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SpongeBobSP:

No such thing fam, at least none that I know of.
Read here, asks your Qs here, ask on Slack too, you'll be fine.

Oh, here am I thinking there's a watsapp group for this

odizeey:
There is no verified WhatsApp group endorsed by all, here.
I no dey anyone SHA.

But add you to a secret group. Just because I'm seeing Jesus in your name o.

Oya now

nwafresh:
Go and read from page 1-30.

I still want to be added to the watsapp group

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OmalichaJesus

Jewessgratitude:
Na senior ashy you marry.
She doesn't really love you but only using you as a tool of satisfaction cos if you truely love someone you should to be ready to apologise or feel sorry for wronging them by crying in their arms and saying shes sorry and prolly end up not making love but sleeping in your arms with peace in her heart. Dont know if I'm making sense though but man I hope you understand my point.

For all she cares, the other part of you can die and go to blazes so long as the machine under you is still working and can satisfy her, she doesn't care. To me that's the height of heartlessness.

Withdraw sex and see her abandon completely. That will make you know if you're just a mere object of satisfaction to her or not.

I feel for you though.

Really?

buzorcharles:
so what do u have to say about ops wife?

This was what I said



I don't understand what the amount you give ur wife as monthly upkeep is doing in this post�
And u say she doesn't nothing but cook and take care of the kids �
I laugh in Swahili

Anyway Oga, since she likes settling dispute with sex and you like settling with dialogue.

Oga bring the dialogue, while she brings the sex.

Case closed

Berankis:
No offence meant but the truth is I like your kind of wife. Mine is the opposite. I would be the one to move to her for sex rather her coming to me. She dey always form strong woman for me. And she dey get upper hand cos I no wan cheat.

There's nothing wrong with your wife sir, you don't except her to be mad at you and be jumping on u for sex.

byna:
We got married in 2012 and ever since then we have been blessed with 3kids (3,boys).
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking.

I noticed that each time we have a misunderstanding, we both keep straight faces for days and she behaves as though she is less concerned to make up. It doesn't affect her chores or cooking as for me I hardly reject food served.

Now, after a couple of days, she would come for sex without wanting us to discuss and resolve the disagreement first.

Even when I feel rudely insulted, this happens. She feels whatever she does doesnt matter as long as Las Las na sex go end am. But I feel it's wrong and issues should be kept straight and fun time separate.

So we had same issues last week and we have been keeping straight faces yet I've been eating her food. Sometimes she joins me for mng prayers, sometimes she does her privately ( we do together before any misunderstanding)
So this mng she appeared stark nude to my room and demanded for sex after almost 15 days. I told her it would be unfair if we sweep the pass e events under the duvet. She got up and told me she wasn't ready to discuss any past misunderstanding that she came to f*uck. I told her I wasn't ready till issues are ironed out.

She taught it was business as usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nude but today I was ready to turn her down.

I Want to know if it's proper to always treat ur spouse the way you like knowing fully well that sex is their weak point for reconciliation?

Mature minds pls

I don't understand what the amount you give ur wife as monthly upkeep is doing in this post�
And u say she doesn't nothing but cook and take care of the kids �
I laugh in Swahili

Anyway Oga, since she likes settling dispute with sex and you like settling with dialogue.

Oga bring the dialogue, while she brings the sex.

Case closed

byna:
Without ironing issues, how do we learn from our mistakes then. She has has ego and pride. Allowing her settle with sex wont change her. She needs to understand that. We are only keeping faces, not like quarelling pat say. I still go errands for her hoping for her apologies when I return but she go still lock up

You did not mention what led to the face carrying.

U are just saying she did not apologize.
What if you are d one dat is suppose to be apologizing.


She's waiting for ur apology, you are also waiting for her apology.

SUPERPACK:
5th grade

Hi I mentioned you in a thread, please add me to the watsapp group

odizeey:
You fine?

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neihzar:
Hello bro, I mentioned you on one thread, so you can add me to transcribe WhatsApp group.

I'll love to be part of the group too

Hi guys, please I'll really appreciate it if someone put me through this.

I'm a total novice when it comes to this.

We can chat on WhatsApp or any medium convenient for you

exstreve:
We would start seeing posts like:

"lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw steps out in a cleavage bearing outfit'

"checkout these lovely throwback pictures of lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw'

"Davido meets with lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw"

"Lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw flaunts her engagement ring"

"Brother of lady whose car was bashed by Kate henshaw graduates with 1st class"

Lwkmd���
Where is the lie?

She's suffering from postpartum depression.

Sadly some women suffer from it and don't get treated.

It's sad

You can't snatch a girl that doesn't want to be snatched.

So drop those shoulders down, it's not an achievement.

TraDeRR:
@ Omalicha open a trading account with Morgan Capital
Buy stocks from August to November
Sell at late January to early February
Good do T-bills then come back to nse in August again
After February make NSE no see your money.. no matter what limping bull comes around
Lock your money for T-bill throwaway the key

Okay, thank you xoxo.

How do I open a trading account with Morgan capital?.

