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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Lalakas: 10:39pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Op na liar. In his other posts, he said he begs his wife for sex, here, his wife begs him for it. In the other post he's been married for 9 years, here he's been married for 7 years. Here he has 3 boys, in his other posts, he has 2 girls and one boy. What do you want now? If she keep to herself you'd open a new thread say she no allow you. Sex after disagreement is part of make up. No crying over spilt milk. She has forgotten the past and ready to move on, ride kn her and enjoy. You both have no issues. Thank God for your kind of woman. I don't know what point you're trying to make, that she doesn't do much aside taking care of the kids n cooking, haaaaaa? I hate it when I hear men say this. Do you know the stress involve in those chores? And I don't know why you mention the amount you give her as monthly upkeep. 130k and so what? If she doesn't aplogize then you do. You both are wrong keeping straight faces after a fight. https://www.nairaland.com/4613939/married-only 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Marley147: 10:39pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Born2Breed:op I think the best way to sot this kind of issue is when you're at peace. Sit her down & tell her how you feels when ever both of you had issues tell her how you want it & most importantly the things she does during the quarrel that hurts you more. If possible do that when you guys are in good mood you can even buy a gift for her before the taking out. Why is because you guys have been using that way to make up so you have to introduce something new to change the old ways. Moreover is there is any other thing she does that you don't like use that opportunity to talk to her cos you didn't start correcting them from the on set. Good luck sir 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by golddare: 10:39pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I tell you this matter no be issues at all. In fact you are a lucky man. Thats your wife's way of telling you she was sorry. If afterwards you are still pondering on the matter you may not live long. You see in marriage you dont take issues too serious, it's not a master slave relationship, you both have equal rights despite being the head. My life changed the day I was told not to carry woman matter for head like Galla, The bible says "Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others. Ecclesiastes 7:21-22 KJV How can you be having devotion with grudges? Stop keeping scores my brother, she's your baby and will always behave like babies till death. Imagine rapture happened last night e for be OYO for you. Go and meet old men and ask about their wives, you will be shocked at the revelations. Relax and enjoy your woman, marriage is fun if no boundaries because love endures all things. 8 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by tgarbs(m): 10:40pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Bro I understand you, just that she is trying to overlook things the way you should rather than sharing with friends who will build another thing in her mind. You should be luck to have gotten some one like her but if your conscious is judging you you should be the one to bring it up and apologies before your john Thomas start is duty..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Berankis: 10:41pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by OmalichaJesus(f): 10:42pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
byna: I don't understand what the amount you give ur wife as monthly upkeep is doing in this post� And u say she doesn't nothing but cook and take care of the kids � I laugh in Swahili Anyway Oga, since she likes settling dispute with sex and you like settling with dialogue. Oga bring the dialogue, while she brings the sex. Case closed 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 10:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
byna:Good. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by nathpope(m): 10:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
byna: NEVER EVER SHARE A SEPARATE ROOM WITH YOUR WIFE...THAT IS THE BEGINNING OF MISCOMMUNICATION. MISCOMMUNICATION WILL EVENTUALLY LEAD TO YOU TWO BECOMING "STRANGERS LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF". IF YOUR WIFE OFFENDS YOU AND STILL HAVE SEC WITH YOU, TRY AND OFFEND HER TOO AND LATER GO TO HER FOR SEX... SEE HOW SHE REACTS WHEN THE TABLE IS TURNED THE OTHER WAY ROUND. THEN YOU WILL CAN TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ANYTIME SHE DOES SAME TO YOU.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by luminouz(m): 10:43pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I see Nlanders comments and shake my head. Are these guys not seeing what I'm seeing? Red fuqin flags everywhere. 1. Proud, provoking stance 2. Initiates sex first stance Verdict: She loves conflict, she thrives on it...it stimulates her and when it gets to a crescendo, she must have sex to have a mind blowing release. Women like that have deep psyche issues. They desire being rough handled, roughhoused, even beaten so as to have some measure of self-worth and to respect you as a man. She likely grew up in a home where her dad beat her mum or was broken in by a violent, slugfest loving guy who dominated her for years. This led to a Stockholm syndrome type of disorder that made her love those who torment her and derive sexual pleasure from such violent acts. Solution: 1. Divorce her....you will need to be violent at intervals to win her respect and even her love. She is wired that way. No amount of useless counselling or prayers will change shiit. If you deny her sex for awhile and she meets a violent mudafvcker outside, the marriage is as good as over. 2. Be Violent: You are likely a nice guy for you to come online to seek opinions but if you want to have her respect. Be rough with her....when she ails you, beat her or dominate her roughly. That's how she respects you. It is wrong for me but it is what it is. Nothing else would work. Once you discipline her roughly, have sex with her and be rough at it. Then watch her do your biddings with a silly smile on her face. When next she fuqs up, repeat the dosage. That's her cure. N.B: Your kids are all boys and trust me mudafvcker, they are watching. If you choose option 2, their future wives are in trouble because they will think all women love being beaten. And the Violent Circle Continues.... #Luminouznuggets# 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Newmans: 10:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
So..... now that you have known that what do u do? |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Oyinlomobambam(m): 10:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
thesicilian: If I have that, I'll not miss church again. I swear 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by extremelygolden: 10:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
