it will be difficult for any bank staff to divert the funds as the customer care will contact their domestic/payment support to do the needful. I see issue like these every now and then.

teeytimi:
Please to report to your bank. Keep the money in your account the owner will one way or the other get across to you then you can return the money to him. Those bank people are thieves they held on to my wife's 50k she transferred to a wrong account since last October even after the other person sighed for a reversal.

Get a court order. Your money will come out

And this made it to the front page

Lamzee:
Whaoo, for real?
Glad I was refunded yesterday

He is a fraudster? and you were refunded?

This is not adding up. Fraudsters dont refund money.

Can we get the full gist. I was about to patronize him

SlaveofGod:
Hello, I need a clean used 70-75 inches smart android tv for a friend, if you have dm me. Her budget is 200k please. Thanks

Pls be careful o, If anyone offers you the TV at that price.
E get why.

What is happening to Liverpool tonight

yemmybx:
30k and your location?

Don't say we didn't warn you oo.

Beware of that guy

I am happy that you changed your mind. Pls provide us with evidence and I will support you in my own little way. Plus, sorry about the death of the mother of your child

twosquare:
Well, when we advise people to marry from people of the same tongue, people think it's being a tribal bigot. It's actually for ease, and to avoid certain nonsense.

Ẹni tó ba fẹ ìyàwó ni íjù, kó sétán àti di àna ẹbọra.

Baba o. Agba yin a dale.
Copy that

od501:
Oga...we all know your wife is Igbo, but not every Igbo tribe practice that culture. Don't be stubborn, it is a good thing that you admitted your mistakes by disregarding your mother's advice, you are about to make yet another mistake, and I warn you sir, you don't want do this trust me.

This is a war you can NEVER win, quote me on this. No pastor, or lawyer can save you from what's coming. It is not a threat, it's an advise, cos I have seen this thing happen before.

You will pray for death, but death won't come. There is absolutely nothing wrong with what they asked of you. I hope you listen, bye.

Op, pls do not ignore this. I am co-advising.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I don't believe in curses, A man can not define my fate in life..I was more concerned about my son that's why I brought it here.
I fear no man

Oga stop this. You killed their daughter. That is the clear picture if you don't get it.

StilmaVsBorn2w:
I informed them for the burial arrangements not for marriage ceremony

Put yourself in their shoe. You literally kidnapped their daughter, because you did not have their consent. Now she's dead, you want to give them a dead body. I am not a lawyer but legally, I think the law will work against you. Not sure though.
If I were you, I will do their bidding and save myself from the looming trouble that lies ahead. You can also negotiate with them. Let them know you are indebted at the moment and they should give you some time to put things in order, not all these stubborness.

Betnomore:
To go pick up item wey person see for clearance thread. Man don reach location for over 20 minutes, seller phone dey switched off. I tire oooo

Na wa o. I hope you have not piad sha

olukaygold:
Not yet

I told you that you are encouraging fraudsters on this platform by keeping quiet. You can see now that the guy is back to advertise more products.

please give us details, let's tag him accordingly.

I hate what I dont like
Please provide his acct number. I will get other details from there.

vatiqan:
Liverpool would definitely finish this work here at Anfield, tonight. then, we await Real Madrid.

You await Man city, you mean?