subsidywise18:


So because they were underaged, it's okay?

Good to know you approve of kids having sex

Good afternoon, and by the way, underaged boys cannot give consent either.

subsidywise18:


Of course not.

Honestly, some of you people quoting me, you guys cannot see something wrong with minors having sex?

GreatAxeMan:

Stop this stupidity for God's sake! In the eyes of the law, a 10 year old does not have the mental capacity to give consent for sexual activity, so in the eyes of the law, SHE WAS SEXUALLY ABUSED! Why are Nigerians so móronic and stupid?

bukatyne:

Which begs the question again:
If you are going about calling rape in this case, who raped who?
The girl cannot legally give consent; The boy cannot legally give consent.
Who raped who?

subsidywise18:


Yeah , you may be right, but for me, she was under age, she could not give consent

And yes, I am ready to be proven wrong on this. It's not a matter of life or death for me, we all learn.

Ishilove:

Whether she was 'riding' whatever or not doesn't make it consensual. A minor cannot give consent to sex, no matter the circumstances. Mind you, if you post any video here, I will report that post. There is zero tolerance for child pornography globally

FutureIsFemale:
It was raped.

Bigchristo:
the War so far has been coordinated with NATO and US thinking Russia will get tired and surrender what we will hear next is that Russia has stared using chemical weapons on them and that will lead to the full blown of ww3 na Europe go suffer am

dozieo:
THE SILENT PAINS OF A HUSBAND
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

charityexplicit:
His stories look fabricated.
1. She had numerous identities yet he wasn't bothered.
2. She had series of Abortions which he was in the know but he still wanted her because of the love he has.
3. Because of her condition, there was not going to a proper holy matrimony but a marriage blessing. The card showed holy matrimony which was slated today for LFC.
Why has he not laid all these complaints before now?
4.And he said she has called off the wedding on three occasions. Na by force to marry her if you no get any skeleton for ya cupboard.
Abeg abeg.

niggi4life:
Am very sure she must be a very beautiful girl hence the infatuation ( dont tell me "you love her" bullshit here). Men and fantasies, you would have thought so much about how you are going to lay her in bed and all that if not why don't you continue to be her friend, is there a crime having a girl as your close friend? she told you she isn't interested why cant you let her be? if you push yourself too much to get her dont you know you will have to be going through all that stress to keep her? We men are the cause of the reason why girls use us to do shakara, immediately she tells you she isnt interested you should have let her be, i know those types of girls, they will never be productive in that relationship, you will do the calling, the sending of airtime, the loving and all they will do is to sit down in one place and tell their friends how one "ode guy" is tripping for them.
if you were my friend i swear i for slap you this afternoon,, you dey vex me sef

siofra:


If you like don't seek help. Mentally disturbed clown.

24Countryss:

Love is blind bro... or rather, infatuation. Girls will do anything for that guy they love

24Countryss:

Love is blind bro... or rather, infatuation. Girls will do anything for that guy they love

thatthickgurl:
Hi
Good evening

As the topic suggest, I'm seeking a rebound, currently experiencing a bad heartbreak that has me begging the perpetrator for forgiveness.

He cheated on me, and I'm the one still apologizing because I've formed an attachment with him, that has become part of my routine.

I need someone to help me wean out, of this unhealthy attachment and be able to function productively.

There would be no emotion attached, just someone who is willing to talk to me daily. I promise you , I'm not a boring person , I know how to hold a conversation.

Difrent:

What a contrdictory statemet.....is enaira not run on blockchain technology?

BKayy:

LOL countries of combined landmass of less than 500,000 km2 "completely isolating" a country of 17 million Km2.

Lol who was your geography teacher?

Russia is a continent. She is even bigger than the whole of Europe. Like almost times two

SeriouslySense:
kk

Parachoko:
No one forced you to take a loan from them.