RICHOLAC: Thanks. I pray she humbles herself and enjoy her marriage. Flexing shoulder for your husband as a wife? Not good at all. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by OmalichaJesus(f): 10:45pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Berankis: There's nothing wrong with your wife sir, you don't except her to be mad at you and be jumping on u for sex. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by buzorcharles(m): 10:46pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Mr. enjoy ur wife while she last. NEVER turn down her sexual approach. fuk her first and resolve later. iron things out when u 2 are on talking term. u don't know what u are enjoying. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by extremelygolden: 10:46pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nwaonyishi69: 10:46pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Orishi rishi. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by cococandy(f): 10:47pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
usually as my John Thomas always disappoint me each time I see her nudecorrect I had to laugh at this side first. But yes, you’re right. Sex is not the first line conflict resolution tool. Communication should be. Then sex follows 1 Like |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by buzorcharles(m): 10:47pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
OmalichaJesus: so what do u have to say about ops wife? |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Ebidosia: 10:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Your wife has this common attribute of most weed smokers, ability to let things slide and match on. I think you're blessed. Go Bleep your wife man |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Parable007: 10:49pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
well OP don't take all advises here seriously I read may comments on nairaland and I can tell you that a lot of children are here and if you abide by their advises you'll crash your home... its better to talk this out with your wife or someone she's looks up to and respect the most.... for me I don't only want to pick out your wife's fault in this.... you may have yours too cos she's not here to tell her own side of the story... you are a man, and sometimes men want a conversation.. let having a talk to iron issues out... but your wife doesn't see it that way... her coming for sex even when there is an issue means she rather make a compromise to peace than make conversation.. so here is what you can do... have the sex joyfully.. after it, cuddle her. kiss her make her feel relaxed and happy then softly correct her without making her feel bad then complement her a little as you do so... thank me later |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Nobody: 10:50pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
byna: Na senior ashy you marry. She doesn't really love you but only using you as a tool of satisfaction cos if you truely love someone you should to be ready to apologise or feel sorry for wronging them by crying in their arms and saying shes sorry and prolly end up not making love but sleeping in your arms with peace in her heart. Dont know if I'm making sense though but man I hope you understand my point. For all she cares, the other part of you can die and go to blazes so long as the machine under you is still working and can satisfy her, she doesn't care. To me that's the height of heartlessness. Withdraw sex and see her abandon completely. That will make you know if you're just a mere object of satisfaction to her or not. I feel for you though. |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Bishop(m): 10:50pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
thesicilian: You can say that again brother... You better gbensh the woman whenever she comes for, if she tastes it outside peren.. The marriage is gone. You can sit later to discuss about your issues,be creative while having sex, say something seductive, oh baby you are so sweet, your pussy is the best,.. If you don't understand after all this, you can come along with madam let me teach you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Canapoly999(m): 10:50pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
FrLukas:nice point man 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by biggy26: 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Many people have said some good things. Never ever sweep things under the carpet, it will keep showing up and resentment will follow. These are cracks that will eventually break the marriage. Then tell God to give you wisdom to deal! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Ebidosia: 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
byna: Lol. Sex is serious business also... |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by cococandy(f): 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
I have a monthly upkeep of 130k for my wife as she only comes to our factory and goes home without doing much for the day aside taking care of kids and cooking And what’s this anyway? You think she doesn’t do much except except taking care of kids and cooking? Really? You think you can do that? Taking care of kids is a full time job. The monthly upkeep you give her means nothing in this conversation. Except maybe you usually bring it up and that’s what’s causing problems between you guys. Please fix your thought process. Maybe you think you’re doing a lot but your wife is probably doing her best to make that money stretch for the whole month. In case you didn’t know, that’s not a lot of money for a month. 5 Likes |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by adecz: 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
No mind Mr J Thomas, e too dey fall person hand!! Sometimes, wen he suppose stand, e go fall, When e suppose maintain, e go stand No self respect at all. That aside, you are the man of the house, take the initiative, seat her down & talk sense into her head, after she gets your point, reward her With 3 solid rounds You'll see change.
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Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by Antara0503(m): 10:53pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Colb461:hmmmm,from mature minds abi |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by OmalichaJesus(f): 10:54pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
buzorcharles: This was what I said I don't understand what the amount you give ur wife as monthly upkeep is doing in this post� And u say she doesn't nothing but cook and take care of the kids � I laugh in Swahili Anyway Oga, since she likes settling dispute with sex and you like settling with dialogue. Oga bring the dialogue, while she brings the sex. Case closed |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by abuhusna1: 10:54pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
izaray:I guess you are still single, |
Re: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by OmalichaJesus(f): 10:56pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude: Really? |
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