No vex plssss

Uchetoba:
Just be reading the posts on this thread and ask question when necessary

Okay, my namesake

TraDeRR:
Omalicha you are coming into SM at the right time..
as a new comer go and buy any of these
Fcmb
Fidelity
Uba
GTB
Zenith

If them no poo dem dey vomit.. so you good

How do I go about it, process and price please.

Please don't get angry at my questions, I have no idea about it.

I don't have anything nice to say, make I jejely Waka pass

Please don't ignore me please.

I'm new here, I'm totally lost and I'm very much interested in the stock market business.

Please I'll really be grateful if anyone or all of you put me through.
Please

zicoraads:
But I just ported to Airtel. I left MTN. And it seems that's one of the best decisions I've made this year.

Can I port to MTN from 9mobile?? I'm tired of this so-called 9mobile

Very well said.
I respect your wisdom sir

jesusjnr:
First off, I would like to let you know that what you're going through is not exclusive to you, for it seems to come with the kind of job you do, so do not feel that you're alone in this.

I remember recently citing the example of Job's wife who advised him to "curse God and die" at a point when he needed her support the most, after someone brought up the matter of Kanye and Kim his wife with respect to her being on a different path to him, to show that even some of the truest men of God could yet have devils as wives.

But that doesn't necessarily mean that the marriage would not work out and end in divorce, as despite what the wife of Job did, their marriage yet survived the difficult time, and produced other children afterwards.

That brings me to this very crucial question, are you sure you are were God wants you to be?

In my own opinion, everything hinges on the answer to that question, because if you are absolutely sure that you are where God wants you to be, and not where you want to be, or where you think God wants you to be because it's a church, then everything thing else takes second place.

The reason for this emphasis is because if you're were God wants you to be, that means that God would be with you, and to me that's the most important thing of all.

So if that has been established, I would ask you to plead with your wife, I mean, even if it takes for you to go on your knees and beg her to support you, please do it. And also ask God to help you to convince her, so that she can continue with you while you do His work.

The reason I asked you to go to that extent, is because i believe that that marriage is supposed to be "till death do the couple part", so divorce should be the absolute last option when every other option has been exhausted.

So if after you'd done everything you possibly could to convince her, and she still doesn't accept, ask God to guide you on what next step to take.

That's if you're absolutely sure you are where God wants you to be, but if not, then it's possible that she's right, that you're not supposed to be there, and that God may have used her to bring this to your knowledge, for that also happens.

That was how God used Abraham's wife to let him know that it was time for Hagar and Ishmael to depart his house, even though the action of Sarah displeased Abraham greatly.

Bottom line, just ensure that whatever decision you make is backed by God, and for if that happens He'd surely see you through.

I would also be praying for you so that God would make a way for you in your situation.

God bless.

You are very wrong sir.
Very very wrong

healthserve:
Drop your self prescription now and go seek answers from elders in the ministry. Many times when women are this way, you won't have headway in ministry o. Its multiple faceted and the case and effect spills in multiple directions


I spoke to my mentors countless times on the path to marriage. My brother did you honor God by consulting him before marriage? I dropped a Canadian good looking , good mannered lady on the path to ministry, dropped over 15 ladies.

Did you go in with your emotions leaving God behind hoping the marriage would just fix itself?


To have peace, navigate the path properly, go and speak with your mentors. Many ministers have married women with familiar spirits but never knew. Red flag one : As a minister, you're supposed to marry a woman with desire.thirst for God and spirituality that matches yours. If a woman shrugs from Spiritual activities, many times there are influenced from external forces you don't know o. I told you.


Go and seek property matured counselling from your higher ups. And please if you love God, make sure from today, divorce enters your choices as a panacea to the tug war. Cause its obviously ministry or me, now. Its not a forming face for me issue. So better make the choice now you're still young.


Warning : If you divorce, never marry a woman without consulting God first. Its not she's good now, but what she's capable of becoming that should be considered much more than other things with women getting married to ministers.



I speak to you as a brother from my Spiritual office that if God and the kingdom matters to you, then stop treating it with soft gloves and start taking it as your assignment to get to the bottom of the issue.



Cc Jesusjnr

Tembebe:
I hope you are not one of those people on this forum who used to make jest of other Davido's baby mamas because they are not from your tribe like Chioma,cos if you are,then what you wrote should be for you too o.

Okay, seen.
Bye!.

OSUigboFlatHead:
BEAUTY WITHOUT BRAIN


FLAVOUR LEFTOVER

BABYWH0REMA

Nna kedu? Are you okay?, Did anyone hurt your feelings this morning?, Were you molested as a child?, Have you not eaten since today?, Did you lose anyone close to you?, Didn't you get motherly love? Did anybody Break ur heart recently?, Were you raped at gun point?, Are you with an abusive spouse?, Are you suffering from postpartum depression?, Why you so angry at the world?

Please go lick some sugar to take away some bitterness from ur life before you choke on it.

Meskalito1:
Even for dream, I no go knack this one

Even on her death bed she no go even commot wig for you, talk more of clothes.

Threebear:
Upon all the Beauty and cleavage ....Flavour has refused to wife her.

Ladies , it takes more than body and beauty to keep a man.

Upon all Flavours flexible waist and money, she still refused to marry him